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What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by Nobody: 6:45pm On Apr 17, 2022
Why are you presently dating the person you’re dating? If you’re not dating anyone yet but about to start dating someone, why?

For me I am coming of age and I feel this great pressure in my head, not from friends or family or even society but from my brain to seriously go into a relationship. I feel like I need a companion to enjoy the small progress I have made for myself and it feels selfish and lonely to have all these little blessings and just enjoy it all by myself. But I have a serious challenge, billing!! I fear billing like I fear poverty. I dread the idea of her billing me or the idea of me constantly spending to make the relationship work. I was supposed to take a girl I really like out today but could not get past the idea of spending money that I should be saving for things I consider really important. I’m abit in a dilemma, I want to date but I don’t want to spend.

Anyways what’s your reason for going into your present relationship?

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Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by Jennyclay(f): 6:47pm On Apr 17, 2022
Relationship is beautiful only if you're with the right person. But unfortunately men see the right person as one who can satisfy their sexual cravings.

If your relationship wouldn't survive if sex is taken out of it , I guess you need to reconsider such relationship.

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Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by Nobody: 6:51pm On Apr 17, 2022
Arrrrrrrh

Relationship this days is a "give and collect" kinda of things. Everybody for him self.

Singleness is Sweet but the intimidation you will face from sweet looking relationship will make you jam into a wrong, billing, sex relationship.

I just tire!!
Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by arthurwillia(m): 6:53pm On Apr 17, 2022
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Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by Daniel7543: 6:56pm On Apr 17, 2022
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Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by yanabasee(m): 7:11pm On Apr 17, 2022
Having a girl friend is inevitable and I can not be shaken with all the sad and bad news on the frontpage about marriages....



Honestly speaking... I had a girl I knew was toxic and gets angry easily.... Expected so much from me and gave little back to the relationship... I tried to keep the relationship going but like God will have it, she couldn't stay because she knew she wouldn't be able to control me....


When you allow a woman to control you , you end up putting yourself in a fix and you only have social media to complain... If any woman talks nonsense to me, I will beat the nonsense out of you.. if you like, go and report to the social media judged... If you did something good, I wouldn't lay a finger on you...

Them no born you well to abuse me.. Or make me feel uncomfortable to go home from work... instead, na you go taya for di marriage....

At work, I have a colleague, a pastor who stays back in the office till evening because his wife is a terror...


Anyway, I love my relationship, my bae de respect and I de give her the same respect .. Just last week, I took her for a special treat... Anyway she mess up, na so I go follow mess up...

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Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by BarrSly: 7:32pm On Apr 17, 2022
This is the mistake I see young men make these days. You make a little money and you feel all of a sudden you need a woman to compliment your lifestyle. No!! Introducing a woman into your life would only make you feel good for a few months and then you’ll ‘cum' to your senses when you realize that all the things you are getting from her now, you could get it all without needing her.

Are you lonely, go on a trip, do you feel h*rny get some young campus chicks to come get you happy pay them off after all they need money for handouts and some other silly stuffs but don’t turn them to gf, are you hungry get a maid to do steady cooking.

Life is very easy and we could all enjoy it better when we realize women are nothing but a burden to us.


Badboibipo:
Why are you presently dating the person you’re dating? If you’re not dating anyone yet but about to start dating someone, why?

For me I am coming of age and I feel this great pressure in my head, not from friends or family or even society but from my brain to seriously go into a relationship. I feel like I need a companion to enjoy the small progress I have made for myself and it feels selfish and lonely to have all these little blessings and just enjoy it all by myself. But I have a serious challenge, billing!! I fear billing like I fear poverty. I dread the idea of her billing me or the idea of me constantly spending to make the relationship work. I was supposed to take a girl I really like out today but could not get past the idea of spending money that I should be saving for things I consider really important. I’m abit in a dilemma, I want to date but I don’t want to spend.

Anyways what’s your reason for going into your present relationship?

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Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by Sureplug123(m): 7:34pm On Apr 17, 2022
Jennyclay:
Relationship is beautiful only if you're with the right person. But unfortunately men see the right person as one who can satisfy their sexual cravings.

If your relationship wouldn't survive if sex is taken out of it , I guess you need to reconsider such relationship.
If your relationship wouldn't survive if money is taken out of it , I guess you need to reconsider such relationship.

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Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by Jennyclay(f): 7:37pm On Apr 17, 2022
Sureplug123:
If your relationship wouldn't survive if money is taken out of it , I guess you need to reconsider such relationship.
Then speak for yourself... Why are you now quoting me?

Please get out of my mention!!!
Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by Sureplug123(m): 7:39pm On Apr 17, 2022
It's better to pay a prostitute than to date a Nigerian woman. They are just sexual objects, no value.

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Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by Boogyman557: 7:42pm On Apr 17, 2022
Holly Gram cool


ASHAWOO na the best TIN!



I just from ASHAWOO house de JAZZ back now..


E be like sey, ASHAWOO the do promo today or them de do Easter for there regular customers!


I JAZZ in ASHAWOO house around 1pm..


As I sey make I climb up stairs NaSo I Facebook one fine ASHAWOO BANI for down..


DIS girl age go be like 18 to 20yrs, she FINE well well.. her body too clean, her nails too clean..


As a sharp nigga, NaSo I Rush her, me and her ENTER room, I give her 5h, she talk sey make I add 5h on top the 5h making it 1k so that she go do me WELL..


