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Raysleek:
What is love when you just chicken out at the slight opposition. Go to the police. Spend money hire lawyer set him up, fish him out. You have every right to fight over a girl that loves you. Not a girl that doesn't love you and is being threatened. Protect her

You are absolutely right but remember that only the LIVING can be in a relationship with a girl

report to the police with the whatsapp conversations, cyber bullying case can be made against him... do it for the girl even if you will end up breaking up with her.

relationship nor be by force

Onahi95:
Good Morning Fam, I've got this pressing issue that I would very much appreciate your wise counsel to help me solve.

I met a lady about three months ago and we bounded pretty quickly, this oyibo movie kinda love story that the dating starts without anyone doing the toasting and all. I asked her about her relationship status weeks later and she said it was complicated, citing how the relationship has been toxic and she wants to leave but the guy won't let go.

I shaa told her that I won't get involved so let her handle it herself. The guy backed out for a while but has resurfaced recently hell bent on getting the girl back. From the WhatsApp conversation and call recordings the girl sent me she has made it obvious to the guy that she's moved on with another guy but the young man is having none of it. She even offered to return everything he's ever given her but no way.

Now he has resorted to threatening me and the said Lady with death. I've never met this guy and I don't have anything to do with him either. The last thing I want to do is fight over a woman that is not even my wife with another guy reason why I've never interfered in their issues. I have it at the back of my mind that I might still breakup with the girl anytime in the future.

He keeps telling the girl that its either he has her or no one will, that she and whoever is attempting to steal his joy away is playing with their lives. The whole issue is making her scared and confused. I asked her to get a recording of the guy making those death threats so I can use it as an evidence in the police station but he has stylishly been evading it despite the girls best efforts. He suddenly became calm and all apologetic now saying he will pray to God to destroy who ever wants to destroy his relationship after all his investments.

How do you guys think I should handle this issue amicably, I find it embarrassing when men bicker over a lady and never imagined myself getting involved in such. I've considered the option of leaving the lady for him but she really loves me likewise me. In as much as I don't want any issues with anybody, won't it be cowardly of me to hide in a closet while a fellow man threatens me with death.

Braah move on
Comot body since your body nor full not put body

Fight over a girl you know or have the mind you will break up with in the future is worthless
And for a fellow guy like you to point hand on you because of a girl is a disgrace and disrespectful
At this point use your tongue say count your teeth

I'm not saying you are not in love like oyibo kinda love ..just take a look at the person you are fighting for does she really worst it ??if yes
Then go ahead and report the case to police ..if no then I'll say u let go of her
Beside it just 3month relationship.. the guy that's threatening you must have known her long b4 she even started going to sch . .don't be surprise she might b in with love him you just the middle man.. probably she's trying to see if the guy will finally decide to come for her hand in marriage..

If i were u i would:

1.Op use the little info u have to reg the case with police ( very important )
2. Use her to bait him.. Once he's in the trap, use real men round am up with tools. Do not touch him. Dialogue and let him know u can use force too. Superman no dey. If him still stubborn afer that break some bones and dump the girl. Make two of them getat.. That girl could be playing both sides.

Its not about the woman involved.. its ur honour. If u let one person fvck with it 3 more will come test u for various other reasons. Some times u get hands dirty to come clean.

Onahi95:
Good Morning Fam, I've got this pressing issue that I would very much appreciate your wise counsel to help me solve.

I met a lady about three months ago and we bounded pretty quickly, this oyibo movie kinda love story that the dating starts without anyone doing the toasting and all. I asked her about her relationship status weeks later and she said it was complicated, citing how the relationship has been toxic and she wants to leave but the guy won't let go.

I shaa told her that I won't get involved so let her handle it herself. The guy backed out for a while but has resurfaced recently hell bent on getting the girl back. From the WhatsApp conversation and call recordings the girl sent me she has made it obvious to the guy that she's moved on with another guy but the young man is having none of it. She even offered to return everything he's ever given her but no way.

Now he has resorted to threatening me and the said Lady with death. I've never met this guy and I don't have anything to do with him either. The last thing I want to do is fight over a woman that is not even my wife with another guy reason why I've never interfered in their issues. I have it at the back of my mind that I might still breakup with the girl anytime in the future.

He keeps telling the girl that its either he has her or no one will, that she and whoever is attempting to steal his joy away is playing with their lives. The whole issue is making her scared and confused. I asked her to get a recording of the guy making those death threats so I can use it as an evidence in the police station but he has stylishly been evading it despite the girls best efforts. He suddenly became calm and all apologetic now saying he will pray to God to destroy who ever wants to destroy his relationship after all his investments.

