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ahnie:
If na me be the girl I go block you for life....what if them owe you seven months salary,how you go take,take care of me?

Nobody wants a liability.

jeff1607:
Most ladies are dating or married to the jobs that men do or have, once you get sacked it equals a breakup

Mrshape:
The conversation was going well until I told her I am a teacher then the fast reply stop o only God know if she even block me. Lol I wan die for laugh.
Kings always be careful many of them no like u o them only like what comes with you

Oluwasaudy:
Wetin her papa day do for a living You for ask her bro.... Those hoes ain't loyal...

Them wan reap where them no sow...you self like truth..

The day I noticed na lies girls like.... It was easy getting access to parting their red Sea...

Na so I met this girl we exchanged pictures...
Meself send am responsible pictures...na so she tell me say it's like I work in a bank....and I said yes she is right.....na so she tell me she is bored....na so me too tell am say am off today oh I no go work...na so she come..the rest is history..... Lie jam lie....I no get time bro

Change formation bro....

henrimoto:
Na a section of the Nigeria society no get regard for teachers, no be all parts of Nigeria. ... And come to think of it, teaching is one of the noble professions around.

Taywon:
Most ladies are dating or married to
the jobs that men do or have, once
you get sacked it equals a breakup

Mcslize:
Some girls are just purely shallow minded. They will prefer a banker to a teacher. But they never ask how much are bankers really earning? 70-100k per month isn't it. There are teachers making more than that of a true. That's the shallow reasoning I have been writing on.

They get carried away by those big names without asking how much are bankers even earning.

In all, it's just a misplaced priority. If I were to be a girl, I won't look at a guy present situation. I will look at his great qualities like is this guy hard working? Does he have future plans? What are his other good qualities I really like? Does this guy have some great potentials that can open doors for him later in life?

Ladies judge the present and only the current look of a guy. They don't believe a guy's life can change just in a day. They don't believe in building with a guy. They want only already made.

Very shallow way of thinking I must say!

Ladycewhy:
A mechanic, lives a better living standard than an average teacher in Nigeria. If na private school teacher,even tomatoes sellers earn more than those ones.


That being said, I believe guys have their spec when it comes to Ladies. Men want a homely if possible Nick Minaj body woman.But this type of body needs maintenance,toner and SPF don go up o ,even pure coconut oil doesn't come cheap.


While she should have quizzed to know the type of teacher ,it's her perogative to decide if she wants that kind of guy. And not enough reason to wish her death like some vile creatures are already doing on this thread. Husband scarce nor mean say women nor go even get choice ,haba wetin !

It's all fun until you or even your family member become a victim of ritual killing,for those who for any reason wish it on another, may karma seek you out and visit you.


No lady owes it to any man to "suffer" with him, it's her perogative, it doesn't make her less of a wife material. Suffer head nor be badge of honor , and if she feels a teacher won't be able to give her the kind of lifestyle she desires ,move on .Teachers are getting married every day,find the one that is into you. Even cripples get wife and children. There is a woman for every man.


All this whining and wailing everyday about women is irritating and won't change anything. Women of this generation nor send una,even if una use head hit wall,it will not guilt trip women to start "suffering" with men to earn the prize.

Mrshape:
That a big lie as many private school teachers earn more than some bankers and tomatoes seller

Mrshape:
The conversation was going well until I told her I am a teacher then the fast reply stop o only God know if she even block me. Lol I wan die for laugh.
Kings always be careful many of them no like u o them only like what comes with you

ahnie:
If na me be the girl I go block you for life....what if them owe you seven months salary,how you go take,take care of me?

Nobody wants a liability.

phemmyfour:
Teacher's rewards are in heaven and she's not ready to die yet

akezn:
Exactly how a girl behaved when I told her I am a teacher. She later started forming love and wife when she discovered the school and the day she saw my salary and allowances alert. She started begging to visit me at home, and refused to go home when I finally agreed even though I told her she won't sleep over.

I done laugh tire when she started calling me baby and telling me how my salary is over 4 times her own. This was somebody forming classy babe for me.

Mrshape:
because the status she taught I was, I am far above it, so I have no reason to pray for her downfall

LagBlogger:
What if they pay him well and don't owe salaries did you also think of that?

Nobody wants a liability i.e someone looking for others to take care of them without them having anything to offer.

I pray you block him if he turns out to be a very rich guy.

MartinsD12:
That's how you know gold diggers , if you are a guy and you are doing great comfortable, try to bring your worth down to what you know might not be a money spinning occupation like this teaching job , tell her you teach primary 3 pupils to find out her true colour very simple if she stays she is yours but if she leaves just know she be an oloshoism runz girls club aka bummer crew

Shevchenkko:
But you know majority of teachers in Nigeria are not living well

Munzy14:
It used to be a noble profession till we all shifted to a dorime lifestyle..

