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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 2:09pm On Mar 28, 2022
cocolacec:

Did you find out if she was being bullied/abused at school or find out the reason for always running or rolling on the floor everyday at the school?
Canning only makes children internalize pains and sufferings,you are already breaking the bond between you and your child.Sometimes we overlook children’s reaction till the problem turns into a different dimension

You will wonder where the disciplined children of yesterday became cultists who dont have human feelings anymore.Pain and violence is part of the Nigerian discipline system.Violence only breeds contempt,Stockholm Syndrome and Narcissicism.

We are not on the slave plantation where white masters flog slaves.Our children are not slaves to be beaten/maimed but our precious mini me to be guided with love,attention and utmost care.

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by rickleye: 2:13pm On Mar 28, 2022
KanwuliaBaby:


You have to be creative.
You know it gets to a stage you call the police and the lt ALREADY KNOW YOU BY YOUR FIRST NAME! cheesy

They will say “Hello “MISS LAURA”, are you calling about your “REPEAT OFFENDERS” again?

And I will reply: “YEP”!
Then they will say-“We are on our way”!

One day, the sent 4 HEAVY BLACK COPS to tackle 2 of them. The cops insulted the children ehn? Shegeeeeey!

The children told them I threatened to SHOOT them! cheesy

I told them YES! In self defense. kiss
I told them I would not hesitate to gun them down if they show up in MY SIDE OF THE HOUSE UNINVITED. They can reach me via phone or landline intercom.✅

There are actually some shows on TV where " Troubled/bad kids" are sent to Jail for a while. The Idea is to scare them sh$t into good behaviour before they commit a crime that would send them there permanently.
It really takes a community to raise a child. Abroad the options are somewhat limited. So you have the home-school-church*-camp in Nigeria you have home,school,church,aunties,uncles,neighbours etc.
I always like to use the word "suggest" so as not to come appear judgmental . It is not easy raising teenagers - in the realm of social media and peer pressure. You do your very best and pray that It is enough.
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Joetttimua1811(m): 2:16pm On Mar 28, 2022
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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by babajeje123(m): 2:18pm On Mar 28, 2022
cocolacec:

Did you find out if she was being bullied/abused at school or find out the reason for always running or rolling on the floor everyday at the school?
Canning only makes children internalize pains and sufferings,you are already breaking the bond between you and your child.Sometimes we overlook children’s reaction till the problem turns into a different dimension

You will wonder where the disciplined children of yesterday became cultists who dont have human feelings anymore.Pain and violence is part of the Nigerian discipline system.Violence only breeds contempt,Stockholm Syndrome and Narcissicism.

We are not on the slave plantation where white masters flog slaves.Our children are not slaves to be beaten/maimed but our precious mini me to be guided with love,attention and utmost care.
You can't love my kids more than I do and seldomly beating them when they err doesn't turn them to slaves. I will employ every available method to teach them the way of the Lord so I can have peace in my old age and they can become useful to the society. Raising kids is not one size fits all!

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by pdf90(m): 2:19pm On Mar 28, 2022
Because u have avenue to talk don't mean you should talk rubbish
Shokoloko:
The typical African parent is a bully. Children are beaten and tortured for no reason.
Children are beaten up for not understanding her schoolwork, Children are beaten up for getting sexually molested, Children are beaten up for crying from the previous beaten, Children are beaten up for not answering quickly enough, Children are beaten up for daring to have a different point of view.

In your example, how can a man and wife (two people) hit, tackle to the ground and beat the crap out of a 15 year old. Like 2 people to one person? Even if she was an adult and not their daughter, two people to one is an unfair situation.

What Nigerians and Africans refuse to learn is that violence destroys a country. See how all the violent countries are experiencing reduced GDP compared to those that are not. Africans will continue to create and breed monsters.

It will be very easy for a 15 year boy to rape and beat up a 6 year old child because he has been beaten to the point of trauma he feels its not a big deal, his mother's has beaten the house help to stupor, and his father has beaten his mother to stupor so violence is a part of life.

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 2:23pm On Mar 28, 2022
pdf90:
Because u have avenue to talk don't mean you should talk rubbish

You are a typical Nigerian who goes violent on people because they have different views

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by drnoel: 2:26pm On Mar 28, 2022
1Sharon:


Both of you in a way since you're supposed to be a team. Where did she get the clothes or money to buy them from?
You said she loved to dress provocatively, so it's something you let slide for a while.


