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rickleye:
I’m with rick here …… enjoy the relationship . Give it a year and see where it goes.
After that you have “ our blessings” ( not that you need it ) to put a ring on the finger.

Ricks are always special...I GREET YOU PLENTY PLENTY...LOL

Kriss216:
1. No man will abandon a good woman, always remember this.

2. Never believe the words of a Nigerian girl.

3. You can't ascertain if you truly love a woman until you bang her recklessly.

4. May the force be with you.

I disagree bro with number 1-3
1. I had to abandon good women. I was hustling and was not prepared to settle down.
2. Can’t lump all gals together.
3. The More banging the less interesting they become. You get bored and look for something different.

rickpat:
Ricks are always special...I GREET YOU PLENTY PLENTY...LOL

I was reading your response to the Op and I said “ this person sounded matured and seasoned “ so I scroll up and lol when I see your moniker” .
Trust your day has been good.

rickleye:
I was reading your response to the Op and I said “ this person sounded matured and seasoned “ so I scroll up and lol when I see your moniker” .
Trust your day has been good.

yeah..my day was good...hope yours was good too?

Mekenz:
I will advise you not to rush into marriage with her, there's so many things you have to look at first, have you prayed about the situation?
Have you guys done some medical checkup to ascertain, whether you guys are compatible medically?
What of her family and friends, have you meet with any of them, cus as they say, show me your friends.........
What of her spiritual life?

Please don't fall to the wimps and caprices of a woman, you're still young for that.

Remember the guy that left her incommunicado, might have his reasons ooo, befriend her first and watch her closely.

N:b love is not enough.

You're full of wisdom sir. Thank you for your advice. I'm gonna answer your accordingly.

I've prayed about it. I feel she's the right person although I might be wrong. But I haven't been in a relationship since 2020.

For now I haven't done any medical check up to know if we're compatible But I will make sure we do that. (I'm AA and I don't know her own)

For now i know her brothers (2) and I've met with them. If you check my previous post, I made mention of them.

She don't really have friends, she kind of an introvert.

rickpat:
yeah..my day was good...hope yours was good too?

Can’t complain ! Have a swell evening .

rickleye:
Can’t complain ! Have a swell evening .

all right...be good

Op pls don't marry her oooo....same mistake I made ooo..run away from Akwaibom ladies run away from older ladies u go tire oooo ..I bet you she has so many secrets of which she won't disclose to you.... tomorrow when she starts looking down on you and treating u bad due to age hope u go fit cope.....flee I say....look for younger babes from other tribes unless u are from Akwaibom if not fleeeeeeee

Wizywiz:
Op pls don't marry her oooo....same mistake I made ooo..run away from Akwaibom ladies run away from older ladies u go tire oooo ..I bet you she has so many secrets of which she won't disclose to you.... tomorrow when she starts looking down on you and treating u bad due to age hope u go fit cope.....flee I say....look for younger babes from other tribes unless u are from Akwaibom if not fleeeeeeee

Boss man! Experience is the best teacher. Honestly I would appreciate if you share just a little about your experience... BTW I'm from Edo state.. Benin city to be precise.

This lady seems so cool and lovely Pls check my profile, you will see her

Karleb:
I remember this guy. Sharp guy.

My guy no rush anything, na she need the marriage most. Let her work for it while you relax.

I see nothing wrong with marrying a lady 10 years older tho. A lot of rich players do it.

Make her prove to you why you need to marry her, what you will gain by marrying her over someone younger.

Lol conman , he has to be in control.

VOsimhen144:
You're full of wisdom sir. Thank you for your advice. I'm gonna answer your accordingly.

I've prayed about it. I feel she's the right person although I might be wrong. But I haven't been in a relationship since 2020.

For now I haven't done any medical check up to know if we're compatible But I will make sure we do that. (I'm AA and I don't know her own)

For now i know her brothers (2) and I've met with them. If you check my previous post, I made mention of them.

She don't really have friends, she kind of an introvert.

very well then, if you have done some home about her,
Also make sure she thick mejor boxes of what you want in a woman, wish you good luck.

