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Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by Businext: 1:40pm On Apr 23, 2022
Unfortunate
Imagine if a wife leaves her husband for their driver

#Wrong

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Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by seyz91(m): 1:41pm On Apr 23, 2022
cheesy
Kriss216:
When the maid always play the role of the wife, what do you expect?

A maid will cook for your husband
Sweep and clean the house
Wash his clothes
Dish his meals
Clean his toilet
Clean his shoes
Attend to his sexual needs in marvelous ways


While you sit and give orders like Minister of domestic affairs. undecided


Men are smart. We know where our heart belongs. No sane man will leave a caring hardworking loving good cook and sensible woman for a lazy spoilt brat of a wife!

Dear men, don't allow your wife stop you from finding the love of your life.
Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by chukkystar(m): 1:41pm On Apr 23, 2022
Islandlady:
shocked
Men are useless and ungrateful elements

No matter what you do for them their pig and flirtious nature must show

I'm guessing Your own Heartbreak was recent.
Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by jrusky(m): 1:42pm On Apr 23, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked


It's not a new thing , it has been happening and it will continue to happen.

Yea, it's better than killing his wife.
Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by Premiumwriter: 1:43pm On Apr 23, 2022
Kriss216:

Still won't bring back your lost body counts grin

Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by STEWpid(f): 1:43pm On Apr 23, 2022
omooba969:


The blame culture, isn't it? grin

Blame for the first couple not doing the right thing..
Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by Humanbeingyahoocom(f): 1:44pm On Apr 23, 2022
Islandlady:
shocked
Men are useless and ungrateful elements

No matter what you do for them their pig and flirtious nature must show

Do as in adding Garri to Egusi soup?
Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by Nobody: 1:45pm On Apr 23, 2022
He will still leave her laslas.
Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by advanceDNA: 1:45pm On Apr 23, 2022
WoundedLamb:
The person above is just ridiculous. I mean, why do most men on this platform always find a way to blame women for everything? Even when a man cheats, they still blame the woman. See the way he's calling out the lady for possibly losing guard as if the man is some animal driven by instincts alone. If it were a lady that got into an amorous relationship with the husband’s driver, y'all would have been dishing out unprintable insults to the entire gender. Now, it's a man, and you just want to give him a soft landing by placing a good deal of the blame on the wife even without knowing the whole story. I'm guessing the last paragraph is to make us believe he's got some sense of objectivity; funny. I don't know where y'all learned that treating men's debauchery with kid gloves is a way of being manly. Sexism is ugly.

men support men ...women support women...
I've seen it on this forum Many times so domt start..
...a woman cheats...youll see the female monikers blaming the man for causing the infidelity...saying only bad husbands have bad wife...it goes both ways...

both gender believes their gender don't just get up and cheat, especially not with a maid and marry her at the end...

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Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by Cowbell521: 1:45pm On Apr 23, 2022
Jeon:
MAY GOD SAVE US FROM THIS PPL WITH TAIL INFRONT.
May u SAVE u FROM THIS PPL WITH borehole underneath
Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by charlesdinho7(m): 1:46pm On Apr 23, 2022
Kriss216:
When the maid always play the role of the wife, what do you expect?

A maid will cook for your husband
Sweep and clean the house
Wash his clothes
Dish his meals
Clean his toilet
Clean his shoes
Attend to his sexual needs in marvelous ways


While you sit and give orders like Minister of domestic affairs. undecided


Men are smart. We know where our heart belongs. No sane man will leave a caring hardworking loving good cook and sensible woman for a lazy spoilt brat of a wife!

Dear men, don't allow your wife stop you from finding the love of your life.
first time i will align with your write up. nice piece
Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by NwokoloOwa: 1:46pm On Apr 23, 2022
Maid, doing what they've mastered since 1900.
Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by simpleseyi: 1:47pm On Apr 23, 2022
Kooldame:
Walahi as for me My first child is 14 yrs old now by the grace of God my hubby never allowed anyone to stay with us right from d day I had my first child I thought he was mean then but now I believe in his ideology. What a perfect Idea

In my 11 years of marriage, we have had several teenage maids, several of my matured female in-laws have lived with us for years. I will never downgrade nor disgrace myself by doing disgraceful things.

