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Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 11:14pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
WoundedLamb:Do you mean "you are a woman" places certain limitations on them? Care to give examples. You bringing in gender obligations. Such that a woman has what and what not she is obligated to?.. I think it will only gets more complicated and distasteful when women begin to tell us what & what not they are obligated to. To make things much easier for everyone, women must accept the fact that they are women. |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 11:17pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
pocohantas:You are a bag of troubles. |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by thorpido(m): 11:27pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
What a thread! ![]() Op, it's not about the anatomy, it's about the underlying intent in the conversation.These things are obvious even in our day to day conversations that have nothing to do with gender. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 11:32pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
RightToReject:I can understand the complimentary part but the derision part is lost on me. If you told a child " You're a child", it is complimentary, derision or could be both? How could " you're a woman" have two sides of a coin? |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by thorpido(m): 11:37pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
CumOnHer:In what way could,'you're a child' be derision? 1 Like |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 11:42pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
cococandy:This is purely your own twisted interpretation and honestly, I feel sick to my stomach reading this. When the society asked a boy child or an male adult to stop acting or thinking like a woman, please, please & please, hold the society that sets such a standard responsible, Not the men that are groomed to be men. Naturally, women tend to seek love, caring, financial security and protection under the umbrella of a man. Do not put the blame on the men, put it on the women. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by WoundedLamb: 11:43pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
CumOnHer: Hhmm... but your comment doesn't really show you read mine at all. You just said the opposite of what I wrote. I said they're not disputing the fact that they are women but only challenging the idea that they're not supposed to do some things cause they're women. You think a woman wants to be called a man? I gave an example using a man since the question came from a man. That expression when taken out of context becomes useless. To understand why a lady wouldn't want to be told that, you must put into context. And people use that expression mostly to tell women what to do and what not to do thus the reason it has become limiting. A lady who just gave birth to twins wouldn't be upset when you tell her "dear, you're indeed a woman!" But when a lady desides to japa like everyone else or pursue her career to the fullest or contest for SUG president or speak up in public like everyone else or do any of those things men think are reserved for them, that's when you hear people say "you're a woman" or "don't you know you're a woman?" The person speaking is the one placing the limitation, the person objecting is only reacting to it. You get it now? 4 Likes |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 11:48pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
thorpido:I asked same question because he said "you're a woman" could either be complimentary or derision. If "You're a man" and " You're a child" are not derision, then why " you're a woman". I am almost sure every mother at a point, would have told their girl child " You're a girl".. 1 Like |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 11:50pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
WoundedLamb:NO |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 11:53pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
cococandy:Your mum would most likely have said to you " you're a girl" did you feel offended? Every mother would have told their girl child" You're a girl". Was it ill- intentioned? |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 11:56pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Palema007:Women don't have a big ego. |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by Nobody: 11:57pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
CumOnHer:Well I do. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by WoundedLamb: 11:58pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
CumOnHer:Ok. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 12:05am On Mar 19, 2022 |
Palema007:You don't. Your ego is recessive, men egos are dominant. know this and know peace. |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 12:06am On Mar 19, 2022 |
WoundedLamb:Your analogies are not agreeable. |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by WoundedLamb: 12:07am On Mar 19, 2022 |
CumOnHer:Ok 2 Likes |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by Nobody: 12:08am On Mar 19, 2022 |
CumOnHer: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by RightToReject(m): 12:22am On Mar 19, 2022 |