Sad reality...

I like ladies who teach though.

Mrshape:
The conversation was going well until I told her I am a teacher then the fast reply stop o only God know if she even block me. Lol I wan die for laugh.
Kings always be careful many of them no like u o them only like what comes with you

praaizz:
I teach and I earn far above 200k, I feel for ladies with such wrong mentality

streetsoldier1:
Whats with Nigerians and the notion that being a teacher means you are poor. I was once in your shoe and i know how it felt. Pele..... Naija babes are mostly brainless and only love men for what they have to offer

phemmyfour:
Teacher's rewards are in heaven and she's not ready to die yet

Pharaoh4rin:
Adon learn one format now. Teacher is my new designation. Borne identity strai'dup

Mrshape:
Lol you don't have to comfort me I was just catching Cruze with her.
I am the owner of the school I teach

akezn:
Exactly how a girl behaved when I told her I am a teacher. She later started forming love and wife when she discovered the school and the day she saw my salary and allowances alert. She started begging to visit me at home, and refused to go home when I finally agreed even though I told her she won't sleep over.

I done laugh tire when she started calling me baby and telling me how my salary is over 4 times her own. This was somebody forming classy babe for me.

Mrshape:
My sister na so una take day miss goal, I am the owner of the school I teach, and I pay my staffs salary when due

Ladycewhy:
A mechanic, lives a better living standard than an average teacher in Nigeria. If na private school teacher,even tomatoes sellers earn more than those ones.


That being said, I believe guys have their spec when it comes to Ladies. Men want a homely if possible Nick Minaj body woman.But this type of body needs maintenance,toner and SPF don go up o ,even pure coconut oil doesn't come cheap.


While she should have quizzed to know the type of teacher ,it's her perogative to decide if she wants that kind of guy. And not enough reason to wish her death like some vile creatures are already doing on this thread. Husband scarce nor mean say women nor go even get choice ,haba wetin !

It's all fun until you or even your family member become a victim of ritual killing,for those who for any reason wish it on another, may karma seek you out and visit you.


No lady owes it to any man to "suffer" with him, it's her perogative, it doesn't make her less of a wife material. Suffer head nor be badge of honor , and if she feels a teacher won't be able to give her the kind of lifestyle she desires ,move on .Teachers are getting married every day,find the one that is into you. Even cripples get wife and children. There is a woman for every man.


All this whining and wailing everyday about women is irritating and won't change anything. Women of this generation nor send una,even if una use head hit wall,it will not guilt trip women to start "suffering" with men to earn the prize.

Mcslize:
Girls don't love these days. No girl loves a guy, they love what you can offer them. I really pity guys that use money to attract girls.

With this your format, you will be able to know the one that will stick with you and those that will take off by the mention of "I am a teacher".

If I say some girls thinking is shallow, I am saying the truth. They judge a guy by mere words or appearance.

That's why if you don't want to attract the ones that just want to come into your life and milk you dry, don't ever make the mistake of telling them your worth.

When a lady ask about what you do, know that she is trying to size you to see if you can provide for her materialistic lifestyle.

Don't even make the mistake of dating a lady that is idle doing nothing to make money for herself. Jobless ladies mostly have this mentality.

Just a mere nice looking picture under a good background will make them rushing over a guy. But snap a pic under a poor looking background, in their mind they will already term such a guy poor without even knowing if such a guy does that to prevent unnecessary attention.

For those looking for life partner, never tell a girl your worth. A non materialistic girl won't feel concerned about whether you are a teacher or not but about you as a person.

That girl is a gold digger.

Dmacqh:
I don’t think she did anything wrong . We are assuming you didn’t fall in her category of “ worthy “ men , she expects to mingle or date ?
That’s not bad , we all have standards and expectations even if we don’t deserve it or blinded by greed or show off. Every player ( eg Maguire ) wants to play for the big clubs even when it’s obvious they don’t have the skill set for the big clubs.
As a guy when a girl ask you what you do for a living ... just smile and ask her this few questions...
1) Are you a Nigerian, If she answers Yes then ask
2) Do you have brothers ? How old are they ? Education level or Skill level ? And what do they work ? From there you will decode his family status
3) Ask about her parents and father in particular and his work .
Make sure all this questions aren’t looking like Q and A session, use wisdom and make it cool convo , so that it won’t irritate her .
Now you’ve known the levels of the males in her family ... simply bring yourself to a lower ( even if you are higher ) level . Her reaction afterwards will determine her real self ( either for chop and keep or chop and discard ) .
No matter what , except it’s for chop and discard , don’t tell a lady your worth or level . Let her be the one to find out especially for a lady you want to spend your life with .
What do I know ? I no even get girlfriend