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Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:47pm On Apr 23, 2022
That's the same way he will leave that maid and marry another woman. Men like him do not steady in marriage.
Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by FireUpNow(m): 1:48pm On Apr 23, 2022
I was told not to judge matters that I know nothing about. Until we hear the other side of the story from the maid and husband. Sorry madam and try to be a good house wife next time you have the opportunity to to be a wife again
Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by Blackify: 1:48pm On Apr 23, 2022
Kriss216:
When the maid always play the role of the wife, what do you expect?

A maid will cook for your husband
Sweep and clean the house
Wash his clothes
Dish his meals
Clean his toilet
Clean his shoes
Attend to his sexual needs in marvelous ways


While you sit and give orders like Minister of domestic affairs. undecided


Men are smart. We know where our heart belongs. No sane man will leave a caring hardworking loving good cook and sensible woman for a lazy spoilt brat of a wife!

Dear men, don't allow your wife stop you from finding the love of your life.

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Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by advanceDNA: 1:48pm On Apr 23, 2022
chukkystar:
I'm guessing Your own Heartbreak was recent.

help me ask her what she did for the man.... women are always full of themselves... most of them will claim they stood by you...when all they did is use u for orgasm and collect the small the change u make...
when u now blow..they start to scream I did everything....



women please be listing the "everything"

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Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by izac82: 1:49pm On Apr 23, 2022
Kriss216:
When the maid always play the role of the wife, what do you expect?

A maid will cook for your husband
Sweep and clean the house
Wash his clothes
Dish his meals
Clean his toilet
Clean his shoes
Attend to his sexual needs in marvelous ways


While you sit and give orders like Minister of domestic affairs. undecided


Men are smart. We know where our heart belongs. No sane man will leave a caring hardworking loving good cook and sensible woman for a lazy spoilt brat of a wife!

Dear men, don't allow your wife stop you from finding the love of your life.
My brother somebody is going through same scenario. The funny thing is the maid can engage in sensible and intelligent conversation, while still maintaining a good listener. The wife na so so argument full her body.

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Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by izac82: 1:50pm On Apr 23, 2022
Kriss216:

Still won't bring back your lost body counts grin
Nna, you bad o cheesy
Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by Winters23: 1:51pm On Apr 23, 2022
[s]
Kriss216:
When the maid always play the role of the wife, what do you expect?

A maid will cook for your husband
Sweep and clean the house
Wash his clothes
Dish his meals
Clean his toilet
Clean his shoes
Attend to his sexual needs in marvelous ways


While you sit and give orders like Minister of domestic affairs. undecided


Men are smart. We know where our heart belongs. No sane man will leave a caring hardworking loving good cook and sensible woman for a lazy spoilt brat of a wife!

Dear men, don't allow your wife stop you from finding the love of your life.
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Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by simpleseyi: 1:51pm On Apr 23, 2022
Islandlady:
shocked
Men are useless and ungrateful elements

No matter what you do for them their pig and flirtious nature must show


Yoruba Demons have taught this one a bitter lesson.

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Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by Bamzyriches451: 1:52pm On Apr 23, 2022
Damn!
Woman always playing the victim card, ain't believing those two stories except I hear from the men too
Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by Olam09(m): 1:53pm On Apr 23, 2022
Jenniferchuma10:
A woman has taken to her social media to reveal how her husband of 10 years left her for the maid.

She shared her story in response to a tweet about heartbreak.

She wrote: “After 10years of marriage my ex hubby left me for the maid. my dear I almost died, I could even see the maid driving his Benz in town while I was taking my son to school on foot. With Time you gonna be okay.”


https://www.trendinghub.ng/husband-leaves-wife-for-their-maid-after-10-years-of-marriage/

Useless women deserve things like this, maybe the guy man sees her as a liability.
Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by uuzba(m): 1:56pm On Apr 23, 2022
Businext:
Unfortunate
Imagine if a wife leaves her husband for their driver

#Wrong
It can't happen.
Women need a man that commands them.
Not a man they can command.
She's commanding the driver up and down. How will she be interested in scruffy fellow?