VOsimhen144:
Boss man! Experience is the best teacher. Honestly I would appreciate if you share just a little about your experience... BTW I'm from Edo state.. Benin city to be precise.

This lady seems so cool and lovely Pls check my profile, you will see her

mine acted more than cool...ooo lied about her age and many things..bro it's an experience I don't like to remember...the thought of how I wasted almost 5years with her and her inability to conceive due to her past life's and other reasons I won't relate here... becareful so she doesn't go diabolical on you.( Their ladies Sabi use jazz hold man Wella )..I practically disowned my family because of her....for 5 years my siblings and dad didn't come to my place, I was warned about her because they did background check on her and told me but because I was blinded with either a spell or whatever she did I ignored them.......bro she will spoil u with care...love and attention but do not fall all na because she is desperate to marry....when u marry her ur eyes go clear....stay clear to avoid .........na u go complete am

Why won't she love you when she has already been used.

Mekenz:
very well then, if you have done some home about her,
Also make sure she thick mejor boxes of what you want in a woman, wish you good luck.

Yes Sir. She ticks 85% of the boxes I need in a woman.

She's a very cool lady, you can check my profile to see her.

VOsimhen144:
Yes Sir. She ticks 85% of the boxes I need in a woman.

She's a very cool lady, you can check my profile to see her.

cool that's a plus, go ahead with your plans, so far you are cool with the age difference...... it's well.

She don knack you better fmt.

However, it's to early to think of marriage with her.
If it were to be a white woman, I'll urge you to go on.But you see Nigerian ladies?Tueh!!

One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

VOsimhen144:
https://www.nairaland.com/7037078/how-tell-im-not-interested
Sequel to my previous post I created sometime ago. I want to thank everyone for their advice. The lady and I have started dating, Although today makes it a week we're dating.

Easter Sunday, I took her to Kada Plaza, we saw a movie, we had good time together. She explained to me why she is not married. 2015 when she finished her NYSC, the man she was dating back then got her pregnant as an assurance he was gonna settle down with her. But he deceived her.

She was 3 weeks pregnant when the man ran away with her life savings (#4M), Life was a living hell for her that period. She had to do abortion, she explained lots of things to me...

She kept all the evidence since 2014. She showed me lots of hidden chat, pictures and transactions in her laptop that pertains to her and the man. (last seen was Oct. 7 2015). Someone told her the man is in Czech Republic, he's married with kids. I really felt her pains.

I went to check up on her yesterday evening (first time) after I closed from the shop. We kissed and nothing more, she even insist I stay over but I came with my elder brother's car and he needs to go to work with it as early as possible today.

This lady loves me so much, she's intelligent, pretty, she speaks fluently and she's not billing me, she working, I'm hustling too.

Please she's not trying to manipulate me neither am I Simping but truth be told I love her too. My elder brother is not fully in support of our relationship but he said as long as I'm happy in the relationship, there's no problem. I don't know if I'm taking the right move.

Comrades, please tell this Biggar the truth

[quote author=VOsimhen144 post=112096081][/quote]These re.d demon pillers won't ruin your life.

How did you go from, "I can't date anyone two years older than me" and "I want to face my business for now" to dating someone 10 years older than you?

Because these red demon pillers encouraged you to?
Don't listen to them, they reason upside down!

Stop right now.
Don't kiss her again and DO NOT SLEEP with her.

Have you even prayed to GOD about it?

Pray yourself out of her grip, you need it.
Set yourself free right now.

Don't say you were not warned, do not sleep with her.

Bro, use your head na!

@Op Its like this peace of mind you have while you are not married no dey sweet you..
If she was young, would she even give fvvk bout you
Cos she's desperate you think that she's a good girl..
Just marry her, the kind trouble and nagging wey she go gv you ehh...
You will regret, dont deal with damaged women, you still no wan hear baa...

Imagine if she was in her prime, would she even look at you twice? Cos she's an evening newspaper, thats why she's acting caring and nice...

She's a timing bomb getting ready to explode...

When you know that all women are the same, thats when peace will come to your soul...

I wonder why some men are so Ignorant, tuehh....

Why do you want to marry a damaged woman
Someone that has done abortion b4...