I understand it's not easy, as a 13 year old, she doesn't get it. As an adult, she probably gets it now, I do aswell. Think back to when you were 13, she thought she was grown because her curves were coming in. Young girls who were allowed to dress however and act however were the type to have boyfriends too early and get pregnant while still a teen.

Well the police seems to agree with you so they left, you're lucky it could have gone left, they could have kicked down the door accuse you of sexual assault.

Is the pic your daughter at 13?

I think U misunderstood the narrative. The police didn't leave cos they agreed with the mom. They left cos they didn't see what they could have done asper say na civil matter no be police matter. The little girl in question wasn't under any immediate danger more than freezing.
The other issue of how she got the money is easy. From the parents as pocket money

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by DonroxyII: 2:32pm On Mar 28, 2022
Dshocker:
In 2008 my uncle almost lost his children to New Zealand government,after the police gave him last warning should any of his children ever calls emergency number again...He had to relocate them down to Onitsha.
Right now they have turned to full time igbo children and behaving very well.
Aswear Parenting and Societal Influence is what Scares me in relocating to Obodo Oyinbo:

I can't even Bark Orders to My Own kids as I like and me papa will still be scared of Them calling the Police on me, God Forbid!
For trying to make their life Better: The future Me: Oyinbo no try ontop this one:

I don't use cane but I love making this Manly Scare after I speak Cooly and being taken for Granted. That face that change and dries whatever lazy hormone inside of You(Cool but Stern Face With Emphatic Speech and High Pitch Emphasis on the Subject Matter):

A kid will go rot and spoilt since they know there is Authorities somewhere to get them out of punishment. Kids that sabi lie. God forbid me and my kid dey argue in front of police (Egbami Ke): Their colleagues have lot to teach them in school and the influence comes.

Person never born pikin Don dey fear Japa. But when E show we Meove and deal with Oyinbo police Na wetin we tell am make him see Na ihm e go see, Na wetin we tell am make him hear Na ihm e go hear grin Shon Wine me ni!

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by DonroxyII: 2:34pm On Mar 28, 2022
masterpiecer:


This is so heartbreaking, that girl owes her parents great apology and forgiveness, hence it will haunt her for life especially when she starts having children of her own. That aspect of parenting is what i detest about western culture
That's if she gives a fvck about her own children. Na person wey feel remorse issue dey haunt:

But Nature sabi play tricks on us all just to serve the punishment, You would have even forgotten the offense. Finishing school means she has Upstairs:
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Nobody: 2:36pm On Mar 28, 2022
KanwuliaExtra:
I personally went through a similar experience with one of my daughters.
She loved to dress provocatively at THIRTEEN!

One day she wore this::
I appealed to her nicely that it was 42 degrees outside and she had to change this outfit it I would drive her to school.

She refused and did not take her to school. I don’t know how she got to school.

When she returned, I told her she could not enter my house o. I RIPPED THE SKIRT OFF HER ARSE RIGHT THERE BY THE MAILBOX with only her UNDERWEAR on her and locked her OUT OF MY HOUSE. She stayed in the garage and told her she should only come in to use the bathroom.She called the police and told them I was freezing her outside. grin

OMO!


See SWAT TEAM for front of my house? shocked

There were TEN of them in 6 police vehicles.
They told me I MUST LET HER INTO THE HOUSE. because it was too cold! I refused.
I told them it was her punishment for disobedience and she is locked out of my house for 4 hours.

I provided her with a space heater, some clothes, a pillow and blankets to SLEEP on the floor!

The police told me she had EVERY RIGHT to be inside the house. I told them to have me arrested if I was breaking any law.

The useless white cops left!
Imagine the embarrassment in front of ALL the neighbors? My husband was SPEECHLESS!

It's not easy being a parent, most especially these days. Such a cute girl.....
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by DonroxyII: 2:39pm On Mar 28, 2022
CoronaVirusPro:



The fact that you related it to Africans is my problem with you.


African kids are the most trained and upright kid in the whole world and thats because of how morals and home training.

Since you mentioned Africa, I will ask you, Are European or American kids better than African Kids? Its a "NO"



Stop accusing Africans out of low self esteem. Africans are learners compared to the Western kids. A 15 year old boy/girl in Africa is a learner to his counterpart in UK or USA.


Its as easy as ABC to go astray in same western countries cos of this same "spare the rod" mentality.


This is a Huge Debatable Submissions: African Kid most trained in the whole world

Where are Asians, From China, Japan to India and their brothers there ....

Africa kids Upright ?

