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abobote:
You opened the shop too fast, before you do something like that for a woman, make sure there's a benefit, after giving you a child so that if marriage scatter, you go hold something.
Some wives, ones you open something for them and they start seeing money, they will start dragging shoulder with you. 90% of the girls are totally different when you wife them. Even my own wife, I'm just managing her coz of the kids.
Calm down, collect the shop first, before proceeding with the divorce

Mrkumareze:
Marriage no be your mate, I don't know if you were ever told women are like local dog, if you can own a dog comfortably, then you can manage a woman...

seyz91:
There is no good side story to hear from snakes, they are all thesame

Snakes are all same, some just use cream to bleach themselve and look flashy to their customers but all na still same from the inside


Fear that gender

Nonexisting:
I have nothing much to say but let me use this opportunity and wish more violent tears to our amiable simps.

Daboomb:
You set up a Shop for her, meaning:
You Rented a Shop for her.
You put wares for sale, in the Shop or you paid for such wares
Both your names are on the Receipt of the Shop/

Now, the Shop was rented for 2yrs, most likely. Maybe you have One year or One and Half years left on the Shop.

Your problem is not much though, some of you SIMPS allow "love" to determine your decisions otherwise, the Shop should have been in your Name, until she has delivered at least Two Boys (after that, she don become proper Naija-used Tokunbo.

My Suggestion:
Dont take the Shop from her, just allow the Rent to run out anf allow the owner to decide to either collect the next Rent from her or allow her to use it for free, it is non of your headache.

Also, you should start Eating /Drinking from whatever it is you bought, to equip the Shop, till everything runs out.
If you furnished it with Beer, bring your friends like me around and we will drink the Shop "empty", within a few weeks.
If it is a Provision Shop, you should be dashing everybody you know, one thing or the other from the Shop afteral, na your Money kill am.

So, my friend, stop dragging trouble with Women when you can just apply simple, simple solutions.
I wish you the best, in your next encounter with Women.

BRATISLAVA:
We are either reading from a clown OP or the living monument of a foolish, stupid man.

Isn't this the same guy who locked his wife outside their house all night, after 2 months of marriage, and she ran away just last week? He's an abusive person. He has only been married 10 months yet is lying that it's a year.

The guy is terrible for any marriage. Filled with ego, hatred and pettiness. From his hateful mocking thread he created to shame his ex, to his controlling evil behavior with his wife, what else does he have to offer except play victim here?

Most of the men who bring topics here are just evil, broken, crooked beings looking for support from senseless broken ones.

Anyone who is in a relationship with him must be blind, desperate or stupid as well.

sweetonugbu:
Leave the shop for her.

brosom:
This one na medicine after death,

Let her be with the shop and take whatever that is left of u and leave.


Can't imagine how someone would pretend to be cool for a whole 2 years during relationship/courtship, only to unleashe sapentery behavior under one year after marriage.
I don't know why we equate courtship with marriage. There is wide difference between the two. Know this as a fact. If you like court for 25 years and marry for just one year, some qualities not known during the long year of courtship will still be unravelled. For how many year did our mama and papa of the old court before marriage? It annoys when they say marriage collapses and people blame the couple for rushing into marriage without courting.

Brian47:
All these marriage wahala I read on Narialand everyday, I'm scared for marriage.

SocialJustice:
He's the lowest quality of men out there and his destruction will happen in this life. People who live like this, naturally live very unfulfilling lives.

Nacoss25:
I bring greetings to you all. I want to make this brief as possible.

I and my wife are married for a year now and since incception of the marriage it looks like the person I married is not the person I dated for two years, now due to series of issues that shows clearly that we are not compatible for marriage, and I have decided to end the marriage.

While the marriage was going on I set up a shop for her and I want to retrieve it from her but my problem is. She is with the shop receipt which I gave her after paying for it.

My name is Mike osundu and my wife name is Theresa though not real name. On the receipt it was written Theresa Mike Osundu.
I want to ask is it possible for my wife to lay claim on the shop.

No insult pls, only matured responds. Thanks

Nacoss25:
I bring greetings to you all. I want to make this brief as possible.

I and my wife are married for a year now and since incception of the marriage it looks like the person I married is not the person I dated for two years, now due to series of issues that shows clearly that we are not compatible for marriage, and I have decided to end the marriage.

While the marriage was going on I set up a shop for her and I want to retrieve it from her but my problem is. She is with the shop receipt which I gave her after paying for it.

My name is Mike osundu and my wife name is Theresa though not real name. On the receipt it was written Theresa Mike Osundu.
I want to ask is it possible for my wife to lay claim on the shop.

No insult pls, only matured responds. Thanks

Rapture4real:
I agree. If you want to react to what your wife does to you, you won't live long. There is no man that is compatible to any man.Ive been married for almost 17 yrs now.Na manage we dey manage a woman. I can agree a man divorces his wife if she does two things
1. A chronic adulterer. If she does it once by mistake, you can forgive her.
2.A witch commissioned to kill you. If she is a witch but she doesn't use her witchcraft to toment you, it's okay.

Let me add one more. She is a chronic fighter who brings disgrace to you everyday that you only go to police station or community meeting because of her.
If she doesn't do any of the above,my friend dey manage am with Thanksgiving. There is a demon that follows women to marriage. They are okay when dating or courting them. But once they enter marriage,the demon from the garden of Eden that sent their great ancestor from the garden will just possess them.

torqque7:
Next time before you open you mouth anyhow to make general insulting accertions of people you don't even know,you better think well otherwise il be there to whoop your ass again. Now get the fucckk outa here,I can smell your stench all the way.

