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Premiumwriter:
taking all the worst possible case scenario just to make a point.

Quite pathetic.

She has not even proven if gambling was an addiction for the man and she's already calling it quit.

Lol. So, when the rule is reversed it's worse possible case. She didn't have to prove anything to you. She made it clear that he spends all his wages on betting. They had a plan to save money and he had nothing to show for it. Nothing saved and no wages because he gambled everything. But of course you have to find a way to blame the woman no matter what.

So, can you handle an alcoholic for a wife? Will you be strong and pray for her? Will you counsel her and support her to overcome her addiction?

Bunch of hypocrites

Double0h7:
Lol. So, when the rule is reversed it's worse possible case. She didn't have to prove anything to you. She made it clear that he spends all his wages on betting. They had a plan to save money and he had nothing to show for it. Nothing saved and no wages because he gambled everything. But of course you have to find a way to blame the woman no matter what.

So, can you handle an alcoholic for a wife? Will you be strong and pray for her? Will you counsel her and support her to overcome her addiction?

Bunch of hypocrites

Because you are actually painting the worst case scenario.

And yes, men have put up with worst embarrassment from their wives without going to the rooftop to shout out for others to hear.

Goodluck Jonathan was with patience even when the whole nation was mocking her and she embarrassing him with her choice of English.

He never for once complained about it nor did he deny her the microphone.

Men put up with a lot of shits from their wives.

And it probably won't be surprising to me if we trace the history of that niggas betting to the wife's high expectations when the nigga is earning very little

Kobojunkie:
Living with an addicted gambler for a husband is equally of no good for her or her brood.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/legal-matters/202103/when-your-partner-has-gambling-addiction%3famp

I should've added that she should get divorced if he's not willing to work on the gambling addiction

They should first get counselling. If he wants to work on it, she should stay and support him