In my twenties I was mostly working and building life experiences, I put my hand into different things, and they shaped the future for me, the only biggest worry to be concerned about, is work and dealing with emotional issues, the problems as you age gets bigger and devastating.

Avoid betting
Overcome peer pressure
Talk less
Work smart
Don't take things too personal
Have fun
FEAR GOD.

Kirkman:

God will see you through brotherly. Keep pushing and grinding...

Amen bruh

I'm in my early twenties too (clocked 23 3days ago).

I'll say you should take your life serious and avoid any form of tribalism in this forum (I can see your username).

Anyway, I'm just trying to enjoy the moment

I think you're a smart kid, I keep saying growing up (adulthood) is one of the hardest thing in life.
My advice is don't rush, wealth is a gradual thing, open a youtube channel, be creative, or get a skill, nurse it and be prayerful.
Remember nothing good comes easy.
You're a smart kid, I can feel it
Take this ⬇️ advice below very serious

mhiztaNexy:
Avoid betting
Overcome peer pressure
Talk less
Work smart
Don't take things too personal
Have fun
FEAR GOD.

afonjabreed:
I’m in my early twenties and it turns out I’ll be a year older very soon, I’ve barely had my sanity in one piece. I’m always thinking, worrying.
I know the twenties is an important, even the most vital stage in the formation of the type of shape a human future will take.
The thought of the future alone makes me keep to myself sometimes, because I’m always thinking, planning, re-strategising, simulating the future in my head every minute.

To be very honest, Adulthood is not easy.

Question to folks in their thirties and beyond...
How did you get past the worries of your twenties?
Or does the worries keep getting bigger ?

SERIOUS ON MY PLANS

Skip to the worries of one's thirties.

I always sit and reason when I was growing to a teenager,what do people mean when they say they are thinking as in (ronu)for yoruba.until I finished secondary school got my accommodation before I realized

afonjabreed:
I’m in my early twenties and it turns out I’ll be a year older very soon, I’ve barely had my sanity in one piece. I’m always thinking, worrying.
I know the twenties is an important, even the most vital stage in the formation of the type of shape a human future will take.
The thought of the future alone makes me keep to myself sometimes, because I’m always thinking, planning, re-strategising, simulating the future in my head every minute.

To be very honest, Adulthood is not easy.

Question to folks in their thirties and beyond...
How did you get past the worries of your twenties?
Or does the worries keep getting bigger ?

Seven Habits of Highly Effective People by Steve Covey

Eat that Frog by Brian Tracy

Make sure these two books are among the books you read, they will help shape your future.

Solofresh2:
Am in my early 20s and am the bread winner of my family at the moment.I send myself to school, I sponsor my younger brother in secondary school,I send money to my mom monthly,I bought a land already.Am schooling and working presently
Determination and discipline is the key.
I know one day, I will get the be life I have always dreamed about.So help me God

Respect! You said the two key words: determination and discipline. Related to discipline is delayed gratification. What you work on now is what will gratify you in the next decade. Live on less than you earn and derive satisfaction from saving and investing. And a great attitude which you have. You remind me of me at your age. God bless your efforts.

Medianna:
The Lord is your strength.

If you're getting worried at 20s I wonder what you'll do in your 40s

My brother said ' if you aim for the moon and miss, you will hit the star,

So keep planning you'll get there. But remove worry from the equation cuz nothing will move forward by worrying.

I wish I got this kind of ot in my early twenties..

blingxx:
In my twenties but I no allow this country frustrate infact trying to survive is hard on its own that's why I got my blunt to kill my depression I don give up on doing my degree for now make I get money open photo studio i dey find now I've suffered enough .. tbh no one should blame guys that are into fraud that sh*t save lives

Die by fire.... Criminal

Jobia:
would you say it was worth losing your social life over?

Compare to not having those privileges, yes it's worth it.

Worry is part of life. We can't do without worry. There would be worry at 30, there would be worry at 40, there would be worry at 50, there would be worry till we die.

Student will experience worry as well as professor. Singles as well as married people. Pastor as well as church members, newly wedded couple, as well as old couples. Believers will experience worry as well as unbelievers. Newly devoted and those who has been in Christ way long. People with good job as well as jobless people. People with children as well as those who keep on looking to God for their own fruit of womb. We will all experienced worry at some point in our lives.

The best way to get over worry is to accept yourself the way you are, keep on doing what you enjoy and always pray to God for direction.

Lightway:



Die by fire.... Criminal

Ode .. I never said I was into fraud , I said one should blame them

In my 20s too.. tbh I’ve achieved little things and I’m not doing bad atall at my age..

If things go as plan , I should retire by 35 but we all know say life fit fhuck person up anytime ..besides I’m not in competition, I should just be able to feed myself and family , affect my environment positively and afford basic needs of life. Then I’ll wait for my death


My advice to you .
Brush your skills, spend less down you earn o. Save save save, then invest .
, it’s easier to achieve goals when you’re still single and young than when you don marry and old..
Don’t invest all your savings though .

Also avoid women if possible , no matter how they want to sugarcoat it, women are distractions , before you can handle women drama, you need to come of age and swallow redpill ..
And please eat good food and wear good clothes, spend and invest on yourself abeg. Tomorrow is not guaranteed, u fit die anytime





I buy all gift cards and yankee funds( cashapp, greendot, PayPal,zelle, Moneycard skrill,perfect money , Neteller,money gram , western union etc) And WeChat payment all @ your rate . I sell cheap unit /bulk google voice

afonjabreed:
I’m in my early twenties and it turns out I’ll be a year older very soon, I’ve barely had my sanity in one piece. I’m always thinking, worrying.
I know the twenties is an important, even the most vital stage in the formation of the type of shape a human future will take.
The thought of the future alone makes me keep to myself sometimes, because I’m always thinking, planning, re-strategising, simulating the future in my head every minute.

