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placeofallure:
Some people value their space a lot. They don't want encroachment. Me too. Then you have to tell her. I give my friends or even hubby the silent treatment at times. It doesn't mean I hate them or they have offended me, it's my naturalness coming to fore - I am an introvert!

Don't toy with her especially now that she's given you her most prized possession. Just tell her to go easy on the calls Lobatan! That's if you love her like you claim. If your intentions are ignoble, you will get your comeuppance.

Got you. I love her but the attachment is just too much for me to bear so I'm wearing out.

Deadmeat:
The girl I met last month, I just disvirgined her 3 days ago.
It all started when me and my guy went to her mom's shop to chill on some drinks.
She was the one that attended to us, omo this girl be my spec, beautiful, chocolate skin, love shaped ass.
After attending to us I asked for her number, her mom was sitting there and I wasn't ashamed. She replied "I don't have a phone", how can a fine girl like you don't a have a phone I asked. Then she smiled, I assured her I was going to get her a phone. 2 days later, I got her an Android phone omo she was very happy and her mom too. Her mom already liking me for my mind I just want to hit and run.
After I got her the phone, we've been chatting, calling then I asked her out omo she no wan gree at first I Sha pressured her she later accepted but say no sex I Sha agreed me wey be say I be sharp guy. Right from the onset I knew she was a virgin, I could see it in her eyes so innocent.

I sha been giving her loving you and all that, her mom and her sisters already know we are dating all of them don liked me based on the fact that I am a G.
She couldn't go out alone some times she Will tell me to take permission from her mom.
I took her out 3 times, first time I took her to eatery, I bought food for her. Second time I took her to lodge scoped her I don't feel like going home that very day we smooch and kissed.

Third time I took her out omo she no wan gree for me I come scoped her, gave her some sweet words omo she come later gree but said I should promise her I am going to marry her and I won't Bleep up omo na so I agreed o.
I made a promise then I forced my way in, it wasn't easy I had to forced my d*ck to break the hymen.

After the do she no dey allow me rest, calling, texting me upandan.
My issues is, how do I let her know I just wanted to chop and clean mouth?
And I already made a promise will that promise hunt me in future?

Na so una dey buy Market if your tory were true ... Fvck up and Go to Hell

It ain't gonna remain the same again dude:

It is what it is:

Deadmeat:
lol I am not a coward I love her I am not just ready for commitment yet and one of my issues is, I get tired easily when someone calls me too much and her own is becoming extra ordinary, I just like my peace and quiet

You Like Your peace and quite but can never keep your JT in peace and Quite ....

Who gets Peace of Mind and Quite when You Stirs Bees Nests ... You don't inflict Confusion on another fellow and expect Peace Bro ...

Na her jeje she siddon you carry phone give her, She tell you no sex, you gree come later scoop am for sex and she tell you you go marry am after the sex, you Hoha .. Enter into Ocean and come back with post nut clarity but now you want Peace and Quite

Another Boy about to be taught how to be a Man ... You too cross many Red-Lines jare ... Take Responsibility for Your actions or Get Punished so that You use your Head next time not allowing the JT to control your situations that's if the punishment no kee you self.

Welcome On Board the Journey to think before making a Move: Na girl dey help shape a Man:

Cardealer2021:
See babe nothing like karma here he toast her and she agreed, they both had sex and the op even paid her also(bought her a phone)
I'm not understanding where the op did wrong

He promised No Sex, he sex
He Promised Marriage but now wants peace of mind and quietness

Redflags: Going back on those promises for a girl in that level who may not find another love as Op and the virginity too is much to bear for a Girl child in poverty(Can't even afford phone):

If she used her poverty state swear for Op e go be like Chameleon launched Tongues at Insects, na Magnet

SenecaTheYonger:
Just pray she doesn’t curse you sha because na here you go come pray for money to threat your ailment

That's if the curse even manifested sharp sharpally make e no be slow poison kinda

DonroxyII:
That's if the curse even manifested sharp sharpally make e no be slow poison kinda

slow poison as how? My fear is even how her mom and her sisters would feel about it because they already thought I was going to marry her cos I gave them the impression. Her mom could go fetish because of it, I don't trust that woman. But I don't care, after all, if I was poor she wouldn't allow me get close to her daughter

Deadmeat:
slow poison as how? My fear is even how her mom and her sisters would feel about it because they already thought I was going to marry her cos I gave them the impression. Her mom could go fetish because of it, I don't trust that woman. But I don't care, after all, if I was poor she wouldn't allow me get close to her daughter

, Don't Worry! You will care when You become a Man. The Boy inside of You is still Reeling U wan dey Bambam, U wan dey Kitikiti-katakata

Boys don't take responsibilities but Man Do: If you ain't a Man, Don't do what Men Do ... I Wish Jah to be Soft on You as you dey roll because Na Journey you enter So

