Sad.

Marcofranz:
[s]I’m faulting the mother. You know you’re not ready for a baby why not abort the fetus and face your career or whatever.

Why drop a 3 months old fragile child in a crèche[/s]?

Sharrap! Your likes will shame stay at home mums, cal them liabilities that bring nothing to the table and deserves whatever mistreatment she faces in marriage. You confused bunch shame stay at home moms for eating and sleeping all day, shame career women for having jobs yet you call women confused. It's you people that are confused. If you want a wife that brings something to the table, then bear in mind that she must need help with the babies.

Normally 3 months old should be strictly on breastfeeding, mama’s body heat, and 24/7 monitoring. The woman is heartless. I don’t think u guys know how 3months baby looks like, too fragile to be left out of the mum’s sight for too long.

showafrica:


No, assuming what the guy wanted was just children without responsibility... Lol. I think the lazy men dont like the burden that comes with it hence they want a working class woman who will give birth and still take care of the child and family. I blame the women for marrying such gold diggers. Like someone said, any work that won't give you 6 months maternity leave is slavery.

My dear, let's face reality, jobs now give 2-3months max to mother's after they have worked a certain number of years. Only international organizations give more than 4months.

The economy isn't smiling at anyone.

What is a 3 month old baby doing in a school...mothers of nowadays sef

Codebite:
Why are people in so much hurry to get back to work after giving birth, so three months old now have access to creche? Wow I never knew

Sorry mama, it's quite painful, I can't begin to imagine her pain and the numerous what ifs going through her mind right now.

Blame the sadist policies of some private sector companies. I know of a big company in Lagos that grants maternity leave for only 2 weeks. And that starts to count on the day you sign off work in anticipation of delivery, not from the day you actually give birth.

So, if the mother is working in such a cruel company, she has to resume within 2 weeks of giving birth or lose her job. Those companies abound in the country. So, if we have companies who grant maternity leave for just 2 weeks, you can imagine that a company that grants 2 months is even generous!

Consider that before blaming people for having to resume work shortly after delivery. There's no mother who doesn't wish to take good time off to nurse her baby!

Who knows maybe d child was bullied to death �

This case is confusing.

Can't blame the mother.. it's totally understand.

So many irresponsible husband nonentity out there.



The creche.. I don't know what to say

webincomeplus:

Blame the sadist policies of some private sector companies. I knew of a big company in Lagos that grants maternity leave for only 2 weeks. And that starts to count on the day to sign off work in anticipation of delivery, not from the day you actually give birth.

So, if the mother is working in such a cruel company, she has to resume within 2 weeks of giving birth or lose her job. Those companies abound in the country. So, if we have companies who grant maternity leave for just 2 weeks, you can imagine that a company that grants 2 months is even generous!

Thank you sir,
So it's up to me to decide if they will marry a liability that will be available to nurse the child or push their wives to contribute and risk things like this happening.

The government is to be blamed too

President2001:
So sad but putting 3 months baby in creche is not a good idea

Where should she put the baby? In your house?

3 months old baby need exclusive breasts feeding at least 8 times per hour, this shows she has been living the child depressed without milk for long hours in that creche until the child gave up. My younger sister did something similar, the girl gave birth to her child fresh looking and healthy child in her final year, 2 months baby looks fresh under my mom's watch but as soon as she returned to her base in school so I later saw her when I visited my mom, but the healthy fresh child I know was looking so malnourished, weightless and thin, as an Agriculturist I need not be told that the child is being deprived of exclusive breast milk. I queried her immediately on why she is denying the child enough milk only for her to say her friend advised her not be breastfeeding the baby in campus premises that her friend also does same to her child. I was very furious, so if you know you can't breast feed a child in school premises then why get pregnant and marry when you're not done with school? I was sure the child was so denied breast milk for several flimsy reasons for her to weigh like that that day. She got back to her senses and did exclusive breastfeeding now the child is looking very fresh n attractive at 2+. Something else would have happened to my little niece because of careless acts like this, in this case the woman is responsible for denying the child exclusive breast milk for hours. Milk n Milo pap or whatever can't give the child the nutrients to keep him healthy at 3 Months, the mom is wicked to have killed him like that. Thesame stupid excuse, a woman feeling embarrassed to breastfeed her child in place of work. What a sad way for the young lad, got a foolish mom. Rest on and return stronger baby boy.

I read a lot of comments on this thread and I just smh. Blaming the woman for taking her child to a creche. Humans are truly insatiable. You don't work, they term you a liability to your husband. You work, they say you want to run away from your responsibility. Smh really

Itsrm:


Where should she put the baby? In your house?

Please just help me ask

Why would a creche caring for that adolescent not have a cctv to monitor how the staff are treating the children

nwekeugochukwu:
A Nigerian mum lost her three-month-old baby after leaving the child at a crèche, IGBERETV reports.

Twitter user @Lolo_cy who shared the sad story online said no one knows what happened to the baby only that the mother came back to pick her baby's dead body.

She wrote;



https://twitter.com/Lolo_cy/status/1500387723064057857?t=rpOIKoXPwMkvP7UhpEqb5Q&s=19

Too bad , some companies can't even give a nursing mother ordinary 3 months to care for her baby.