African kids are one of the most Depressed and Surpressed Kids in the World. Upright and Right raised with African Kids can't fit same sentence:

Weyrey Po gan o(Madkids plenty Your Mind go cut): How many Africa country is even Sane from parents to children to community, society and the Government grin

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Beremx(f): 2:47pm On Mar 28, 2022
descarado:


I tell you my sis. My colleague is battling with her eldest daughter here. Her son has 2 kids already.
Baby mama has refused to work. A nurse o.
Guy pays 700 pounds every month plus other stuff. One day he said, auntie, I learnt the hard way. His sis is gallivanting the whole world with friends. Work, make money and spend it on frivolities. It is well.

haaa!! It is well o!!
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Veeryeasy(m): 2:52pm On Mar 28, 2022
You better not report your parent in akpanabia police station you'll be beaten back to them
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Femi8586(m): 3:04pm On Mar 28, 2022
KanwuliaExtra:
I personally went through a similar experience with one of my daughters.
She loved to dress provocatively at THIRTEEN!

One day she wore this::
I appealed to her nicely that it was 42 degrees outside and she had to change this outfit it I would drive her to school.

She refused and did not take her to school. I don’t know how she got to school.

When she returned, I told her she could not enter my house o. I RIPPED THE SKIRT OFF HER ARSE RIGHT THERE BY THE MAILBOX with only her UNDERWEAR on her and locked her OUT OF MY HOUSE. She stayed in the garage and told her she should only come in to use the bathroom.She called the police and told them I was freezing her outside. grin

OMO!


See SWAT TEAM for front of my house? shocked

There were TEN of them in 6 police vehicles.
They told me I MUST LET HER INTO THE HOUSE. because it was too cold! I refused.
I told them it was her punishment for disobedience and she is locked out of my house for 4 hours.

I provided her with a space heater, some clothes, a pillow and blankets to SLEEP on the floor!

The police told me she had EVERY RIGHT to be inside the house. I told them to have me arrested if I was breaking any law.

The useless white cops left!
Imagine the embarrassment in front of ALL the neighbors? My husband was SPEECHLESS!


It was because you're a woman those policemen didn't arrest you or charge you to court.

If it were your husband that did such, they would have quickly arrested him, banned him from contact with the said girl or even sentence him to go spend some time in prison for child abuse.

Their laws over there technically, is gender biased. Its effeminate.
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Kobojunkie: 3:04pm On Mar 28, 2022
shantti:
What about all the numerous drug junkies,assasins, muderers, rapists and terrorists in the developed countries. Am sure Adolf Hitler's mum, Putin's mum and Osama bin ladens mum never for once flogged them
You are certain of this, how? undecided

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by DonroxyII: 3:07pm On Mar 28, 2022
cocolacec:


That was unfair and unnecessary exposure to harm.Why dehumanise your own daughter?
What if she developed pneumonia or got raped that is how she would have turned to a street girl.
Parents raising their children fails to understand these children are peer pressured in schools and the environmemt they find themselves.All you needed to do was have a heart to heart talk with her not master/slave relationship most Nigerian parents have with their children.Africans parents only thrive in destroying their erring children not correct them in love and kindness.
I will never treat my daughter like that.
African Parents will just transfer the demonic Frustrations and Depressions inside of them unto their children who is also Genetically suffering the same consequences. A stubborn mother will have a stubborn daughter.

What she would have done was to ask her to come in, Change cloth and take her for a Drive into the next restaurant far from Home: Then Have Heart2Heart talk. Something(Darkish) must have provoked her mentally to go ballistic on clothes like that usually from school(Boys/Girls) then such must be elicited from Her. But You went Ballistic too (Genetic Right there) grin like Mother like Daughter grin .... Na weyrey dem take dey solve weyrey in their House: Daughter goes Frenzy(Genetic: Stubbornness): Mother went wild(Genetic:Stubbornness): Police beg, beg she no gree, She warned warned her daughter she no gree : That's the Genetic Disorder right there: STUBBORNNESS grin
she only took after Her Mother and The Mum didn't know grin...

But she will never tell You what provoked her unless you come into her world, Show her you feel what she is feeling, You once passed through same and how you come out.... Then She will go Sober and Cry. Apologise and would never give a Damn about trying to proof a point to any Damn soul again in School or at Home:

Her Successes will become Sancrosanct nothing else will matter and you would have become Her best friend for all the campus Gists.

Anytime she remember how you spread her out inside that cold and call police on her and made her the Joke of the Resident: That's Future Stories You will hear from Her after she developed thick skin against You.