Deadmeat:
The girl I met last month, I just disvirgined her 3 days ago.
It all started when me and my guy went to her mom's shop to chill on some drinks.
She was the one that attended to us, omo this girl be my spec, beautiful, chocolate skin, love shaped ass.
After attending to us I asked for her number, her mom was sitting there and I wasn't ashamed. She replied "I don't have a phone", how can a fine girl like you don't a have a phone I asked. Then she smiled, I assured her I was going to get her a phone. 2 days later, I got her an Android phone omo she was very happy and her mom too. Her mom already liking me because I appeared a quiet gentle guy for my mind I just want to hit and run.
After I got her the phone, we've been chatting, calling then I asked her out omo she no wan gree at first I Sha pressured her she later accepted but say no sex I Sha agreed me wey be say I be sharp guy. Right from the onset I knew she was a virgin, I could see it in her eyes so innocent.

I sha been giving her loving you and all that, her mom and her sisters already know we are dating all of them don liked me based on the fact that I am a G.
She couldn't go out alone some times she Will tell me to take permission from her mom.
I took her out 3 times, first time I took her to eatery, I bought food for her. Second time I took her to lodge scoped her I don't feel like going home that very day we smooch and kissed.

Third time I took her out omo she no wan gree for me I come scoped her, gave her some sweet words omo she come later gree but said I should promise her I am going to marry her and I won't Bleep up omo na so I agreed o.
I made a promise then I forced my way in, it wasn't easy I had to forced my d*ck to break the hymen.

After the do she no dey allow me rest again, calling, texting me upandan.
My issues is, how do I let her know I just wanted to chop and clean mouth? After all, if I am poor her mom and sisters wouldn't allow me near her.
And I already made a promise will that promise hunt me in future?

The only part wey you no try na that promise you make... I agree with you say na because you get money them allow you to dey close to the girl .. anyway na your cross, carry am... Maybe that's how how you been destined to leave this world ...

Any one who disvirgins a girl is a thief.The rightful husband is suppose to disvirgin the girl and not any guy.
This is just the truth.
Sex is a Good gift from God but satan is stealing and peverting it all around.
It has become an ostracized thin now.
May God have mercy on you.

But even if I don't, someone will still disvirgined her. May not even be her husband

Rosement:
How old is the girl? Is she a minor? I don't understand how she was carried away by just mere words.

Oh, you want us to advice you. If anybody tells you that law of karma exist don't listen to the person, don't you know you can reap apple after sowing bitter kola? Don't worry about the future you can easily get away with your reckless ways, ride on.

what karma happend to eve after giving the simp Adam the forbidden fruit

It depends on who the girl is anyway but at that point of breaking promises you can't escape anything that girl decides or say to you. If that girl goes diabolic you will be definitely in for it.

Rosement:
How old is the girl? Is she a minor? I don't understand how she was carried away by just mere words.

Oh, you want us to advice you. If anybody tells you that law of karma exist don't listen to the person, don't you know you can reap apple after sowing bitter kola? Don't worry about the future you can easily get away with your reckless ways, ride on.

If shes not a teenager how would she be a virgin

Deadmeat:
But even if I don't, someone will still disvirgined her. May not even be her husband

Yes someone would still take her virginity.

But you lied to take it. You knowingly made a false promise. You deceived her. You took her innocence.

Now think about it... Will you be okay if someone treats your future daughter the exact way you treated this girl??

Your answer should tell you all you need to know.

Deadmeat:
The girl I met last month, I just disvirgined her 3 days ago.
It all started when me and my guy went to her mom's shop to chill on some drinks.
She was the one that attended to us, omo this girl be my spec, beautiful, chocolate skin, love shaped ass.
After attending to us I asked for her number, her mom was sitting there and I wasn't ashamed. She replied "I don't have a phone", how can a fine girl like you don't a have a phone I asked. Then she smiled, I assured her I was going to get her a phone. 2 days later, I got her an Android phone omo she was very happy and her mom too. Her mom already liking me because I appeared a quiet gentle guy for my mind I just want to hit and run.
After I got her the phone, we've been chatting, calling then I asked her out omo she no wan gree at first I Sha pressured her she later accepted but say no sex I Sha agreed me wey be say I be sharp guy. Right from the onset I knew she was a virgin, I could see it in her eyes so innocent.

I sha been giving her loving you and all that, her mom and her sisters already know we are dating all of them don liked me based on the fact that I am a G.
She couldn't go out alone some times she Will tell me to take permission from her mom.
I took her out 3 times, first time I took her to eatery, I bought food for her. Second time I took her to lodge scoped her I don't feel like going home that very day we smooch and kissed.

Third time I took her out omo she no wan gree for me I come scoped her, gave her some sweet words omo she come later gree but said I should promise her I am going to marry her and I won't Bleep up omo na so I agreed o.
I made a promise then I forced my way in, it wasn't easy I had to forced my d*ck to break the hymen.

