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Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by chieni(f): 6:39pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:My reason for saying so is that you can't force a horse to drink from the water. If it is his decision not to stick with you through thick and thin, then he should go ahead. It is not a do or die affair where the law has to come in. That's the reason why it should be nipped in the Bud from the onset. Allow her find her way if that's what you want. LET'S SAVE EACH OTHER THE DRAMA PLEASE. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Kobojunkie: 6:44pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
chieni:How exactly do you nip anything in the bud if you are unwilling yourself to take actions to ensure that? You are willing to trust the words of a man in this so 10 years layer when he changes his mind and brings in a second wife you can cry fowl and pretend you never saw it coming? Come on woman! 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by obstead200(m): 6:47pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
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Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by KaluwisxPRO: 6:53pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
koyyess: Yes of course, we’re all waiting for that woman who’s going to eat her cake and have it. Point me to her when you find her. If she doesn’t want a second wife, she can move out, is anyone stopping her?? |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by koyyess: 6:58pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
KaluwisxPRO: Eya...this one is in denial. You go cry blood. Just say you wan marry who go feed you. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Shedrack777: 6:59pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:as long as she's ok with it, fine. i need the blessings |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by koyyess: 7:01pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Go and pack her load out na. Ash@wo |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by skywalker240(m): 7:04pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Sonnobax15:Óniôvo vwé dawvré marmor oo |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by 2braithe: 7:10pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
mirexxx: Only a yeye man will marry a woman inside her own house. If she likes she should have 10 houses.We are living in mine. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by 2braithe: 7:15pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Drefaithful(m): 7:16pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
blackboy: Is not education that guided her, we have 1001 educated women who will go contrary to her submission. What guided her was her Faith, though some Muslim women do resist it, but so many of them accept thier fate when their husbands eventually married another wife, God that give Muslim men the privilege to do so knew the reasons and is best known to Him, bottom line. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by chieni(f): 7:30pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Mehn!! God help us. Of a truth some humans can be very deceptive. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Albertone(m): 7:32pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
But ugly jeon is a 10th wife to a fulani herdsman and bandit. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by BePrepared: 7:36pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Animegirl:So you don't value yourself |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by frleopardo: 7:38pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:If your husband decides to marry another wife, your only choice is to quit the marriage or accept it. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by robosky02(m): 7:40pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: Be calming down Even this your husband are you aware he is some bodies EX... She used "it" before handing him over to you |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Idaytesj29(m): 7:44pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Uniquetani1: You see now |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Demurray: 7:44pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
HenryWilliams:marry two ot more doesn't guarantee having no side chicks Peace |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Cromagnon: 8:09pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Prettygirl200:then you leave his house and let serious women move in |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by denobaba: 8:20pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:That's very ignorant. It's correct for registry and probably Christian marriage. Definitely not the case for customary marriage. Marriage under customs allows whatever is possible Under the tradition in which the union was contracted, and that includes polygamy. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Nobody: 8:33pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: I'm sure Yul's wife thought the same |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by meedoLock(m): 8:34pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Truvelisback: And make u dey beware of rat poison too sir |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Kobojunkie: 8:36pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
frleopardo:That's only if the marriage was entered into via the traditional marriage route. Else, he would first need to divorce his current wife to have his other cake. How many Nigerian men do that so easily?, 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Kobojunkie: 8:38pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
denobaba: LollySeaSide: 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by phemmyfour: 8:47pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Prettygirl200:Mercy said more than this anyway |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Phoneworld: 9:00pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: Na your type they loyal... dont ever conclude just pray to God to give a good husband that will know ur value as a mother, wife and for bringing is child to this world and for does men cheating, women are the same thing, it all end up the same way(removing of spam) and for the women out there stop this mentality of achieving a man to your self and become someone different when you become married to him, this open doors for ur husband to cheat on u, any side check he meet at this point will try her best to please him and also achieve her own aims... women before u come and comment please treat that man u have right in anyway u can because this days to get side chick no they hard as a married man and always remember men, no be all toto they give good look oh, after u have sex with an unknown side chick and your life and business start to fall, na that same women where you keep for house go manage with u, use ur head, must sacked letter are caused by unknown side chick... I rest my case... Am single 6 ft From akwa ibom Know how to my native and willing to teach you Degree, Graduate of mechanical/Electrical Engineering Send me a mail Buzuduak02@gmail.com |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by addictiv(m): 9:02pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
LollySeaSide:Wrong Sir... When you say something is not legal.. It means its illegal and not recognised by law. However in Nigeria a man can LEGALLY marry ass man wives as he deems fit irrespective of geography and religion. The traditional marriage is absolutely recognised by the customary courts. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by frleopardo: 9:15pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:So, are you insinuating that women should mobilise for traditional marriage to be banned? That idea is dead on arrival if you ask me. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Kobojunkie: 9:35pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
frleopardo:Banned, why? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by frleopardo: 10:17pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Maybe I got your meaning wrong, then. I don't see how first wives can stop men from having a second wife, though. I think the woman only has the option of divorce or accepting it. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Kobojunkie: 10:19pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
frleopardo:Well, if the man wants the second wife so bad, he would need to first divorce the wife in order to do that or risk being sued for bigamy under the marriage act. The wife can divorce him on grounds of fornication and move on to remarrying someone else in that case. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Friend22(m): 10:51pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
PerfectStranger: Let them marry and let's see how this shallow logic works. Biologically it will back fire. Paternity test is a sure thing. In the end they lost! |
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