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am scared he is. going out of mind in pain, I cannot do anything but comfort him.
lately he said this to me like he's seeing ghost he whispered with his painful voice and said. The worst part is wondering how you’ll find the strength tomorrow to go on doing what you did today and have been doing for much too long, where you’ll find the strength for all that stupid running around, those projects that come to nothing, those attempts to escape from crushing necessity, which always founder and serve only to convince you one more time that destiny is implacable, that every night will find you down and out, crushed by the dread of more and more sordid and insecure tomorrows. And maybe it’s treacherous old age coming on, threatening the worst. Not much music left inside us for life to dance to. Our youth has gone to the ends of the earth to die in the silence of the truth. And where, I ask you, can a man escape to, when he hasn’t enough madness left inside him? The truth is an endless death agony. The truth is death. You have to choose: death or lies. I’ve never been able to kill myself.

he is not fond of saying things like this until now, he mostly say things like this in the midnight alone am scared.

hussey1149:
am scared he is. going out of mind in pain, I cannot do anything but comfort him.
lately he said this to me like he's seeing ghost he whispered with his painful voice and said. The worst part is wondering how you’ll find the strength tomorrow to go on doing what you did today and have been doing for much too long, where you’ll find the strength for all that stupid running around, those projects that come to nothing, those attempts to escape from crushing necessity, which always founder and serve only to convince you one more time that destiny is implacable, that every night will find you down and out, crushed by the dread of more and more sordid and insecure tomorrows. And maybe it’s treacherous old age coming on, threatening the worst. Not much music left inside us for life to dance to. Our youth has gone to the ends of the earth to die in the silence of the truth. And where, I ask you, can a man escape to, when he hasn’t enough madness left inside him? The truth is an endless death agony. The truth is death. You have to choose: death or lies. I’ve never been able to kill myself.

this is so deep and mentally provocative.
reminds me of the song "Bitter sweet symphony" by THE VERVE

superCleanworks:
this is so deep and mentally provocative.
reminds me of the song "Bitter sweet symphony" by THE VERVE

am ruined he is not himself anymore. am losing him.

superCleanworks:
this is so deep and mentally provocative.
reminds me of the song "Bitter sweet symphony" by THE VERVE

please able friends and family help me give him a call and encourage him out of his pain. he might lose his mind and hurt himself. his eyes has changed everything changed he is forgetting himself.

like play am losing a good man who stood well, behave well

hussey1149:
am scared he is. going out of mind in pain, I cannot do anything but comfort him.
lately he said this to me like he's seeing ghost he whispered with his painful voice and said. The worst part is wondering how you’ll find the strength tomorrow to go on doing what you did today and have been doing for much too long, where you’ll find the strength for all that stupid running around, those projects that come to nothing, those attempts to escape from crushing necessity, which always founder and serve only to convince you one more time that destiny is implacable, that every night will find you down and out, crushed by the dread of more and more sordid and insecure tomorrows. And maybe it’s treacherous old age coming on, threatening the worst. Not much music left inside us for life to dance to. Our youth has gone to the ends of the earth to die in the silence of the truth. And where, I ask you, can a man escape to, when he hasn’t enough madness left inside him? The truth is an endless death agony. The truth is death. You have to choose: death or lies. I’ve never been able to kill myself.

kinda sorryful poem his depressed you need to motivate him letting him know "that sun struggles to shine and when is time comes the world see is light" no matter what one is going though in life it will not last forever

When men,whose words were so romantic and could pull down women pants from their waists,with sweet words.and suddenly turn sad poets.
It calls for worries.for there is a dream within a dream.that thought of "i was here,but when and how"

heniford2:
kinda sorryful poem his depressed you need to motivate him letting him know "that sun struggles to shine and when is time comes the world see is light" no matter what one is going though in life it will not last forever

only God knows what I have been doing to get him stable but they are something beyond my doing. he will stare at his only kid an forget himself, lost in his mind. am broken into pieces myself but if I should any sign of my own pain I might lose my home.

hussey1149:
only God knows what I have been doing to get him stable but they are something beyond my doing. he will stare at his only kid an forget himself, lost in his mind. am broken into pieces myself but if I should any sign of my own pain I might lose my home.

glad ur not fading off,you need to be strong give him sex,food and create memories together if he has male friends invite them over, do not nag to him this period he will see reasons not to join his forfathers

So sorry op, no one deserves to see their loved ones in pain.