How do you guys think I should handle this issue amicably, I find it embarrassing when men bicker over a lady and never imagined myself getting involved in such. I've considered the option of leaving the lady for him but she really loves me likewise me. In as much as I don't want any issues with anybody, won't it be cowardly of me to hide in a closet while a fellow man threatens me with death.

Congratulations, your experience is part of growing up. Get enough information about him, like his background, school, work and kind of guys he keeps company etc. Just keep calm for now, till he approach you. Keep your advance limited to the girl. I mean don't act like you are in the know of the threat but be vigilant.

ajademola2000:
OP, read this post. Now can you see Men with balls ? Bleep I’m pissed reading some comment

If anybody dares that shit with me I will call him and ask for his address go to his house and ask him to do what he has been saying, if not I will beat the hell out of him. I hate it when men act like kids.

He should drop the guys contact and see what will happen by the end of today

Voltron, the defender of the pussy tribe. You had better calm down and face your lane. Remember you said it's not that you intends to stay long with this girl but wanna enjoy it for now. You yourself doesn't have a plan for this girl but to smash and descard later. Just be careful and be vigilant or else the guy might do you wotowoto and it's your family that would loose while the girl will quickly adjust with another guy ASAP.....No woman is worth dying for, especially the one that an ex says he's invested in, put yourself in his condition and consider after investing, probably sending her or assisting her in school or whatever and now she's grown above the guy and want to start fucking a more handsome, wealthy or better educated and polish guy......if it's you, I bet you wouldn't take such nonsense from a hooker user of a girl......... that's my advice for you and that Is free of charge......be careful and infact if I were you, I would rather reconcile the two of them together.....and have peace of mind. Women aren't worth fighting your fellow man over....it's against the law of masculine moral justice.....lol

Onahi95:
Oga I'm not fighting anybody, so I should just fold my hands while someone threatens me with death, I just want to report him to the police and get him to sign an undertaking and get a restraining order that's all. Should I wait till he attacks me

Premiumwriter:
spoken like a true coward. what makes you think the op is the one that will go six feet?

You see how fearful of a fellow man you are? Your advice comes from a place of fear.

The point is not that you can't fight dirty because of a woman.

You can't fight for anything. Not even for your life. You are too fearful to face any opposition

I'm sure if the opis eventually dropped, you wont even be there to say rip. Currently, the op positioon is bad, you can't be wise as someone trailing you. And from the op's narration, the guy hasnt directly threatened him. Op the ball is in your court, if its worth it to you,go ballistic,

Premiumwriter:
spoken like a true coward. what makes you think the op is the one that will go six feet?

You see how fearful of a fellow man you are? Your advice comes from a place of fear.

The point is not that you can't fight dirty because of a woman.

You can't fight for anything. Not even for your life. You are too fearful to face any opposition

And his moniker says it all.
Maggot.
Yuk.

I don't know why MOST girls can't withstand BREAK-UP,,,,,,,,


Relationship is a learning ground, you can't force what is not destined for Marriage....

Premiumwriter:
I can go to prison if you threaten to harm me bro.

Whether it's because I won a trophy and you threaten me over it or because a woman chose to be with me.

Once you threatened me, I'm not backing down. It doesn't matter what is involved.

Some of you don't know the difference between been a simp and when people treat you like a door mat they can walk over.

Op I'm sure you've received different types of advice here. But the truth is that you should [b][/b] fight!!!....... For your life

Onahi95:
Good Morning Fam, I've got this pressing issue that I would very much appreciate your wise counsel to help me solve.

I met a lady about three months ago and we bounded pretty quickly, this oyibo movie kinda love story that the dating starts without anyone doing the toasting and all. I asked her about her relationship status weeks later and she said it was complicated, citing how the relationship has been toxic and she wants to leave but the guy won't let go.

I shaa told her that I won't get involved so let her handle it herself. The guy backed out for a while but has resurfaced recently hell bent on getting the girl back. From the WhatsApp conversation and call recordings the girl sent me she has made it obvious to the guy that she's moved on with another guy but the young man is having none of it. She even offered to return everything he's ever given her but no way.

Now he has resorted to threatening me and the said Lady with death. I've never met this guy and I don't have anything to do with him either. The last thing I want to do is fight over a woman that is not even my wife with another guy reason why I've never interfered in their issues. I have it at the back of my mind that I might still breakup with the girl anytime in the future.

He keeps telling the girl that its either he has her or no one will, that she and whoever is attempting to steal his joy away is playing with their lives. The whole issue is making her scared and confused. I asked her to get a recording of the guy making those death threats so I can use it as an evidence in the police station but he has stylishly been evading it despite the girls best efforts. He suddenly became calm and all apologetic now saying he will pray to God to destroy who ever wants to destroy his relationship after all his investments.

