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Labadi69:
Many of you say avoid single mothers. I understand where you are coming from. But I think I will rephrase to say ‘avoid broke single mothers’.

A rich/independent single mother is the best you can get as a man. You know why? If she likes you, she really likes you. She’s not after you for your money and she’s not after you to come and give her belle or wife her to support her and her kids. She genuinely just wants your company.

The icing on the cake is that such women rarely have time to be nagging you or cheating around. Where the time dey? Between her career that brings her money and taking care of her kids, all her time is gone na. You will even be lucky that she chooses to spend the little free time she has with you.

Me no like idle woman cos them go bug and nag you tire. I like busy women cos them no just get that time. So make una think twice o. No be all single mothers una go avoid. Just avoid the broke ones and/or the ones with broke baby daddies.

DharmieDhrey:
Imagine being tagged "a blue pulled simp" for being flexible... I just don't understand some guys here, shaming someone that doesn't share the same ideology with them.. So cooking for the family once in a while is simping? Many dudes here dunno what this word means sef...

There are some guys here I really hold in high esteem but I have seen that they can hardly express their thoughts without bashing others with contrasting views.. Most of 'em are yet to see what life really entails, I mean the bigger picture... Once more, It's different strokes for different folks.

On the issue of cooking, I don't see anything wrong with a man cooking if he simply enjoys it as a hobby. If he's doing it to please the wife, then it's a more tricky situation since she might come to expect similar acts in the future whether you like it or not. As for me and myself, I'm sure as hell not getting married so this is not going to be a problem

Martinez39s:
Red pill 101.

ProphetJeroboam:
I saw this thread on Twitter about men bragging about the power their women wield in their life and all I could see was a bunch of men with mommy issues or Oedipal complex. Boys with mommy issues naturally gravitate towards Pussy worship when they’re older because they’re trying to fill a void. They were not deserving of mommy’s love so they will do anything to enjoy their wife’s or girlfriend’s affection even if they’re emasculated. It’s a psychological thing, lack of a motherly figure makes them enjoy their female partners acting as their mother, some even call their female partners “mommy” . These men equate their female partners letting them see them naked, as their own twisted version of the greatest love a woman can give, mother’s love.

Smartb0y:
Even men that grow up with no fathers behave this way.

Herbworks:
Few years ago, an ex introduced me to this lady that needed a writer for her client’s website. After discussing business with her i started flirting with her and she responded well. Though the gig didn’t click but we kept chatting. She once visited me at the office and even bought groceries for me at different times.

After few weeks of chatting I invited her to my apartment and she came. This babe is beautiful but it was like something was pulling me back. Though the signs were there but I didn’t want to behave like a hungry dog starved of pussy. After the first meeting without sex or a hug she visited me again but this time insisted on hugging me which she did. I realized that when she visits and leaves my apartment I was always blaming myself for allowing such a beauty go without knacking her.

We would chat naughty and I will even tell her how I plan to have sex with her but whenever she visits me there’s always something pulling me back.
She made it clear several times that I was dulling so she thought I was a nice guy and sometimes I doubt my player capabilities.

From my observations I discovered that she was this free giver and most of her friends were guys. She even told me that she prefer to have sex with a guy without dating him . The last time she visited me, she told me of a guy that was disturbing her for marriage but she doesn’t like him even though I knew she was already dating him cos while she was with me, the said guy called her to ask if she has left my apartment cos she even told the guy she was coming to my place. She jokingly told the guy to leave her alone cos she has given the guy his share and was with me to give me my own share.

I took her to my room and we just ended up talking with her head on my laps but something was pulling me away. I wanted her to desire me so much until tears starts dropping from her eyes. I wanted her to know that not all guys are sex starved and simps. Few weeks after her last visit she called me. She told me that she went to visit the said guy and while she was alone in his room she decided to search around his apartment. While doing that she saw a drug pack, went on Google to search and discovered it was a anti retroviral drug for HIV patients.

When the guy came back he said the drug belong to his gay friend but she insisted they go for test. The first test showed the guy was negative but she insisted on doing another test so she took him to her family hospital. The second showed negative. But while she was at home, one of the lab scientists in the second hospital contacted her brother (cos she used her family name and they discovered her family is registered in the hospital) and told him to tell her that her fiancé bribed them to say he’s negative that the guy was actually positive. That her conscience could not allow her to hide it from them.

That means the guy probably bribed the first lab. Though she didn’t tell me if she did her test. According to her her mom was devastated cos she was already planning for her wedding which meant their relationship has actually gone far.

