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VOsimhen144:
I will be 28 yrs old soon, I'm a young guy, I look young.

Of course, she's cool with me showing off her pictures. She do send me pictures of herself almost every day.

She attend catholic church.

You need to read my previous post to see how it all started.

It's filter but that's how she look naturally, she's cute.

Nyascobar1414:
I'm just saying the truth, cos when she was young why would a man see that she's good and still leave her, or you think she bn no get suitors? She couldn't subdue her h0ephase...

Now see yourslef, your Instinct is telling you she go paly you kasaka.

But you aint listening to yur Instinct...

My question is..
Why do you settle for a damaged woman

MadamOk:
People Sha, una never love or see tomorrow but una don conclud say tomorrow rain go fall

You just start the relationship while nor take time to study and see things for yourself

I truly love her, I truly love her, I think she looks me too
Love doesn't doubt

Nyascobar1414:
@Op Its like this peace of mind you have while you are not married no dey sweet you..
If she was young, would she even give fvvk bout you
Cos she's desperate you think that she's a good girl..
Just marry her, the kind trouble and nagging wey she go gv you ehh...
You will regret, dont deal with damaged women, you still no wan hear baa...

Imagine if she was in her prime, would she even look at you twice? Cos she's an evening newspaper, thats why she's acting caring and nice...

She's a timing bomb getting ready to explode...

When you know that all women are the same, thats when peace will come to your soul...

I wonder why some men are so Ignorant, tuehh....

Why do you want to marry a damaged woman
Someone that has done abortion b4...

The girl is manipulating you, but you cant see beyond the manipulation thats why..

So you really wanna commit to an already damaged products that has done abortion...

You will learn...

Na still nairaland you go come cry river...


Bro, dont settle for less..

Modifiied; I'm just shocked that VOshimen that is really manipulated by a woman, a damaged evening newspaper for that matter..

When you go get sense??

Wizywiz:
Op pls don't marry her oooo....same mistake I made ooo..run away from Akwaibom ladies run away from older ladies u go tire oooo ..I bet you she has so many secrets of which she won't disclose to you.... tomorrow when she starts looking down on you and treating u bad due to age hope u go fit cope.....flee I say....look for younger babes from other tribes unless u are from Akwaibom if not fleeeeeeee

Nyascobar1414:
I'm from AkwaIbom... So na akwaIbom babe wash this oshimen... E dey like say dem don cast spell for this guy;
na plank ah 4 use plank your head, why would he marry an Old akwa Ibom babe... She will always be caring and loving, but after marriage she go clear you...

Why are simps even vast in Nigeria

VOsimhen144:
I've prayed about it. I feel she's the right person although I might be wrong. But I haven't been in a relationship since 2020.

She's really a cool girl, please check my profile and see her yourself

Zendinho:
I know that girl very well...
I won't say more than that.
To shock you....
That's the pic she's using on her FB profile....

Wizywiz:
mine acted more than cool...ooo lied about her age and many things..bro it's an experience I don't like to remember...the thought of how I wasted almost 5years with her and her inability to conceive due to her past life's and other reasons I won't relate here... becareful so she doesn't go diabolical on you.( Their ladies Sabi use jazz hold man Wella )..I practically disowned my family because of her....for 5 years my siblings and dad didn't come to my place, I was warned about her because they did background check on her and told me but because I was blinded with either a spell or whatever she did I ignored them.......bro she will spoil u with care...love and attention but do not fall all na because she is desperate to marry....when u marry her ur eyes go clear....stay clear to avoid .........na u go complete am

VOsimhen144:
Bro, I'm so sorry you had to go through those predicaments. But that doesn't means there's no good lady from Akwa Ibom

But to be sincere with you, this lady is a Christian, she's well educated, hard working and and well mannered.

VOsimhen144:
https://www.nairaland.com/7037078/how-tell-im-not-interested
Sequel to my previous post I created sometime ago. I want to thank everyone for their advice. The lady and I have started dating, Although today makes it a week we're dating.

Easter Sunday, I took her to Kada Plaza, we saw a movie, we had good time together. She explained to me why she is not married. 2015 when she finished her NYSC, the man she was dating back then got her pregnant as an assurance he was gonna settle down with her. But he deceived her.

She was 3 weeks pregnant when the man ran away with her life savings (#4M), Life was a living hell for her that period. She had to do abortion, she explained lots of things to me...

She kept all the evidence since 2014. She showed me lots of hidden chat, pictures and transactions in her laptop that pertains to her and the man. (last seen was Oct. 7 2015). Someone told her the man is in Czech Republic, he's married with kids. I really felt her pains.

