SweetiliciousD:
All attention is focused in the man who is a victim of circumstances.

No one is mentioning the root of that bitterness. If she had nothing to hide, why plead that her problem is kept secret?

Those who demand for peace must be willing and able to give peace to their partners in return.

Only a beastly Man lifts his hand on a woman at peace with him.

You haven't said anything meaningful... Not one thing!

So, the solution to a troublesome woman (not at peace with him) is to keep pounding her till she finally dies!

This forum is a fertile ground for obtuse kids.

More, some of these pastors make themselves too distanced from members and too busy also that members don't even have the space to get closer to them how much more to share their pains. They have becomes gods and presidents with heavy securities and protocols. Even to see some takes more than 3months, a pastor o.

All na cruise abeg.

RIP to her.

Give examples please

Please can you help m with the video

hamedollar:
Some men can be so toxic and callous, when I saw a video how she was being beating by her husband I was just shaking

She may not have died as a result of Domestic violence

The autopsy will definitely reveal what killed her though but as it stands now Domestic Violence has been roped in by many via emotions

Emotions are high and tempers are flaring, we may all still be disappointed just like that of the boy that died at Dowen College once the autopsy is out.

That been said, Domestic violence is bad. To all our men please don't beat your woman, Love her unconditionally. To our women, please respect and submit to your husbands.

If for any reason any of the partner becomes uncontrollable and you can't stand his or her attitudes, please walk away in peace!

So what should we do

If a man dies in this kinda scenario in expence of the wife, the society wont give a fvvk..


All they've been thinking is to value women and throw men to the d!tch...
Biased world...


When a man dies, most humans dont care...
When a woman dies, justice for bla bla bla...

¤We go dey alright alas¤

Not that I'm doubting o
Was the pastor not aware during Osinachi 1 year absence from her marriage

Mayeldah:
She may not have died as a result of Domestic violence

The autopsy will definitely reveal what killed her though but as it stands not Domestic Violence has been roped in by many via emotions

Emotions are high and tempers are flaring, we may all still be disappointed just like that of the boy that died at Dowen College once the autopsy is out.

That been said, Domestic violence is bad. To all our men please don't beat your woman. If for any reason she becomes uncontrollable and you can't stand her attitudes, please send her away in peace!

A man with emotions!

Tryna think logicallly

Read again and point out the lies different from what we don read so far from people that knw the beast that killed her.Pastor Eneche even mentioned Doctors names so that pipu like u can verify.National hospital,
Abuja isn't far.Feel free to enter bus go do ur own correct investigation. Ndi Asiri

Orangedreams:
You see my problem with today's church, in those days God revealed things to men of God. How come as anointed as Pastor Enenche for once both him and the wife and as spiritual as the claim could not sense, percieve or hear from the spirit what this lady was passing through in the hands of her husband?

Again, I smell lies from this long epistle. A top singer of the church like this woman, pastor can't tell me he never heard for once what she was passing through at home. But of course it has happened everyone wants to pull their heads off that is the system we find ourselves.

More, some of these pastors make themselves too distanced from members and too busy also that members don't even have the space to get closer to them how much more to share their pains. They have becomes gods and presidents with heavy securities and protocols. Even to see some takes more than 3months, a pastor o.

All na cruise abeg.

RIP to her.

hamedollar:
Some men can be so toxic and callous, when I saw a video how she was being beating by her husband I was just shaking

Such a video exists?!!! The police and courts have no excuse then!

delpee:


You didn't read his message thoroughly. She and her family had regular access to the Pastor. Sadly she chose to keep her problems to herself.

It is you that is refusing to read it well, what he is saying is that, it is not possible for somebody of her profile to have such access to the pastor and such domestic issue did not get to the pastors hearing. Imagine the number of pple that already know now. How old is even the first child that he can recall all this but keep such as secret?

appishani1:
My big worry now is that,
her husband won't face the wrath of the law with nigerian police.
They will let him free if he get money.

Whx una no dey use una brain to reason b4 commenting. Is there any report that the husband beat her to death. Yes the husband might be a beast in the house he might have cos the woman to die tru his behaviour leading to the woman being emotional, physical stress combine with her health condition. Bt that still doesn`t mean the police can arrest the man.

hamedollar:
Some men can be so toxic and callous, when I saw a video how she was being beating by her husband I was just shaking

Please can you share the video link ?

