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Hey guys, not me coming back here to ask this question. Is loving someone really enough? Will love held me firm when everything else fail me? At this point I will gladly say I’m a little confuse and at the cross road. I will be turning 27 soon. I got a good job just end a relationship that I felt I was not getting the best out of and also not happy. My ex been all over telling me how much he still love me and that he believe that love is enough. Sitting here in this heat I can help but pinch myself every minutes. His mom has call me over and over, making me look like the bad guy here.

Before you get MARRIED. Discuss skills, parenting styles, credit, debt, religion, how you deal with family. What belief we be instilled in your children. Childhood Traumas, Sexual Expectations, Partner Expectations, Family Health History, Mental health history, Dream home, Careers and Education, Bucket list, Partner health issues and whatever else come to mind. LOVE ALONE IS NOT ENOUGH.

Tell me guys; let have a constructive conversation here. Is love ever enough?

It is not enough.
If we are incompatible, if we want different things, if I don’t work on myself, if we don’t change or evolve in similar ways, our relationship cannot survive - even if we madly love each other.
Understood?

Love is truly not enough especially in this era of materialistic men

Money is enough

Love has never been enough and it will never be enough.

So many factors have to be considered along, in fact, there's nothing like love without,
Financial stability and good health.
If you lack any of those, love can't sustain the relationship...

Iyaebe:
Love is truly not enough especially in this era of materialistic men

I feel that is totally not in place here. Not everyone is materialistic, also not taking that away that I’m 2022 some people are in a relationship for the wrong reason.

Comradewhy:
It is not enough.
If we are incompatible, if we want different things, if I don’t work on myself, if we don’t change or evolve in similar ways, our relationship cannot survive - even if we madly love each other.
Understood?

Preach preach!!! Some are the back are not hearing that loud enough

lilvicky68:
Money is enough

You think?

KokobySandra:
Before you get MARRIED. Discuss skills, parenting styles, credit, debt, religion, how you deal with family. What belief we be instilled in your children. Childhood Traumas, Sexual Expectations, Partner Expectations, Family Health History, Mental health history, Dream home, Careers and Education, Bucket list, Partner health issues and whatever else come to mind. LOVE ALONE IS NOT ENOUGH.

Tell me guys; let have a constructive conversation here. Is love ever enough?

What is love? That is a better question to ask as many of you confuse love with the brain chemicals(fumes) and hormones that drive your attraction to your partner. That is not love at all.

Olayetan:
Love has never been enough and it will never be enough.

So many factors have to be considered along, in fact, there's nothing like love without,
Financial stability and good health.
If you lack any of those, love can't sustain the relationship...

Why do we always quantify money has the number one factor?

Kobojunkie:
What is love? That is a better question to ask as many of you confuse love with the brain chemicals(fumes) and hormones that drive your attraction to your partner. That is not love at all.

So if I put it to you. What is love?

KokobySandra:
So if I put it to you. What is love?

Love is a mental decision made to passionately commit oneself to the success of a relationship or agreement.

Some people express this love towards their jobs, their serving of others, towards hobbies and or in other relationships.

Iyaebe:
Love is truly not enough especially in this era of materialistic women

I think you should direct the shi.t you typed to your fellow gender.

noise indeed.

The most important thing is attraction and affection

Even love is not enough yet but money is the key to everything now.

If you will wait for all this discussion to take place before you marry...

E be like you wan add another 10 years to your 27 years.

By the way are you asking or you're giving an advice?

Iyaebe:
Love is truly not enough especially in this era of materialistic men

How can you put Materialistic and men in same sentence?

Medianna:
If you will wait for all this discussion to take place before you marry...

E be like you wan add another 10 years to your 27 years.

By the way are you asking or you're giving an advice?

You are missing the whole conversation