After the do she no dey allow me rest again, calling, texting me upandan.
My issues is, how do I let her know I just wanted to chop and clean mouth? After all, if I am poor her mom and sisters wouldn't allow me near her.
And I already made a promise will that promise hunt me in future?

You have already achieved your aim

Tell her that you are no longer interested in the relationship

I don't blame her I blame the parents that made her sold he virginity for an android phone

Though you try gifting her a phone

Stop promising women, you may end up shooting yourself in the leg

frozen70:
You have already achieved your aim

Tell her that you are no longer interested in the relationship

I don't blame her I blame the parents that made her sold he virginity for an android phone

Though you try gifting her a phone

Stop promising women, you may end up shooting yourself in the leg

don't get me wrong, I didn't only bought her an Android phone, I also showered her with so much love and care and she fell completely, I like her but my other issues apart from the promise is that I enticed her with material things just to get her cos my initial plan was to just fvck, her mom and sisters already think I will marry her they're even happy thoughts she's will be getting married to a gentle, rich guy. I just felt is not right getting along with someone you enticed with material things because they will be expecting too much from me? And if I am a poor guy would they have allowed me even get close to her because I've seen many guys lurking around my girl and her sisters but her mom is very strict about them coming close maybe because they're poor and don't have a ride or would she have loved me? This is what been going on my head.
I know the huge mistake I made is promising her

Bellotelli:
If shes not a teenager how would she be a virgin

Stop deceiving yourself, it is just a decision, so it is not difficult or impossible for a lady to be a virgin. Ladies don't have to go to uni for four years to achieve being a virgin. She is not struggling for it, she already has it, so she can decide to kept it. it is just a simple decision, it is easier than going to a restaurant to buy pizza.

A comrade after my own heart.

Let us be sincere with one another here.
1. If you dont have money would she have looked your side and her family?
2.With out the android phone , would she have said yes to you?
am not supporting you , pls people are precious we should grow pass taking advantage of one another pls

Deadmeat:
The girl I met last month, I just disvirgined her 3 days ago.
It all started when me and my guy went to her mom's shop to chill on some drinks.
She was the one that attended to us, omo this girl be my spec, beautiful, chocolate skin, love shaped ass.
After attending to us I asked for her number, her mom was sitting there and I wasn't ashamed. She replied "I don't have a phone", how can a fine girl like you don't a have a phone I asked. Then she smiled, I assured her I was going to get her a phone. 2 days later, I got her an Android phone omo she was very happy and her mom too. Her mom already liking me because I appeared a quiet gentle guy for my mind I just want to hit and run.
After I got her the phone, we've been chatting, calling then I asked her out omo she no wan gree at first I Sha pressured her she later accepted but say no sex I Sha agreed me wey be say I be sharp guy. Right from the onset I knew she was a virgin, I could see it in her eyes so innocent.

I sha been giving her loving you and all that, her mom and her sisters already know we are dating all of them don liked me based on the fact that I am a G.
She couldn't go out alone some times she Will tell me to take permission from her mom.
I took her out 3 times, first time I took her to eatery, I bought food for her. Second time I took her to lodge scoped her I don't feel like going home that very day we smooch and kissed.

Third time I took her out omo she no wan gree for me I come scoped her, gave her some sweet words omo she come later gree but said I should promise her I am going to marry her and I won't Bleep up omo na so I agreed o.
I made a promise then I forced my way in, it wasn't easy I had to forced my d*ck to break the hymen.

After the do she no dey allow me rest again, calling, texting me upandan.
My issues is, how do I let her know I just wanted to chop and clean mouth? After all, if I am poor her mom and sisters wouldn't allow me near her.
And I already made a promise will that promise hunt me in future?

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My guy y naah.

Inasmuch as i follow 4 hit & run guyz,,i no go fit advise u to go 4 virgin gals.
Let alone promise and fail,, that pain wey she receive from you tearing up thingz go follow u up,, back to back,,if you no go set things right(marry and mek her comfortable).


U don buy market o,,no de reason virgin gals,,,,,maka ndu gi

Deadmeat:
don't get me wrong, I didn't only bought her an Android phone, I also showered her with so much love and care and she fell completely, I like her but my other issues apart from the promise is that I enticed her with material things just to get her cos my initial plan was to just fvck, her mom and sisters already think I will marry her they're even happy thoughts she's will be getting married to a gentle, rich guy. I just felt is not right getting along with someone you enticed with material things because they will be expecting too much from me? And if I am a poor guy would they have allowed me even get close to her because I've seen many guys lurking around my girl and her sisters but her mom is very strict about them coming close maybe because they're poor and don't have a ride or would she have loved me? This is what been going on my head.
I know the huge mistake I made is promising her

Am glad that you are the one advising yourself