Trust me some men do, most women in her shoes are way peaceful than u can imagine and they love their husbands and treat them like god which boost their ego, secondly most men involve in dis act are perfectionist and want the women to act and do things their way else they see them as foolish and stupid that need to be beaten to correct them

SweetiliciousD:
All attention is focused in the man who is a victim of circumstances.

No one is mentioning the root of that bitterness. If she had nothing to hide, why plead that her problem is kept secret?

Those who demand for peace must be willing and able to give peace to their partners in return.

Only a beastly Man lifts his hand on a woman at peace with him.

SweetiliciousD:
All attention is focused in the man who is a victim of circumstances.

No one is mentioning the root of that bitterness. If she had nothing to hide, why plead that her problem is kept secret?

Those who demand for peace must be willing and able to give peace to their partners in return.

Only a beastly Man lifts his hand on a woman at peace with him.

Victim of circumstances you said Even if you caught your wife red handed cheating or no matter what she has done... You don't have the right to murder someone daughter oga...if your wife is giving you hell... what stoping you from letting her go why killing her.. domestic violence is a criminal offense... It's more than what you're saying

Akwamkpuruamu:


Pastor does not poke nose into people's homes. He's too busy for that. His story is pure, tried and factual. And you can see the names of Doctors he mentioned to see the role he played. You can inquire from those doctors if he actually called them or not.

The fact that he mentioned the doctors to me is mere distraction on the part he played. Call the doctors to ask them what exactly?
This does not take away the fact that such happened under his nose without him sensing it. You guys should pull ur heads out your a55. These men dont see shht!

Orangedreams:
You see my problem with today's church, in those days God revealed things to men of God. How come as anointed as Pastor Enenche for once both him and the wife and as spiritual as the claim could not sense, percieve or hear from the spirit what this lady was passing through in the hands of her husband?

Again, I smell lies from this long epistle. A top singer of the church like this woman, pastor can't tell me he never heard for once what she was passing through at home. But of course it has happened everyone wants to pull their heads off that is the system we find ourselves.

More, some of these pastors make themselves too distanced from members and too busy also that members don't even have the space to get closer to them how much more to share their pains. They have becomes gods and presidents with heavy securities and protocols. Even to see some takes more than 3months, a pastor o.

All na cruise abeg.

RIP to her.

Maybe your question or rather complain should be directed to God who did not reveal it to him.

Could it be that the woman was into something shameful that only the man and the children knew about? How can he beat her continously without the woman calling the police and family on him. There is something secret that neither the man nor the children are willing to reveal. My thought actually.
I had heard of a man beating his wife because she takes hard drugs. Even the woman herself will tell neighbours not to interfere thereby keeping the secrets to themselves.

Jeromejnr:


Read to comprehend and not spewing you preconceived beliefs because you hate religion.

I have read it and my conclusions remains the same......

You don't have to respond to my post, but your busybody would not allow you get sense .............

lapazi:


The fact that he mentioned the doctors to me is mere distraction on the part he played. Call the doctors to ask them what exactly?
This does not take away the fact that such happened under his nose without him sensing it. You guys should pull ur heads out your a55. These men dont see shht!

Lol

RoyalBlu:
This should serve as a big lesson for women in this kind of situation.

Silence is not the answer!!!

Women, please speak up!!!

These children and our 'reputation' we're trying to protect, will mean absolutely nothing when we lose our lives to a beastly partner.

Life will go on... And the children will survive somehow.

Fact...

Orangedreams:
You see my problem with today's church, in those days God revealed things to men of God. How come as anointed as Pastor Enenche for once both him and the wife and as spiritual as the claim could not sense, percieve or hear from the spirit what this lady was passing through in the hands of her husband?

Again, I smell lies from this long epistle. A top singer of the church like this woman, pastor can't tell me he never heard for once what she was passing through at home. But of course it has happened everyone wants to pull their heads off that is the system we find ourselves.

More, some of these pastors make themselves too distanced from members and too busy also that members don't even have the space to get closer to them how much more to share their pains. They have becomes gods and presidents with heavy securities and protocols. Even to see some takes more than 3months, a pastor o.

All na cruise abeg.

RIP to her.

if you don't have any meaningful thing to comment just safe your data in other not to attract the wrath of God

SweetiliciousD:
All attention is focused in the man who is a victim of circumstances.

No one is mentioning the root of that bitterness. If she had nothing to hide, why plead that her problem is kept secret?

Those who demand for peace must be willing and able to give peace to their partners in return.

Only a beastly Man lifts his hand on a woman at peace with him.

