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Good evening all,

I will need your inputs on this.

I work from home and my girlfriend do too. We have been dating for 2 years and I intend to marry her.

I understand she is not my wife. Lately, we have been spending more time together. Most times, we spend months, weeks together.

Anytime we are together, We both do the chores, she cleans, I mob. She cooks, I go to market to buy foodstuffs I cook too, we both wash the dishes.

But Lately I have noticed that I can't say No to her..It always results in a fight. She sees everything as a red flag.

For instance, we planned to go market together today to get some foodstuffs and I changed my mind that I wasn't going again because I wasn't in a good frame of mind and I was also angry because of some words she used on me prior to that moment. She refused to go to the market alone, instead, she packed her bag and left my house.

Another instance is that I lent her money twice but has not paid. She tried borrowing the third time and I refused, that led to a problem too . N.B she is not broke.

Should I be worried or not?

Mph2022:
Good evening all,

I will need your inputs on this.

I work from home and my girlfriend do too. We have been dating for 2 years and I intend to marry her.

I understand she is not my wife. Lately, we have been spending more time together. Most times, we spend months, weeks together.

Anytime we are together, We both do the chores, she cleans, I mob. She cooks, I go to market to buy foodstuffs I cook too, we both washes the dishes.

But Lately I have noticed that I can't say No to her..It always results in a fight. She sees everything as a red flag.

For instance, we planned to go market together today to get some foodstuffs and I changed my mind that I wasn't going again because I wasn't in a good frame of mind and I was also angry because of some words she used on me prior to that moment. She refused to go to the market alone, instead, she packed her bag and left my house.

Another instance is that I lent her money twice but has not paid. She tried borrowing the third time and I refused, that led to a problem too . N.B she is not broke.

Should I be worried or not?

Love potion.

You said, lately you've noticed that you can't say NO to her... and you went further to give instances where you literally stood your grounds against her will.... What's your point here?


Anyway, I don't see you guys having any issue... just childishness disturbing both of you.... And I foresee a simp in you....

Despite the fact that u two share or do chores together...as the man of the house, u have to make decisions and stand by it... Else she will keep manipulating u that's what women does...

Simpy noise maker! You should be worried indeed, she has been addicted seeing you do the house chores with her, hence! When you get married to her and refused to continue doing the shit you started, that would be a wahala.

Anyways the meme for both of us below.

Una still dey do lovey dovey with Nigerian girls


This is one of the reasons I always advice against men helping women in kitchen things. Women always abuse privilege. When you try to help out, she will automatically assume it's your duty.

Your mumu never do abi no be juju be that

Mph2022:
Good evening all,

I will need your inputs on this.

I work from home and my girlfriend do too. We have been dating for 2 years and I intend to marry her.

I understand she is not my wife. Lately, we have been spending more time together. Most times, we spend months, weeks together.

Anytime we are together, We both do the chores, she cleans, I mob. She cooks, I go to market to buy foodstuffs I cook too, we both wash the dishes.

But Lately I have noticed that I can't say No to her..It always results in a fight. She sees everything as a red flag.

For instance, we planned to go market together today to get some foodstuffs and I changed my mind that I wasn't going again because I wasn't in a good frame of mind and I was also angry because of some words she used on me prior to that moment. She refused to go to the market alone, instead, she packed her bag and left my house.

Another instance is that I lent her money twice but has not paid. She tried borrowing the third time and I refused, that led to a problem too . N.B she is not broke.

Should I be worried or not?

The kind of relationship you are in, showing no clear leader, with this u re calling for anarchy , as guy perhaps future husband, u must exact ur authority, helping her doing house chore always had reduced u substantially, if you want to help, u do that occasionally.

And for the money, from this very beginning, make sure roles are clearly defined and boundaries are not crossed unnecessarily, if not, if u eventually married, it will definitely become toxic and the marriage may hit the rock.

Mph2022:
Good evening all,

I will need your inputs on this.

I work from home and my girlfriend do too. We have been dating for 2 years and I intend to marry her.

I understand she is not my wife. Lately, we have been spending more time together. Most times, we spend months, weeks together.

Anytime we are together, We both do the chores, she cleans, I mob. She cooks, I go to market to buy foodstuffs I cook too, we both wash the dishes.

But Lately I have noticed that I can't say No to her..It always results in a fight. She sees everything as a red flag.

For instance, we planned to go market together today to get some foodstuffs and I changed my mind that I wasn't going again because I wasn't in a good frame of mind and I was also angry because of some words she used on me prior to that moment. She refused to go to the market alone, instead, she packed her bag and left my house.

Another instance is that I lent her money twice but has not paid. She tried borrowing the third time and I refused, that led to a problem too . N.B she is not broke.

Should I be worried or not?

You're dealing with an upcoming psychopath, run nigga run!

I would break up with her if I was in your shoes ...

Op, I presume that this girl has already locked your brain inside heineken beer bottle

Damnnn!!! Why would u lend ur girlfriend money?

I literally can’t do that tho. I only give out what I can afford.

Mph2022:
Good evening all,

I will need your inputs on this.

I work from home and my girlfriend do too. We have been dating for 2 years and I intend to marry her.

I understand she is not my wife. Lately, we have been spending more time together. Most times, we spend months, weeks together.

Anytime we are together, We both do the chores, she cleans, I mob. She cooks, I go to market to buy foodstuffs I cook too, we both wash the dishes.

But Lately I have noticed that I can't say No to her..It always results in a fight. She sees everything as a red flag.

For instance, we planned to go market together today to get some foodstuffs and I changed my mind that I wasn't going again because I wasn't in a good frame of mind and I was also angry because of some words she used on me prior to that moment. She refused to go to the market alone, instead, she packed her bag and left my house.

Another instance is that I lent her money twice but has not paid. She tried borrowing the third time and I refused, that led to a problem too . N.B she is not broke.

Should I be worried or not?

I have not heard her own side of the story. All I will say is give her space, then you two will have time to decide if this is what you would like to take to the next level or not.

Assist them with house chores,they abuse privilege and want to turn u to a f**king simp.