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Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by Nobody: 6:05pm On Mar 11, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
Bitch... u'll get caught very soon... angry mobs will get u grin
B.S

Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by MadeINchenzen2(op): 6:07pm On Mar 11, 2022
Comradewhy:
B.S
I see you are having a good time trying new memes... I mean what I said... stay away from little girls !!!
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by Nobody: 6:09pm On Mar 11, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
I see you are having a good time trying new memes... I mean what I said... stay away from little girls !!!
B.S

Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by MadeINchenzen2(op): 6:10pm On Mar 11, 2022
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by Nobody: 6:15pm On Mar 11, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
grin
Gat nothing else to say?

Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:23pm On Mar 11, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
accept your positions as unguided and misleading... if u seek knowledge then do so the right way and get pride out of the way.
its all about FREEDOM OF OPINION... and like they say:" just like an aasshole, everbody got one"... so stop trying to force feed your own xtian views/values down people's throat. let everyone have their own views/values, as this is what NL is for.

but remember, if you post something on NL that sounds like nonsense to many people, then you should accept that they will call you out for it.
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by MadeINchenzen2(op): 6:29pm On Mar 11, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
its all about FREEDOM OF OPINION... and like they say:" just like an aasshole, everbody got one"... so stop trying to force feed your own xtian views/values down people's throat. let everyone have their own views/values, as this is what NL is for.

but remember, if you post something on NL that sounds like nonsense to many people, then you should accept that they will call you out for it.
Not all opinions are allowed, as far as I am concerned some opinions are dangerous to my sensibility
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by MadeINchenzen2(op): 6:30pm On Mar 11, 2022
Comradewhy:
Gat nothing else to say?
I am glad you are masturbating on my thread... wow !!!
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:37pm On Mar 11, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
Not all opinions are allowed, as far as I am concerned some opinions are dangerous to my sensibility
...and you have the right to feel that way, so long as you understand that the person in front of you may feel the exact same way about what you are saying. thus accepting people for who they are and not trying to change them nor force feed them your own beliefs.

BTW all opinions are allowed on NL, so long as they dont go against NL rules,
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by Kobojunkie:
yuping:
undecided just wait until there daughter turn 18 and approaches them for marriage that when their tune will change.
You dey talk marriage sef! These kain men dem go loose am if they catch their 18-year-old holding hands with a 30-year-old in the streets. undecided

ROFLMAO
grin cheesy grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by MadeINchenzen2(op): 6:49pm On Mar 11, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
...and you have the right to feel that way, so long as you understand that the person in front of you may feel the exact same way about what you are saying. thus accepting people for who they are and not trying to change them nor force feed them your own beliefs.

BTW all opinions are allowed on NL, so long as they dont go against NL rules,
but it baffles me that people will rather choose to remain headstrong with a misleading opinion instead of learning it right
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:55pm On Mar 11, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
but it baffles me that people will rather choose to remain headstrong with a misleading opinion instead of learning it right
remember, what may seem misleading to you, may not be to others.

let me give you a simple clue: check the bible and see how so many different people have different views on its words.jehovah witnesses read it and will have a different views on many topics than the mormons or the catholic/baptist etc have.... and as much as you dont understand their own views, you allow them to live their own life doing what they please, respectfully. well thats exactly what you should do with (and how you should view) anyone else on this thread/NL.
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by Anon4: 6:59pm On Mar 11, 2022
Loewe:
Age of consent in some European countries is still less than 16 e.g. Germany, France etc. and I know we aren't more morally upright than them. So pls, there is no big deal unless it contravenes the laws of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.
Correct yourself, we definitely more morally upright than them. We lead, they follow!
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by MadeINchenzen2(op): 7:00pm On Mar 11, 2022
Loewe:
While I would personally find it difficult to do myself (based on my taste and the naivety of such young girls), I wouldn't condemn anyone who prefers a lady in her late teens (18+) since she is an adult. It's really not uncommon, neither is it a crime under Nigerian law.

Age of consent in some European countries is still less than 16 e.g. Germany, France etc. and I know we aren't more morally upright than them. So pls, there is no big deal unless it contravenes the laws of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.
it is a Nigerian law that @ 18, a girl is regarded as an adult does not mean the Nigerian law is enacted on the basis of common sense, civility and morality... if you have reservations for the Nigerian constitution then it is easy to say it is not absolute! It is not absolute because you can identify the flaws, you can identify the flaws because you have sense.

