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Bounceboune7:
for your mother to starve u food shows d kind of family u are from,I wonder what she will do to another man's children.

Guy just lock up this matter cos it's opposite of what u understand.

Life is all about love n standing with people in times of there needs,anybody can b down any moment cos everything u have is borrowed so y not b with people when they needed u most?

U have to understand the difference between motivation n wickedness cos it's like u are substituting wickedness for motivation cos how can u justify denying someone food cos u believe it will.motivate him?

I come from the best family....


If your parents pampers you.... I don't have parents who pampers us... My parents are disciplinarians and I grew to love their training....


You only hear a part of my story and you foolishly draw a conclusion to it.

You're more warped and stupid... Even a lazy deranged kid... You talk about owning a bet9ja shop as at 2019... You're a child and a foolish one.

yanabasee:
Get sense.....
You don't even appreciate the fact that they're trying to use words to push you back up?
If you get offended, get up and hustle.... Stop complaining... It's difficult to feed a grown up man...
Their fear could be that, you're over relaxing and might get used to it.. So go out and get something doing and appreciate them later ..

You don't expect them to keep feeding you.. This is Africa...

When I was struggling and went back home... my mum will talk to me and make me feel rejected.... I actually felt rejected and needed to be accepted and so I did everything and now I appreciate her for not letting me stay idle for too long ..

What you describe here is referred to as emotional abuse.

yanabasee:
I come from the best family....


If your parents pampers you.... I don't have parents who pampers us... My parents are disciplinarians and I grew to love their training....


You only hear a part of my story and you foolishly draw a conclusion to it.

You're more warped and stupid... Even a lazy deranged kid... You talk about owning a bet9ja shop as at 2019... You're a child and a foolish one.

just pray u don't have any problem again in life which I know it's inevitable,just b prepared to sleep on d streets cos your backup is unreliable.

They can let u down when it matters most

Bounceboune7:
just pray u don't have any problem again in life which I know it's inevitable,just b prepared to sleep on d streets cos your backup is unreliable.

They can let u down when it matters most

You're still typing nonsense.....


My parents are over welcoming... But they will not allow you to get over comfortable with eating their meals....


They will never throw anyone out of their house ... I built my mum's house.... the house she refused me eating from...

She does what she needs to do... I needed her push to stand upright. My elder brother on the other hand is rich and have things going well with him... He wanted to support me and I refused. My mum got offended and changed towards me.

My reasons for refusing any help was because everyone made it without our collective help... I wanted to be in that history.

Yes, I left and stayed with my friend... I pushed, I began to market houses for rent. I moved into marketing lands for sell... I own a property in an estate and I am also the president of that estate. I own 3 houses...


So before you wish me to sleep on the street... I hope you're not paying rents....

My only concern is how you lost so much money in such short notice, was there no one to guide you or encourage you to invest

Hmmm, that's y I still dey hustle like mad,I no dey look as e dey grow, sometimes my bro go dey tell me say make I take am easy , say which other money wey I still dey find I suppose dey over enjoy the one wey I get make I no dey greedy, but I dey tell am make him no dey reason like that, I been don dey really broke once and whenever I think of that situation e go dey fear me lyk mad, e no favor me atall............ even if the money enter zillion we go still dey hustle till thy kingdom come, even elon musk and Jeff still dey find money

Kobojunkie:
What you describe here is referred to as emotional abuse.

I swear, what he said made no sense

My female course mate once told me about how her dad would compare her and her siblings to other kids hustling for their parents in the markets and everywhere, he hates it whenever they sleep or eat too much or even use their phones, her father is 65yrs old so he believes that while his other mates kids are all feeding them, he's still there feeding his own kids and they're not contributing anything to bring finances into the house and this girl is just 21, She's
the first born, her younger siblings are 18 and 14, I really don't understand why a father would be talking to his kids like that as if he just expects them to bring in money from the air and that shouldn't even be his problem in the first place, if he wanted kids that would've been able to take care of him at his age, then he should've gotten married earlier, you started having kids late so what do you expect.......He didn't even provide them with tools to get any skill whatsoever, not even a laptop so they can atleast start somewhere, all he does is shout and keep on talking about how their mates use their own phones to make money, how do you expect kids to use phones which aren't even high range to make money? Even data they'll hv to struggle b4 they can get it, it's not constant her father feels buying data for them is like wasting his money, she's a student doesn't she also need data for her academic stuff ?
I just felt sorry for her when she told me that and I sincerely hope her father doesn't drive her into prostitution cos I can see she's somehow depressed already, I really wonder what's really going through her siblings minds