Three days ago I received an sms from a company where I dropped my C.V close to two years ago. I went through it and low and behold, it was an invitation for an interview yesterday being Saturday. I was happy really. I prepared well for it, cancelled my supplying business appointment. I do a supplying business while looking forward to a good job opportunity. So, I woke up quite early dressed up and left for the venue. I got there around 8:10am while the interview was scheduled to hold by 9:00am.

I got to the venue and met two persons who was there for the same reason. Before it was 8:50am the whole place was filled up with others who also came for the same interview.

Finally, the interview that was scheduled to hold by 9:00am started around 11:30am. It then got to my turn, I went in and met three persons in there, one man and two young ladies. Then the man started the interviewing questions and I was giving out an impressive answers, while one of the ladies tried asking me a question, the man now cut in and ask, ' by the way, are you married'? I answered, 'no, I'm single sir'. He then asked again, ' were you married before'? I paused for a while and was wondering if it will be proper to let it out exactly the way it is. Then I decided to come out plain and answered that I was married, and I tried adding to it that I left because of a case of domestic violence, but he didn't want to hear that at all, so, he immediately cut in and said, 'young lady there's no need going ahead with anything else again since you couldn't manage to stay back and remain married, is it the company that you can be able to manage'. At this point, even the two ladies were more than astonished at him than I was. He ended it and said, 'Just forget about the job'. I just left feeling so devastated.

I managed to hold back tears till I got home and nearly cried my eyes out, recalling all that I went through. It's really sad that some people feel they can throw words anyhow at others not minding what those words are doing to their emotions.

I felt for you while reading this.cheer up sister, the lord will surprise you with something bigger and better. Amen.

Dont worry there are better job, This is the type of people that beat their wife at home and promote domestic violence, dont worry God knows the best for you.

Cyphar:
I felt for you while reading this.cheer up sister, the lord will surprise you with something bigger and better. Amen.

Amen! Thanks

Goldbw122:
Dont worry there are better job, This is the type of people that beat their wife at home and promote domestic violence, dont worry God knows the best for you.

Thanks. @ the bolded, honestly, he is definitely one. It's even written all over him.

Interesting

CRY! Let it pain you. The truth is always painful. Just as the truth that a certain slave master from Iragbiji, can never be President pains the Afonja slaves in this NairaAfonja-land forum. Shame!

Truth is I pity alot of people out there who are not married. With the kind of negative feedback about marriages, domestic violence, immortality going on, western media influence on our women and the use of celebrities to derail alot of good men and women out there, it will be too difficult for young people to get married not to talk of young women agreeing to be submissive to their husbands.. any small thing divorce, baby mama or being a single mother. It does not look good in anyway or doesn't make u any better. They will advice u that ur good alone but deep inside u, there is a void which will reflect on ur children later in life. Next thing they will be looking for where to buy the fattest dillldo to sit on or become another man's side chick.
My advice: Marry ur friend, love him/her, fear God and study ur holy book. It will direct u in all u do. Lastly avoid following people who don't fear God. They will wreck ur marriage. Lastly, please ur husband and he will love u and also keep ur relationship/issues off social media, relatives and friends. Be careful for nothing.

I come in peace

Discrimination....

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Afonjamuslim24:
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No time. God save the woman

Ok

Dbull on this one!!!


My career is about to die because of nairalanders statements

........young lady there's no need going ahead with anything else again since you couldn't manage to stay back and remain married, is it the company that you can be able to manage'.
At this point, even the two ladies were more than astonished at him than I was.
He ended it and said, 'Just forget about the job'.
I just left feeling so devastated.

This is just sonsad and emotional to read.
That was very cruel and wicked from him.
Don't worry Sis.
God is saving the best for the last for you.
Just take it that, the job doesn't belong to you.
God is shaping you for a better place.
It will end in Praise.

One thing we always tell people is that
'Leave that relationship/marriage if things become too violent".
Your life comes first.
Dead people tell no tale.

Eyyyaaa sorry about that.

Just move on with your life.

He might or might not be right about you.

Na true

Okay

That was totally Insensitive and unacceptable.
I wish you gave them a piece of your mind and walked out. Nonsense.
Besides they are complete strangers and their words and baseless opinions should mean NOTHING to you.

Eyah, similar to these type of people are people that narrates your mistake to everyone they meet. They already killed you before you even get a chance to live

Hmmm

Keep staying strong. Don't let that experience get the best of you. You will surely get something better.

You seem very intelligent, don't worry, i think you can even manage a business yourself, You have value maybe its time you create your own Job, relax, i think the idea will come to you.

Unfortunately we will meet terrible people who are terrible with words, just erase their words, and keep going on.

Words have power, we should strive to always use it wisely.

Wow... That's crazy!

He is either a divorcee or he has someone he wants to fill in the position. I think you should be happy you dodged such an egoistic, judgmental and unruly person for a boss. It can be frustrating working with people like that.

How BVN can be used to steal money from your bank accounts



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WFJcndxUln0

This is why people succumb to, and sometimes die from abusive relationships. The society is not fair to people most times. God will provide a better job for you and provide a better life for all the victims of domestic violence.

Kisico:
Three days ago I received an sms from a company where I dropped my C.V close to two years ago. I went through it and low and behold, it was an invitation for an interview yesterday being Saturday. I was happy really. I prepared well for it, cancelled my supplying business appointment.

A lot of women are quick to cry domestic violence when the man goes physical on them.

But people hardly ever consider how emotional abuse (insults, curses and humiliation) on the part of the woman equates to domestic violence too.

A woman's abusive words = a man's violent fist.