[b]Reading the redpill made me to lose respect for pussies unless it’s going to fetch me money unlike before when I thought being a man was by the number of pussies you’ve fvcked. Nowadays I can just be looking at a fine girl with amazing structure without getting hard cos the redpills will just be ringing in my brain.
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Overdose on the Redpill Boss

ProphetJeroboam:
True, we always talk about daddy issues so I decided to see it from the mommy’s side. Lack of a strong fatherly figure creates spineless men who gets fvked by women and the society. Under affection and over affection from their mothers causes same thing I’ve written up there and most times the affected men in this case mask their psychological attachments as being respectful to women. You are loved by your mother as a child, you are loved and respected by your mother as an adult male, that’s how it should be. Do you know why the female partners of men with dominant mother figure in their lives experience problems with said mother, it’s because women know women for what they are, the mother sees the female partner as an encroaching female who will divert the love, attention and resources they get from their sons, these women are not blinded by pussy, they see their son’s wife without filters. In turn, the female partners despise the mother because she is still in conquered territory, mother and wife see each other as trespassers. Every bit of their manipulative antics is reflected in their dealings with the son and husband/girlfriend and they see it for what it is, manipulations because it’s script played out of same book so they easily recognize each other’s script. I know we tend to avoid the concept of men simping for their mothers because it is a touchy subject here but a balance has to be struck in a young man’s life. Men who try to act dominant with their female partners but simp for their mothers are in danger because their mind will always be conflicted. When a man is in conflict with his mother, she will draw his attention to the fact that he suckled her breasts and came out of her vagina to make him subservient, when a man is in his conflict with his female partner, she will deny him access to same body parts to make him subservient, both women know the effect said body parts have on men and they will weaponize it because that is their nature. Young men are not ready to accept the fact that some of the tricks they spend time evading from their female partners have been played on them by their mothers without their knowledge, such men are always in mental conflicts with themselves. You maintain frame with your female partner but give passes to mommy to run your life, a strong wife will run your life too.

ProphetJeroboam:
True, we always talk about daddy issues so I decided to see it from the mommy’s side. Lack of a strong fatherly figure creates spineless men who gets fvked by women and the society. Under affection and over affection from their mothers causes same thing I’ve written up there and most times the affected men in this case mask their psychological attachments as being respectful to women. You are loved by your mother as a child, you are loved and respected by your mother as an adult male, that’s how it should be. Do you know why the female partners of men with dominant mother figure in their lives experience problems with said mother, it’s because women know women for what they are, the mother sees the female partner as an encroaching female who will divert the love, attention and resources they get from their sons, these women are not blinded by pussy, they see their son’s wife without filters. In turn, the female partners despise the mother because she is still in conquered territory, mother and wife see each other as trespassers. Every bit of their manipulative antics is reflected in their dealings with the son and husband/girlfriend and they see it for what it is, manipulations because it’s script played out of same book so they easily recognize each other’s script. I know we tend to avoid the concept of men simping for their mothers because it is a touchy subject here but a balance has to be struck in a young man’s life. Men who try to act dominant with their female partners but simp for their mothers are in danger because their mind will always be conflicted. When a man is in conflict with his mother, she will draw his attention to the fact that he suckled her breasts and came out of her vagina to make him subservient, when a man is in his conflict with his female partner, she will deny him access to same body parts to make him subservient, both women know the effect said body parts have on men and they will weaponize it because that is their nature. Young men are not ready to accept the fact that some of the tricks they spend time evading from their female partners have been played on them by their mothers without their knowledge, such men are always in mental conflicts with themselves. You maintain frame with your female partner but give passes to mommy to run your life, a strong wife will run your life too.

Akinbahm:
Kneel down and pray to God to change a hoe?

“…Verily, Allah will not change the (good) condition of a people as long as they do not change their state (of goodness) themselves (by committing sins and by being ungrateful and disobedient to Allah...

God, the creator of the universe said it himself he won’t change anyone except the person change himself, who am I to change someone bad behavior?

They are some key messages in scripture that are redpill but we failed to pay attention to them with our ITK.

daddio:
D'u know ladies like her (who thinks like her) were in support of her comment.

Would she ask her brother to pray for such woman (if the woman is her brother's wife).

daddio:
D'u know ladies like her (who thinks like her) were in support of her comment.

Would she ask her brother to pray for such woman (if the woman is her brother's wife).

