odinson1:
#COPIED
I met this girl back in 2019 before the pandemic in what started as a beautiful relationship. I have always supported her financially with every penny i had (even when she gained admission into HND in 2020) while i managed with the little i had. She always complain of wanting to use money to settle school stuffs and blah blah which i reasoned and i always found a means to give her cos she claimed she was always broke and acted like she was. Sometimes i even screenshot my account balance to her to let her know i was broke sometimes. Even though i'm out of the country, i still manage to send money to her with all the struggles one faces abroad.

Fast forward to today, i was able to access her bank application only for me to find over 150,000naira there and i checked the account history up from 2020 and this girl have always had above that amount.

I'm so angry right cos i feel betrayed by the kind heard and true love i have shown to her cos she has consistently lied for more than 2 years and i'm contemplating on breaking up with her, doing worse or making her pay cos there were days i only manage to find 3000naira and i still sent everything to her.

What should i do?

COPIED from a Certain thread here. Guys why are men Just so Damn stupid and foolish? Why do they always have this Urge to Help or Assist Their women? Don't they have the Brains to reason that the woman might just be bidding her time and using Him for his money? Is this what love is?
Omo i dey vex abeg

Calibrator:
There is a way you spend on a woman and she will never have anything tangible to point to when you go your separate ways.


My own is that I can only solve your immediate pressing problems, even at that 3/10 requests are always met with a stern No, that way the few Yes look like manna from heaven when I oblige.


Can't buy any daughter of Eve mobile phone, the highest I can do is send you infrequent airtime top up and even that, you must have been offline for a few days, then I send out of the blues, such gestures are always blown out of proportion by the female psyche.




You want school fees, take several seats abeg, if you have always been loyal, a week or two after resumption, I might send a paltry token and tell you that I am just sending because I never forgot about you.. She will be like better late than never. To her, She must be special for you to still put her into consideration.


To get tangled with Nigerian girls, billing is inevitable but overexertion is optional.

sajmark:
Calibrator


None of these ever happened in reality though... Leonidas never gave her command in the movie or reality (according to history).
Here are his last words to her according to Wikipedia and another source.

I just downloaded the movie too, sorry but all your English doesn't cover up the fact that you just jumped into my comment without any proper knowledge/ understanding on it.

Calibrator:


When I wrote about Leoindas handing over to his Queen, I explicitly wrote that statement within the context that if you have watched the movie as you claimed, did I tell you to fact check that, anybody will know I am referring to the events in the movie here.



Comprehensive skills are more difficult to master than literate skills. That is why I paragraphed each point I made.


Shalom!

sajmark:

Okay king of comprehension,
Where in the movie did Leonidas hand over power to his queen?

If you can't give an exact time or scene in the movie then don't bother quoting this comment, clearly your ego depends on you being right and me wrong... So you win

Emotionss:
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There are many ways a woman can acquire sexual experience without Virgina penetration..

A woman can be sexual active even though are hymen is still intact.

SO UR DEFINITION OF VIRGINITY IS STRICTLY HYMEN PENETRATION

Calibrator:
I don't even want to win, I argue to learn and to answer your question, go and watch the scene where Leoindas wife was trying to rouse support for Sparta to join the alliance and it culminated in the scene where she stabbed the politician to death in the senate building. Listen to the dialogues and you will know who is in charge and holding the forte for Leoindas even the Senators affirmed her regency.


And is it not ironic that a logical being will argue that she wasn't passed the baton of leadership and still turn around to complain about her leading Spartan troops into battle, do you see the contradictions?

Where did the mandate to lead troops stem from?


Just so you know, I have seen the two movies at least 10 different times since release, the most recent being five months ago. I know what I am talking about!

sajmark:

Let us say that she was in charge until Leonidas' son came of age.

My question for you is:

If In reality she never led the Spartan army into battle, why then did the second movie portray her to have done that?

Answer: Fempowerment.

Calibrator:
At your last statement, finally something we both agree on


There are many movies and TV series I intentionally chose not to see in recent times because of this growing trend.

sajmark:

That was what I was saying before you dragged history into it, lol...
Drink with me comrade, peace.

ichidodo:
What exactly would you like to know?..

maak400:
A question about men's ego. Is it something that should be subdued or suppressed as the society usually suggest? Should a man fight back or wrestle when his ego is bruised or he feels disrespected? What's the RedPill's stance on Ego?

Your opinions are welcome.

@CaveAdullam, Ubunja, Pansophist, Tonnyray and fellow RedPillers.

Newusername:


Software engineering as a whole starting from the basics

Calibrator:
First of all, your initial erroneous submission prompted my miscalculated reply about the fans poster.... There was never a female lead in 300 (First instalment was about Leoindas and the second part was about Themistocles)


Historically, Queen Artemisia personally commandeered the five ships she gave Xerses for the invasion of Greece (feel free to check your history sources)


Leoindas wife gained command of the Army because her husband explicitly put her in charge pending his arrival and when he didn't make it back, the senate started playing politics about joining the United Alliance against the invasion, she even gave in to the sexual advances of the top political Spartan figure to make Spartan Army avenge her husband and not make his sacrifice be in vain, but as you claimed to have seen the movie, you know what happened (betrayal and ridicule and stuff) next and that gave her absolute control of the Army.