I think A Course should be created across universities all over the world on Child Management which must be compulsory for all couples. That's the newest evolution in the world.

Cc:
KanwuliaExtra

No vex me abeg o-o.... I never born self neither Married so I might never understand the practicals. But theoretically this will work because I have helped nurtured 5 of My Families Teenagers through University and the Only way I was able to take them all off the street was making them my friend.

I even had to smoke marijuana with one before I stopped him from smoking Kush. I landed in the hospital after some overdoze myself and we both quit. He is a Bigboy now as an Officer telling all Hears I raised him. My Joy is Boundless. He just keep spoiling me with Monies and the remaining four(4) will not make a huge Decision without asking for My Input. We are all Friends now:

So be a Friend with You Daughter before devil snatch her away. No vex Ma.

The problem with us all is that, If You can't manage yourself, You can't manage others:

A madman can't heal a Madman: One has to be Sane for the other to take a Cue on How Sanity Works grin

The Essence is for her to Understand in her own language not Your own language. You have to speak in her language as if You are part of Her class and clique: Then Gradually rise her brain above the Evils in that Clique ... then You will become her Saviour not the one who Shame Her: You are Wrong in Your Approach as You only wants to Proof to the World but Never to Your Daughter.

The Essence is for you to show her how to behave when faced with Challenges when Far from You: How not to Succumb to the World and trust me Weyrey(Madness) from both of you won't stop that because she will only have to wait till she can be away from You and She will do more than You bargained for. You would have failed as a Parent.

No vex again, I just wanna help a little: I full Ground for Nigeria so I don't understand how The System works overthere but I don't use cane:
I just enter into their Brain(With Reverse Pyschology) and Write what I want therein and Come out again with the door shut. Let them Process the rest and ask Questions: You would have influenced and Possessed them:

She will tell you before she even have Sex then gradually you manage the Obsessions therefrom so as to deliver her safely to Her Husband before somebody started calling you and asking you Shey two Maggie no go be too much for 1kg fish grin !

Child Management is an Art, Science, Management and Skills: The World should regulate Child bearing. If you don't have certificate in Marital Management and Child Management You can't Marry nor Born Pikin grin ... And Government should pay all Parents: Child Rearing is a Career!


Enjoy:

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by 1Sharon(f): 3:09pm On Mar 28, 2022
shantti:


E be like say food plenty for America and it's cheap too

It's rubbish food. Don't you see how big they are?

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Blissbath(f): 3:10pm On Mar 28, 2022
This is so funny... More grace ma'am
KanwuliaBaby:


Good to see you madam B!❤️

Thank you!
I go show dem ke. cheesy
Dem go call police TAYA!

I told the police to please take anyone who can't tolerate the home rules. Do you know what the stupidd cops told me? angry

They said their “books” are full and there is no space in “the system”! Oh? shocked

It got to a stage I filed a complaint against the police dept for RACISM! tongue Arrrrrrrgh, they started sending only BLACK COPS to my house o!

If ANY CHILD DISOBEYS, I CALL THE POLICE!

I wore them out. grin

No one wants to call police any more o! cheesy
I became an EXPERT in calling the police.

If you nor wash plate- POLICE!
If your nor brush teeth- POLICE!
If you disobey curfew- POLICE!
If you nor do homework- POLICE!
If you use foul language at home- POLICE!

The police were tired of me o! I taught them and the children a gravvvve lesson.

Now, I can parent in. PEACE! cool
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Nobody: 3:13pm On Mar 28, 2022
KanwuliaBaby:
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOUR CHILDREN CALL THE POLICE ON JHOOOOO!

1. NEVER-NEVER-NEVER leave marks on your kids when you spank them. If you leave marks on their bodies, YOU ARE A GONNER!✅

Tell them to open their hands and spank them on their PALMS. Good luck with that, because they will refuse to open their palms and will proceed to running ALL OVER THE HOUSE. You will have a stroke chasing them from room to room.

I wait till they are sleeping, lock the door and the shows begins!


Omo see confirm disciplined street woman, This really shows you grew up In geographical area of Nigeria. Most times, my parents do wait until we come Into the house to sleep at night too.....grin
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Solatium(m): 3:13pm On Mar 28, 2022
Shokoloko:
The typical African parent is a bully. Children are beaten and tortured for no reason.
Children are beaten up for not understanding her schoolwork, Children are beaten up for getting sexually molested, Children are beaten up for crying from the previous beaten, Children are beaten up for not answering quickly enough, Children are beaten up for daring to have a different point of view.

