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emmnprince:
I can see you're crazily crazy for being generic about men.

You should have started your comment with "Some men" or "Few men" or . . .

She was probably talking about her dad and brothers

linearity:
What many ladies forgets is, at a certain time that man despite all the ladies flocking around him, left them, even disappointed many, make enemies of out some and choose you to be his wife.

The guy saw something in you that he did not see in all the other ladies around. The guy have met, probably slept with countless ladies before now, but specifically sort you out and gave you a ring and publicly declared to the world that, you are the chosen one, his wife and the mother of his children. At that point, no other lady matters much.

Now fast forward to now and start observing the breakdown of your once wonderful union……something must have made this man to do a 180 and start looking at other women…..ask yourself is it possible that, you stop being that woman you once was, that same lady that caught her attention?

Something attracted him to you, is that thing still there, I am not talking about things physical or body features, those one fades with time both in ladies and in guys, I am talking about you the person.

One mistake ladies make is, they see marriage as a goal and the marriage license or wedding as the final act that will keep their man….men on the other hand seeks peace, there is nothing more valuable you could gift your husband that is more than peace….give him peace and he will love you to pieces.

If only you all would say this when it's a woman cheating. But we all know how it goes, "fear women".

advanceDNA:
men support men ...women support women...
I've seen it on this forum Many times so domt start..
...a woman cheats...youll see the female monikers blaming the man for causing the infidelity...saying only bad husbands have bad wife...it goes both ways...

both gender believes their gender don't just get up and cheat, especially not with a maid and marry her at the end...

Keep telling yourself that.

Kriss216:
When the maid always play the role of the wife, what do you expect?

A maid will cook for your husband
Sweep and clean the house
Wash his clothes
Dish his meals
Clean his toilet
Clean his shoes
Attend to his sexual needs in marvelous ways


While you sit and give orders like Minister of domestic affairs.


Men are smart. We know where our heart belongs. No sane man will leave a caring hardworking loving good cook and sensible woman for a lazy spoilt brat of a wife!

Dear men, don't allow your wife stop you from finding the love of your life.

Well, most of the time, the maid is employed because the woman is working...so that the family can have an extra source of income.

Also, both men and women can and should control themselves. Marriage is not for having sex alone. If a man marries the maid because his wife, who need I remind you is working to bring in an extra income for the family, cannot always be there for his sex needs because she is tired from working, and doing some house chores....the man does not know what sacrifice is, or what love is.

Same goes for the woman looking outside because her man is too tired from work.

You guys should stop blaming women for everything. Your wives sacrifice for you, and y'all betray them with the maid.

Kriss216:
When the maid always play the role of the wife, what do you expect?

A maid will cook for your husband
Sweep and clean the house
Wash his clothes
Dish his meals
Clean his toilet
Clean his shoes
Attend to his sexual needs in marvelous ways


While you sit and give orders like Minister of domestic affairs.


Men are smart. We know where our heart belongs. No sane man will leave a caring hardworking loving good cook and sensible woman for a lazy spoilt brat of a wife!

Dear men, don't allow your wife stop you from finding the love of your life.

You be bad guy ooo
But honestly you may be right
He should however consider the child in the marriage and give the ex wife some relief

Cowbell521:
May u SAVE u FROM THIS PPL WITH borehole underneath

en pain you..

YET THE TAIL PPL KEEP ON HUSTLING FOR JUST TO GET UNDER THE BOREHOLE..

At the end, the punchline is 'blame the woman for the failure of the marriage'

Man could not keep it in his pants, we don't blame him

Expecting a woman to meet and be perfect for a man 's every need is not possible. Unless someone has invented a robot female with real skin that can do all that and more.

WoundedLamb:
The person above is just ridiculous. I mean, why do most men on this platform always find a way to blame women for everything? Even when a man cheats, they still blame the woman. See the way he's calling out the lady for possibly losing guard as if the man is some animal driven by instincts alone. If it were a lady that got into an amorous relationship with the husband’s driver, y'all would have been dishing out unprintable insults to the entire gender. Now, it's a man, and you just want to give him a soft landing by placing a good deal of the blame on the wife even without knowing the whole story. I'm guessing the last paragraph is to make us believe he's got some sense of objectivity; funny. I don't know where y'all learned that treating men's debauchery with kid gloves is a way of being manly. Sexism is ugly.

Ofcouse not all is the woman's fault, but in some cases it is their fault.
Eg, many years ago, my brother and his wife employed on HG from ogoja. Hmm, if you see this HG ehh? Yellow like oyinbo. Clean flawless skin, extremely beautiful, you cannot believe it! See shape! Just like chioma davido+ Caroline danjuma shape raised to power 2, but with oyinbo skin!
One day, a childhood friend came visiting, so we strolled to my brothers house down the road, immediately we entered, this guy's eye was glued on this chick! When she served us nko, as she bent see almost white milky colored laps and inner thigh . The cleavage nko. Chisos!
Do you know this guy draged me out and asked me say "Asin" weh men de go outside go find, na him my bloda wife carry come keep for house for the husband?
I can swear my bloda kained that chick cos the HG later quarreled with the wife and they even got physical and she was sacked. If he did, me I don't blame him, even a priest, bishop, pope sef will fall. Infact if I had the opportunity, na me for fall first.

