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When he has two comfortable source of income

Okay

For me

5m in the bank

Vinnie2000:
Op, you must have d ability to be paying all ur bills (rent,security, electricity,etc) without Stress or borrowing! And a steady income!

Strongly agree

Ogbeni2000:
There's a certain argument that you shouldn't marry unless you're financially ready.

When exactly is a man financially ready? Lots of people lose whom they love chasing when they're financially ready.

Please I need matured contribution on this.

There's no particular time!

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TONYE001:
In my opinion, if you find a spouse you are comfortable with, if you can feed and house yourself, you should get married!

There is no point waiting until you are a billionaire or something. Only thing is you and your spouse should be able to be disciplined and use contraception appropriately. You and your spouse, if you are hardworking enough, should be able to cater for a child while you develop yourselves.

Ogbeni2000:
There's a certain argument that you shouldn't marry unless you're financially ready.

When exactly is a man financially ready? Lots of people lose whom they love chasing when they're financially ready.

Please I need matured contribution on this.

increasingly and dynamic Flow of income....

not just financially ready but have two to three income because marriage will drain you, that your supporting gf will change when you wife her, even if she's a working class it will get a spot that she would be hiding her financial history from you



at least two income before marriage, so that one take care of your responsibility in the marriage and the other will take care of wealth building

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I like this thread. Reasonable question with SOME reasonable answers

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When you have nothing less than 50 million in your bank account

Your wisdom will never run dry,same thing I thought... :DLet me say prestisibly that's as quickly as possible...

There's just no perfect time to do anything... If one keeps waiting for the right time to do anything, one won't achieve so many things...

Keeping in mind that to be a man is, has never and will never be a days Job...

When a man can genuinely, comfortably and legitimately fend for himself then he can consider marriage to a helpful partner whom they both can strive together to feed themselves...

If as a man you want to make all the wealth in this life before settling down, then am afraid you will keep hustling...

I hope I made some points... Good evening[/quote]

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Preparing for the worse . I have seen a man whose finance was reduced to nothing immediately he got married. So the more reason why we need to fortify ourselves with prayers

That's a good question

Stable and consistent income no matter how small

There's no age limit as regards marriage. What matters is maturity. When a man is totally independent and can provide for himself and his entire family, take care of responsibilities, then he's ready for marriage.

rabankonchas:
When he is financially happy with himself. Relationships these days are monetized and women are acquired like some of the basics...houses, cars, businesses... Except you are blessed enough to meet someone you love and loves you back, it's all transactional.

Laugh wan Kee me for here

When you’re financially ready

When your one month earning is enough to pay your rent (minimum of 2 bedroom flat), then you are ready to start a family.

Ogbeni2000:
There's a certain argument that you shouldn't marry unless you're financially ready.

When exactly is a man financially ready? Lots of people lose whom they love chasing when they're financially ready.

Please I need matured contribution on this.

You guys are becoming boring with this childish questions everyday, my husband and I married on Npower/NYSC.
Today story is different, everything is very soft

When you have stable cash flow that gives you disposable income.

You must have disposable income if you plan to raise a family.

Diapers, baby food, creche don't come cheap
And it gets worse from there

When he is financially stable

rabankonchas:
When he is financially happy with himself. Relationships these days are monetized and women are acquired like some of the basics...houses, cars, businesses... Except you are blessed enough to meet someone you love and loves you back, it's all transactional.

Transactional is an understatement. People who even have nothing in common with each other get married and people use them as examples when you can visibly see that they are both flatmates with little or no happiness. Do what works for you.

When you can feed two or more people.

the same way a woman is financially ready for marriage

Ekejoestar:
So does it mean I can marry now going by the analogies up there

Yes

Ogbeni2000:
There's a certain argument that you shouldn't marry unless you're financially ready.

When exactly is a man financially ready? Lots of people lose whom they love chasing when they're financially ready.

Please I need matured contribution on this.

The Bible says, develop your business, then build your house. It is after you must have developed your business, else, if you choose to develop your house first, a woman will move in and consume all that you need to invest in your business.

#Simple