The girl is manipulating you, but you cant see beyond the manipulation thats why..

So you really wanna commit to an already damaged products that has done abortion...

You will learn...

Na still nairaland you go come cry river...


Bro, dont settle for less..

Modifiied; I'm just shocked that VOshimen that is really manipulated by a woman, a damaged evening newspaper for that matter..

When you go get sense??

Exkandayee:
He don't need to explain anything to you, that mumu he called na Wetin you be,

I no blame you small small boys wey still dey under ur papa roof, and still dey eat ur mama food.

Simple question, I say make you explain... If you dey call person mumu, atleast try state reasons why the person dey mumu.

VOsimhen144:
I no blame you small small boy wey still dey under ur papa roof, and still dey eat ur mama food.

You are getting upset with the wrong people.

Tradegood:
You are getting upset with the wrong people.

No, but atleast If you dey call person mumu, atleast try state reasons why the person dey mumu.

VOsimhen144:
Boss man! Experience is the best teacher. Honestly I would appreciate if you share just a little about your experience... BTW I'm from Edo state.. Benin city to be precise.

This lady seems so cool and lovely Pls check my profile, you will see her

I'm from AkwaIbom... So na akwaIbom babe wash this oshimen... E dey like say dem don cast spell for this guy;
na plank ah 4 use plank your head, why would he marry an Old akwa Ibom babe... She will always be caring and loving, but after marriage she go clear you...

Why are simps even vast in Nigeria

VOsimhen144:
No, but atleast If you dey call person mumu, atleast try state reasons why the person dey mumu.

I pray for you o.

Tradegood:
I pray for you o.

I've prayed about it. I feel she's the right person although I might be wrong. But I haven't been in a relationship since 2020.

She's really a cool girl, please check my profile and see her yourself

VOsimhen144:
I've prayed about it. I feel she's the right person although I might be wrong. But I haven't been in a relationship since 2020.

She's really a cool girl, please check my profile and see her yourself

Oh wow, she looks cute, young and innocent lol. Hope it is not camera filters? Lol.
Would she be okay with you showing off her pix?

It is the way she came at you that got me worried.

Where does she worship, if you don't mind?

Do you look more mature than your age?

Keep praying, carry GOD along every night and day.

It shall be well with you.

Nyascobar1414:
I'm from AkwaIbom... So na akwaIbom babe wash this oshimen... E dey like say dem don cast spell for this guy;
na plank ah 4 use plank your head, why would he marry an Old akwa Ibom babe... She will always be caring and loving, but after marriage she go clear you...

Why are simps even vast in Nigeria

You're from Akwa Ibom? And you're bad mouthing your sister? This lady is really cool and lovely. I will be 28 years old soon, I no be small pikin.

I've prayed about it. I feel she's the right person although I might be wrong. But I haven't been in a relationship since 2020.

She's really a cool girl, please check my profile and see her yourself

VOsimhen144:
You're from Akwa Ibom? And you're bad mouthing your sister? This lady is really cool and lovely. I will be 28 years old soon, I no be small pikin.

I've prayed about it. I feel she's the right person although I might be wrong. But I haven't been in a relationship since 2020.

She's really a cool girl, please check my profile and see her yourself

I'm just saying the truth, cos when she was young why would a man see that she's good and still leave her, or you think she bn no get suitors? She couldn't subdue her h0ephase...

Now see yourslef, your Instinct is telling you she go paly you kasaka.

But you aint listening to yur Instinct...

My question is..
Why do you settle for a damaged woman

Tradegood:
Oh wow, she looks cute, young and innocent lol. Hope it is not camera filters? Lol.
Would she be okay with you showing off her pix?

It is the way she came at you that got me worried.

Where does she worship, if you don't mind?

Do you look more mature than your age?

Keep praying, carry GOD along every night and day.

It shall be well with you.

I will be 28 yrs old soon, I'm a young guy, I look young.

Of course, she's cool with me showing off her pictures. She do send me pictures of herself almost every day.

She attend catholic church.

You need to read my previous post to see how it all started.

It's filter but that's how she look naturally, she's cute.