So if you speak with emphasis on the Nigerian law, that's not enough. In Africa 90% girls @ 18 are naive and unexposed... don't compare Nigerians with the west... You are a 3rd world country !!!
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by Nobody: 7:14pm On Mar 11, 2022
[quote author=MadeINchenzen2 post=110952077 adult does not mean the Nigerian law is enacted o]it is a Nigerian law that @ 18, a girl is regarded as ann the basis of common sense, civility and morality... if you have reservations for the Nigerian constitution then it is easy to say it is not absolute! It is not absolute because you can identify the flaws, you can identify the flaws because you have sense.

So if you speak with emphasis on the Nigerian law, that's not enough. In Africa 90% girls @ 18 are naive and unexposed... don't compare Nigerians with the west... You are a 3rd world country !!![/quote]Please who is being uncivil, lacking common sense and immoral here? You're clearly the one, added to your hypocritical way of thinking.

You're only age-shaming mature guys and setting unnecessary barriers between 2 adults.

I clearly expressed a fact like a normal human being and backed it up with the enacted laws of our land, but that's obviously not enough for you.

African women, traditionally, have been known to marry men that are way older than them and our parents were not regarded as being immoral despite the age difference. Some of our parents have as much as 20 years apart and they lived decently, so what's your point exactlyhuh

You're not making sense. undecided
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by MadeINchenzen2(op): 7:19pm On Mar 11, 2022
Loewe:
Please who is being uncivil, lacking common sense and immoral here? You're clearly the one, added to your hypocritical way of thinking.

I clearly expressed a fact like a normal human being and backed it up with the enacted laws of our land, but that's obviously not enough for you.

African women, traditionally, have been known to marry men that are way older than them and our parents were not regarded as being immoral despite the age difference. Some of our parents have as much as 20 years apart and they lived decently, so what's your point exactlyhuh

You're not making sense. undecided
OK... just read up, u'll be alright
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by Uncle96(m): 7:20pm On Mar 11, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
I know a paedophile when he writes... I can smell your body language from here, infact I can predict your next line of thought. What a shame !!!
Dude ure too whack , that's irritates me, get out
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by MadeINchenzen2(op): 7:34pm On Mar 11, 2022
Uncle96:
Dude ure too whack , that's irritates me, get out
awwww... sweetheart is pissed... oya comman suck breast
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by Nobody: 7:37pm On Mar 11, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
OK... just read up, u'll be alright
You're the one who needs to read up. People like you wanna shove your opinions and perspective down other people's throat and would never take corrections...

All you're doing is age-shaming men who are certain years older than women. That itself is against civility and our African culture.

You are UNEDUCATED and UNENLIGHTENED!
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by SenecaTheYonger: 7:38pm On Mar 11, 2022
30 year old man speaking from experience. I’m glad you have learnt.
MadeINchenzen2:
In your early 30's You play the devils advocate by saying older single men should feel free to date an 18, 19, or 20 year old right?

In your early 30's you are probably out of school with a degree at least.

In her 18,19 or 20 she's probably a jambite who is focusing on getting admission into a polytechnic or university.

And u feel it is right to even discuss relationship or even attempt to have a romantic affair with herhuh

Where is your taste Mr man? I thought you have a degree as an evidence of your literacy.

As educated as you are, you find delight in squeezing little bossoms and digging innocent naive cherries for sexual gratification.

Where is your class and self-respect?

You know what you do is not right, yet you do it?
You felt embarrassed the last time walking the streets hand-in-hand with the little girl who is thrice your age in the name of dating. Now you give her the address of the hotel where she comes meet you at Night, and after the meeting you give her some cash and tell her to go home, she insisted you come along with her but u said NO !

Yeah, you said NO! because all eyes were on you the last time u were walking with her off the streets, you felt embarrassed.


Chai !!!grin
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by MadeINchenzen2(op): 7:46pm On Mar 11, 2022
Loewe:
You're the one who needs to read up. People like you wanna shove your opinions and perspective down other people's throat and would never take corrections...