The Spartan Army did not have time to get their shiit in order and they went with the preexisting hierarchical structure on ground with their Queen in command.
.


Masculinity is not the absence of common sense but being logical where and as at when needed.


I am not speaking on this issue again.
Shalom!

luminouz:

No need to argue on the issue bro...

You and sajmark should let it rest

odinson1:
#COPIED
I met this girl back in 2019 before the pandemic in what started as a beautiful relationship. I have always supported her financially with every penny i had (even when she gained admission into HND in 2020) while i managed with the little i had. She always complain of wanting to use money to settle school stuffs and blah blah which i reasoned and i always found a means to give her cos she claimed she was always broke and acted like she was. Sometimes i even screenshot my account balance to her to let her know i was broke sometimes. Even though i'm out of the country, i still manage to send money to her with all the struggles one faces abroad.

Fast forward to today, i was able to access her bank application only for me to find over 150,000naira there and i checked the account history up from 2020 and this girl have always had above that amount.

I'm so angry right cos i feel betrayed by the kind heard and true love i have shown to her cos she has consistently lied for more than 2 years and i'm contemplating on breaking up with her, doing worse or making her pay cos there were days i only manage to find 3000naira and i still sent everything to her.

What should i do?

COPIED from a Certain thread here. Guys why are men Just so Damn stupid and foolish? Why do they always have this Urge to Help or Assist Their women? Don't they have the Brains to reason that the woman might just be bidding her time and using Him for his money? Is this what love is?
Omo i dey vex abeg

luminouz:
No need to argue on the issue bro...
You and sajmark should let it rest

Calibrator:
You are late to the party, sajmark that is already feeling tipsy

Chukwudi6533:
Good morning house.
I have a huge problem. I am very sexually active but lately I noticed I no longer have my normal morning strong erection. I have been having toothache since last week and I have been taking drugs for it since last week till now. The drug name are Anacin and Mixanal 2 tablets each of the 2 drugs. Though I already have plans to extract the tooth this week.
On Saturday last week, a girl came over... I was smooching the girl then when I got up to get a CD from my wardrobe before I got back my dick had already fallen. Though we later tried again and we had sex. On Monday this week another girl came over and this is a girl I've been asking to come visit me. She came on Monday, we started smooching and all that. She got wet, I went to my wardrobe to get CD before I came back my dick had fallen again. Oboi I really dont know what is happening. I had to finger the girl so she wont feel bad. I was so embarrassed, like this shouldn't be happening to me.
Now I don't really where the problem is coming from. i dont know if it's the drugs because I take it morning and night every day because of the teeth pain . And my urine is pure yellow these days no matter the amount of water I gulp, when I pee the coloured is always thick yellow. Please I need help guys.

I just created this acct this morning just to pass this info. This is not my main acct

pansophist:


One rule of thumb that I follow is that I don't have to listen or follow society (unless of course, it tally with my internal conviction), like an egg, if it is broken from an inside force, life begins. But if it is broken by an external force, life ends. There has been a huge backlash against the male ego like it's some kind of bad thing to have, but there is nothing wrong with ego, just the application of it.

Your ego is why you act in a certain way that makes you not only respect yourself, but others will respect you. When you decide to pay the food seller without being a debtor, appear clean and well put together, it is your ego manifesting itself healthily. It is impossible not to have an ego, or to eliminate it, it can only be expressed negatively or positively. One with a healthy ego has a strong sense of individuality, is respectable, and navigates the world competently. An unhealthy ego would be manipulation, condescending, show-off, arrogance, etc.

Generally, we do not like people with unhealthy egos, because the negative ego is fueled externally, meaning that others have to pay the price for them to feel good. When you do worse than them, worship them, they feel better. Unlike positive ego that is internally motivated, where you derive a healthy sense of worth and esteem by your own hardwork. So yea, nothing wrong with ego in itself, but how individuals use it.

Amperes:


read up on the side effects of those drugs you are taking, its usually written on the leaflet attached to the packaging. some drugs interfere with certain neurological functions. If you ve been having s*x regularly, like back to back then you need to take a break. a one week break will suffice. it will help your system recharge. other than that increase your intake of fruits like water melon, cucumber, tiger nuts e.t.c Exercise and rest. if all these doesnt work then you ll probably need to see a healthcare professional.

Oyin2212:

If he is not interested in what were saying in this thread, then he should leave.

ubunja:
they all want to achieve their life goals on Romance Section. They're clowns.

ichidodo:
Books and videos on the net has that covered...I'm focused on the immaterial aspect....the psychological aspect for those who are having great difficulty running the package..

DieRich5:
See dem Dy fight for beta thing but if war come na, dem go see na men start the war so ain't dere business

https://www.nairaland.com/7011620/women-abuja-protest-against-national

Only 29 senators out of the 92 present supported the provision.

Women never see anything for dis country, funny thing is dat the women protesting re the paid ones not the ones fighting for the position