To be very honest, Adulthood is not easy.

Question to folks in their thirties and beyond...
How did you get past the worries of your twenties?
Or does the worries keep getting bigger ?

Also in my early twenties, very tough but I'm just ruggeding it. Adulthood no be beans, i gotta feed myself everyday and cloth myself, girlfriend wahala school wahala business wahala. [color=#990000][/color]

am in my mid 20s I'd be 26 precisely this September, i wasn't opportued to learn a skill in my teen because i was the only one assisting my mum then in her business. She died when i was in 300lv i only manage to finish and graduate since then it hasn't been easy. i have finish serving and now no good job is forth coming, just some minor jobs that can barely sustain me. looking around everyone of my age seems to be doing well with some even already getting married am really confused, somehow it just seems like am wasting a way. i have searched internally to see if their is any special talent i have that i can levrage on to make money but i haven't seem to discover any yet. several times i have thought of learning a skill but what's really limiting me is how would i cope before the skill start fetching me money, because i seem to spend money on a daily basics. please i need advice on the kind of skill i can learn and acquaire considering my age be it digital or artisan that can fetch me good money in the long term and also any advice generally. life nor easy the fear of failing in the future scares the shit out of me. i don't want to live the kind of life where my children might want to ask me what I did with my life.
And please if anyone here can help me with a better job am a graduate of biochemistry.

Am in my early twenties at least I’ve secure a skill

I learnt barbing,school no dea my mind for now cos there’s no money at all but God is helping me am gonna enroll for noun soon

I’m in my mid twenties, no Dad, Sponsored myself all through my university days, currently sponsoring my 2 younger ones to Uni and Poly, you can say I’m the bread winner, provide for the family… infact I became the father of the house at 19yrs….. my mates are buying cars and traveling places, but I just want to take good care of my family first… I pray by this time next year I’m able to build house for my mum and get the fvck out of this country.

As for what I do: I’m a digital marketer
I’ve been into e-commerce for 5yrs now

Smoked them away!

afonjabreed:
I’m in my early twenties and it turns out I’ll be a year older very soon, I’ve barely had my sanity in one piece. I’m always thinking, worrying.
I know the twenties is an important, even the most vital stage in the formation of the type of shape a human future will take.
The thought of the future alone makes me keep to myself sometimes, because I’m always thinking, planning, re-strategising, simulating the future in my head every minute.

To be very honest, Adulthood is not easy.

Question to folks in their thirties and beyond...
How did you get past the worries of your twenties?
Or does the worries keep getting bigger ?

wont lie to you it wasn't easy, funny thing is i experience what you are going through now. well, what i did was setting of goals and target to be achieve before 25, luckily i achieved them all. unfortunately since then i haven't set goals and chase them with all seriousness as i did those years. don't worry you will be fine

Am in my early twenties, and I think am in the right direction
Schooling and learning a skill dsame time
But why is MALE dominating Dix thread?

I am presently 40 years old. When I was in my 20s I passed through the same worries you went through although started life quite early , I was married by 28 living large with 2 cars and
a house but now I'm already divorced with 2 early teen daughters. So u see one needs to keep hoping, praying and growing. Worry doesn't end as long as you're alive! So stop worrying, stay positive and keep updating your skills.

9isguy:
I’m in my mid twenties, no Dad, Sponsored myself all through my university days, currently sponsoring my 2 younger ones to Uni and Poly, you can say I’m the bread winner, provide for the family… infact I became the father of the house at 19yrs….. my mates are buying cars and traveling places, but I just want to take good care of my family first… I pray by this time next year I’m able to build house for my mum and get the fvck out of this country.

As for what I do: I’m a digital marketer
I’ve been into e-commerce for 5yrs now

Oga abeg come and teach me this work o.

Am in my late 20s, 27 to be precise and still depending on my parents. This is sickening. Pls help

- Get wisdom and be intentional about getting it.

- Master the Book of Proverbs.

- Learn a high-income and scalable skill. Be patient. Don't be distracted by your mates illegally balling now.

- Avoid anything relationships with women. You won't be able to gather. Now, your focus is self development. Girls will come later. You will even see better ones than those you think are the best thing after Bournvita.

- Have a 5 - 10 years savings plan in foreign currencies which you can use in your 30s.

- Again, avoid relationships. E get why.

- Take opportunities and don't be religiously dumb. Rather be spiritual.

- Pray and pray ahead of time. Always. You will soon reap it.

- If you intend to travel out in your early 30s, start planning now.

Wow woo... Just do what makes you happy, get your education, a little source of income for a start so you won't depend on people and let God take the lead while you follow. Every other thing would fall in place.

Stay with God and serve God, vain is the plan of man.

talk2hb1:

Compare to not having those privileges, yes it's worth it.

cool

Olam09:


Also in my early twenties, very tough but I'm just ruggeding it. Adulthood no be beans, i gotta feed myself everyday and cloth myself, girlfriend wahala school wahala business wahala. [color=#990000][/color]

Girlfriend Wahala? If she dosen't give you peace of mind, she ain't worth it, bin her.

Kentuforchrist:
Am in my early twenties at least I’ve secure a skill

I learnt barbing,school no dea my mind for now cos there’s no money at all but God is helping me am gonna enroll for noun soon

Exactly my point when have the skill you wont feel like going back to skul , for me na money I dey find make I get photo studio i get the skill already .. infact I've forgetten about doing my degree for now