StilmaVsBorn2w:

I knew it will be like This, but there's no harm in asking for help, for you thinking am using a sensitive issue like this to cashout shows alot of we don't really care about one another. am not forcing anyone to help and for your understanding since I made this thread, I HAVEN'T RECEIVED any TOKEN,.

SO LUCKILY FOR YOU SIR, NO ONE HAS BEEN SCAMMED, But I just want You to know it's evil of you trying to cease good people from rending help to people like us who really needs it.

once again thank you

You dont need to ask for financial help. Prostrate and let the family know ur financial strenth, dat u dont have money, moreover dont u have any family?? Why expect nairalanders to provide money for u to marry ur late girl friend. Beg the family even though dem fit no gree. But beg sha.

frozen70:


You know what, you have tried to accept to do the needful

This time around take your inlaws inside and let them know your capacity
If possible print uoir account balance from the bank they will see the current date or show them your account balance in uoir phone they will see the current transaction

Tell them that this us all you have, that they should arrange and modify things to fit into your availabile balance

Just humble yourself and everyone will cooperate with you

very correct.

WelkinBlue:


Like seriously? So you can comment on someone's post with so much calmness ?
I read your previous post and I noticed how insultive, arrogant and acting like a man with little wisdom.

Anyway I salute you for changing your initial gragra stance. I will implore you now to negotiate with the family so as to not incure additional debts.

I observed some people are mentioning you posted account number which means you need support but am gonna be very blunt. You don't deserve any dime or support from anyone atleast not for now. Your comments in your previous post is the reason for that and you alone should face the brunt of your actions.

Gbam

After doing it ur mind will be free

StilmaVsBorn2w:
Update:

Sorry my people I asked for financial assistance.
am at her fathers compound presently,. I know everything will fall in place.
God works in mysterious ways, thank you all for your comments.
once again thank you

Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7102223/want-me-marry-corpse-refused

May God bless you and give you peace. Just like i said in the previous post. Its nothing out of ordinary. Just do the needful and move on

Will you shut your mouth na today I know they are running scam on NL. If everyone in your hood don't deem you deserving of the help you need your are not worthy of help.

omorttee4u:

You are a fool, who find it hard to pass message without being vulgar. I wonder. How you know he's a scammer too, oh base on the story you've read on Nairaland abi. That doesn't mean real life doesn't happen. Pray you don't find yourself in his shoe. People face challenges especially when you have your own family, that's why not just people like you that will help, but someone who had been there, you will hear him likke " I know how it feel " So you are blind to read where I say, whoever willing to help, should investigate. You just come to Internet to mock on people 's situation like you are an Alien it can't happen to you. Okay what if you find out he's telling the truth, will you retract those negative words, said about him? Because if he's not telling lies, then he's telling the truth.

There is nothing sensitive here. All is family member can not help him perform marriage rite. The more those that know scam sit back n wash scammer run their scam on NL the more useless the site becomes. He should meet his family to help with that or go work to help himself. They'll be no medium to scam the few good mind left, they are not your father to be helping solve the problem you put yourself. That's if the whole charade is not a lie.

tonididdy:

Oga relax abeg.
In sensitive issues like this be it scam or not.
You are not willing to help.... Sit back and watch, let those willing to help do so.
Don't spoil the few good minds left.
Just let things be...

This exact thing happened to my brother.

The matter get as e be.

StilmaVsBorn2w:
Update:

Sorry my people I asked for financial assistance.
am at her fathers compound presently,. I know everything will fall in place.
God works in mysterious ways, thank you all for your comments.
once again thank you

Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7102223/want-me-marry-corpse-refused

It's a good thing you heeded advice in the end. You should never ignore or treat with disdain certain aspects of tradition. They have repercussions. I read the previous thread and could sense your vain arrogance. Such arrogance and stubbornness don't help matters. Next time be humble and appreciate anyone offering useful advice to you.

Hmmmmm Edo people and this their culture....

obyrich:
Europe destroyed Africa? Stole from Africa. At the moment Europe is destroying Europe. Pause and ask, is Europe a good example?

That's my point
The shrines and all those things we were scared of
These dudes came and burned it to the ground
Look at the 1894 wipeout of Benin Kingdom.
Even the supposed sacred grounds weee deaecrated

Kriss216:
After forming strong head for your previous thread, your head don calm down, bah? Like my people will always say, "Dey no de use big gbola ginger ashawó".

