Mrshape:

Lol you miss one category, what of if you are poor what should you tell them?

Mcslize:


If you are a real money bag, downgrading your status is a nice strategy when meeting a new girl or trying to go into any relationship with a new girl.

If a girl asks you what you do for a living, and you know you are quite rich, tell her something below your status like what the op did.

You can say you work as a private teacher or you are an Uber driver even if you are not. Just downgrade your status to something casual without disclosing your real worth.

If you earn so much, downgrade your status to an ordinary worker. Just mention any work that ladies look down on. A hotel attendant, a carpenter, a plumber, a teacher, a mechanic. You use this to know the type of lady she is.

If she is not a materialistic lady, she won't feel concerned about you being an Uber driver or a carpenter. A smart lady will see true potentials in you and won't judge you by those low income jobs I mentioned.

If she sticks by and if her attitude towards you does not change after telling her you are an Uber driver, watch her for some time and reveal your true worth to her through your doings. This is specifically for guys that are rich and wealthy.

But if you ain't the rich type but at least still living well, just tell her what you do for a living and never by no means act rich when getting to know any lady.

This will help you filter off the gold diggers who are just looking for guys to heap their financial burdens on.

Mrshape:

Not all teachers are poor.

folake4u:


You are SICK.
Everyone who liked your post is SICK also.

Y'all need psychiatric evaluation.

DrFunmisticGlow:
How did a thread for bitter men aka red pillers make front page?

MrMacinterchi1:

how come, showed her your pay? to be able to bend her to yourself?

bluebay:
Blame her not o. It’s just that the guy didn’t fall into her class of request. I see nothing wrong there please . The way some of us can’t date a Millitary personnel, police officer nor a Vio worker, same way ladies have list of those they can’t date … No hard feelings there

Theboy21:
My new friend on fb sent me a dm i replied her, next thing i see is "I need card" still thinking of the type of savage reply to give her wonder who give this people entitlement even at first impression

TechspeciaIist:
you this foolish quack doctor you no go face that bloated yam called sirjamessnr and marry the pot belly goat in peace?
see the kind type of man wey you go date, you seff you worwor.
tufiakwa

Candidlady:



See this poor wretched soul... In life nothing to offer ... After life nothing to offer...

You need help.... If you are above 25 you better just give up on life... Cuz truly life is DARK and it has obviously been UNFAIR to you

akezn:
It was not intentional. She was with my phone when the alert came in.

Mrshape:

Na that one be my format o.
Person way my mind day tell me make I go spoil her tomorrow after work since I find out she no far from me and base on say we day same religion, she just block me abi view the comment go offline, if her friend tell her who I be she may regret her life

chukbonda:
this is what a lot of single male teachers face

ewa20buredi100:


Hi Mrshape,
Sometime ago, 2020 or early 2021.
You created a thread on Teachers' salary and asking nairaland teachers how much they earn.

I messaged you severally for links, but did not get a reply from you.

GoodHardDick:
In her mind, she probably felt you're poor.

Mistakenly tell her you're a yahoo boy, then relax and watch how she'll be the one chasing after you.

My mother and sisters are so broke and brainless for my liking. Na why dem dey always use My mother and sisters for rituals.

odinson1:


@Datboredberri, Datboredberry do you remember our previous conversation?

She thought you were broke because you are a teacher. God, my mother and sisters are just so brainless and stupid . It's usually the broke ones like My mother and sisters who behave like this,they go out selling their bodies to yahoo boys and Big men in return for Iphones and Bone straight hair. The real hardworking ladies don't have time to be Broke shaming struggling guys,they Finance their Lifestyles themselves.

Jennyclay:
Hmm it really getting out of hand oo

akezn:
Exactly how a girl behaved when I told her I am a teacher. She later started forming love and wife when she discovered the school and the day she saw my salary and allowances alert. She started begging to visit me at home, and refused to go home when I finally agreed even though I told her she won't sleep over.