All you're doing is age-shaming men who are certain years older than women. That itself is against civility and our African culture.

You are UNEDUCATED and UNENLIGHTENED!
just read up... u'll be fine. I promise. Don't get too emotional sweetheart. Take the advice
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by Nobody: 8:59pm On Mar 11, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
just read up... u'll be fine. I promise. Don't get too emotional sweetheart. Take the advice
Illiteracy is your problem. Rest.
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by Uncle96(m): 9:22pm On Mar 11, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
awwww... sweetheart is pissed... oya comman suck breast
Lol , drop the cute act, it does not look good on you . Fcking tiny dot pricks everywhere , dammn.
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by MadeINchenzen2(op): 9:24pm On Mar 11, 2022
Uncle96:
Lol , drop the cute act, it does not look good on you . Fcking tiny dot pricks everywhere , dammn.
lol
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by MadeINchenzen2(op): 9:25pm On Mar 11, 2022
Loewe:
Illiteracy is your problem. Rest.
lol... control u emotions... that's ur weakness... its not good for ur blood pressure
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by Rolly22(m): 9:32pm On Mar 11, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
In your early 30's You play the devils advocate by saying older single men should feel free to date an 18, 19, or 20 year old right?

In your early 30's you are probably out of school with a degree at least.

In her 18,19 or 20 she's probably a jambite who is focusing on getting admission into a polytechnic or university.

And u feel it is right to even discuss relationship or even attempt to have a romantic affair with herhuh

Where is your taste Mr man? I thought you have a degree as an evidence of your literacy.

As educated as you are, you find delight in squeezing little bossoms and digging innocent naive cherries for sexual gratification.

Where is your class and self-respect?

You know what you do is not right, yet you do it?
You felt embarrassed the last time walking the streets hand-in-hand with the little girl who is thrice your age in the name of dating. Now you give her the address of the hotel where she comes meet you at Night, and after the meeting you give her some cash and tell her to go home, she insisted you come along with her but u said NO !

Yeah, you said NO! because all eyes were on you the last time u were walking with her off the streets, you felt embarrassed.


Chai !!!grin
So this thing still Dey pain you since morning??
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by MadeINchenzen2(op): 9:38pm On Mar 11, 2022
Rolly22:
So this thing still Dey pain you since morning??
wetin be that?
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by Nobody: 1:59am On Mar 12, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
If you are to be honest. U would be angry if your Jambite daughter was having a romantic relationship with a man old enough to be her father.
First off...
Not every 18year old is a "jambite"...
Go to universities and see the ages of the people in school...
Those 18year olds you're calling jambites are in year 1, 2 and 3, a few of them are even in 4th year in school...

Secondly...
An 18year old is an adult...
So if an adult feels she can handle a relationship with a 30year old man, that's her business...
You can't come here and decide what two consenting adults can/cannot do undecided....
So chill...
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by shege45: 2:33am On Mar 12, 2022
Uzomacharles:
omo I hate that shit.....
imagine a grown up man peddling with a child he's way older than and worst part is that you see the girl controlling or maybe insulting him in the midst of his neighbors or friends...

Even dating a girl m taller than makes me feel awkward..
all of una no serious. How do you guys even see eighteen year olds in Nigeria. Here them don start life full time ooo.
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by MadeINchenzen2(op): 7:15am On Mar 12, 2022
Favfables1:
First off...
Not every 18year old is a "jambite"...
Go to universities and see the ages of the people in school...
Those 18year olds you're calling jambites are in year 1, 2 and 3, a few of them are even in 4th year in school...

Secondly...
An 18year old is an adult...
So if an adult feels she can handle a relationship with a 30year old man, that's her business...
You can't come here and decide what two consenting adults can/cannot do undecided....
So chill...

Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by Uzomacharles(m): 8:24am On Mar 12, 2022
shege45:
all of una no serious. How do you guys even see eighteen year olds in Nigeria. Here them don start life full time ooo.
where be that?
Re: @ Early 30's, U Think Its No Big Deal Dating An 18 Yr Old... But U Can't Do This by fineberry(m): 8:32am On Mar 12, 2022
Op you're senseless honestly, I red through I couldn't make a single sense out of your write up. Sigh
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