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ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.

Use teeth comot wetin and sniff wetin??, una don spoil diz country finish, is that even ethically right?

ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.

Yourself and the 15 other people who liked your comment are the reasons men are regarded as simp or red pillers.

Condone a cheating wife ? never in my life. And I won't advice someone to do so.

If the devil's wants to kill you quickly, he gives you a bad wife or a bad husband.

Any partner who still thinks of his/her Ex while married is a very bad sign that such marriage won't last...I have seen many not last.....

SIMPly forgive but don't forget and losegaurd

Sheybi Na one woman dey just use cutlass redesign for ondo. Make she nor dey careful

falcon01:
She's a fool for not telling you where she went and you are right, who will she call if something happens? If by chance you catch her cheating oga don't you ever forgive her, because obviously she knows what she's doing and is very very very aware, just do your own part, be the best husband you could be.

Hey!!! Na person wife not girlfriend. Learn some manners

DryMouth:
Lol. Na ashawo you marry so

The way you guys call people ashawo sef?!

godliman:
Between you and her I don't know who is more foolish, my mind tells me its you. Keep loving and forgiving her you will soon start training someone else:s child.

Trust me he is already training someone's child

Just be watchful anyway!
Nothing more until you caught her red handed!

Kobicove:
The way you guys call people ashawo sef?!

But na ashawo she be na !!!!

ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.

dude sniff panties? What's wrong with you naw?

ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.

Rubbish
So not doing all these is an excuse to cheat?

manontree:
Sad. For her to do this and even the changing of clothes somewhere else suggest premeditation

It is highly likely her conscience is bothering her about something she did that day. She felt by telling you half truth, she would ease the burden on her conscience

She hasn't told you the entire truth and forgiveness should be the last discussion at the moment

Hahahaha...You're indeed very experienced

She's seeing a man please believe me.. no sex yet, she's stalling. There's something you're not doing right. She's your wife you sleep together every night. This is the advantage you have over the other guy. Talk to her, tell her you need her to tell you how she wants to be treated and you should do it. If you want to save your marriage, yours need fighting for right now. These sneaky around will hurt both of you at the long run. Create time to enjoy your marriage with her, she's young & inexperienced. You should lead her. She'll come through when you do.

Kobojunkie:
She is your wife, so you shouldn't be asking us whether you should forgive her or not.

You alone know why she is your wife, so the decision as to whether to forgive her or not is yours alone to make. This is your life!

She is however right that she is not a child for you to monitor ... she is a full grown adult and does not need you monitoring her movements.

You mean she can just get up and go out without telling the husband because she is not a child?

She doesn't want to admit that she cheated on you.

How did we get here... Indeed modern man is truly suffering

falcon01:
She's a fool for not telling you where she went and you are right, who will she call if something happens? If by chance you catch her cheating oga don't you ever forgive her, because obviously she knows what she's doing and is very very very aware, just do your own part, be the best husband you could be.

How can you call someone’s wife a fool just cuz he seeks your advise? Who never bleeped up hands in the air got your both hands up sir!

manontree:
Sad. For her to do this and even the changing of clothes somewhere else suggest premeditation

It is highly likely her conscience is bothering her about something she did that day. She felt by telling you half truth, she would ease the burden on her conscience

She hasn't told you the entire truth and forgiveness should be the last discussion at the moment

Best comment so far

Gentleman900000:
Good evening, my wife went to work yesterday and i was at home because it was my off day at work. She came back late and i suspected that she went somewhere but didn't confront her.

Few months back, i was going through her phone and saw she had some dirty chats with her ex and that one was saying he should find time for him. I confronted her when i saw this and she apologized that such will never happen again.

Today, we were both laying next to each other in bed and she said she have a confession to make. She said she went out to the cinema with a friend of hers. She even took a cloth along with her when she was going without informing me. She said she changed her clothes at her friend's place. I asked her that if anything happen to her at the so called friend's house that she went to without informing me, who will they call? She said she's not a kid that i should stop saying such thing. She's here apologizing again and i don't know if i should forgive her or not.

Pls forgive her & have more time for her, God bless your home.

ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.

Legend!!!

emmanuelbrown26:
I think I know your wife,

Hmmmm, or are you the Ex?

ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.

Best Advice of the year . I can't believe the OP is getting this for free.

Op
You guys aren't matured enough for dating. It's worrisome you are married.

If going out "behind each other's back" is an issue, then lot of things were missing during your courtship or dating.

? Better tell her parents,let dem know her wayward lifestyle. Hear the useless thing saying she is not a kid? No be adult one chief killed in his hotel @ife? She even waka with extra clothe after doing cow girl outside

Gentleman900000:
Good evening, my wife went to work yesterday and i was at home because it was my off day at work. She came back late and i suspected that she went somewhere but didn't confront her.

Few months back, i was going through her phone and saw she had some dirty chats with her ex and that one was saying he should find time for him. I confronted her when i saw this and she apologized that such will never happen again.

Today, we were both laying next to each other in bed and she said she have a confession to make. She said she went out to the cinema with a friend of hers. She even took a cloth along with her when she was going without informing me. She said she changed her clothes at her friend's place. I asked her that if anything happen to her at the so called friend's house that she went to without informing me, who will they call? She said she's not a kid that i should stop saying such thing. She's here apologizing again and i don't know if i should forgive her or not.

ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.

chop kiss

Come fess, are you a male?
Come let me pay your groom price

royalfly:
God and u got likes. What has happened to this world. Wow, if u are married and ur advice works for you then u must b supper human.. whats going on? Maybe there is a sacarsisim i did not see here. Wow, truly i should not have married.

the question should be what has happened to you for being unable to spot sheer brilliance of an Advice in a comment

ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.

No offense intended but you are not making sense here, how would you explain a man that does everything you have written up there with his wife and she still cheats on him? You are failing to address the issue, you don't know who OP is, how is running his house, things he is doing for his wife but you just jumped to assumption that he doesn't take his wife to cinema and bla bla bla. Things like this honestly give me second thought about marriage, it's sad but true married women cheats more than single ladies. She even told her husband that she is adult and knows what to do, like seriously? I believe we all read about the married woman in Ondo that was matcheted by her boyfriend. Had it been he successfully killed her, the poor husband would have been in serious mess just because of the wayward life of his wife. Marriage is slavery, it's overrated

ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.

You no get sense.

I never did these rubbish and my marriage is so wonderful. I have married for 18 years now without any misunderstanding.

What I can say is the wife is not disciplined at all and still surround herself with useles friends that neither respect her nor wish her good.

From this story, there are things that the husband should have done at the early stage of the relationship that he ignored .

The husband should talk sent to the wife and make her understand that it's the responsibility of both of you to make things work.
Have glorious vision together. share the visions always and work toward it.
and abobe all love her genuinely as husband not as woman mugun and always pray to God together.
May God touch her and make her receive sense.

Your wife possibly has more guilty confessions to make. She just couldn’t muster the courage to spill more beans. She is most likely cheating on you.