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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 2:09pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
cocolacec: 1 Like
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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by rickleye: 2:13pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
KanwuliaBaby: There are actually some shows on TV where " Troubled/bad kids" are sent to Jail for a while. The Idea is to scare them sh$t into good behaviour before they commit a crime that would send them there permanently. It really takes a community to raise a child. Abroad the options are somewhat limited. So you have the home-school-church*-camp in Nigeria you have home,school,church,aunties,uncles,neighbours etc. I always like to use the word "suggest" so as not to come appear judgmental . It is not easy raising teenagers - in the realm of social media and peer pressure. You do your very best and pray that It is enough. |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Joetttimua1811(m): 2:16pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by babajeje123(m): 2:18pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
cocolacec:You can't love my kids more than I do and seldomly beating them when they err doesn't turn them to slaves. I will employ every available method to teach them the way of the Lord so I can have peace in my old age and they can become useful to the society. Raising kids is not one size fits all! 18 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by pdf90(m): 2:19pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Because u have avenue to talk don't mean you should talk rubbish Shokoloko: 7 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 2:23pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
pdf90: You are a typical Nigerian who goes violent on people because they have different views 2 Likes
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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by drnoel: 2:26pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
1Sharon: I think U misunderstood the narrative. The police didn't leave cos they agreed with the mom. They left cos they didn't see what they could have done asper say na civil matter no be police matter. The little girl in question wasn't under any immediate danger more than freezing. The other issue of how she got the money is easy. From the parents as pocket money 5 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by DonroxyII: 2:32pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Dshocker:Aswear Parenting and Societal Influence is what Scares me in relocating to Obodo Oyinbo: I can't even Bark Orders to My Own kids as I like and me papa will still be scared of Them calling the Police on me, God Forbid! For trying to make their life Better: The future Me: Oyinbo no try ontop this one: I don't use cane but I love making this Manly Scare after I speak Cooly and being taken for Granted. That face that change and dries whatever lazy hormone inside of You(Cool but Stern Face With Emphatic Speech and High Pitch Emphasis on the Subject Matter): A kid will go rot and spoilt since they know there is Authorities somewhere to get them out of punishment. Kids that sabi lie. God forbid me and my kid dey argue in front of police (Egbami Ke): Their colleagues have lot to teach them in school and the influence comes. Person never born pikin Don dey fear Japa. But when E show we Meove and deal with Oyinbo police Na wetin we tell am make him see Na ihm e go see, Na wetin we tell am make him hear Na ihm e go hear Shon Wine me ni! 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by DonroxyII: 2:34pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
masterpiecer:That's if she gives a fvck about her own children. Na person wey feel remorse issue dey haunt: But Nature sabi play tricks on us all just to serve the punishment, You would have even forgotten the offense. Finishing school means she has Upstairs: |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Nobody: 2:36pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
KanwuliaExtra: It's not easy being a parent, most especially these days. Such a cute girl..... |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by DonroxyII: 2:39pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
CoronaVirusPro:This is a Huge Debatable Submissions: African Kid most trained in the whole world Where are Asians, From China, Japan to India and their brothers there .... Africa kids Upright ? African kids are one of the most Depressed and Surpressed Kids in the World. Upright and Right raised with African Kids can't fit same sentence: Weyrey Po gan o(Madkids plenty Your Mind go cut): How many Africa country is even Sane from parents to children to community, society and the Government 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Beremx(f): 2:47pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
descarado:haaa!! It is well o!! |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Veeryeasy(m): 2:52pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
You better not report your parent in akpanabia police station you'll be beaten back to them |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Femi8586(m): 3:04pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
KanwuliaExtra: It was because you're a woman those policemen didn't arrest you or charge you to court. If it were your husband that did such, they would have quickly arrested him, banned him from contact with the said girl or even sentence him to go spend some time in prison for child abuse. Their laws over there technically, is gender biased. Its effeminate. |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Kobojunkie: 3:04pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
shantti:You are certain of this, how? 5 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by DonroxyII: 3:07pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
cocolacec:African Parents will just transfer the demonic Frustrations and Depressions inside of them unto their children who is also Genetically suffering the same consequences. A stubborn mother will have a stubborn daughter. What she would have done was to ask her to come in, Change cloth and take her for a Drive into the next restaurant far from Home: Then Have Heart2Heart talk. Something(Darkish) must have provoked her mentally to go ballistic on clothes like that usually from school(Boys/Girls) then such must be elicited from Her. But You went Ballistic too (Genetic Right there) like Mother like Daughter .... Na weyrey dem take dey solve weyrey in their House: Daughter goes Frenzy(Genetic: Stubbornness): Mother went wild(Genetic:Stubbornness): Police beg, beg she no gree, She warned warned her daughter she no gree : That's the Genetic Disorder right there: STUBBORNNESS she only took after Her Mother and The Mum didn't know ... But she will never tell You what provoked her unless you come into her world, Show her you feel what she is feeling, You once passed through same and how you come out.... Then She will go Sober and Cry. Apologise and would never give a Damn about trying to proof a point to any Damn soul again in School or at Home: Her Successes will become Sancrosanct nothing else will matter and you would have become Her best friend for all the campus Gists. Anytime she remember how you spread her out inside that cold and call police on her and made her the Joke of the Resident: That's Future Stories You will hear from Her after she developed thick skin against You. I think A Course should be created across universities all over the world on Child Management which must be compulsory for all couples. That's the newest evolution in the world. Cc: KanwuliaExtra No vex me abeg o-o.... I never born self neither Married so I might never understand the practicals. But theoretically this will work because I have helped nurtured 5 of My Families Teenagers through University and the Only way I was able to take them all off the street was making them my friend. I even had to smoke marijuana with one before I stopped him from smoking Kush. I landed in the hospital after some overdoze myself and we both quit. He is a Bigboy now as an Officer telling all Hears I raised him. My Joy is Boundless. He just keep spoiling me with Monies and the remaining four(4) will not make a huge Decision without asking for My Input. We are all Friends now: So be a Friend with You Daughter before devil snatch her away. No vex Ma. The problem with us all is that, If You can't manage yourself, You can't manage others: A madman can't heal a Madman: One has to be Sane for the other to take a Cue on How Sanity Works The Essence is for her to Understand in her own language not Your own language. You have to speak in her language as if You are part of Her class and clique: Then Gradually rise her brain above the Evils in that Clique ... then You will become her Saviour not the one who Shame Her: You are Wrong in Your Approach as You only wants to Proof to the World but Never to Your Daughter. The Essence is for you to show her how to behave when faced with Challenges when Far from You: How not to Succumb to the World and trust me Weyrey(Madness) from both of you won't stop that because she will only have to wait till she can be away from You and She will do more than You bargained for. You would have failed as a Parent. No vex again, I just wanna help a little: I full Ground for Nigeria so I don't understand how The System works overthere but I don't use cane: I just enter into their Brain(With Reverse Pyschology) and Write what I want therein and Come out again with the door shut. Let them Process the rest and ask Questions: You would have influenced and Possessed them: She will tell you before she even have Sex then gradually you manage the Obsessions therefrom so as to deliver her safely to Her Husband before somebody started calling you and asking you Shey two Maggie no go be too much for 1kg fish ! Child Management is an Art, Science, Management and Skills: The World should regulate Child bearing. If you don't have certificate in Marital Management and Child Management You can't Marry nor Born Pikin ... And Government should pay all Parents: Child Rearing is a Career! Enjoy: 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by 1Sharon(f): 3:09pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
shantti: It's rubbish food. Don't you see how big they are? 1 Like |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Blissbath(f): 3:10pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
This is so funny... More grace ma'am KanwuliaBaby: |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Nobody: 3:13pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
KanwuliaBaby: Omo see confirm disciplined street woman, This really shows you grew up In geographical area of Nigeria. Most times, my parents do wait until we come Into the house to sleep at night too..... |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Solatium(m): 3:13pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Shokoloko: Violence in relation to GDP growth? okonjo iweala must no see this |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 3:20pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Solatium:She is an economist. She knows already 1 Like
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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by DonroxyII: 3:22pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
mmsen:Aswear, Raising Children is a Career on its Own. You have to pay yourself as a Parent and Find somewhere Far to take a Chill for Days(30 Working Days) to Reset Your Brain. This must be a team work by both parents and Where the home is broken as normal norms nowadays, More Monsters/Zombies are gonna be pushed out there because One Parent is not easy to raise children in this dispensation. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by shantti(m): 3:27pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I thought the whites don't spank or flog their kids hence the reason for their developed societies, while africans flog and disciplines their kids and yet live in an exponential backward society. Is that not what the argument is or am I missing something. 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Kobojunkie: 3:30pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
shantti:But what has Russia, Germany(of the last century) and the Arab world to do with the West though? |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by shantti(m): 3:34pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: The lady I mentioned did not project her view on the Westerners alone, it was basically DEVELOPED COUNTRIES against AFRICA 1 Like |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by 2braithe: 3:34pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
chatinent: Ya playing with deportation. Even what OP is doing,it is because she is female.If it is the husband, police go don change am for him. 6 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by 2braithe: 3:42pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Shokoloko: And you are not a Nigerian? |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 3:44pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
shantti: 2 Likes
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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Kobojunkie: 3:50pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
shantti:Also Russia, Germany and Arab nation in which the men you listed were raised weren't considered developed , not by today's standards. |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by blackboy(m): 3:51pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Things have changed. Live for my koro koro eyes. Not a rich family. The mother beat the daughter JSS3 girl public school going girl. The mom came to our house to even report what she did and went home. Not too long after, the older sister came running that the police had invited the mum to the station for the beating. Na so it turn to police case. Thank God elders went on behalf of the mother and the policeman on duty let the mom go. That was the last time the girl was allowed into our house. How could she report her mom. Who is struggling to pay rent, clothes, feed and send the girls to school. E shock me. No be beating with scars or blood commot. Normal beating. Things don change for Naija 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by shantti(m): 3:53pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
[quote author=Shokoloko post=111443996][/quote] Maybe Hitler's case is different, but Putin being bullied doesn't attest to the fact that he was disciplined by his parents. Like I said before, what about the muderers, assasins, junkies and rapist in the developed countries where children aren't beaten if they do wrong |
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