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Re: I Was Shocked By What I Saw When She Came To Visit Me by Dawn91(m): 4:31pm On Mar 04, 2022
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HenryDion:
Tell me more about yourself
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You talk too much

Re: I Was Shocked By What I Saw When She Came To Visit Me by Lostchild(op): 5:01pm On Mar 04, 2022
BoredBerry:
Wait a minute...

I think I understand...

1. You're lonely...

2. You start an online relationship...

3. You fall in love...

4. You meet the women...

5. You're disappointed...

Right?
Despite my story being written in English, you still don't get it.

I wrote about my past experience and my current feeling of loneliness.

I hope you dig me now?
Re: I Was Shocked By What I Saw When She Came To Visit Me by Nobody: 6:37pm On Mar 04, 2022
Lostchild, I pray for u not to be lost
But found

I change your name to foundchild

undecided
Re: I Was Shocked By What I Saw When She Came To Visit Me by Kolena: 8:58pm On Mar 04, 2022
Dukeolumidemans:
Ur welcome. For now, I will go back to my ghost mode till whenever ur ready for me. Take care.
That girl is still in secondary school. Leave her be.
Re: I Was Shocked By What I Saw When She Came To Visit Me by Dukeolumidemans(m): 9:12pm On Mar 04, 2022
Kolena:
That girl is still in secondary school. Leave her be.
Done.
Re: I Was Shocked By What I Saw When She Came To Visit Me by Tonymegabush1(m): 9:16pm On Mar 04, 2022
Of all the hardship in this country na to join this long epistle.. op abeg
Re: I Was Shocked By What I Saw When She Came To Visit Me by youngblaq: 10:28pm On Mar 04, 2022
mmadu5:
I don't have time to read all these long essay but one thing I will say is that Ogun go kill you
This is uncalled for
Re: I Was Shocked By What I Saw When She Came To Visit Me by Nobody: 11:32pm On Mar 04, 2022
Please when is the story going to finish, let us comment na.

Who read that long shit self!!

Oya make I comment.

Please, who are the 2 sisters? When I was sliding down to comment I saw something like 2 sisters. what happened to them?
Re: I Was Shocked By What I Saw When She Came To Visit Me by Nobody: 9:29am On Mar 08, 2022
grin grin
Re: I Was Shocked By What I Saw When She Came To Visit Me by marsman: 10:41am On Mar 08, 2022
Why do i have the feeling that the 18 yrs old lady is boredberry huh
Re: I Was Shocked By What I Saw When She Came To Visit Me by Lostchild(op):
InTheCloudySky

Cloudy
This is what I mean when I says that, you are in my ♥Heart

60% OF ME ➻⤵

➳Want you in my life
➳Want you to trust me
➳Want to know you
➳Want to know about your person.
➳Wants to know your likes and dislike
➳Want to romantize you
➳Want you to give me yourself (body)
➳Wondering if you can wanka my soul mate.
➳Wants to marry you.
➳Feels that you will make a wonderful wife/mother.
➳Feels that you are a beautiful gal
➳Waiting for you to nudge me by showing interest.

40% OF ME⇝ ⇣

➲ Feels that I am not what you want.
➲ You want a financially rich man. undecided
➲ You feels that I am too broke
➲ Age Difference (I am approaching 37yrs)
➲ Physical Looks wink
➲ Spiritual fears.
➲ Distance ?
➲ You just want to chat zone me.
➲ You are taken already.

If you have anything to tell me, email me
Re: I Was Shocked By What I Saw When She Came To Visit Me by Nobody:
Hi Lostchild. I don't believe in online relationships or LDRs and definitely not with someone from Nairaland, I'm sorry. I can be your friend and I believe we're already friends, but as for a relationship, that won't be possible. Thanks for your interest, however.


[quote author=Lostchild



Lostchild:
InTheCloudySky

Cloudy
This is what I mean when I says that, you are in my ♥Heart

60% OF ME ➻⤵

➳Want you in my life
➳Want you to trust me
➳Want to know you
➳Want to know about your person.
➳Want to know your birth name
➳Wants to know your likes and dislike
➳Want to romantize you
➳Want you to give me yourself (body)
➳Wondering if you can wanka my soul mate.
➳Wants to marry you.
➳Feels that you will make a wonderful wife/mother.
➳Feels that you are a beautiful gal
➳Waiting for you to nudge me by showing interest.