In your example, how can a man and wife (two people) hit, tackle to the ground and beat the crap out of a 15 year old. Like 2 people to one person? Even if she was an adult and not their daughter, two people to one is an unfair situation.

What Nigerians and Africans refuse to learn is that violence destroys a country. See how all the violent countries are experiencing reduced GDP compared to those that are not. Africans will continue to create and breed monsters.

It will be very easy for a 15 year boy to rape and beat up a 6 year old child because he has been beaten to the point of trauma he feels its not a big deal, his mother's has beaten the house help to stupor, and his father has beaten his mother to stupor so violence is a part of life.


Violence in relation to GDP growth?
okonjo iweala must no see this grin
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 3:20pm On Mar 28, 2022
Solatium:



Violence in relation to GDP growth?
okonjo iweala must no see this grin
She is an economist. She knows already

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by DonroxyII: 3:22pm On Mar 28, 2022
mmsen:


I know girls who were born and raised abroad, girls who aren't even Nigerian who are members of Christ's Embassy. They're doing much the same as your niece.

My point is, being 'abroad' does not mean all will be well. You have to put in a lot of work to raise children no matter where you are. Most people simply aren't interested in actively raising children, they want to cut corners and then blame the children when it goes wrong.
Aswear, Raising Children is a Career on its Own. You have to pay yourself as a Parent and Find somewhere Far to take a Chill for Days(30 Working Days) to Reset Your Brain.

This must be a team work by both parents and Where the home is broken as normal norms nowadays, More Monsters/Zombies are gonna be pushed out there because One Parent is not easy to raise children in this dispensation.

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by shantti(m): 3:27pm On Mar 28, 2022
Kobojunkie:
You are certain of this, how? undecided

I thought the whites don't spank or flog their kids hence the reason for their developed societies, while africans flog and disciplines their kids and yet live in an exponential backward society. Is that not what the argument is or am I missing something. undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Kobojunkie: 3:30pm On Mar 28, 2022
shantti:
I thought the whites don't spank or flog their kids hence the reason for their developed societies, while africans flog and disciplines their kids and yet live in an exponential backward society. Is that not what the argument is or am I missing something.
But what has Russia, Germany(of the last century) and the Arab world to do with the West though?
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by shantti(m): 3:34pm On Mar 28, 2022
Kobojunkie:
But what has Russia, Germany(of the last century) and the Arab world to do with the West though?

The lady I mentioned did not project her view on the Westerners alone, it was basically DEVELOPED COUNTRIES against AFRICA undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by 2braithe: 3:34pm On Mar 28, 2022
chatinent:
Whether in America or Nigeria, as my child, if you misbehave, you must collect in the same wotowoto degree as the disobedience. Go and call police.

Ya playing with deportation.
Even what OP is doing,it is because she is female.If it is the husband, police go don change am for him.

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by 2braithe: 3:42pm On Mar 28, 2022
Shokoloko:


You are a typical Nigerian who goes violent on people because they have different views

And you are not a Nigerian?
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 3:44pm On Mar 28, 2022
shantti:


The lady I mentioned did not project her view on the Westerners alone, it was basically DEVELOPED COUNTRIES against AFRICA undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Kobojunkie: 3:50pm On Mar 28, 2022
shantti:
The lady I mentioned did not project her view on the Westerners alone, it was basically DEVELOPED COUNTRIES against AFRICA
Also Russia, Germany and Arab nation in which the men you listed were raised weren't considered developed , not by today's standards. undecided
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by blackboy(m): 3:51pm On Mar 28, 2022
Things have changed. Live for my koro koro eyes. Not a rich family. The mother beat the daughter JSS3 girl public school going girl. The mom came to our house to even report what she did and went home. Not too long after, the older sister came running that the police had invited the mum to the station for the beating. Na so it turn to police case. Thank God elders went on behalf of the mother and the policeman on duty let the mom go. That was the last time the girl was allowed into our house. How could she report her mom. Who is struggling to pay rent, clothes, feed and send the girls to school. E shock me. No be beating with scars or blood commot. Normal beating. Things don change for Naija

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by shantti(m): 3:53pm On Mar 28, 2022
[quote author=Shokoloko post=111443996][/quote]

Maybe Hitler's case is different, but Putin being bullied doesn't attest to the fact that he was disciplined by his parents. Like I said before, what about the muderers, assasins, junkies and rapist in the developed countries where children aren't beaten if they do wrong

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