NaSo I add the money because my PREEK don STAND like iroko tree!


if u see as this girl BOBZ stand like STANDING fan! NaSo I CHUK mouth and SUUCK SUUK dis BOBZ wit PASSION!


she wear me CONDOMM, I CHUK PREEK, her TOTTO tight, I tell her to put CREAM, she put CREAM, I CHUK PREEK!


chai dis girl sweet ooo.. the sweetness of her TOTTO really SCATTER my head pan!


I collect her number Shar..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

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Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Apr 17, 2022
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool


ASHAWOO na the best TIN!



I just from ASHAWOO house de JAZZ back now..


E be like sey, ASHAWOO the do promo today or them de do Easter for there regular customers!


I JAZZ in ASHAWOO house around 1pm..


As I sey make I climb up stairs NaSo I Facebook one fine ASHAWOO BANI for down..


DIS girl age go be like 18 to 20yrs, she FINE well well.. her body too clean, her nails too clean..


As a sharp nigga, NaSo I Rush her, me and her ENTER room, I give her 5h, she talk sey make I add 5h on top the 5h making it 1k so that she go do me WELL..


NaSo I add the money because my PREEK don STAND like iroko tree!


if u see as this girl BOBZ stand like STANDING fan! NaSo I CHUK mouth and SUUCK SUUK dis BOBZ wit PASSION!


she wear me CONDOMM, I CHUK PREEK, her TOTTO tight, I tell her to put CREAM, she put CREAM, I CHUK PREEK!


chai dis girl sweet ooo.. the sweetness of her TOTTO really SCATTER my head pan!


I collect her number Shar..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

Lol grin grin

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Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by czarr(m): 8:23pm On Apr 17, 2022
Jennyclay:
Relationship is beautiful only if you're with the right person. But unfortunately men see the right person as one who can satisfy their sexual cravings.

If your relationship wouldn't survive if sex is taken out of it , I guess you need to reconsider such relationship.
If your relationship wouldn't survive if emotional connection is taken out of it, you also need to consider such relationship. see how that sounds?

Both men and women love sex, but men have that drive and biological need to release the build up in their scrotum, men and women are different, women based on their biology value emotional connection more, while men value sex more....it's really selfish to look at relationship from the female perspective only, a man's need for sex doesn't make him less of a person. If you were in a man's body you'll prioritize sex too.

Sex is just as valid as emotional connection in any relationship, no one should be placed above the other because it suits one gender.

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Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by Botking: 9:58pm On Apr 17, 2022
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the only way to know the real love of a woman is when she has own money, if she tell you she love you then you know is true

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Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by fikayormi(m): 10:00pm On Apr 17, 2022
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Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by Prettygirl200(f): 11:46pm On Apr 17, 2022
Let me sit and read comments.
Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by Iamnorth: 12:14am On Apr 18, 2022
For bleeping sake i must say! The relationship is more physical than emotional
Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by Nobody: 12:20am On Apr 18, 2022
Badboibipo:
Why are you presently dating the person you’re dating? If you’re not dating anyone yet but about to start dating someone, why?

For me I am coming of age and I feel this great pressure in my head, not from friends or family or even society but from my brain to seriously go into a relationship. I feel like I need a companion to enjoy the small progress I have made for myself and it feels selfish and lonely to have all these little blessings and just enjoy it all by myself. But I have a serious challenge, billing!! I fear billing like I fear poverty. I dread the idea of her billing me or the idea of me constantly spending to make the relationship work. I was supposed to take a girl I really like out today but could not get past the idea of spending money that I should be saving for things I consider really important. I’m abit in a dilemma, I want to date but I don’t want to spend.

Anyways what’s your reason for going into your present relationship?

"You want to d8, you dinnuh wantu spend" grin grin grin grin
Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by Boomboost(m): 6:25am On Apr 18, 2022
Jennyclay:
Then speak for yourself... Why are you now quoting me?

Please get out of my mention!!!

Well, who also was waiting for this? grin

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Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by Nobody: 7:18am On Apr 18, 2022
[quote author=Jennyclay post=112034368]Relationship is beautiful only if you're with the right person. But unfortunately men see the right person as one who can satisfy their sexual cravings.

If your relationship wouldn't survive if sex is taken out of it , I guess you need to reconsider such


love is sweet o but when money enter love is sweeter " but unfortunately Nigerian girls cannot do without begging for money, they literally turn themselves to alamjiri and recharge card auto billers when u show them interest, if their relationship wouldn't survive if begging for money and card is taken out, I think u should reconsider such, forget those "ndi na eji toto eme ogoo
Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by Nobody: 8:08pm On Apr 18, 2022
czarr:
If your relationship wouldn't survive if emotional connection is taken out of it, you also need to consider such relationship. see how that sounds?

Both men and women love sex, but men have that drive and biological need to release the build up in their scrotum, men and women are different, women based on their biology value emotional connection more, while men value sex more....it's really selfish to look at relationship from the female perspective only, a man's need for sex doesn't make him less of a person. If you were in a man's body you'll prioritize sex too.

Sex is just as valid as emotional connection in any relationship, no one should be placed above the other because it suits one gender.

You are very intelligent mr man, very intelligent. *claps*

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Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by yuping(m): 9:44pm On Apr 18, 2022
undecided I just want connection with the opposite sex, you can't know about women from men naaa.
Re: What’s The Main Reason Why You’re Presently In A Relationship Or About To Enter? by toujurs: 9:56pm On Apr 18, 2022
Jennyclay:
Relationship is beautiful only if you're with the right person. But unfortunately men see the right person as one who can satisfy their sexual cravings.

If your relationship wouldn't survive if sex is taken out of it , I guess you need to reconsider such relationship.
Shut up, of what use is a broke bitch like you. If not for sexual purposes. A girl with even no name undecided

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