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Please Help Me everyone , How Do I Stop Being Friendzoned? by Failure44: 12:38pm On Mar 19, 2022
This is an issue that seriously annoying me, I have been friendzoned 3 times.
Now let me break this down.
The first girl told me she had a crush on me and found me very attractive even up to call me her ideal man, rating me 7-8/10.
Now the second girl as well, said she found me extremely attractive and among the cutest guys she knows but yet I still ended up being friendzoned when I tried to have sex( but she wanted a relationship)

Third girl: First night she immediately complimented my looks and did it constantly at times but at the end of day, she doesn't want to have sex only wants to be friends with me because she sees me as a friend.

Now, As you can see.
Attraction isn't the issue because all 3 girls have claimed to find me very attractive but yet I always end in the friendzone which is annoying.

What am I doing wrong?

I honestly did some self evaluation i feel it might be because I talk to girls like I talk to my male friends, very casually and friendly even calling them "guy" at times.

Could this be the reason?

I would prefer replies from the women to know
Re: Please Help Me everyone , How Do I Stop Being Friendzoned? by Jeon(f): 12:40pm On Mar 19, 2022
YOU SAID YOU ARE HANDSOME, BUT WHERE IS UR PHOTO?

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Re: Please Help Me everyone , How Do I Stop Being Friendzoned? by cutecommend: 12:40pm On Mar 19, 2022
You are not a failure...

Be tough, real and a bit "careless" with ladies... Ladies are sometimes attracted to "careless" people...If you are too organized and calm, you may be friendzoned...

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Re: Please Help Me everyone , How Do I Stop Being Friendzoned? by Itohanmiwa: 1:06pm On Mar 19, 2022
Don't give a Bleep about them. Like Hussle said. 'Imma live like it's my last day, don't worry bout no bitches we don't have, baby i'm so focused on this cash'. And learn to say a resounding and sharp no if your answer to their every request is yes.
Re: Please Help Me everyone , How Do I Stop Being Friendzoned? by Failure44: 1:52pm On Mar 19, 2022
Jeon:
YOU SAID YOU ARE HANDSOME, BUT WHERE IS UR PHOTO?
I never said I was, I said that's what the women in question tell me.
Re: Please Help Me everyone , How Do I Stop Being Friendzoned? by Truvelisback(m): 2:24pm On Mar 19, 2022
Jeon:
YOU SAID YOU ARE HANDSOME, BUT WHERE IS UR PHOTO?
Do u want to friendzone him too?

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Re: Please Help Me everyone , How Do I Stop Being Friendzoned? by Jeon(f): 2:26pm On Mar 19, 2022
Truvelisback:
Do u want to friendzone him too?

HE IS NOT A GAY.


SO HE CAN'T BE AROUND MY ZONE.

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Re: Please Help Me everyone , How Do I Stop Being Friendzoned? by Truvelisback(m): 2:30pm On Mar 19, 2022
Jeon:

HE IS NOT A GAY.

SO HE CAN'T BE AROUND MY ZONE.
U are a gay.
Re: Please Help Me everyone , How Do I Stop Being Friendzoned? by Failure44: 2:35pm On Mar 19, 2022
Na wa ooo
Re: Please Help Me everyone , How Do I Stop Being Friendzoned? by Nobody: 2:47pm On Mar 19, 2022
Oga, stop being nice and gentle towards girls.

Be selfie, Be alpha person, no send no poo, don't be needy, don't be available all the time. Make her know she's not the only one, but show her love. Use the exact words on her don't paraphrase. Fvck is fvck, kiss is kiss. Smooch is smooch, don't do parental guidance. Don't be slow to say what you want. With these and many more your bad boy/redpiller life is loading. Dress neat remember you come first.

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Re: Please Help Me everyone , How Do I Stop Being Friendzoned? by iLegendd(m): 3:15pm On Mar 19, 2022
Failure44:

I would prefer replies from the women to know

By reading the book Mr. Friendzone. I give you 24 hours, your life will never remain the same.

Download the free version here https://shop.wetclef.com/blog/2019/05/30/download-mr-friendzone/

Don't forget to thank me later.

Re: Please Help Me everyone , How Do I Stop Being Friendzoned? by iLegendd(m): 3:18pm On Mar 19, 2022
Re: Please Help Me everyone , How Do I Stop Being Friendzoned? by Ekoblendedsince: 3:20pm On Mar 19, 2022
Bro... I no even know wetin to tell you other than God loves you.
Re: Please Help Me everyone , How Do I Stop Being Friendzoned? by Nonywendy(m): 3:23pm On Mar 19, 2022
Failure44:
This is an issue that seriously annoying me, I have been friendzoned 3 times.
Now let me break this down.
The first girl told me she had a crush on me and found me very attractive even up to call me her ideal man, rating me 7-8/10.
Now the second girl as well, said she found me extremely attractive and among the cutest guys she knows but yet I still ended up being friendzoned when I tried to have sex( but she wanted a relationship)

Third girl: First night she immediately complimented my looks and did it constantly at times but at the end of day, she doesn't want to have sex only wants to be friends with me because she sees me as a friend.

Now, As you can see.
Attraction isn't the issue because all 3 girls have claimed to find me very attractive but yet I always end in the friendzone which is annoying.

What am I doing wrong?

I honestly did some self evaluation i feel it might be because I talk to girls like I talk to my male friends, very casually and friendly even calling them "guy" at times.

Could this be the reason?

I would prefer replies from the women to know
wash ur face and try again later. Maybe SIMPson is written all over it face

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