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Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by Nobody: 12:11am On Feb 27, 2022
donmik:
When u see Christ in your life, u find grace to overcome
The whiteman Christ?
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by lasisi69: 12:20am On Feb 27, 2022
Jmichael1:
hahahahaha...boogyman no dey use his old KALA play ooh
swears bro !!! cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by dukeaugustus(m): 1:13am On Feb 27, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
Having sex or romantic affairs with an underage or a married person

Spending to impress or get attention

Telling lies

Pretending to be rich

Inability to control your sexual urge
Inability to control you emotions

You have no job or source of income

You still patronize prostitutes

You still masturbate

You can't make decisions for yourself

You get influenced easily

You take things personal

You lack sense of humour

You don't take care of your family, especially your parents.

You don't contribute in the welfare of your family

You don't carry your siblings along.

You still depend on your family for financial help

You have no clear understanding of what you want to do with your life.

You still believe ritual, fraud or dishonesty is the way to riches.

You don't have the spirit of giving without expectations of payback.

You always want to win every argument

You talk more than you listen

You stopped learning

You still watch porn or nudity

You have no religious faith

You are quick to react to bad situation

You don't have love in your heart for humanity

You are quick to criticise but won't take advice or criticism

You think you know it all

You lack emotional and financial intelligence

You have trust issues

You are quick to pass judgment

You generalise issues, you think everyone is desame

It's hard for you to let go
That means no one is ready….no one is perfect. Your points are not valid. Even some married people do one of these you mentioned, so they should dismiss their vowshuh
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by vikstandon(m): 1:34am On Feb 27, 2022
Baba we have one or two of these in us...It doesn't mean we ain't ready.

Everyday we get mature... Maturity never ends till we enter grave. We drop a lot of these as we grow both as individual and as a couple.

No perfect human...If I see an acclaimed perfect person...He must be an alien!!!
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by FireUpNow(m): 2:36am On Feb 27, 2022
This your list means even Dangote is not even ready.
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by Papadoh(m): 2:44am On Feb 27, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
Having sex or romantic affairs with an underage or a married person

Spending to impress or get attention

Telling lies

Pretending to be rich

Inability to control your sexual urge

Inability to control you emotions

You have no job or source of income

You still patronize prostitutes

You still masturbate

You can't make decisions for yourself

You get influenced easily

You take things personal

You lack sense of humour

You don't take care of your family, especially your parents.

You don't contribute in the welfare of your family

You don't carry your siblings along.

You still depend on your family for financial help

You have no clear understanding of what you want to do with your life.

You still believe ritual, fraud or dishonesty is the way to riches.

You don't have the spirit of giving without expectations of payback.

You always want to win every argument

You talk more than you listen

You stopped learning

You still watch porn or nudity

You have no religious faith

You are quick to react to bad situation

You don't have love in your heart for humanity

You are quick to criticise but won't take advice or criticism

You think you know it all

You lack emotional and financial intelligence

You have trust issues

You are quick to pass judgment

You generalise issues, you think everyone is desame

It's hard for you to let go
Blah blah blah
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by assholemods: 3:00am On Feb 27, 2022
revived2:
Fine girl cool

Modified: 13 mentions

Truly some don't have a life grin grin grin
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Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by assholemods: 3:02am On Feb 27, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
Having sex or romantic affairs with an underage or a married person

Spending to impress or get attention

Telling lies

Pretending to be rich

Inability to control your sexual urge

Inability to control you emotions

You have no job or source of income

You still patronize prostitutes

You still masturbate

You can't make decisions for yourself

You get influenced easily

You take things personal

You lack sense of humour

You don't take care of your family, especially your parents.

You don't contribute in the welfare of your family

You don't carry your siblings along.

You still depend on your family for financial help

You have no clear understanding of what you want to do with your life.

You still believe ritual, fraud or dishonesty is the way to riches.

You don't have the spirit of giving without expectations of payback.

You always want to win every argument

You talk more than you listen

You stopped learning

You still watch porn or nudity

You have no religious faith

You are quick to react to bad situation

You don't have love in your heart for humanity

You are quick to criticise but won't take advice or criticism

You think you know it all

You lack emotional and financial intelligence

You have trust issues

You are quick to pass judgment

You generalise issues, you think everyone is desame

It's hard for you to let go
Just tell us to become non living things! Rubbish! Mumu post!

Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by iLoveYouToo(m): 3:23am On Feb 27, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
Having sex or romantic affairs with an underage or a married person

Spending to impress or get attention

Telling lies

Pretending to be rich

Inability to control your sexual urge

Inability to control you emotions

You have no job or source of income

You still patronize prostitutes

You still masturbate

You can't make decisions for yourself

You get influenced easily

You take things personal

You lack sense of humour

You don't take care of your family, especially your parents.

You don't contribute in the welfare of your family

You don't carry your siblings along.

You still depend on your family for financial help

You have no clear understanding of what you want to do with your life.

You still believe ritual, fraud or dishonesty is the way to riches.

You don't have the spirit of giving without expectations of payback.

You always want to win every argument

You talk more than you listen

You stopped learning

You still watch porn or nudity

You have no religious faith

You are quick to react to bad situation

You don't have love in your heart for humanity

You are quick to criticise but won't take advice or criticism

You think you know it all

You lack emotional and financial intelligence

You have trust issues

You are quick to pass judgment

You generalise issues, you think everyone is desame

It's hard for you to let go
Even people that are married do most of these things so what’s this one saying? Are you mad?
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by ArahaG: 4:13am On Feb 27, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
Having sex or romantic affairs with an underage or a married person

I ticked all the boxes, someone here might say impossible but then I don't care what you think, I know who I am and what I've set out to achieve for myself, so if you're that person, go ahead and think or say whatever you want, I don't care.
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by Titaniumental: 4:19am On Feb 27, 2022
Medianna:
You've confirm to me that you're from a different planet
No
Actually he/she just broke that number 3
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by rippa(m): 6:20am On Feb 27, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
Having sex or romantic affairs with an underage or a married person

Spending to impress or get attention

Telling lies

Pretending to be rich

Inability to control your sexual urge

Inability to control you emotions

You have no job or source of income

You still patronize prostitutes

You still masturbate

You can't make decisions for yourself

You get influenced easily

You take things personal

You lack sense of humour

You don't take care of your family, especially your parents.

You don't contribute in the welfare of your family

You don't carry your siblings along.

You still depend on your family for financial help

You have no clear understanding of what you want to do with your life.

You still believe ritual, fraud or dishonesty is the way to riches.

You don't have the spirit of giving without expectations of payback.

You always want to win every argument

You talk more than you listen

You stopped learning

You still watch porn or nudity

You have no religious faith

You are quick to react to bad situation

You don't have love in your heart for humanity

You are quick to criticise but won't take advice or criticism

You think you know it all

You lack emotional and financial intelligence

You have trust issues

You are quick to pass judgment

You generalise issues, you think everyone is desame

It's hard for you to let go
Na only expired ijebu-ode weed go Make u wake up this morning they type this rubbish
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by Goddyj(m): 6:58am On Feb 27, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
Having sex or romantic affairs with an underage or a married person

Spending to impress or get attention

Telling lies

Pretending to be rich

Inability to control your sexual urge

Inability to control you emotions

You have no job or source of income

You still patronize prostitutes

You still masturbate

You can't make decisions for yourself

You get influenced easily

You take things personal

You lack sense of humour

You don't take care of your family, especially your parents.

You don't contribute in the welfare of your family

You don't carry your siblings along.

You still depend on your family for financial help

You have no clear understanding of what you want to do with your life.

You still believe ritual, fraud or dishonesty is the way to riches.

You don't have the spirit of giving without expectations of payback.

You always want to win every argument

You talk more than you listen

You stopped learning

You still watch porn or nudity

You have no religious faith

You are quick to react to bad situation

You don't have love in your heart for humanity

You are quick to criticise but won't take advice or criticism

You think you know it all

You lack emotional and financial intelligence

You have trust issues

You are quick to pass judgment

You generalise issues, you think everyone is desame

It's hard for you to let go
in order words, every single person is not yet ready for relationship cheesy
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by Nobody: 7:11am On Feb 27, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
Having sex or romantic affairs with an underage or a married person

Spending to impress or get attention

Telling lies

Pretending to be rich

Inability to control your sexual urge

Inability to control you emotions

You have no job or source of income

You still patronize prostitutes

You still masturbate

You can't make decisions for yourself

You get influenced easily

You take things personal

You lack sense of humour

You don't take care of your family, especially your parents.

You don't contribute in the welfare of your family

You don't carry your siblings along.

