₦airaland Forum

Abbertee2:
Gaskiya ne hausa basa yawon zina . Saboda tarbiyyar hausa ta banbanta da sauran kabilu a nigeria . Mace bahaushiya itace kadai zaka zauna da ita ku haifiyara 10 kowanne danka ne ba maganar zargin zuwa DNA

XDaBOSS:
Divorce in the hausa community has nothing to do with the wife (most times). As you know the muslim religion give men the right to marry as much as four wives. Most times their men come up with flimsy excuses to divorce the wife in other to bring in a new bride. I've witnessed more than 5 cases of such.

Also they (Hausa ladies) do cheat or flirt around but codedly. They don't do it openly or make it look normal, like some our ladies do.

Generalwoodz:
At the bolded, Hijab covers dirty secrets.

Blablamalala:
The bolded is very true.

My assumption is that you are a Muslim based on your choice of moniker. I wish you happy Ramadhan. Now, in all honesty why is lesbianism very common among Hausa ladies? I must tell you I have two friends who divorced their wives because of this with concrete evidence. Those were first hand experience while the numerous other lesbianism stories are not directly related to me but News from people.

Lesbianism is called Madugo in Hausa.

Medianna:
First and famous I'm a Christian.
And I can't say I know anything about why they engage in such act honestly

Blablamalala:
Even gayism is an act very common among Hausa men too. It is called luwadi. I also know a woman who presented her case to the Sharia Court against her husband who persistently try to have anal sex with her.

Southernigbo:
[s]Well we all know that these women unlike many other tribes don't cheat. The reason for this is mostly because of their upbringing and religious inclination. By nature they are so shy as well and hardly wanna expose their nudity except to their husband, even at that many only practice intimacy with their husband in the darkness of the night. Their shyness is really out of the world. They are also very obedient and submissive and will hardly ever disobey their parents, husband and imams [/s]

Blablamalala:
Even gayism is an act very common among Hausa men too. It is called luwadi. I also know a woman who presented her case to the Sharia Court against her husband who persistently try to have anal sex with her.

Medianna:
Yes I know it is common especially among their politicians
But how you come to know about the names is what I don't understand?

holicupp:
Lived in sokoto for good 10 years with my aunty that was a nurse so believe the op at ur own peril cause abortion na their second name

Blablamalala:
The bolded has only stated a difference between ladies who are codedly promiscuous and ladies who openly promiscuous. What that means is that the decency in the North amids Hausa ladies is APPARENT.

Divorce in the Hausa community has alot of factors. Flimsy excuses by husbands too is one of them yet it doesn't exonerate the Hausa wives from being major players in the high rate of divorce in the Hausa community.

Classyuniquebae:
So I want to understand, does cheating codedly mean that you are modest ? What is the difference between cheating secretly and doing it without being a hypocrite ?

Would you not prefer to know that someone is a ritualist and give them their way than mixing up with a pastor who is a coded ritualist ?

You see the problem ?

XDaBOSS:
I won't call it promiscuity (being indiscriminate with their choice of sexual partners) because they are selective when it comes to cheating/choice of partners and time.

Cheating is common with every tribe (no tribe is an exception), so also is chastity .

The point here is...though they (Hausa ladies) cheat, they try to maintain some decorum and doesn't flaunt it around like its normal (even though cheating is cheating n am not justifying their act).

The bolded is true and I can't argue with that fact. My point was; the Hausa men are mostly the reason for their divorce. It still doesn't mean their ladies ain't guilty too.

Blablamalala:
Your aunt does abortion?

Blablamalala:
I like the way you have put your observations in words. I share the same perception. It's true, Hausa ladies don't mount just any Tom Dick and Harry. They are very selective and coded.

Blablamalala:
Even gayism is an act very common among Hausa men too. It is called luwadi. I also know a woman who presented her case to the Sharia Court against her husband who persistently try to have anal sex with her.

Blablamalala:
Language is fluidity. Is this your first time of coming across this names in Hausa?

haslaw:
Babu gaskiya a maganan ka.

Yes we know Hausa women may have more chastity than other tribes but it a BIG lie to say only Hausa women are chaste. Chastity is more along religious lines than tribes as more Muslims south are far more chaste than Christian north.

Northern Christian girls dey share body wotowoto.

Have you ever heard of "Ka ci naman in ci abincin"

Victerica:
The truth is that majority of Muslim women are modest!

Medianna:
Yes..

Medianna:
Nah. I know what am saying! Leave hijab out of this

Generalwoodz:
You leave Hijab out of your assertion then your details are skewed. Lol
My claim is heavily founded on clue my two eyes have seen, real Life happening and not hearsays.

Blablamalala:
Okay...those names are very openly mentioned in conversations.

haslaw:
Babu gaskiya a maganan ka.
Have you ever heard of "Ka ci naman in ci abincin"

Medianna:
Want you're trying to say is the hijab covers the pregnancy.
Which hijab will cover pregnancy in this world?

Its very difficult for them to get pregnant in their fathers house.
Most of third single mothers are divorcées not giving birth to a child out of wedlock

I'm talking about Hausa's in the north not some kind of Muslims in the west

Medianna:
Woaw all through my stay there I never had those words..

Well what I don't know will not know me

Blablamalala:
Do know the word zina?

Medianna:
Adultery

Newton2024:
The problem with muslims generally is hypocrisy. They always like to hide behind one finger. E.g Abba Kyari.

Blablamalala:
FORNICATION