I went to check up on her yesterday evening (first time) after I closed from the shop. We kissed and nothing more, she even insist I stay over but I came with my elder brother's car and he needs to go to work with it as early as possible today.

This lady loves me so much, she's intelligent, pretty, she speaks fluently and she's not billing me, she is working, I'm hustling too.

Please she's not trying to manipulate me neither am I Simping but truth be told I love her too. My elder brother is not fully in support of our relationship but he said as long as I'm happy in the relationship, there's no problem. I don't know if I'm taking the right move.

VOsimhen144:
Although I've known her since January, you need to check my previous post.

VOsimhen144:
Bro, I'm so sorry you had to go through those predicaments. But that doesn't means there's no good lady from Akwa Ibom

But to be sincere with you, this lady is a Christian, she's well educated, hard working and and well mannered.

Wizywiz:
Op pls don't marry her oooo....same mistake I made ooo..run away from Akwaibom ladies run away from older ladies u go tire oooo ..I bet you she has so many secrets of which she won't disclose to you.... tomorrow when she starts looking down on you and treating u bad due to age hope u go fit cope.....flee I say....look for younger babes from other tribes unless u are from Akwaibom if not fleeeeeeee

halaqasa:
After 1year come back to update
Alaye you better watch
Bang and be woke with her

Be careful
Cuz once Dem lock you, you are gone
Woooooooo e dun be

VOsimhen144:
Banging her isn't my problem sef, I'm not after her body... She has given me lots of green light.

I suppose bang her on Easter Monday here but I'm just the one dulling myself because I'm being careful. I don't want her to be pregnant for me now. Once she's pregnant I'm sure she won't abort it that's why I'm being careful.

Na she dey my profile nw. Omo I love her

VOsimhen144:
She's not a damaged woman, she never did prostitution to survive.

She's intelligent, she work in a culinary school. She's really hard working. She ticks 85% of the boxes I need in a woman.

Nyascobar1414:
Man, you will be 28 yrs soon, and you are thinking of marriage??

Your matter tire me oo, you said she didnt do prostitution to survive, but she has done abortion..
Prostitute and the girl which one better pass??

A mans live starts at 35, and you wanna go cage yourself with a woman that enjoyed her prime. Now she's old and desperate ,she wanna tie you down..

Bro, lemme cap you stuff.. No female is special, apart from your mom.. They all gad ass, boobs,cooch!e.. There are millions of girls out there that are more beautiful than her, have a good character than her, likewise a great personality.. There are other girls that would have tick 90% boxes of what you need in a woman...
The problem is that you havent seen them, and the stress of toiling to see them is not worth it..
Bro, see beyond lust...
I wanna ask you a question, probably she was young and still in her prime, will she gv a fvcck bout you??

See, In all your settling,dont settle for a damaged product..

Dont put your seeds in a bad soil...
A girls past determines her future..

Imagine where you wanat your Innocent unborn kids to come out from; so you prolly want someone that did abortion to carry your Innocent kids?

Your matter tire me.. I cant believe a nigga can be so daft...

Better leave the woman,ah sabi as akwaIbom girls the do stuff, an evening newspaper for that matter, is that the kinda woman you wanna commit to??

Bro, If you like your peace of mind,leave that woman.

VOsimhen144:
https://www.nairaland.com/7037078/how-tell-im-not-interested
Sequel to my previous post I created sometime ago. I want to thank everyone for their advice. The lady and I have started dating, Although today makes it a week we're dating.

Easter Sunday, I took her to Kada Plaza, we saw a movie, we had good time together. She explained to me why she is not married. 2015 when she finished her NYSC, the man she was dating back then got her pregnant as an assurance he was gonna settle down with her. But he deceived her.

She was 3 weeks pregnant when the man ran away with her life savings (#4M), Life was a living hell for her that period. She had to do abortion, she explained lots of things to me...

She kept all the evidence since 2014. She showed me lots of hidden chat, pictures and transactions in her laptop that pertains to her and the man. (last seen was Oct. 7 2015). Someone told her the man is in Czech Republic, he's married with kids. I really felt her pains.

I went to check up on her yesterday evening (first time) after I closed from the shop. We kissed and nothing more, she even insist I stay over but I came with my elder brother's car and he needs to go to work with it as early as possible today.

This lady loves me so much, she's intelligent, pretty, she speaks fluently and she's not billing me, she is working, I'm hustling too.

Please she's not trying to manipulate me neither am I Simping but truth be told I love her too. My elder brother is not fully in support of our relationship but he said as long as I'm happy in the relationship, there's no problem. I don't know if I'm taking the right move.

