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KokobySandra:
Sad but I do

you think you do

Kobojunkie:
What exactly are you confused about?

she is confused by what her mind and body are telling her,the guy is financially ok and is a fine man which supposed to be a magnet to any lady,but no,she is no longer attracted to the man,why? because you can use money to buy anything for sale including sex but unfortunately you cannot buy a woman's heart and affection with money,that why women cheats and that's why women that sincerely love their partner rarely cheats.

at 26 you r still affected by peer pressure
how can someone be hardworking,has money and everything you still find an excuse to say his not cute

na handbag him be? wey u wan d show case am...
anyways inside this life i only need 16k please someone help,i am so down with myself

toujurs:
Okay ooo, If you say so.

lesson 101, you cannot win an argument against kobojuñkie.. know this and know peace

Descottes:
lesson 101, you cannot win an argument against kobojuñkie.. know this and know peace

As in ehn, you no see as i comot hand.

Kobojunkie:
Stop rambling abeg! She already explained that she has a job.

Audio job!
Na runz girl

DryMouth:
Audio job!
Na runz girl

You yourself you get job?

Kobojunkie:
You yourself you get job?

No bro. Am jobless but she be runz girl

DryMouth:
No bro. Am jobless but she be runz girl

Oh, so because you are jobless means every woman who says they work are runz girls?

Kobojunkie:
Oh, so because you are jobless means every woman who says they work are runz girls?

Mugu..
You dey asslick her.
Stay online dey find free toto.
Mugu!

DryMouth:
Mugu..
You dey asslick her.
Stay online dey find free toto.
Mugu!

Wow... you must be seriously limited in your ability to reason this since we are all like you.

Kobojunkie:
Wow... you must be seriously limited in your ability to reason this since we are all like you.

No matter what you do or say online, you must still pay her before you f*ck.

No free f*ck for you. She be runs girl

DryMouth:
No matter what you do or say online, you must still pay her before you f*ck.

No free f*ck for you. She be runs girl

Again.... you must be seriously limited in your ability to reason this since we are all like you.

posty56:
^{say less my sister, being confuse has always been part of your gender especially Nigeria girls, you get money problem, you no get money problem, you fine , you no fine problem, you show them affection they'll take that affection for weakness, brethrens with all this point I present to you why do you still insist on trying to please woman. , take Nigeria girls serious at your peril. l,as for me na chop and go i dey do no time.}

The guy problem dey very simple; e get money but e get only one babe - which is OP.

If her "ugly" boyfriend has like three hot side girls with big nyash and breast; like @MadamVanessa (without the visceral fat) - I bet you she won't be going on like this.

If she dey see this kind whatsapp messages for the guy phone from young 19/20/21 year old babes ...

Kobojunkie:
Again.... you must be seriously limited in your ability to reason this since we are all like you.

No matter what you do or say, toto is not free.

You must pay!

DryMouth:
No matter what you do or say, toto is not free.

You must pay!

Again.... you must be seriously limited in your ability to reason this since we are all like you.

Kobojunkie:
Again.... you must be seriously limited in your ability to reason this since we are all like you.

You must pay before you f*ck

toujurs:
Oga read it again, you will observe, she layed more emphasis on her bf family financial capacity, and also her bf financial capacity, forget anything 47% she said. Anyways what's even my business. [s] Abuja single ladies can lie for Africa.. lagos ladies are way more composed.[/s]

Trash...


Composed indeed! After getting em noodles and coke ba?


Say something else

KokobySandra:
Hey guys. It’s good to be back on this platform since I left 2013 lol... I see a lot has change and a little new faces and profiles. Hope we are all adjusting to the new lifestyle? The fuel and light ish... it’s hell but we will pull through.

So like I earlier said. I have been away from this site for a while. Do not mistake me coming here for attention I need an honest opinion on some matters that I will say are kind of disturbing. Be logical, mature and sensible with your comments. Trading words with kids or insensitive comments, also I am not here seeking torrential comments but if at all please let they be meaningful and useful thanks.

I’m a 26yrs dark and 5’9 lady currently working with one of the “big 5”( do not need to mention names), I’m putting this here so nobody will come with the question: what are you bringing to the table”. I met this young hard working guy here in Abuja. Say, he is pretty much from a wealthy home and got his own money. We got really into each other and I felt heaven I will say. But, of recent I notices my wants and need from this guy started changing. I do not even have affection for him any longer. I have tried over and over but I feel I’m falling out of love and he love me with his whole. So sad. I’m really confused at these point that it break me to no end. Do not get me any wrong here, he really got his own money in millions but he is not that cute. But he love me but I need more. Maybe a picture perfect partner? I don’t know. I’m really confuse.