Nacoss25:
I bring greetings to you all. I want to make this brief as possible.

I and my wife are married for a year now and since incception of the marriage it looks like the person I married is not the person I dated for two years, now due to series of issues that shows clearly that we are not compatible for marriage, and I have decided to end the marriage.

While the marriage was going on I set up a shop for her and I want to retrieve it from her but my problem is. She is with the shop receipt which I gave her after paying for it.

My name is Mike osundu and my wife name is Theresa though not real name. On the receipt it was written Theresa Mike Osundu.
I want to ask is it possible for my wife to lay claim on the shop.

No insult pls, only matured responds. Thanks

brosom:
Both of'em dated for 2 years right?

Only for one of them to unleashe sapentery threat under one year of marriage.

So nope, not siding with Op, neither siding with the said wife as I'm sure one of them is the sapent.

Nacoss25:
I bring greetings to you all. I want to make this brief as possible.

I and my wife are married for a year now and since incception of the marriage it looks like the person I married is not the person I dated for two years, now due to series of issues that shows clearly that we are not compatible for marriage, and I have decided to end the marriage.

While the marriage was going on I set up a shop for her and I want to retrieve it from her but my problem is. She is with the shop receipt which I gave her after paying for it.

My name is Mike osundu and my wife name is Theresa though not real name. On the receipt it was written Theresa Mike Osundu.
I want to ask is it possible for my wife to lay claim on the shop.

No insult pls, only matured responds. Thanks

brosom:
This one na medicine after death,

Let her be with the shop and take whatever that is left of u and leave.


Can't imagine how someone would pretend to be cool for a whole 2 years during relationship/courtship, only to unleashe sapentery behavior under one year after marriage.

Boss there is no pretence....if OP no see red flag during there dating period, mek I naked baff.

I keep on saying it...wen people are in a relationship, there decisions are 90% emotional......they will see red flag and cover it.

Sex and money removed in a relationship, you will see the true person you are dealing with.

I don talk ma own

Candidlady:


Y'all will drop a post then end it will "no insult only mature minds please"...


You the op are you acting maturely yourself ?

Leave the shop for her get your divorce and move on.... The rent will expire!!!
°°°°reason ifind it hard to collect anything from this gender... Call it me being proud your business °°°°°


Una go dey run go marry only to end erthing again...


You meet a guy/girl today four months after you get married... Rubbish..


°°°°you just ruined my smoke this early morning°°°°

Mercychen:
You see, the problem with some people is, they only see the change in other people but fail to see they also changed.

Situations and circumstances make people change and for all he knows he may be the reason behind the change in her. Some men can bring out the demon in you.

To tell you that he too has his own, why didn't he state what actually happened in details. He just said she changed and we are supposed to see her as a devil. My brother, forget! The story is one sided. So I can't really say if the OP is being truthful about you accusations.


Men most times are the cause of sudden change in women.

Nacoss25:
I bring greetings to you all. I want to make this brief as possible.

I and my wife are married for a year now and since incception of the marriage it looks like the person I married is not the person I dated for two years, now due to series of issues that shows clearly that we are not compatible for marriage, and I have decided to end the marriage.

While the marriage was going on I set up a shop for her and I want to retrieve it from her but my problem is. She is with the shop receipt which I gave her after paying for it.

My name is Mike osundu and my wife name is Theresa though not real name. On the receipt it was written Theresa Mike Osundu.
I want to ask is it possible for my wife to lay claim on the shop.

No insult pls, only matured responds. Thanks

Nacoss25:
I bring greetings to you all. I want to make this brief as possible.

I and my wife are married for a year now and since incception of the marriage it looks like the person I married is not the person I dated for two years, now due to series of issues that shows clearly that we are not compatible for marriage, and I have decided to end the marriage.

While the marriage was going on I set up a shop for her and I want to retrieve it from her but my problem is. She is with the shop receipt which I gave her after paying for it.

My name is Mike osundu and my wife name is Theresa though not real name. On the receipt it was written Theresa Mike Osundu.
I want to ask is it possible for my wife to lay claim on the shop.

No insult pls, only matured responds. Thanks

Candidlady:


Y'all will drop a post then end it will "no insult only mature minds please"...


You the op are you acting maturely yourself ?

Leave the shop for her get your divorce and move on.... The rent will expire!!!
°°°°reason ifind it hard to collect anything from this gender... Call it me being proud your business °°°°°


Una go dey run go marry only to end erthing again...


You meet a guy/girl today four months after you get married... Rubbish..


°°°°you just ruined my smoke this early morning°°°°

Lalami3232:
Oga, leave the shop for her na. What about the goods wey dey inside the shop, which name na you take buy am? If person come nairaland eeh, to marry go dey make am fear. This na the worst platform to ever visit if you want to uplift your soul. Immediately you come here, na 100% negativity back to back. Oga, leave the shop for her, na beg we dey. Make she no begin do ashawo after divorce. If na oyibo land, dem even suppose share all the property and give her a substantial sum. Once again, bros just leave her with the shop.

I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "nairaland news dey get psychological effects"