You still depend on your family for financial help

You have no clear understanding of what you want to do with your life.

You still believe ritual, fraud or dishonesty is the way to riches.

You don't have the spirit of giving without expectations of payback.

You always want to win every argument

You talk more than you listen

You stopped learning

You still watch porn or nudity

You have no religious faith

You are quick to react to bad situation

You don't have love in your heart for humanity

You are quick to criticise but won't take advice or criticism

You think you know it all

You lack emotional and financial intelligence

You have trust issues

You are quick to pass judgment

You generalise issues, you think everyone is desame

It's hard for you to let go
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by Nobody: 7:22am On Feb 27, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
Having sex or romantic affairs with an underage or a married person

Spending to impress or get attention

Telling lies

Pretending to be rich

Inability to control your sexual urge

Inability to control you emotions

You have no job or source of income

You still patronize prostitutes

You still masturbate

You can't make decisions for yourself

You get influenced easily

You take things personal

You lack sense of humour

You don't take care of your family, especially your parents.

You don't contribute in the welfare of your family

You don't carry your siblings along.

You still depend on your family for financial help

You have no clear understanding of what you want to do with your life.

You still believe ritual, fraud or dishonesty is the way to riches.

You don't have the spirit of giving without expectations of payback.

You always want to win every argument

You talk more than you listen

You stopped learning

You still watch porn or nudity

You have no religious faith

You are quick to react to bad situation

You don't have love in your heart for humanity

You are quick to criticise but won't take advice or criticism

You think you know it all

You lack emotional and financial intelligence

You have trust issues

You are quick to pass judgment

You generalise issues, you think everyone is desame

It's hard for you to let go
this one is Nigeria's list....yu'all have a lot of burden on you....even some things that are natural you turn them into burden and add to the ones your government dumps on you grin
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by Nobody: 7:45am On Feb 27, 2022
Op e be like say choko dey your head even God commandments for Bible no reach those bomb you type there

Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by Nobody: 7:47am On Feb 27, 2022
iLoveYouToo:
Even people that are married do most of these things so what’s this one saying? Are you mad?
Either he don mad b4, he dey mad now or he go soon mad undecided
1 of the above is involved maybe 2 sef cheesy
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by martinz1: 7:56am On Feb 27, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
Having sex or romantic affairs with an underage or a married person

Spending to impress or get attention

Telling lies

Pretending to be rich

Inability to control your sexual urge

Inability to control you emotions

You have no job or source of income

You still patronize prostitutes

You still masturbate

You can't make decisions for yourself

You get influenced easily

You take things personal

You lack sense of humour

You don't take care of your family, especially your parents.

You don't contribute in the welfare of your family

You don't carry your siblings along.

You still depend on your family for financial help

You have no clear understanding of what you want to do with your life.

You still believe ritual, fraud or dishonesty is the way to riches.

You don't have the spirit of giving without expectations of payback.

You always want to win every argument

You talk more than you listen

You stopped learning

You still watch porn or nudity

You have no religious faith

You are quick to react to bad situation

You don't have love in your heart for humanity

You are quick to criticise but won't take advice or criticism

You think you know it all

You lack emotional and financial intelligence

You have trust issues

You are quick to pass judgment

You generalise issues, you think everyone is desame

It's hard for you to let go
Even married men/women still do some of what u have there
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by Erickymania(m): 8:08am On Feb 27, 2022
Medianna:
That means no one is actually ready.
I'm yet to see who ticks all these boxes
.
I do. Believe me I don't do all those, am married though.
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by tivta(m): 8:12am On Feb 27, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
Having sex or romantic affairs with an underage or a married person

Spending to impress or get attention

Telling lies

Pretending to be rich

Inability to control your sexual urge

Inability to control you emotions

You have no job or source of income

You still patronize prostitutes

You still masturbate

You can't make decisions for yourself

You get influenced easily

You take things personal

You lack sense of humour

You don't take care of your family, especially your parents.

You don't contribute in the welfare of your family

You don't carry your siblings along.

You still depend on your family for financial help

You have no clear understanding of what you want to do with your life.

You still believe ritual, fraud or dishonesty is the way to riches.

You don't have the spirit of giving without expectations of payback.