If you feel yall ain't cool, then find someone else so you don't lead him on. Those little feelings matter a lot ....Cheers.

Yeah, I have had similar issue too
I will suggest u try to identify what u don't really like about him

Maybe his dress sense, way of handling issues, immaturity, differences in core values, religion, his family, his physique/ appearance or a particular behavior that is putting u off. If it something that can be changed, talk to him to improve on certain area, if it can't change, hummm maybe u should just let him be.

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KokobySandra:
Sad but I do

so what do you want ?
What don’t you see In him?

HarunaWest:
If you feel yall ain't cool, then find someone else so you don't lead him on. Those little feelings matter a lot ....Cheers.

Indeed they do!

KokobySandra:
Hey guys. It’s good to be back on this platform since I left 2013 lol... I see a lot has change and a little new faces and profiles. Hope we are all adjusting to the new lifestyle? The fuel and light ish... it’s hell but we will pull through.

So like I earlier said. I have been away from this site for a while. Do not mistake me coming here for attention I need an honest opinion on some matters that I will say are kind of disturbing. Be logical, mature and sensible with your comments. Trading words with kids or insensitive comments, also I am not here seeking torrential comments but if at all please let they be meaningful and useful thanks.

I’m a 26yrs dark and 5’9 lady currently working with one of the “big 5”( do not need to mention names), I’m putting this here so nobody will come with the question: what are you bringing to the table”. I met this young hard working guy here in Abuja. Say, he is pretty much from a wealthy home and got his own money. We got really into each other and I felt heaven I will say. But, of recent I notices my wants and need from this guy started changing. I do not even have affection for him any longer. I have tried over and over but I feel I’m falling out of love and he love me with his whole. So sad. I’m really confused at these point that it break me to no end. Do not get me any wrong here, he really got his own money in millions but he is not that cute. But he love me but I need more. Maybe a picture perfect partner? I don’t know. I’m really confuse.

The physical attraction is missing.

You felt heaven when you were trying to get him. Now that you got him and he’s simping for you, you want to dump him citing ‘cuteness’.

Did it happen so fast that you didn’t take note of the ‘cuteness’ initially?

Talk true, what did you find out? His Fam aint that loaded and feel there’s no point putting up with his ‘cuteness’ eh?

Imagine you saying you feel he’s all over you to make his kids look cute like they won’t be your kids too.

Point is, you don’t have any love for that nigga. You never did. You were after something you thought he had.

Do what you have to do.

I have read all your replies and comments. The fact still remains. I’m not a gold digger I do not need to prove this at all. I understand not everyone here will totally agree with my thoughts also not everyone here have a good functioning thought process. I will make it clear I was in love with my partner, and I think all this is a phase. I will work on them. Thanks guys

Xoxo

Try to work on them as you said . I feel something is missing .

KokobySandra:
I have read all your replies and comments. The fact still remains. I’m not a gold digger I do not need to prove this at all. I understand not everyone here will totally agree with my thoughts also not everyone here have a good functioning thought process. I will make it clear I was in love with my partner, and I think all this is a phase. I will work on them. Thanks guys

Xoxo

I am eagerly waiting for the next 10 - 15 years to come. I want to see who these ladies will get married to

The other day, I saw one from way back in school seating inside Chicken Republic without a chicken

You people will move up and more that Cain will look like a learner.

Many of you ladies don't have sense sha but just give it a few years and you will see why I said so

You work for Deloitte or PwC, at 26, you can still afford to be stupid and still don't miss it at least. Unlike most of your sisters who are dull, old, and broke, those ones are on their way to be society reject

This is not coming from a place of hate. I've seen it, I still see it. Ask your older sisters, many of them were so foolish as you are now. Just give it few years, and you will understand.

KokobySandra:
I think we are all allowed to have our preferences don’t you think so? Yes I want a man I can show off and not hide.

breakup with him and let him be.,also have at the back of your mind that the one you want may not want you either....i'm also sure he is not your first, and those your cute boyfriends couldn't marry as well...

KokobySandra:
Thanks dear. I will say this I fell for his kindness with all honesty this man is perfect in character. He has not change any bit. Never cheated, never lied and never stop showing me attention. He has paid for my masters even when I asked him not too. I gave him gold watch and for the first time I see a man cry and kiss me in the forehead. But I can’t he is not cute and I feel he is all over me because he wants his children to be cute

Ladies don't love faithful men,they always feels that no one else want you..

KokobySandra:
I think we are all allowed to have our preferences don’t you think so? Yes I want a man I can show off and not hide.

Then he must be super ugly for u to be hiding him

CsRockefeller:
I am eagerly waiting for the next 10 - 15 years to come. I want to see who these ladies will get married to

Marriage is not a life calling for woman, even as it is not for men. So relax and let people live their lives as they chose.