ProphetJeroboam:
True, we always talk about daddy issues so I decided to see it from the mommy’s side. Lack of a strong fatherly figure creates spineless men who gets fvked by women and the society. Under affection and over affection from their mothers causes same thing I’ve written up there and most times the affected men in this case mask their psychological attachments as being respectful to women. You are loved by your mother as a child, you are loved and respected by your mother as an adult male, that’s how it should be. Do you know why the female partners of men with dominant mother figure in their lives experience problems with said mother, it’s because women know women for what they are, the mother sees the female partner as an encroaching female who will divert the love, attention and resources they get from their sons, these women are not blinded by pussy, they see their son’s wife without filters. In turn, the female partners despise the mother because she is still in conquered territory, mother and wife see each other as trespassers. Every bit of their manipulative antics is reflected in their dealings with the son and husband/girlfriend and they see it for what it is, manipulations because it’s script played out of same book so they easily recognize each other’s script. I know we tend to avoid the concept of men simping for their mothers because it is a touchy subject here but a balance has to be struck in a young man’s life. Men who try to act dominant with their female partners but simp for their mothers are in danger because their mind will always be conflicted. When a man is in conflict with his mother, she will draw his attention to the fact that he suckled her breasts and came out of her vagina to make him subservient, when a man is in his conflict with his female partner, she will deny him access to same body parts to make him subservient, both women know the effect said body parts have on men and they will weaponize it because that is their nature. Young men are not ready to accept the fact that some of the tricks they spend time evading from their female partners have been played on them by their mothers without their knowledge, such men are always in mental conflicts with themselves. You maintain frame with your female partner but give passes to mommy to run your life, a strong wife will run your life too.

ProphetJeroboam:
A house should be chosen by a man, a home is protected by the man and its inhabitants are under the protection of the man due to his role of being provider and protector. A king guilds his subjects to uninhabited fertile lands which he has deemed acceptable by his standards of a suitable space to protect and provide for his subordinates. A lot can be learnt from watching the dynamics of a lion and his pride. So much redpill lessons to be learnt from lions. It’s even funnier when you realize nothing could be wrong with the house, the woman could just be feeling moody about something totally unrelated, we all know how emotions are a woman’s compass.

emmaodet:
Hahahaha

It is like I live rent free in her head.
Sometimes I will just see 2 or more of my mention after log-in.

Even if am happily married, does it mean I shouldn’t say the things I see going on around me or within so as to share first hand information and also compare and contrast?

orchin:
Well, I still think a mother love is genuine, not conditional. She will love you for who you are, her son, wether you provide or not. So, to some extent, you can't compare a mum to a gf or wife

LordTheus:
It's the dangers of groupthink and herd mentality. Anybody who has slightly differing views from the fundamental perspective of a movement is going to be harshly vilified at worst or tagged ignorant at best. This is why it's always best to think for oneself.

On the issue of cooking, I don't see anything wrong with a man cooking if he simply enjoys it as a hobby. If he's doing it to please the wife, then it's a more tricky situation since she might come to expect similar acts in the future whether you like it or not. As for me and myself, I'm sure as hell not getting married so this is not going to be a problem

LordTheus:
It's the dangers of groupthink and herd mentality. Anybody who has slightly differing views from the fundamental perspective of a movement is going to be harshly vilified at worst or tagged ignorant at best. This is why it's always best to think for oneself.

Labadi69:
A thousand likes for this. That’s why I always say this place is full of teenagers and idiots. People that are no longer using their brains but just doing follow follow to belong to redpill movement because women don show them pepper for this life.

They just follow hook line and sinker anything from disgruntled elements who have had bad experiences with women and want to convert followers to hate women. That’s not what redpill is about jor. Yamayama fall on all those idiots bald heads

ProphetJeroboam:
“My wife gave us permission” to beg another female who controls her husband. The other guy enjoys being told not to stay out late by his wife like he’s 8. I am not a tribalist but I’ve seen Twitter trash the issue of Ibo men having the tendency to be pussy worshippers and I’ve started to observe this in some spaces. They’re known to train their woman through school while they labor under the scorching sun in Aba market, they’re known to lavish money and gifts on the women folks, even women know that Ibo men spend the most money on them. Hell, all the feminist/men hating women rights activists/writers are all married to ibo men. I know I’ll probably split the room with this but again, it’s just an observation. Funny enough, I grew up having the image of the average ibo man in mind as Okonkwo from things fall apart. This is not saying being blue pill is tribe dependent so I would like to be educated on some of the most blue pill acts we’ve seen from men of all tribes so we can see which tribe gets the highest vote, this is not to vilify that tribe but to understand and think logically about the possible root causes of this characteristics.

ubunja:
Currently watching this Samson movie on TV,, though not an accurate biblical representation, it presents harsh truths about the cunning and deceptive nature of women.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 93, REDPILL 2022

Don't hid what you want from the menu. The women that will comply will tick it.

Authority: Maintain frame.