Demigod22:


English outside, you understand what that person is saying. I have friend in Asokoro, he is the only child and his dad is late. He grew up with the mother in the big family house. The house have about eight rooms. Even when he returned from school and started working, his grandfather told him not to abandon his father's house. He is planning to marry too and the mother is living there. You expect such a person, the only wire that is holding the entire family, his father's business, house, and other stuff to leave the home and rent an apartment? Although his mom is peaceful, not the sassy type.

TheNiceGuy:
Malory Fahdiga come here

Bobmarie:
Mehn. Rest bro

Kendrick80:
Men: Can u marry an unemployed lady?

VictorUSA:
Prettygirl, I don't expect this from you.

Bobmarie:
Here none of you can sleep with your wife’s parents in the same house either but Mr Eazi is sleeping in Otedola’s daughter house while the rest of your gender are calling him lucky on Twitter.


Rich people are different. Stop acting like men don’t change their principles for money exactly like women do, the fact that y’all try to act like saints when the whole world is laughing at you for being so money hungry is funny. We all worship money in Nigeria.

Prettygirl200:
[s]This one no b talk, as long as u are ready for marriage u should know what to do. If he can't leave the family house bc he is an only child or bc he can't leave his mother then he shouldn't get married, he should remain single or marry his mother. Full stop no lady wants to stay in a family house where their privacies will be invaded[/s].

emmaodet:
I don’t understand this front and backs.
Is it the man marrying the woman? Or the woman marrying the man?
If a man sees a woman, approaches her and she agrees and is okay with moving to his family house, is there a problem there? If she is not satisfied with it, she can get the f.chuck off instead of all these “why can’t the man move to his wife’s family house”
Is a man not the main provider again? Is the not the one using his leg to search for a liability/responsibility to but in his house and raise?
OR the woman wants to marry a man, house him, feed him, cloth him, put him on salary and get him a car? If yes, then he can move in with her if it is okay by him.

Magnoliaa:


So now you're supporting a baby mama's inordinate hold over their only child?

If a single mother refuses to allow her son move to a new home with his wife to start a family, you're saying that is right?

I love how y'all always get yourselves into a conundrum. Because you're trying to speak against a new wife, you're inadvertently supporting a mother who will clip her son's wings and not allow him be to be a man. If a wife was not in the picture, I'm sure you'll be demonising a single mother who treats her son the way you've described. But now that a wife is in the picture, you're suddenly supporting a single mother in being a 'troublesome and meddling' mother-in-law in her son's marriage. Now you're saying it is okay for only sons to stay with their mothers and live with them. Tomorrow, you'll be demonising women as being bad single mothers and mothers-in-law.

So I see the condition you set forth ain't applicable to you. You expect your wife to come and live with you because you're an only child to your mom, but you want to rip her away from her dad or mom, whom she is an only child to. Is it fair? Forget marriage system and culture. The same marriage system expect you to pay bride price
and be a provider, but you'll complain about that that it's not fair. So don't be supporting traditional marriage set up when it suits you. You should be asking what is right. If your wife is an only child, do you think her parents or single parent too do not want her to stay with them? If you're the child of a single mom or you're an only son, when you want to get married you'll do it at your parents' or mother's home, ba?

If a single mother does not want her son to leave her, why should that same single mother allow her daughter to leave her? If a single mother wants her son to stay and his wife should cope, then a single mother can equally want her daughter to stay and her husband to cope.

Can you do that for your wife? You love her afterall and her parents brought her up. Can you learn to live with your in-laws in the same building? Oh, or is disrespect going to arise? If you cannot stay in your in-laws' house because of the possibility of see-finish, do you not think it is possible for your wife to be disrespected too? Your mother and your wife won't see each other finish? If your wife still stays with her father, why CAN'T YOU cope with that? Don't tell me it's not how it's done in the society. Tell me WHY you cannot cope with living with your wife's dad or mom. Personally.

Put yourself in the scenarios above that I've described and in whatever response you're going to give me. If you know there are some things you cannot accept, put your wife in the same place too and see if she can accept it...

Kobojunkie:
What if he is taking here of a sick woman and lives with her in order to save on bills and stuff?,

SilentQueen:
Hell NO

I'd rather stay single

I mean who would be cooking for him
We would not be able to knack well in peace

ukaface:
Different things can make him still live with his mother, first know the reason.
If he is living there, cos he is a MUMMY'S BOY, straight up I go japa

Lamanii22:
Currently married to one..

Gambit1:


My sis married her husband when the guy was still living in his father's house. He was a Msc holder but jobless at the moment, after the wedding, they rented their own house, after 6months thet processed my sister's admission in the UK and they both went. Now they have 3houses in Nigeria, one in lekki, one in ibadan and one in our hometown. They also have a house in Manchester, with three lovely children.

Don't look down on any man.

Magnoliaa:


So now you're supporting a baby mama's inordinate hold over their only child?

If a single mother refuses to allow her son move to a new home with his wife to start a family, you're saying that is right?

I love how y'all always get yourselves

SURElee:
A man shall leave his father and mother and cleave with his wife not live with his wife in the family house.


That man is a mama's boy that wants to put his wife under his mother's roof so that the mother will begin to find fault in his wife over silly things

MisterKennedy:


Happy easter to you dear

semanose:
@Stevenecheolm

Abort Mission Now!!!

That is if you are planning to.

Guess what.
Out of love, I did that and stayed for 5 years.

Disaster...

Do you know what my mama-in-law told me?

As far he is under my roof, I will never seen him as a grown up man. My house my rules.

Due to some made tales, it didn't take long for us to move out.

Free house is the path to See finish and preventable wahala

Prettygirl200:
This one no b talk, as long as u are ready for marriage u should know what to do. If he can't leave the family house bc he is an only child or bc he can't leave his mother then he shouldn't get married, he should remain single or marry his mother. Full stop no lady wants to stay in a family house where their privacies will be invaded.

Prettygirl200:
am just being sincere here I can't marry like that, I need privacy with my husband he can come and be visiting maybe twice a week or so. If he doesn't have that time I will do the visiting with the kids but staying with her is what I don't like.

MisterKennedy:


Happy Easter to you prettygirl

Prettygirl200:
Same sweetie!!!! Where is the Easter rice

SURElee:



Same to you friend. God bless you.

MisterKennedy:


Baby Easter rice is all set... Plus salad, chin-chin, kunu and wine.... All waiting for you baby.