I done laugh tire when she started calling me baby and telling me how my salary is over 4 times her own. This was somebody forming classy babe for me.

LagBlogger:


What if they pay him well and don't owe salaries did you also think of that?

Nobody wants a liability i.e someone looking for others to take care of them without them having anything to offer.

I pray you block him if he turns out to be a very rich guy.

TechspeciaIist:
and what do those beasts have to offer?
bunches of liability and entitled fools

Tboymessiah:


Am sure there are good girls and one day we go jam them

OvertheTop:


I how say....you know come Overlook your previous Discovery.. and registered her as a wife material in your Mind....

if You have Financial challenges later in Life(which is normal in the life of every man at some point )......She go japa!

she has shown u the Signs already....

Mcslize:


Exactly. Relationship these days really don't favour guys. Reason why it's good to look out for girls that are working or have skills that earn them money.

At least a girl that can take care of herself financially without depending on a guy. All they need will be a genuine man that will show them emotional love. Such girls don't want a guy's money. But they are very few.

Tboymessiah:


You gat it right bro, even me as I dey now, is either you get a skill work, or you engage in one business that's my verdict on any woman to marry, even though you have skilled but u haven't open your shop I won't accept that u. Must have engaged in the skill or business before I decided to settle down with a girl I want to marry, that's my Marital Guidance.

Mcslize:


Girls don't love these days. No girl loves a guy, they love what you can offer them. I really pity guys that use money to attract girls.

With this your format, you will be able to know the one that will stick with you and those that will take off by the mention of "I am a teacher".

If I say some girls thinking is shallow, I am saying the truth. They judge a guy by mere words or appearance.

That's why if you don't want to attract the ones that just want to come into your life and milk you dry, don't ever make the mistake of telling them your worth.

When a lady ask about what you do, know that she is trying to size you to see if you can provide for her materialistic lifestyle.

Don't even make the mistake of dating a lady that is idle doing nothing to make money for herself. Jobless ladies mostly have this mentality.

Just a mere nice looking picture under a good background will make them rushing over a guy. But snap a pic under a poor looking background, in their mind they will already term such a guy poor without even knowing if such a guy does that to prevent unnecessary attention.

For those looking for life partner, never tell a girl your worth. A non materialistic girl won't feel concerned about whether you are a teacher or not but about you as a person.

That girl is a gold digger.

uniqUN:
Only my landlord knows where I work. I tell ladies (and even men when they ask) that I'm a teacher. I have a good job I must say. There's this girl that has been very helpful ever since I told her I was a teacher. She shouts "uncle!" whenever she sights me from afar and I'll be like "which kain wahala come be dis one now?" She's a tailor and has bought and done some few things that will be useful for me - without me asking. I gave her money beyond their worth when she brought them and she said she didn't ask for payment, but I insisted. Just the other day, we met outside while both returning from work and she said my backpack needs mending that I should give it to her to fix. Atimes I suspect she knows where I work because she has been to my house and knows my landlord's sister. You'll honestly hardly find pure love and attention from most Nigerian girls if you no get anything. I know this for sure. But if you do find one, please treat her well guys.

OvertheTop:


if she is that Nice....Check her Age....
let me guess...she is Above 30.

Mercychen:
The mathematician . She doesn't know you're a teacher with levels. She thought you're a classroom Nwa teacher. Even at that, are those ones not human beings? Smh...

bluebay:
Blame her not o. It’s just that the guy didn’t fall into her class of request. I see nothing wrong there please . The way some of us can’t date a Millitary personnel, police officer nor a Vio worker, same way ladies have list of those they can’t date … No hard feelings there

DonroxyII:
Na you get am Pass. More Oyel Bro.

DonroxyII:
But would you really blame a girl for choosing her fate

Who no Fear Poverty for Nigeria, Teachers get class but Nigerian Girls no want hear am Finish ..

If Op were to be a MedDoc now see crushing and cruise everywhere... fakeness much for our Country