CumOnHer: Maybe a likely conversation between an inegalitarian man and a woman in a scenario like the following might help you understand better why a woman, whether reasonable or unreasonable, will feel angry when being reminded that she's a woman: State of the nation as the subject of discussion - The inegalitarian man - Nigeria can never get better, not now, and not in the future. - A woman - no, Nigeria might get better someday, after all, no condition is permanent. A good leader can easily turn the fortunes of the country and citizenry around. - The inegalitarian man - you are a woman. As you might observe from the conversation above, the inegalitarian man's last interjection wasn't obviously done in good faith, but to debase - of course, his demeanor and/or tone when saying that will definitely convey his true intention. Because he innately holds the belief that a woman is beneath a man in all indices; therefore, he wittingly or unwittingly concludes that she was talking nonsense. Whereas, realistically, from a rational and fair POV, the woman in the conversation made more sense than him. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by Haakeem(m): 12:35am On Mar 19, 2022 |
pocohantas:lubbish... No vexs me ![]() |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by Haakeem(m): 12:37am On Mar 19, 2022 |
Palema007:then i would explain it on a different way that would even leave yah smiling ![]() |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by Tallesty1(m): 5:30am On Mar 19, 2022 |
Telling a woman that she's a woman isn't what gets her angry. It is when it was said and how it was said that gets her angry. If you're in a group of women, broke and in need of cash and someone suddenly starts giving them 100k each. But when he gets to you he says, dude you're a man and leaves you with nothing, can you in all honesty say that you won't be sad? Telling a woman that she's a woman most times means shut up, this is not your place or you don't deserve this etc. Say the truth. E no hard 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by pocohantas(f): 6:41am On Mar 19, 2022 |
Tallesty1: Lol. It is actually very hard. One even had to say it is masculine women that hate it. The way these guys would lie through their teeth to defend/support trash sha. ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 7:26am On Mar 19, 2022 |
RightToReject:I found your choice of " inegalitarian" as an inappropriate description. Let's broaden the argument a bit. If you substitute the " inegalitarian man" for a "woman" and make the conversation a " woman to woman" conversation, would the outcome/reaction have been the same? 1 Like |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 7:50am On Mar 19, 2022 |
Tallesty1:Some men are trying to patronize women on this thread but it's all good tho. Have you considered that a broke man in the midst of a group of broke women would not get angry at being denied some wad of cash much as he would be when denied a 100k in the midst of a group of broke men. I wouldn't be angry when I am being reminded that I am a man in the midst of women but would scatter the table when you denied me what's meant for me in the midst of my fellow men. A clearer example is when a coat that is meant for a man, during cold season is passed on to a woman for warmth. During a cold season, when a boy or a man is told that "you're a man", give the coats to the women. No eyebrows is raised. The men suffer the cold to the chest just because they are men while the women hangs the coat around the chest just because they are women. A man in the midst of women is already at a disadvantage, meanwhile in the midst of his fellow men, it is the survival of the fittest. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by Mariangeles(f): 8:00am On Mar 19, 2022 |
CumOnHer: The question is would a woman say that to another woman during such a conversation? Or you just dey find talk where talk no dey? Iwo gan ro naa. Would it make any sense? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by Nobody: 8:10am On Mar 19, 2022 |
pocohantas: Well... I'm not surprised at your comment ![]() You are a woman after all ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 8:13am On Mar 19, 2022 |
Mariangeles:I would have you to be entirely honest. Is it uncommon for a woman to tell another woman that " you are a woman" and therefore "you can't do this, you can only do that". I have often heard women say to each other" I am a woman as you are, this is the way to go as a woman" Very importantly, I have asked but haven't gotten a response to my earlier question. Almost every mother tells their girl child " you are a girl". How different is it from "you are a woman"?. Did you get offended when your mum told you that? |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 8:21am On Mar 19, 2022 |
eyinjuege:You are indifferent. It is rather more reasonable to be indifferent than pander to unnecessary bandwagoning. |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by Mariangeles(f): 8:24am On Mar 19, 2022 |
CumOnHer: Ok. Wetin be your issue with women gangan? Because this your conversation don enter another dimension. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by thorpido(m): 8:28am On Mar 19, 2022 |
CumOnHer: Tallesty1:Saying the truth is patronizing? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 8:46am On Mar 19, 2022 |
Mariangeles:I thought we're discussing a topic |
Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by Mariangeles(f): 8:49am On Mar 19, 2022 |
CumOnHer: Not when you're not being straightforward. 2 Likes |
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