The groom-to-be has now reportedly called off the wedding after feeling overwhelmed by his fiancée’s demands.



A Nigerian man has ended his marriage plans with his fiancee after she requested for an expensive wedding.

According to him, she wanted society wedding but refused to contribute towards it.

Twitter user, @Okenwaokodu shared the story on social media.

He said the groom-to-be tried to reason with his 29-year-old fiancée but she insisted on having a big wedding with 20 bridesmaids also known as ‘asoebi‘ ladies.

The groom-to-be has now reportedly called off the wedding after feeling overwhelmed by his fiancée’s demands.

He tweeted,

“Nna ehh, some ladies are just something else, she’s 29yrs yet want a very loud wedding but won’t bring a dime, your man told you there’s life after wedding but No, she wants 20 asoebi girls and bills on the man.

Man woke up overwhelmed and called off the wedding

The tweet has stirred different reactions from netizens as some opine that he could have reached a compromise with his wife-to-be instead of calling off the wedding, while others averred that he made the right decision.

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https://playloaded.com.ng/man-dumps-his-29-year-old-fiancee-for-demanding-an-expensive-wedding/

it better to stay single than chew more than you can bites

Next week, on Twitter 9ja fiction

Woman dumps man for asking for a big naming ceremony with a budget of N50 million, all paid for by woman

Child dumps parents for sending him to a school with an annual budget of N2 million instead of the N30 billion school child wanted.

Dog dumps owners for not feeding him Pedigree three times a day, says it was in the contract he signed with the owners....

Does her age matter?

As for me, I want an expensive, beautiful wedding...

But it's stupid of her to demand for an expensive wedding from a man who can't afford it... It's worse cause she can't foot the bill either...

backbencher:
Next week, on Twitter 9ja fiction

Woman dumps man for asking for a big naming ceremony with a budget of N50 million, all paid for by woman

Child dumps parents for sending him to a school with an annual budget of N2 million instead of the N30 billion school child wanted.

Dog dumps owners for not feeding him Pedigree three times a day, says it was in the contract he signed with the owners....

The story could be fake but this happens...

Something like this happened to my uncle

That's shit

Let the evening newspaper remain single until she's 40, Na that time she go get sense!

Even if she's 32 years old, she has every right to plan how her wedding should be.

Just tell her your budget probably she might work with it.

All I can see here is a broke poverty stricken man ranting up and down.

Men who don't have anything are the ones making noise. an empty barrel makes the most noise

Nonsense!!

Learn to cut your coat according to your cloth.

Seriously the pressure on our men folk is depressing, devastating and traumatizing. That is why you as the lady should not only be a wife but a help meet and mate to your husband. No woman is a liability except the one that lacks value and resourcefulness.

And why have an expensive wedding when your resources can't afford it. Responsibility first starts from the mind then to the character and conduct. It's okay to have a classic taste but make sure you also are working towards living that kind of life and not to burden someone with it. People should be very intentional with who they want to settle down with. More than beauty and what the eyes see please look at his or her resourcefulness, values and orientations. Some people just want to marry without any head knowledge of what marriage entails.

Jennyclay:
Even if she's 32 years old, she has every right to plan how her wedding would be.

Just tell her your budget probably she might work with it.

All I can see here is a broke poverty stricken man ranting up and down.

Men who don't have anything are the ones making noise. an empty barrel makes the most noise

Nonsense!!

Don't take it personal I know you are in so much pains.

He is a wise guy. Stupid and selfish girl. How much is she contributing for the lavish wedding sef?

Nicepoker:
Don't take it personal I know you are in so much pains.

Please Get lost!!

Jennyclay:
Please Get lost!!

Evening newspaper

Deborah98:
Seriously the pressure on our men folk is depressing, devastating and traumatizing. That is why you as the lady should not only be a wife but a help meet and mate to your husband. No woman is a liability except the one that lacks value and resourcefulness.

You be really better woman with sense. God bless you for this.

Jennyclay:
Even if she's 32 years old, she has every right to plan how her wedding would be.

Just tell her your budget probably she might work with it.

All I can see here is a broke poverty stricken man ranting up and down.

Men who don't have anything are the ones making noise. an empty barrel makes the most noise

Nonsense!!

your papa yansh

Deborah98:
Seriously the pressure on our men folk is depressing, devastating and traumatizing. That is why you as the lady should not only be a wife but a help meet and mate to your husband. No woman is a liability except the one that lacks value and resourcefulness.

Deborah98:
And why have an expensive wedding when your resources can't afford it. Responsibility first starts from the mind then to the character and conduct. It's okay to have a classic taste but make sure you also are working towards living that kind of life and not to burden someone with it. People should be very intentional with who they want to settle down with. More than beauty and what the eyes see please look at his or her resourcefulness, values and orientations. Some people just want to marry without any head knowledge of what marriage entails.

You commented twice... What the hell are you smoking??

Jennyclay:
Even if she's 32 years old, she has every right to plan how her wedding would be.

Just tell her your budget probably she might work with it.

All I can see here is a broke poverty stricken man ranting up and down.

Men who don't have anything are the ones
making noise. an empty barrel makes the most noise

Nonsense!!

Ur very stupid for this nonsense u typed up there leech! Poverty stricken girl forming Porsche

BoredBerry:
The story could be fake but this happens...

