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WondaBeauty:
Sharing my husband wit someone occasionally & Sharing my home with someone permanently are 2 different things...


My husband is my joy but my home including him is my peace.



I value and cherish my peace very much....

Which one do you prefer?

[quote author=Lalami3232 Even wives don dey resemble husbands these days sef.post=112502555]Second wife na pain pass. Do you know why? The second wife dey as legal as the first wife. The second wife get same benefit as the first wife. Some men dey even carry the second wife to come stay same house with the first wife. Second wife get inheritance. Second wife no dey hide, she can so anything because she's legal.
But you see sidechicks, dem dey fear some wives. Dem no fit call the man anyhow because he may be with the wife. A wife can beat up the sidechick but no fit beat second wife because both of them get equal right. God abeg, no ever give us reasons to marry more than one woman for this life. Dear men, we know say only 3% of ladies for this 9ja na get the tendency to be a good wife, so my advise to una be say make una find from those 3% and marry. Polygamy na demonic thing ooooo, I know wetin I dey talk. The father is "OUR FATHER" while the mother is "MY MOTHER". I rather be a single guy forever, than to marry more than one woman. Hence, my reason for abstaining from our 9ja babes because dem go always give you reasons to marry multiple women.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "if no be you disvirgin your wife, oga go for DNA test oooo. Non virgins aka boreholes are not to be trusted. The pikin resemble you, is not a guarantee say na your pikin"[/quote]

Most ladies that are ranting are products of not just polygamous marriage but side chick. Most cases, their mothers aren't even first wife. By implication, their mothers went to seduce, lure and steal or kidnap someone's husband which therefore means those ladies are even products of "kolobi". Today, they're the ones saying polygamy, side chick, bla bla is evil. Does this mean those complaining ladies are evil? I fear woman na woman name for Warri

House girl

cloud:
you still haven't answered the question

if you can't pick out the answer from my comment,
then i guess thats ur problem not mine

Emma1Oj:
But you didn't answer the question asked.

Read my comment again and know my answer.


Goodluck....

Second wife. Because that one is a direct competition to not only current resources but future inheritance as well.

Both hurt so bad. As a man in a relationship with me, you are not permitted to cheat, but I can.
To your question op, second wife hurts some women more. Side chicks come and go.

Newton2024:
Which one do you prefer?

JOY = Husband/Sidechick

PEACE = Husband/Wife



I hope this is easier for you to comprehend and pick out my answer to the question.

Ashawo

Second wife, women hate rivalry with passion.




A woman would know her husband is cheating but some won't have problem with that as long as he's taking care of her and the children.......But if the man has another wife even if you give her heaven and earth she would still complain about equity. If you buy her Camry something in her will be telling her you have bought Range Rover for the other wife. She'll be getting angry unnecessarily.

WondaBeauty:
JOY = Husband/Sidechick

PEACE = Husband/Wife



I hope this is easier for you to comprehend and pick out my answer to the question.

You want JOY and PEACE. May God grant you and your husband both. But men are cheating women sha o. Anyway, polygamy is better than adultery and fornication.

Second wife...
Coming to do shifting cultivation at home

In the western world, most unsecured wives go into 3somes (MFF), some even volunteer their single female friends using protection sha.

After its for the fun.. after that it's over. Everyone go back home.

But u see that second wife thing.. its a big no no.. (bigamy).. they will fight u with both the law and with guns..

Gunners89:
Second Wife anyday, anytime

Both for Woman running on Solely Emotions because You won't be His first and that hurts a craving person:

All these guys here saying "things"
These are not our parents days o, before you are stabbed in your sleep

Second wife has to be an agreement between the first and the husband because you can't just bring a woman in your house for years and then want to bring in a second wife. If you are a Muslim, any woman marrying you will already know so shouldn't have a problem but even among Muslims, there are some women who won't also share and they marry the ones that don't want more than one wife too.

As for side-chics side-gbola also dey. Some one said no gbola is meant for one puna... I laugh in Spanish... What is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

Lastly it's easy to find out if a man is cheating but if a woman is cheating it will take the grace of God to ever find out so make Una know wetin Una dey do.

WondaBeauty:
Sharing my husband wit someone occasionally & Sharing my home with someone permanently are 2 different things...


My husband is my joy but my home including him is my peace.


You can share in my joy with me but not my peace.


PEACE IS NEVER SHARED...



I value and cherish my peace very much....

Wonderful comment...

NotBeenPaid:

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Sometimes I can’t help but to question the sanity of the mods on this forum. What a thread.

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Thank you. Very useless threads making front page.

yanabasee:
I wouldn't, because back then, we never had this type of awareness and education to realize how a man sleeping around with different women will want one woman not to sleep around with different men...

...and u re still reading d book. Ur type nor fit marry.

WondaBeauty:
Sharing my husband wit someone occasionally & Sharing my home with someone permanently are 2 different things...


My husband is my joy but my home including him is my peace.


You can share in my joy with me but not my peace.


PEACE IS NEVER SHARED...



I value and cherish my peace very much....

please hw old r u?

Compound Side Chick....

WondaBeauty:
Sharing my husband wit someone occasionally & Sharing my home with someone permanently are 2 different things...


My husband is my joy but my home including him is my peace.


You can share in my joy with me but not my peace.


PEACE IS NEVER SHARED...



I value and cherish my peace very much....

You are such a brilliant lady , your response was well thought out .

On behalf of married men association of Nigeria, we pray God grants us the grace to always give our wives the much needed peace.

You be like surviving Queen.

jasmeel:
please hw old r u?

Both

Remember that hell hath no fury than a woman scorned.

WondaBeauty:
Sharing my husband wit someone occasionally & Sharing my home with someone permanently are 2 different things...


My husband is my joy but my home including him is my peace.


You can share in my joy with me but not my peace.


PEACE IS NEVER SHARED...



I value and cherish my peace very much....

It not ur home. It the mans home. Thats his decision to make not ur. I mean seriously it not ur home.

SensualMan:
2nd wife.

The greatest gift God ever gave me was making me a man.

If u are PROUD to ba man Hands up?

Too many hands

You can't have it all..
Just like the day a lady told me I'm missing a lot not being a lady.
She made mention of the sex part..where her brain centers register the whole event, like they are literally out of the universe during intercourse

WondaBeauty:
Sharing my husband wit someone occasionally & Sharing my home with someone permanently are 2 different things...


My husband is my joy but my home including him is my peace.


You can share in my joy with me but not my peace.


PEACE IS NEVER SHARED...



I value and cherish my peace very much....

Hmmm, babe, you get sense...well articulated and straight to the point. Kudos

edoairways:
She instructed Abraham to sleep with Hagar because she was barren not that she was comfortable with it . Mind you, she sent her maid away later on

Yes... She was barren, how many women with similar case with hers these days can ask their husbands to sleep with someone. