Theres this one auntie that always has something hurtful to say.

Do you all whitness such behaviour in nigerian families from your sister in law and what does that mean when they are constantly trying to slight u?

Please tell me have you ever been very slighted by one of your in laws and what does that mean

To round up she slights a lot of people has very rude remarks but says it with a smile so people cant say anything. Do you know what I mean? Please help cause honestly I never want to see this Auntie again.

Confusions everywhere!

My dear, your write up reeks of envy! You are just envious of the woman and you will find it upleasant to admit.

Which kind wahala be this God ��

Shebi you called her a sister in law?

Eh hen naw, it's her sister you are married to. Maybe they were talk mates aforenow and all that because nothing in your write-up shows she hates you.

Of course, it's normal! There are things sisters only want to discuss with their sisters alone when the husband is at a distance! You may be their hero in good discussion...but here you are in reality being paranoid with your four-corner head!


Bring your overseas ego down...na Naija you come. We wey don sabi all these things no bi goat. You are feeling over-security conscious when you never jam the wahala.

Nwodosis:
My dear, your write up reeks of envy! You are just envious of the woman and you will find it upleasant to admit.

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Why say so, don't you know there are a lot of damaged people in the society who tries to bring others to the level of their messed up life? Those kind of people should even be pitied.

Aunties in law always doing the most, Them no fit even tell me nonsense.

Nwodosis:
My dear, your write up reeks of envy! You are just envious of the woman and you will find it upleasant to admit.

Just tell us that you don't understand what the OP is trying to say.
Nobody will insult you

Hi!

Thats actually the strange part.. they are related by marriage :/ all the biological sisters are nice and the mom. We get along as best we can. But this in law by marriage where shes targeting me doesnt make sense.

chatinent:
Shebi you called her a sister in law?

Eh hen naw, it's her sister you are married to. Maybe they were talk mates aforenow and all that because nothing in your write-up shows she hates you.

Of course, it's normal! There are things sisters only want to discuss with their sisters alone when the husband is at a distance! You may be their hero in good discussion...but here you are in reality being paranoid with your four-corner head!


Bring your overseas ego down...na Naija you come. We wey don sabi all these things no bi goat. You are feeling over-security conscious when you never jam the wahala.

shilenji:
Aunties in law always doing the most, Them no fit even tell me nonsense.

What do u do to spare yourself the wahala? Any tips? I like living in peace

Money really commands respect, a lot. Something disrespects will just evaporate because you have money.

JonOfAustrlia:


What do u do to spare yourself the wahala? Any tips? I like living in peace

JonOfAustrlia:
Theres this one auntie that always has something hurtful to say.
Do you all whitness such behaviour in nigerian families from your sister in law and what does that mean when they are constantly trying to slight u?
Please tell me have you ever been very slighted by one of your in laws and what does that mean
To round up she slights a lot of people has very rude remarks but says it with a smile so people cant say anything. Do you know what I mean? Please help cause honestly I never want to see this Auntie again.

Be more specific... what is an examples of things she said that did not sit well with you in particular?

JonOfAustrlia:
Hi! Thats actually the strange part.. they are related by marriage :/ all the biological sisters are nice and the mom. We get along as best we can. But this in law by marriage where shes targeting me doesnt make sense.

How so?

JonOfAustrlia:
What do u do to spare yourself the wahala? Any tips? I like living in peace

Does this also mean you love living in denial? Explain some of the things she says make we understand.

Is she the brutally honest kind? Is that why she shriek whenever she says what she does?

My Sister inlaw is as smooth as the devil itself, but I always beat her to her game! Like you said, she says something evil with I smile, Me I no dey smile, I dey give her back to back. After sometime, since she couldn't face me, she started calling my parents to insult them, till my elder sister put a stop to that rubbish!

Recently, I gave her a trailer load of my sharp venomous mouth, she started gathering people to beat me up, but you know, once you are BIGGER, you are BIGGER!

I bought them over!