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Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by Sureplug123(m): 1:58pm On Apr 23, 2022
Islandlady:
shocked
Men are useless and ungrateful elements

No matter what you do for them their pig and flirtious nature must show

no matter what you do for them? What exactly do women have to offer? She's Trekking!!! grin
Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by tonysunkan: 1:58pm On Apr 23, 2022
Kriss216:
When the maid always play the role of the wife, what do you expect?

A maid will cook for your husband
Sweep and clean the house
Wash his clothes
Dish his meals
Clean his toilet
Clean his shoes
Attend to his sexual needs in marvelous ways


While you sit and give orders like Minister of domestic affairs. undecided


Men are smart. We know where our heart belongs. No sane man will leave a caring hardworking loving good cook and sensible woman for a lazy spoilt brat of a wife!

Dear men, don't allow your wife stop you from finding the love of your life.
Three gbosas for you.
Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by linearity: 2:02pm On Apr 23, 2022
WoundedLamb:
The person above is just ridiculous. I mean, why do most men on this platform always find a way to blame women for everything? Even when a man cheats, they still blame the woman. See the way he's calling out the lady for possibly losing guard as if the man is some animal driven by instincts alone. If it were a lady that got into an amorous relationship with the husband’s driver, y'all would have been dishing out unprintable insults to the entire gender. Now, it's a man, and you just want to give him a soft landing by placing a good deal of the blame on the wife even without knowing the whole story. I'm guessing the last paragraph is to make us believe he's got some sense of objectivity; funny. I don't know where y'all learned that treating men's debauchery with kid gloves is a way of being manly. Sexism is ugly.

What many ladies forgets is, at a certain time that man despite all the ladies flocking around him, left them, even disappointed many, make enemies out of some and choose you to be his wife.

The guy saw something in you that he did not see in all the other ladies around. The guy have met, probably slept with countless ladies before now, but specifically sort you out and gave you a ring and publicly declared you to the world that, you are the chosen one, his wife and the mother of his children. At that point, no other lady matters much to him.

Now fast forward to now and start observing the breakdown of your once wonderful union……something must have made this man to do a 180 and start looking at other women…..ask yourself is it possible that, you stop being that woman you once was, that same lady that caught his attention and admiration?

Something attracted him to you, is that thing still there, I am not talking about things physical or body features, those one fades with time both in ladies and in guys, I am talking about you, the person that once was the center of this guy’s universe.

One mistake ladies make is, they see marriage as a goal and the marriage license or wedding as the final act that will keep their man….men on the other hand seeks peace, there is nothing more valuable you could gift your husband that is more than peace….give him peace and he will love you to pieces and men don’t see marriage as a goal, it is just one of those things to check off on their task list.

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Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by tunapawizzy: 2:03pm On Apr 23, 2022
Islandlady:
shocked
Men are useless and ungrateful elements

No matter what you do for them their pig and flirtious nature must show

Men are the only pigs u see, not the maid that is also a woman and knows the man is married to another woman, her boss... meanwhile how is your dad doing today.

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Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by Kelvin3476: 2:03pm On Apr 23, 2022
Islandlady:
shocked
Men are useless and ungrateful elements

No matter what you do for them their pig and flirtious nature must show

WOMEN GAT NOTHING TO OFFER TO MEN. DIRTY HOLES LITERING ON ALREADY MADE WEALTHS.
Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by ajerimitan: 2:04pm On Apr 23, 2022
Islandlady must be having very thick skin. You guys are too violent and your words extremely super corrosive with ph level 1. #KrissIslandlady2022. 24 hours only marriage of convenience. Make it happen please I need to check something. Next at headlines will be like 'wife thrown RIGHT above board as husband joystick LEFT hanging' I come in Peace.

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Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by Kelvin3476: 2:05pm On Apr 23, 2022
Businext:
Unfortunate Imagine if a wife leaves her husband for their driver
#Wrong
DRIVERS ARE POOR , AND WOMEN ONLY WANT MONEY. BROKE THINGS

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