Something like this happened to my uncle

Yeah, it is possible , but this is the internet. Land of tall tales and pretense.

Kollins11:


You commented twice... What the hell are you smoking??

Comrade leave am liedat ...ah no get strength.

Deborah98:
Comrade leave am liedat ...ah no get strength.

Abeg no mind me oo. I too like violence..

Jennyclay:
Even if she's 32 years old, she has every right to plan how her wedding would be.

Just tell her your budget probably she might work with it.

All I can see here is a broke poverty stricken man ranting up and down.

Men who don't have anything are the ones making noise. an empty barrel makes the most noise

Nonsense!!

Always on attack mode. Lol

If a man doesn’t give into a woman’s demands he is broke?? Ohh

Jennyclay:
Even if she's 32 years old, she has every right to plan how her wedding would be.

Just tell her your budget probably she might work with it.

All I can see here is a broke poverty stricken man ranting up and down.

Men who don't have anything are the ones making noise. an empty barrel makes the most noise

Nonsense!!

Aunty, go and work for your own money.

Why does it take him this long to know that she is like that? Isn't that the point of dating? Anyways, it is better late than never. A person that lives life from the outside is a burden to be with, since everything they do is focused on pleasing/oppressing others, and have no inner substance to their being.

And if you're a partner to such a person, you'll pay the price for their vanity, like this gentleman. This experience should make him reflect on his female selection process, then undergo an intensive internal restructuring, because the kind of partner one attracts tells the kind of person one is.

Deborah98:
And why have an expensive wedding when your resources can't afford it. Responsibility first starts from the mind then to the character and conduct. It's okay to have a classic taste but make sure you also are working towards living that kind of life and not to burden someone with it. People should be very intentional with who they want to settle down with. More than beauty and what the eyes see please look at his or her resourcefulness, values and orientations. Some people just want to marry without any head knowledge of what marriage entails.

God bless you Debby.. you really made my day with this write up.

Jennyclay:
Even if she's 32 years old, she has every right to plan how her wedding would be.

Just tell her your budget probably she might work with it.

All I can see here is a broke poverty stricken man ranting up and down.

Men who don't have anything are the ones making noise. an empty barrel makes the most noise

Nonsense!!

What do you do for a living as a lady right now? Let's hear from the horse mouth.

Deborah98:
And why have an expensive wedding when your resources can't afford it. Responsibility first starts from the mind then to the character and conduct. It's okay to have a classic taste but make sure you also are working towards living that kind of life and not to burden someone with it. People should be very intentional with who they want to settle down with. More than beauty and what the eyes see please look at his or her resourcefulness, values and orientations. Some people just want to marry without any head knowledge of what marriage entails.

GOD Bless you. You made a very valid point, May you grow more in wisdom. Amen!

Please don't join those brainless and mannerless nairaland feminists on this forum, don't let them deceive you, especially that foolish girl up there @jennyclay and the rest of them Iyaebe & Co.

Those girls are from marine kingdom to possess bright and reasonable girls like you to join their foolish feminist crew. Please avoid them.

They are everywhere, Facebook, Twitter, whatsapp, Instagram, Tik tok, nairaland. Please take note. They're witches. Honestly I do wonder how they do gather hundreds and thousands of likes here on nairaland despite their foolish comments. Can't you see they're witches??

Please avoid them

Jennyclay:
Even if she's 32 years old, she has every right to plan how her wedding would be.

You're absolutely correct. She has every right to plan the wedding the way she wants with her own money.

Jennyclay:

Just tell her your budget probably she might work with it.

Wait, so it's not her money? How can one have rights on another person's money? What's her budget for her own wedding?

Jennyclay:


All I can see here is a broke poverty stricken man ranting up and down.

You're not financially responsible if Jennyclay and her likes do not call you stingy, or poor or broke or all of the above.

Jennyclay:

Men who don't have anything are the ones making noise. an empty barrel makes the most noise

Women with no jobs, no savings are usually the ones planning big weddings.

Entitled brats looking for someone's son to destroy.

Jennyclay:
Even if she's 32 years old, she has every right to plan how her wedding would be.

You're absolutely correct. She has every right to plan the wedding the way she wants with her own money.

Jennyclay:

Just tell her your budget probably she might work with it.

Wait, so it's not her money? How can one have rights on another person's money? What's her budget for her own wedding?

Jennyclay:


All I can see here is a broke poverty stricken man ranting up and down.

You're not financially responsible if Jennyclay and her likes do not call you stingy, or poor or broke or all of the above.

Jennyclay:

Men who don't have anything are the ones making noise. an empty barrel makes the most noise

Women with no jobs, no savings are usually the ones planning big weddings.

Entitled brats looking for someone's son to destroy.

Deborah98:
And why have an expensive wedding when your resources can't afford it. Responsibility first starts from the mind then to the character and conduct. It's okay to have a classic taste but make sure you also are working towards living that kind of life and not to burden someone with it. People should be very intentional with who they want to settle down with. More than beauty and what the eyes see please look at his or her resourcefulness, values and orientations. Some people just want to marry without any head knowledge of what marriage entails.

You wise die

For this Buhari govt, nai one kain girl go come dey condition me? She no serious.