I told her I will put an end to her rubbish, even though her sister has gone back to her, which has always been her plan, because she kept tell me "Why will her sister be married when nobody in her family is married?"

And I will put a stop to her wickedness! And evil!

Tallesty1:
Nigeria men are evil

Always making life difficult for women

oga if e too pain you try commit suicide. rope no cost

bummyla:
My Sister inlaw is as smooth as the devil itself, but I always beat her to her game! Like you said, she says something evil with I smile, Me I no dey smile, I dey give her back to back. After sometime, since she couldn't face me, she started calling my parents to insult them, till my elder sister put a stop to that rubbish!

Recently, I gave her a trailer load of my sharp venomous mouth, she started gathering people to beat me up, but you know, once you are BIGGER, you are BIGGER!

I bought them over!

I told her I will put an end to her rubbish, even though her sister has gone back to her, which has always been her plan, because she kept tell me "Why will her sister be married when nobody in her family is married?"

And I will put a stop to her wickedness! And evil!

.sorry this sounds deep. Dont you want the game to end? I dont like these wicked in law games

bummyla:
My Sister inlaw is as smooth as the devil itself, but I always beat her to her game! Like you said, she says something evil with I smile, Me I no dey smile, I dey give her back to back. After sometime, since she couldn't face me, she started calling my parents to insult them, till my elder sister put a stop to that rubbish!

Recently, I gave her a trailer load of my sharp venomous mouth, she started gathering people to beat me up, but you know, once you are BIGGER, you are BIGGER!

I bought them over!

I told her I will put an end to her rubbish, even though her sister has gone back to her, which has always been her plan, because she kept tell me "Why will her sister be married when nobody in her family is married?"

And I will put a stop to her wickedness! And evil!

Na wah o!
Na where una dey see these types of ana gan?

GIdiata:


oga if e too pain you try commit suicide. rope no cost

very stupid thing to say

Kobojunkie:
Does this also mean you love living in denial? Explain some of the things she says make we understand.

Is she the brutally honest kind? Is that why she shriek whenever she says what she does?

Actually no she just likes getting under peoples skin. Its almost like a mental disease

Kobojunkie:
Be more specific... what is an examples of things she said that did not sit well with you in particular?

Made comments about my childs skin tone that it does not match their relatives

Her husband said seems like we want space and when we were leaving she says to househelp well we dont like or need people who want space because we dont have any (their house is very spacious lol)

^these kind of remarks but constantly! It just builds up because she strikes like this severally in a day and she doesnt stop.

Then my child was digging in mommys navel and she could not stop talking about mommys navel like in such a strange way. Always trying to invade privacy

Whenever she sees married people talking she jumps in even if its a quiet discussion like spouse number 3
. As if shes making it a 3some

She doesnt mind her business at all and is very practive and intentional in her irritating behaviour. Like an obsession. Its just very strange

. Her husband my brother in law treats her like a princess if you want to say youre annoyed she will play like victim and call him to say "daddy im hated" like shes his daughter instead of wife and then he will insist people apologize even though she is the one provoking people with her ridiculous behaviour. Like its just very sick to be around

JonOfAustrlia:
very stupid thing to say

watin concern us if ur father made/makes like difficult for your mother?

GIdiata:


watin concern us if ur father made/makes like difficult for your mother?

madam i think u misunderstood

JonOfAustrlia:
madam i think u misunderstood

Okay

No Peace Nor Rest For The Wicked! Na Me Be Her Nemesis

She has a daughter of a marriageable age, but she no dey control her daughter as much as she dey control her siblings! I tell Madam, since your sister has a daughter, cant she wait, when she marry she go start her evil mother inlaw, why give her so much authority over your marriage?

Well! There is so much wickedness in my marriage, I wonder if she ever liked me, talkless of love me

JonOfAustrlia:

.sorry this sounds deep. Dont you want the game to end? I dont like these wicked in law games

Mariangeles:


Na wah o!
Na where una dey see these types of ana gan?

you can't relate abii?

Anyway in such cases, some people are facing their karma...

You will begin to see reaaons why I believe in karma.