You always want to win every argument

You talk more than you listen

You stopped learning

You still watch porn or nudity

You have no religious faith

You are quick to react to bad situation

You don't have love in your heart for humanity

You are quick to criticise but won't take advice or criticism

You think you know it all

You lack emotional and financial intelligence

You have trust issues

You are quick to pass judgment

You generalise issues, you think everyone is desame

It's hard for you to let go
Attention seeker, weldone, do you know how many married men still masturbate? I bet you are not married or just newly married at most.
Holla back after 10years of marriage {if you make it}
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by donborg(m): 8:17am On Feb 27, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
Having sex or romantic affairs with an underage or a married person

Spending to impress or get attention

Telling lies

Pretending to be rich

Inability to control your sexual urge

Inability to control you emotions

You have no job or source of income

You still patronize prostitutes

You still masturbate

You can't make decisions for yourself

You get influenced easily

You take things personal

You lack sense of humour

You don't take care of your family, especially your parents.

You don't contribute in the welfare of your family

You don't carry your siblings along.

You still depend on your family for financial help

You have no clear understanding of what you want to do with your life.

You still believe ritual, fraud or dishonesty is the way to riches.

You don't have the spirit of giving without expectations of payback.

You always want to win every argument

You talk more than you listen

You stopped learning

You still watch porn or nudity

You have no religious faith

You are quick to react to bad situation

You don't have love in your heart for humanity

You are quick to criticise but won't take advice or criticism

You think you know it all

You lack emotional and financial intelligence

You have trust issues

You are quick to pass judgment

You generalise issues, you think everyone is desame

It's hard for you to let go
Last but not the least, one should have at least 5 million naira in the bank before thinking of marriage

Anti Marriage institution agent spotted.
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by sunkieisland(m): 9:06am On Feb 27, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
Actually I do
You will know how to argue a lot

You will want to win arguments

And

I can mention 2 other day things that describes you.
No need to show yourself here.
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by emanobis(m): 9:14am On Feb 27, 2022
Those in Rituals, fraud and dishonesty are the ones getting married dz days
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by LastProphet: 9:25am On Feb 27, 2022
To be married is the ultimate destiny of the jobless youths in Nigeria now, is all about getting married and having kids, eyah Africa
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by Unknown456(m): 9:42am On Feb 27, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
Actually I do
I don’t know why people have to lie
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by Graceman89(m): 10:06am On Feb 27, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
Having sex or romantic affairs with an underage or a married person

Spending to impress or get attention

Telling lies

Pretending to be rich

Inability to control your sexual urge

Inability to control you emotions

You have no job or source of income

You still patronize prostitutes

You still masturbate

You can't make decisions for yourself

You get influenced easily

You take things personal

You lack sense of humour

You don't take care of your family, especially your parents.

You don't contribute in the welfare of your family

You don't carry your siblings along.

You still depend on your family for financial help

You have no clear understanding of what you want to do with your life.

You still believe ritual, fraud or dishonesty is the way to riches.

You don't have the spirit of giving without expectations of payback.

You always want to win every argument

You talk more than you listen

You stopped learning

You still watch porn or nudity

You have no religious faith

You are quick to react to bad situation

You don't have love in your heart for humanity

You are quick to criticise but won't take advice or criticism

You think you know it all

You lack emotional and financial intelligence

You have trust issues

You are quick to pass judgment

You generalise issues, you think everyone is desame

It's hard for you to let go
It's almost impossible
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by JB4life: 11:10am On Feb 27, 2022
[quote author=Medianna post=110565529]That means no one is actually ready.
I'm yet to see who ticks all these boxes[/quote


40% is pass mark for every basic examination
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by Medianna(f): 12:51pm On Feb 27, 2022
RandyOku:
Na just BIG BRESS and BIG SOFT YANSH u no getcheesygrin

Others completecheesygrin
Lolz. so I should go and fight my maker because of things that becomes a burden during old age?

Well I plan to grow old. And thanks for the compliment
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by Medianna(f): 12:53pm On Feb 27, 2022
[quote author=JB4life post=110593137][/quote]Yea but in Uni, it's a fail
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by Enny2013(f): 12:59pm On Feb 27, 2022
Marriage dis, marriage dat! As if getting married is dat hard.Here I am,4th yr in marriage.
No big deal...
Re: If You Still Do These Things Then You Are Not Ready For Relationship Or Marriage by Medianna(f): 1:01pm On Feb 27, 2022
donmik:
When u see Christ in your life, u find grace to overcome
I believe you,
But it can never be for baby Christians.it is for matured ones
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