How do you guys think I should handle this issue amicably, I find it embarrassing when men bicker over a lady and never imagined myself getting involved in such. I've considered the option of leaving the lady for him but she really loves me likewise me. In as much as I don't want any issues with anybody, won't it be cowardly of me to hide in a closet while a fellow man threatens me with death.

Bro if the guy na afonja descendant from west side,forget him no go do nothing.after shouting and wailing he will retire into their brown roof.

Report to police and free the girl too. Nor die because of woman

He needs to research on the guy background first. Anything wey the guy be na him own people go give am wototwoto when the right click make contact

Mrsoft3:
If anybody dares that shit with me I will call him and ask for his address go to his house and ask him to do what he has been saying, if not I will beat the hell out of him. I hate it when men act like kids.

He should drop the guys contact and see what will happen by the end of today

Tmberwolf1:
Simple solution.
HUNT HIM AND KILL HIM.... Or permanently render him incapable of doing anything. No one threatens my life and gets to live.

Ahhhh guy I dey fear you.

ajademola2000:
He needs to research on the guy background first. Anything wey the guy be na him own people go give am wototwoto when the right click make contact

He doesn't need to waste his time, base on what he has said.
People who can harm you don't talk, they do it before they talk, the ex is just being a child and probably because the lady is being abuse she is sacred of him. If he is a cultists he won't make threats, he would have shown up face to face. People with power don't talk they do.

Op if you like fight for your woman...if you like save your neck...there are many fishes in the sea...then again they say a bird at hand is better than 10 in the bush...last last na your body go tell you

Tell the guy to pay you off
5m

That’s exactly what it is bro , the ex is just a bully and a simp at the same time. I know he is only trying to scare the OP. He won’t do nada

Mrsoft3:
He doesn't need to waste his time, base on what he has said.
People who can harm you don't talk, they do it before they talk, the ex is just being a child and probably because the lady is being abuse she is sacred of him. If he is a cultists he won't make threats, he would have shown up face to face. People with power don't talk they do.

Onahi95:
Good Morning Fam, I've got this pressing issue that I would very much appreciate your wise counsel to help me solve.

I met a lady about three months ago and we bounded pretty quickly, this oyibo movie kinda love story that the dating starts without anyone doing the toasting and all. I asked her about her relationship status weeks later and she said it was complicated, citing how the relationship has been toxic and she wants to leave but the guy won't let go.

I shaa told her that I won't get involved so let her handle it herself. The guy backed out for a while but has resurfaced recently hell bent on getting the girl back. From the WhatsApp conversation and call recordings the girl sent me she has made it obvious to the guy that she's moved on with another guy but the young man is having none of it. She even offered to return everything he's ever given her but no way.

Now he has resorted to threatening me and the said Lady with death. I've never met this guy and I don't have anything to do with him either. The last thing I want to do is fight over a woman that is not even my wife with another guy reason why I've never interfered in their issues. I have it at the back of my mind that I might still breakup with the girl anytime in the future.

He keeps telling the girl that its either he has her or no one will, that she and whoever is attempting to steal his joy away is playing with their lives. The whole issue is making her scared and confused. I asked her to get a recording of the guy making those death threats so I can use it as an evidence in the police station but he has stylishly been evading it despite the girls best efforts. He suddenly became calm and all apologetic now saying he will pray to God to destroy who ever wants to destroy his relationship after all his investments.

How do you guys think I should handle this issue amicably, I find it embarrassing when men bicker over a lady and never imagined myself getting involved in such. I've considered the option of leaving the lady for him but she really loves me likewise me. In as much as I don't want any issues with anybody, won't it be cowardly of me to hide in a closet while a fellow man threatens me with death.

The way you write/sound, you seem to be like a good candidate for killing.

If anyone ever tried this with me, he for don see, at least, verbal fire and I would have found out his address and location.

I would then set police on him while also being ready to send boys on him. When you break 16 bones in your body, you will know you should not be messing with people.

I would not only find your address, I would find your mother and father's address. You try shiiiit!

NO ONE, will fuuucck with me like that in a lawless country like Nigeria. NO ONE! The heat I would put up your backside, you will run.

Not this your yeye calm demeanour and confusion.

Guy, leave the girl or both of you should relocate.

Acid burns are unsightly.

Onahi95:
Good Morning Fam, I've got this pressing issue that I would very much appreciate your wise counsel to help me solve.

I met a lady about three months ago and we bounded pretty quickly, this oyibo movie kinda love story that the dating starts without anyone doing the toasting and all. I asked her about her relationship status weeks later and she said it was complicated, citing how the relationship has been toxic and she wants to leave but the guy won't let go.