I expected your type to pop up on this thread. Blaming the victim and not the oppressor.

Evil men everywhere.

SweetiliciousD:
All attention is focused in the man who is a victim of circumstances.

No one is mentioning the root of that bitterness. If she had nothing to hide, why plead that her problem is kept secret?

Those who demand for peace must be willing and able to give peace to their partners in return.

Only a beastly Man lifts his hand on a woman at peace with him.

To your first comment, this is just a mischievous take, don't pray to be in such a situation.
The least you can do is not speak ill of the dead! Atleast!

Orangedreams:
You see my problem with today's church, in those days God revealed things to men of God. How come as anointed as Pastor Enenche for once both him and the wife and as spiritual as the claim could not sense, percieve or hear from the spirit what this lady was passing through in the hands of her husband?

Again, I smell lies from this long epistle. A top singer of the church like this woman, pastor can't tell me he never heard for once what she was passing through at home. But of course it has happened everyone wants to pull their heads off that is the system we find ourselves.

More, some of these pastors make themselves too distanced from members and too busy also that members don't even have the space to get closer to them how much more to share their pains. They have becomes gods and presidents with heavy securities and protocols. Even to see some takes more than 3months, a pastor o.

All na cruise abeg.

RIP to her.

He has explained what he knows about the matter.
You only smell lies because you are a liar yourself and so think that everyone is like you.
Must God reveal what she was going through when she's not deaf and dumb?
She killed herself by not exposing her abuser.
Instead of you to blame the abuser and the ones who kept the abuse secret, you insolently attack and accuse the man of God.
Many of you lack home training.
Is that how you would talk back at your father, if the Pastor were to be your Dad?
Don't let God judge you over a matter that doesn't concern you.
Shalom.

But why would someone endure so much humiliation and stay put there like a tree?

It can be because of many things:

1. The husband was privy to a secret document or item with which he constantly blackmailed the singer into submission. Perhaps, he caught her cheating, and the information is such that could destroy her image, and end her music career.

2. The husband had perfected the art of emotional abuse, the most subtle and dangerous type of spousal/domestic abuse. He had rendered her so worthless in her own eyes that she felt totally useless without him in her life.

My advice to anyone who still feels foolish enough to want marriage, physical abuse is not the only form of domestic violence. Words like "You must be mad", "Ugly fool", "You are useless!" are words that I have heard people use on each other in relationships. Don't tolerate these words. There is no difference between a physically violent spouse and a verbally or emotionally violent one.

Violence is violence.

If you are a man, do not make excuses for your partner calling you names. Being angry doesn't give her the right to disrespect you as she pleases. Enabling a nagging woman is just like encouraging a spoilt child. When the child grows to a stage, he will bring sorrow into your life.

If you are a woman, do not let a man talk down on you. There is a difference between being overly sensitive and legitimately demanding respect. Because I have heard men say their girlfriends are too sensitive. And when I ask for the detail, they tell me that she left their house because they called her names. There was one that even went as far as calling the girl "a dirty pig" because she did not do the dishes before they both went to bed. I asked him if he didn't think there was a better more respectful way to point out the error committed by an adult. In fact, using such words on a child is unacceptable, not to talk of on an adult. A person you claim to love, but can't correct with love and respect.

Watch out for the more subtle abuse, especially emotional abuse. Because that is usually the one used to gain control over the victim.

Lexusgs430:


I have read it and my conclusions remains the same......

You don't have to respond to my post, but your busybody would not allow you get sense .............

That last statement is obviously for you. So Practice what you preach.

Good one from the pastor. Clearly the husband was a devil and killed the wife.

Always there with the wife in the presence of the pastor so she wont talk.

I just saw the video of this psycho man beating and hitting his wife with his head and electric iron.i can't stop crying.my hand are shaking. Can someone help me out from this trauma I am in now.

You didn't read his message thoroughly. She and her family had regular access to the Pastor. Sadly she chose to keep her problems to herself.

For how many years they were in the church.. u wanna tell me there wasn't a clue or hint of abuse on the woman

gmec23:


You didn't read his message thoroughly. She and her family had regular access to the Pastor. Sadly she chose to keep her problems to herself.

For how many years they were in the church.. u wanna tell me there wasn't a clue or hint of abuse on the woman

That's the point. It's not supposed to be so. Some things aren't right in the relationship, but we leave it to God

If this stories was true, then I have nothing to say it her choice to keep it secret and she eventually know what's coming to her. You see something, say something sikena