WoundedLamb:
The person above is just ridiculous. I mean, why do most men on this platform always find a way to blame women for everything? Even when a man cheats, they still blame the woman. See the way he's calling out the lady for possibly losing guard as if the man is some animal driven by instincts alone. If it were a lady that got into an amorous relationship with the husband’s driver, y'all would have been dishing out unprintable insults to the entire gender. Now, it's a man, and you just want to give him a soft landing by placing a good deal of the blame on the wife even without knowing the whole story. I'm guessing the last paragraph is to make us believe he's got some sense of objectivity; funny. I don't know where y'all learned that treating men's debauchery with kid gloves is a way of being manly. Sexism is ugly.

We have so many psychos on this forum with low self esteems and urge for a perverted society

Jenniferchuma10:
A woman has taken to her social media to reveal how her husband of 10 years left her for the maid.

She shared her story in response to a tweet about heartbreak.

She wrote: “After 10years of marriage my ex hubby left me for the maid. my dear I almost died, I could even see the maid driving his Benz in town while I was taking my son to school on foot. With Time you gonna be okay.”


https://www.trendinghub.ng/husband-leaves-wife-for-their-maid-after-10-years-of-marriage/

when maid does the whole thing clean house wash ur husband undies cook, haba! Why ur bobo no go like test the other stuff naw

WoundedLamb:
Keep telling yourself that.

Sufayo

Till I hear or read the sides of story of hubby and maid , I’ll not condemn or applaud anybody .

No man will trade peace of mind for anything .
If you like earn millions as woman , put your family ( husband and kids ) first . Same as those who drop their kid of 2 years or less in Day care , because of work , status and promotion.

As a mother or married woman , your primary duty is caregiver to your family . Find time to cook , feed and control your home .As you are serving your hubby food , suck his your husband deek every morning before he leave for work .

A woman has no business been in the office past 2pm except your kids are above 15 years or you are in the office or shop with them .
Besides, women are wicked to their maids .

A wife/woman that doesn't personally serve his husband dinner... will surely leave for the maid to take over

Islandlady:

Men are useless and ungrateful elements

No matter what you do for them their pig and flirtious nature must show

including your father and husband

Islandlady:

Men are useless and ungrateful elements

No matter what you do for them their pig and flirtious nature must show

It’s a lie . She should check her attitude. It’s not always
About men.

Kriss216:
Still won't bring back your lost body counts

You are useless

Don't ever quote me again

PrinceOfLagos:
Your father top the list

Okay I said what I said

All men are useless

It's like you can't do without Collecting dosages of that tail thrice on a day. Front tail carriers LEADS.

Jeon:
MAY GOD SAVE US FROM THIS PPL WITH TAIL INFRONT.

MadamVanessa:



It's not a new thing , it has been happening and it will continue to happen.

That maid go sabi cowgirl and reverse cowgirl ooooooooo

Kooldame:
Walahi as for me My first child is 14 yrs old now by the grace of God my hubby never allowed anyone to stay with us right from d day I had my first child I thought he was mean then but now I believe in his ideology. What a perfect Idea

This could be working for a certain purpose.

Although, having just your husband and kids at home doesn't stop a man from quantum infidelity.

LMAO �����
laughed so hard at this!!!

Jeon:
MAY GOD SAVE US FROM THIS PPL WITH TAIL INFRONT.

Wife not maid. E don marry maid you dey complain

Aninri:
It's like you can't do without Collecting dosages of that tail thrice on a day. Front tail carriers LEADS.

the reason why some women love men..

Beyond supplying the key component in generating life, it has inspired artists, made some women fall in love with men they would otherwise hate and given countless of male musical artists a subject to sing about.

well ur comment show what your tail infront can offer... too bad I don't collect that..

nedekid:

Do you know this guy draged me out and asked me say "Asin" weh men de go outside go find, na him my bloda wife carry come keep for house for the husband[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]?

Aswear this your friend kill me with laugh

Islandlady:
Okay I said what I said

All men are useless

This kind of comment is why some women ain't married. God can't give you what you call useless.until you start seeing men differently ,you willl keep searching. Have a wonderful weekend.

On God

MadamVanessa:



It's not a new thing , it has been happening and it will continue to happen.

I did it with my oga when I was a maid back then , till date I still get jealous of the wife for having such a good man with such a good dick to herself all alone. I really enjoyed Dr. Rufus d*ck back then . Though he might not be strong as he used to be in bed back then again. Old age no pure.

Chai men done use you tire because you don’t have manners and not street smart

Kriss216:
When the maid always play the role of the wife, what do you expect?

A maid will cook for your husband
Sweep and clean the house
Wash his clothes
Dish his meals
Clean his toilet
Clean his shoes
Attend to his sexual needs in marvelous ways


While you sit and give orders like Minister of domestic affairs.


Men are smart. We know where our heart belongs. No sane man will leave a caring hardworking loving good cook and sensible woman for a lazy spoilt brat of a wife!

Dear men, don't allow your wife stop you from finding the love of your life.

GOD BLESS YOU KRISS

BABE my Dad is not useless oooo or a pig oooo

Anyways let the Vawulence continue [b][/b]

MadamVanessa:



It's not a new thing , it has been happening and it will continue to happen.

I did it with my oga when I was a maid back then , till date I still get jealous of the wife for having such a good man with such a good dick to herself all alone. I really enjoyed Dr. Rufus d*ck back then . Though he might not be strong as he used to be in bed back then again. Old age no pure at all.

and from then till now you never marry your own hubby sister I pity your future cos olosho don finish you..

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What was she expecting