40% OF ME⇝ ⇣

➲ Feels that I am not what you want.
➲ You want a financially rich man. undecided
➲ You feels that I am too broke
➲ Age Difference (I am approaching 37yrs)
➲ Physical Looks wink
➲ Spiritual fears.
➲ Distance ?
➲ You just want to chat zone me.
➲ You are taken already.

If you have anything to tell me, email me
Re: I Was Shocked By What I Saw When She Came To Visit Me by Lostchild(op):
InTheCloudySky:
Hi Lostchild. I don't believe in online relationships or LDRs and definitely not with someone from Nairaland, I'm sorry. I can be your friend and I believe we're already friends, but as for a relationship, that won't be possible. Thanks for your interest, however.


P.S: You PMed me early last month and I replied with a "Hi" and you didn't reply thereafter. You can reply that mail and we can chat as friends. I don't mind being your friend. You know I always enjoy reading your interesting stories on NL. Take care. smiley
I lauuuughh and smiled after reading your feedback.

I asked, because your vibes left me confused as a single man. And I totally agree with you that, online relationship is not healthy at all, even though it does happens. It is more better you are attracted to a person physically than online.

I already did appreciate your friendship because I like you being nice. I like your energy and your ability to understand me when others female choose the cursing and hating.

I will tell you from experience that, a man and a woman can never be life long friends, unless unless unless $ or sex is involve lipsrsealed

Over the years I have had situation where I tried to be just good friends with single babes, but it didn't work.

Why?

Because they wanted more than friendship from me. They wanted me to romantize them. They feel it was a waste of their time and I loss them because I refused to romantize and service them.

Over the years I have had many situation where married women fought me and fustrate my life because I refused to befriend them.

I refused their friendship because it is useless and waste of my time.

They hated me for this when I refused to give them friendship and (self)

Cloudy. Do you know why I wanted to romantize you?

Because you dig me.
Because I enjoy your attention.
Because a single woman can not be longtime friends with a single man.

Because I feel you acknowledge me for the Man I really am.

Because It is better to loss a woman by asking her out, than to loss a woman by not being sensitive to ask her out.

I appreciate you even though I am already prepared to move home.
Re: I Was Shocked By What I Saw When She Came To Visit Me by Johnny147147: 5:40pm On Apr 08, 2022
That's Chidi2022. The unattractive smelling ugly wretched beetch that no man wanna associate with
Re: I Was Shocked By What I Saw When She Came To Visit Me by Nobody:
Hmm, those are women close to you in proximity/location, and who wanted a relationship with you, though. There's no comparison between me and them. Why not give one of them (excluding the married women) a chance? Surely, they can't all be bad.


Lostchild:
I smiled and laugh after reading your feedback.

I asked, because your vibes left me confused as a single man. And I totally agree with you that, online relationship is not healthy at all, even though it does happens. It is more better you are attracted to a person physically than online.

I already did appreciate your friendship because I like your tenderness. I like your energy and your ability to understand me when others female choose the hating.

I will tell you from experience that, a man and a woman can never be life long friends, Unless Unless Unless $ or lipsrsealed

Over the years I have had situation where I tried to be just good friends with single women, but it didn't work.

Why?

Because they wanted more than friendship from me. They wanted to romantize me. They feel it was a waste of their time and I loss them because I refused to romantize and service them.

Over the years I have had situation where married women fought me and fustrate my life because I refused to befriend them.

I refused their friendship because it is useless and waste of my time.

They hated me for this when I refused to give them my attention and (self)

Cloudy. Do you know why I wanted to romantize you?

Because you dig me.
Because I keep thinking of you.
Because I enjoy your attention.
Because a single woman can not be longtime friends with a single man.

Because I should not have paid attention to you at first, but now I did.

Because I feel you acknowledge me for the Man I really am.

Because It is better to loss a woman by asking her out, than to loss a woman by not being sensitive to ask her out.

I am proud of you even though I already did LS you.
Re: I Was Shocked By What I Saw When She Came To Visit Me by Lostchild(op):
InTheCloudySky:
Hmm, those are women close to you in proximity/location, and who wanted a relationship with you, though. There's no comparison between me and them. Why not give one of them (excluding the married women) a chance? Surely, they can't all be bad.
Do you have to remove the compliment just because I didn't respond to you on time?

Do you have to always feel bad when I don't respond to your quote on time?

If I don't respond to you on time, it is because I was busy with something more important than nairaland.

smiley
Re: I Was Shocked By What I Saw When She Came To Visit Me by Lostchild(op):
InTheCloudySky

You are sounding more like a Nigerian gal undecided
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