VOsimhen144:
@28 I'm old enough to marry.. I'm a graduate (from Uniben), I'm not wealthy and I'm not broke, I'm just like every other hardworking Nigerian youths out there... I dey hustle like say tomorrow no dey.

The major reasons this lady fell in love with me was because I'm hardworking, she love the was I think, she love the way I relate with people sometimes she get jealous... The lady is pretty, you can check my profile but I'm more good looking than her.

Since 2020 I haven't been in a relationship, I was older than my ex girlfriend with 2 years but she was a very lazy girl and always depending on me.

She only did abortion just once (well, in some cases, I know "just once" could damage a womb) but I'm certain her womb is intact... I will definitely do medical check up to know if we're compatible.

She's advanced then me in every aspect of life, academically she's a master degree holder. She's working and earning a decent pay. But I'm not after her money or nice body.. I just Love her naturally and unconditionally.

We went on a date on Easter Sunday, I paid the bills (25k). I'm a hustling guy, I work for my money.

Are you trying to tell me all Akwa Ibom ladies are damaged? Boss, you can do better nw.. There are still good ones and which my lady is among.

Lastpharoah33:
You keep referring us to her picture, were you told beauty is a major criteria in finding a life partner?

You are lucky enough to find to someone spilling the beans about the true identity of his tribe, one can see how made up your mind is already.

Two nairalanders with similar engagements have narrated their ordeals, but it seems your emotions (love in this scenario) is playing a big one on you. Please go on with your marriage arrangements.

We will be here, we will be waiting.

VOsimhen144:
https://www.nairaland.com/7037078/how-tell-im-not-interested
Sequel to my previous post I created sometime ago. I want to thank everyone for their advice. The lady and I have started dating, Although today makes it a week we're dating.

Easter Sunday, I took her to Kada Plaza, we saw a movie, we had good time together. She explained to me why she is not married. 2015 when she finished her NYSC, the man she was dating back then got her pregnant as an assurance he was gonna settle down with her. But he deceived her.

She was 3 weeks pregnant when the man ran away with her life savings (#4M), Life was a living hell for her that period. She had to do abortion, she explained lots of things to me...

She kept all the evidence since 2014. She showed me lots of hidden chat, pictures and transactions in her laptop that pertains to her and the man. (last seen was Oct. 7 2015). Someone told her the man is in Czech Republic, he's married with kids. I really felt her pains.

I went to check up on her yesterday evening (first time) after I closed from the shop. We kissed and nothing more, she even insist I stay over but I came with my elder brother's car and he needs to go to work with it as early as possible today.

This lady loves me so much, she's intelligent, pretty, she speaks fluently and she's not billing me, she is working, I'm hustling too.

Please she's not trying to manipulate me neither am I Simping but truth be told I love her too. My elder brother is not fully in support of our relationship but he said as long as I'm happy in the relationship, there's no problem. I don't know if I'm taking the right move.

Okoroawusa:
Dem don rub this one pant for head....

VOsimhen144:
@28 I'm old enough to marry.. I'm a graduate (from Uniben), I'm not wealthy and I'm not broke, I'm just like every other hardworking Nigerian youths out there... I dey hustle like say tomorrow no dey.

The major reasons this lady fell in love with me was because I'm hardworking, she love the way I think, she love the way I relate with people sometimes she get jealous... The lady is pretty, you can check my profile but I'm more good looking than her.

Since 2020 I haven't been in a relationship, I was older than my ex girlfriend with 2 years but she was a very lazy girl and always depending on me.

She only did abortion just once (well, in some cases, I know "just once" could damage a womb) but I'm certain her womb is intact... I will definitely do medical check up to know if we're compatible.

She's advanced then me in every aspect of life, academically she's a master degree holder. She's working and earning a decent pay. But I'm not after her money or nice body.. I just Love her naturally and unconditionally.

We went on a date on Easter Sunday, I paid the bills (25k). I'm a hustling guy, I work for my money.

Are you trying to tell me all Akwa Ibom ladies are damaged? Boss, you can do better nw.. There are still good ones and which my lady is among.

Nyascobar1414:
Not all AkwaIbom ladies are bad...
Some are good though...

But, you just said, you love her unconditionally...
Does she love you Unconditionally??
Cos ladies dont love Unconditionally, na why...

I've said my own oo.. Dont go and regret oo...

Your life, your choice...

I wish you a happy married life!
Cheers!

sollolucci77:
You dey mind the mumu?...if he were 100% sure about marrying the girl he wont need to ask online in laws for advice...leave am