Codebite:
Why are people in so much hurry to get back to work after giving birth, so three months old now have access to creche? Wow I never knew

Sorry mama, it's quite painful, I can't begin to imagine her pain and the numerous what ifs going through her mind right now.

I stopped my wife from sending my one year girl to Creche.
I said she will go to school when she is 2 years.
These slay mama's rushing to creche with a child who doesn't know his right from Left should be A crime.

Yeesh:
What do the crèche people mean by they don’t know what happened??
Are they saying the baby was fully active and breathing all through the day but all of that stopped when the mother came to pick him up??

Possibly a case of SIDS
But proper investigation should be done
Any baby less than 1year is at that risk

macanakii:


Taking care of children is a job on its own for women, and more important than any other job out there.

Yea, any career woman should make arrangements for a standard nani and steward if that's what she and her husband agrees but I personally will not and did not follow that path. I don't see any gain in it.

This is very unfortunate.
All these bank jobs that mandate thier nursing mother's to return to work after 3 months.

However, that creche must be investigated.
Alot of questions need answers.

Didn't the baby cry before giving up to ghost.

What type of sleeping drugs did they give to the baby.
Where was the creche caretaker during the time the baby died without her alarming the mother of the child

Etc

eipreel:
I read a lot of comments on this thread and I just smh. Blaming the woman for taking her child to a creche. Humans are truly insatiable. You don't work, they term you a liability to your husband. You work, they say you want to run away from your responsibility. Smh really

if the work is important why not go to work with ur little sibbling or relative..that hold the child in d car..immedoately the baby starts crying her sinbling put a call acrose while she rushes down to breastfeed her child.u will be suprised that d cteatch is at ojota and her place of work bony island in port hardcourt

Not nobody is going to support this stupid act by this stupid woman.children who know nothing becoming mothers cus they started sex at 12 she shld go to her village and ask her grand parents how its been done before taking in again..and no body is going to support the stupid sch for accepting a todler cuz of cash..both the sch and the mother should be sued by civil right society

obonujoker:
3 months old baby at creche, because of yeye work.... lol...

God will give you another one Ma... just have faith, and be more careful this time....

Some of you are funny
If she comes online one day to start begging you all for money, you will insult the hell out of her, saying why did she give birth when she can't take care of them.
Yeye work indeed
I am not in support of 3month old baby in a creche but she clearly had no choice
How many months is paternity leave in this country ?

canada2022:
Take heart woman.
Proper investigation should be conducted to confirm what happen.

People should not blame the woman for dropping her baby there. If you were in her shoes you will do the same.

Nah, I won't do same. Never. Not 3-months. That job must wait.

What is a three month old baby doing in a Creche?

3 months is too early to leave your struggle for 9 months to someone else to take care. Now she will freely go to work.
Smh..

osazsky:
if the work is important why not go to work with ur little sibbling or relative..that hold the child in d car..immedoately the baby starts crying her sinbling put a call acrose while she rushes down to breastfeed her child.u will be suprised that d cteatch is at ojota and her place of work bony island in port hardcourt

Not nobody is going to support this stupid act by this stupid woman.children who know nothing becoming mothers cus they started sex at 12 she shld go to her village and ask her grand parents how its been done before taking in again..and no body is going to support the stupid sch for accepting a todler cuz of cash..both the sch and the mother should be sued by civil right society

Because you have an available sibling or relative does not mean every other person has one and the fact that you are calling a 3 month old a toddler already shows I should not be having this discussion with you.

jeff1993:
Sad

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Go online and mentor yourself.

Believing in yourself is the greatest magic of all time

farmfuseagros:

Some of you are funny
If she comes online one day to start begging you all for money, you will insult the hell out of her, saying why did she give birth when she can't take care of them.
Yeye work indeed
I am not in support of 3month old baby in a creche but she clearly had no choice
How many months is paternity leave in this country ?

if she is not in good terms with any of her relative.younger sinblings youngee inlaws that is willing to follow her to work with d child then she is a stupid woman..u cant take away the stupidity away from her no matter how u try..like i said d sch is at ojota and her place of work at bony in p.h....d sch nor even get he numb self so no need..

So sad. Only God can console her. But isn’t a 3months old baby too early to be left by a mother tho

eipreel:


Because you have an available sibling or relative does not mean every other person has one and the fact that you are calling a 3 month old a toddler already shows I should not be having this discussion with you.

if she doent have friends she is still a fool..some of u once u marry u cut ties with ur child hood friends who are not married and sibling..lvl done change..nobody can exist on her own.
U nee people around u..no matter how rich

Now see wat the teacher who is a stranger has done to her child..nobody can take stulidity from this woman..its written on her forehead just like the mark of the beast..leave me.i am angry..

osazsky:
if she is not in good terms with any of her relative.younger sinblings youngee inlaws that is willing to follow her to work with d child then she is a stupid woman..u cant take away the stupidity away from her no matter how u try..like i said d sch is at ojota and her place of work at bony in p.h....d sch nor even get he numb self so no need..

You mean all your siblings are jobless or what?
Oh please!
Many of us have families member who works
All my siblings work, including my parent
So who will put their life on hold to go and be babysitting someone's child.
Let's apportion blame wisely