I shaa told her that I won't get involved so let her handle it herself. The guy backed out for a while but has resurfaced recently hell bent on getting the girl back. From the WhatsApp conversation and call recordings the girl sent me she has made it obvious to the guy that she's moved on with another guy but the young man is having none of it. She even offered to return everything he's ever given her but no way.

Now he has resorted to threatening me and the said Lady with death. I've never met this guy and I don't have anything to do with him either. The last thing I want to do is fight over a woman that is not even my wife with another guy reason why I've never interfered in their issues. I have it at the back of my mind that I might still breakup with the girl anytime in the future.

He keeps telling the girl that its either he has her or no one will, that she and whoever is attempting to steal his joy away is playing with their lives. The whole issue is making her scared and confused. I asked her to get a recording of the guy making those death threats so I can use it as an evidence in the police station but he has stylishly been evading it despite the girls best efforts. He suddenly became calm and all apologetic now saying he will pray to God to destroy who ever wants to destroy his relationship after all his investments.

How do you guys think I should handle this issue amicably, I find it embarrassing when men bicker over a lady and never imagined myself getting involved in such. I've considered the option of leaving the lady for him but she really loves me likewise me. In as much as I don't want any issues with anybody, won't it be cowardly of me to hide in a closet while a fellow man threatens me with death.

No worry keep fighting for the love, we go soon read your story as you no wan get sense

Onahi95:
My plan is to lay a complaint to the police first but I want to get hard evidence, unfortunately the girl recently started using an iPhone so she was finding it difficult to locate the record option while he made the threats, she got him to call on another phone but he suddenly became calm. He has a history of threatening and scaring off any guy that çomes close to the girl, one of the reasons she left him. I've been waiting for him to call me like he does to others but he haven't so far.

You are a big fool and will die for nothing.. jack in titanic died and rose married another man o. idiot like you. Over a babe you just met. I have seen a bigger fool than you in my life.. mumu

Onahi95:
Oga I'm not fighting anybody, so I should just fold my hands while someone threatens me with death, I just want to report him to the police and get him to sign an undertaking and get a restraining order that's all. Should I wait till he attacks me

No worry your eye go clear.. idiot

Premiumwriter:
you are the weakling bro.

Sometimes to be a man you have to fight. The man threatening his life is a man like him.

Shaaaraaaaaappppppp there

Everyone is brave until you Jam real confra men...

Sharrap

Premiumwriter:
seriously.

Seeing cowards here advising him to run and hide is disgusting.

A fellow man is threatening your life and mumus are saying he should just run and hide

Sharaaapp

Okonandmary:
You are not. You want a man to know your worth because of a woman, seems like you look like someone that can go to prison because of a woman

Leave the parrot

Everyone na hard man until dem pull out 4... Leave all those empty barrels..you know how man men I know wey fall because of babes ? It is the stupidest fight to ever fight.

Okonandmary:
Seems like you don't value freedom

You are a simp

Yes he is.. is is a talkative a.parrot and a simp.if not I have vowed to change I enjoy freestukung on bïtch men like that. I for call am out now now

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Premiumwriter:
you call living in fear freedom?

Common man. You should have common sense.

If people can walk over you at will then you are not really alive talk more of having freedom.

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I wanted to over look your stupidly but you kept running your bitch mouth like the wet pussy it is. now I am calling you out for the wet bitch you are and you are such a small bitch you can no nothing ... I want to freestyle on your virgin life. you tiny weakling . You be hard man BA? U never see nothing it's like that your boring tiny life don tire you ba? See people dey o.. people wey no get joy wey go run your belly through for not just liking your face . You be fufu bitch...

Just talk anyhow now .nuseless idiot wey dey form hard man... Even soldiers trained in Barack's calk down na ant like you... If you want to die keep this attitude of running your mouth up . This is naija not yankie o

Pray everyday you never meet someone like me one on one and you run your mouth this way

Dawn91:
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I wanted to over look your stupidly but you kept running your bitch mouth like the wet pussy it is. now I am calling you out for the wet bitch you are and you are such a small bitch you can no nothing ... I want to freestyle on your virgin life. you tiny weakling . You be hard man BA? U never see nothing it's like that your boring tiny life don tire you ba? See people dey o.. people wey no get joy wey go run your belly through for not just liking your face . You be fufu bitch...

Just talk anyhow now .nuseless idiot wey dey form hard man... Even soldiers trained in Barack's calk down na ant like you... If you want to die keep this attitude of running your mouth up . This is naija not yankie o

Pray everyday you never meet someone like me one on one and you run your mouth this way

ur point?