Just be there and tell him that he isn't alone.

Is it Alzheimer's or dementia?

donbachi:
When men,whose words were so romantic and could pull down women pants from their waists,with sweet words.and suddenly turn sad poets.
It calls for worries.for there is a dream within a dream.that thought of "i was here,but when and how"

am afraid

Shey Na only him get problem for this life ni? In this Nigeria of today who doesn’t have one challenges or another ? Wo if he want to kill him self he should do it jare abeg

DrFunmisticGlow:
So sorry op, no one deserves to see their loved ones in pain.

Just be there and tell him that he isn't alone.

Is it Alzheimer's or dementia?

debt, suffering trauma from seeing his family in pain after all his hardwork.

fikayormi:
Shey Na only him get problem for this life ni? In this Nigeria of today who doesn’t have one challenges or another ? Wo if he want to kill him self he should do it jare abeg

it's not your burden to bear am in diliama because I care

fikayormi:
Shey Na only him get problem for this life ni? In this Nigeria of today who doesn’t have one challenges or another ? Wo if he want to kill him self he should do it jare abeg

Very insensitive.... Words are weapon be careful how you use em

Pray. Call on Yahweh. He will deliver him.

Deborah98:
Pray. Call on Yahweh. He will deliver him.

You mean she hasn't been calling on YAHWEH?

enough with all this religious bulldada

Candidlady:
You mean she hasn't been calling on YAHWEH?

enough with all this religious bulldada

If she did there should be a result by now. He is the rewarder of them that diligently seek Him and stop dissuading people against their beliefs. Stop it. If it doesn't work for you,it does for others.

hussey1149:
.... The truth is an endless death agony. The truth is death. You have to choose: death or lies. I’ve never been able to kill myself.

Your husband quotes Louis-Ferdinand Céline, from ourney to the end of the night , at you? I don't get it!

Anyways, why not respond by singing him a dirge or a poem then?

heniford2:
kinda sorryful poem his depressed you need to motivate him letting him know "that sun struggles to shine and when is time comes the world see is light" no matter what one is going though in life it will not last forever

Depressed because he recites what is a poem from a book? They tell you that is how depression is diagnosed or something?

Deborah98:
If she did there should be a result by now. He is the rewarder of them that diligently seek Him and stop dissuading people against their beliefs. Stop it. If it doesn't work for you,it does for others.

Very funny

Idont know why ifind your first line offensive

Now if she tells you she tells you she already reached out to your YAHWEH DILIGENTLY and yet no result

Guess your reply to her will be

For erthing there's a reason... You start quoting bible verse from proverbs/ecc bout season for erthing

For the record iwasnt dissuading nobody

°°°what if she's a Muslim what would be your advice as a Christian°°°

goodness34 watering the ground for a scam

I am become death, the destroyer of worlds.

HenryDion:
I am become death, the destroyer of worlds.

God have mercy!

hussey1149:
only God knows what I have been doing to get him stable but they are something beyond my doing. he will stare at his only kid an forget himself, lost in his mind. am broken into pieces myself but if I should any sign of my own pain I might lose my home.

Does he know the supreme power of God, has he felt the immutable hand of the Most High?

Life is burdensome when lived in carnality alone.

If he believes in God, try and connect to this alter every 7am Nigerian time and see God's hand turn things around for good for "What God cannot do does not exist" Only God can do it.

https://youtube.com/c/PastorJerryEze

SweetiliciousD:
Does he know the supreme power of God, has he felt the immutable hand of the Most High?

Life is burdensome when lived in carnality alone.

If he believes in God, try and connect to this alter every 7am Nigerian time and see God's hand turn things around for good for "What God cannot do does not exist" Only God can do it.

https://youtube.com/c/PastorJerryEze

Seriously I encourage this

qtguru:
Seriously I encourage this

good evening,

hussey1149:
good evening,

Evening

qtguru:
Evening

how is life with you and how is the family?