Cos wetin you carry wey she never see b4

Please OP, where is d address of all these stories you are telling here, I want to send people to verify d authenticity of d story before my next line of action.
I'm waiting to hearing from you asap

But how Op don already begin beg for money even though him and him in-laws never finalise on how much to pay....
If the story is true, which I doubt, the OP would have provided enough evidence by now to support his claims.

Invictuse:
There is nothing sensitive here. All is family member can not help him perform marriage rite. The more those that know scam sit back n wash scammer run their scam on NL the more useless the site becomes. He should meet his family to help with that or go work to help himself. They'll be no medium to scam the few good mind left, they are not your father to be helping solve the problem you put yourself. That's if the whole charade is not a lie.

... It's their money not yours.
Why are you so pained about someone helping another.
Why do you have to be the scam-detecta?

Now you have done what is right.

Kriss216:
After forming strong head for your previous thread, your head don calm down, bah? Like my people will always say, "Dey no de use big gbola ginger ashawó".

My brother, i tire for the guy o.. Some of us wey don marry know how dis tins be dey talk to am, he was forming arrogance.
Don't do it, dem go storm ur house collect dat boy from u.. U go think say na film.

The fact that you accepted to do the needful is a good step to take. It doesn't matter if your tradition permits it or not, the very day she moved into your house fully and also given birth to your son, she becomes your wife whether you like it or not. In some part of Igbo tradition, the expenses you will make now she is dead is double what you would have expanded when she was alive. You still have a long way to go as after the dowry payment, you will still bury her. Take your time and follow their every instruction.

Hmmmmm, I guess as much, next time do the needful before putting someone's daughter in the family way.

oke2018:
I first saw this story in a particular group on Facebook & here someone is using it to solicit for funds, I don't know who is the true owner of the story.

can you retrace the link pls and paste it here

oke2018:
I first saw this story in a particular group on Facebook & here someone is using it to solicit for funds, I don't know who is the true owner of the story.

Where's the link or your mouth just hungry you to lie?
Why not post it here, let's verify with the time

Invictuse:
You that is born a scammer from birth. Werey I resemble person you fit drop voice cajole. I have quoted like 4 monickers on this thread you are all working together to scam the mumu that will still transfer to you fools.

I commend your courage and desire to ensure all scammers are fished out.
Don't let any poster derail you.For all you know they maybe working together or those are the op alternate monikers.

StilmaVsBorn2w:

Amen, I believe everything we go well.

we just touched down her father's compound.

your failure to atleast show a proof to vindicate those who might geniuely need a help another day is very annoying

StilmaVsBorn2w:

Thank you, am going today with my people, have already spoken with her elder brother they expecting us.

Excellent, just be calm and humble and you will spend less

They lost their daughter you lost the mother of your child

Both of you are grieved

So the pains of losing a loved one is 50/50

nesgeeek:
very correct.

Thanks

Miner13:
your failure to atleast show a proof to vindicate those who might geniuely need a help another day is very annoying

You are a madman, you think if op show prove anybody go help or you nor read the front page where person even send dead body for inside coffin them nor believe.
No amount of prove here except he want waste him time, make op go find person when go give am money with collateral for outside

It's a pity you have to go through this, it's a clear proof that ignorance is very expensive. You refused performing marriage rites when she was alive now you have to do it forcefully and still spend more money burying her. The beautiful thing is that your mum warned you against keeping her but you stubbornly refused now see where you just found yourself, sorry for the trauma, wishing you well I hope you scale through all this and importantly learn a lesson from this

KiNg0G:

You are a madman, you think if op show prove anybody go help or you nor read the front page where person even send dead body for inside coffin them nor believe.
No amount of prove here except he want waste him time, make op go find person when go give am money with collateral for outside

thank you for the acolade that suit you and your generation.cos as for me,its been rejected for long

Miner13:
thank you for the acolade that suit you and your generation.cos as for me,its been rejected for long

bros, noi vex I just dey explain matter give you say op nor go get one naira from anybody here, even if he cinema everything upload for youtube post here.
them don already spoil people mind for the front page

Miner13:
can you retrace the link pls and paste it here

I don't the exact facebook group , Are you the OP

Same reason you are the scammer now.

tonididdy:


... It's their money not yours.
Why are you so pained about someone helping another.
Why do you have to be the scam-detecta?

KiNg0G:

Where's the link or your mouth just hungry you to lie?
Why not post it here, let's verify with the time

It seems you're the OP if not you shouldn't be bother about it , those that want to help should help am not stopping any one from helping him .

Most stories here are similar to those on facebook , maybe it is from here the story was carried to facebook who knows.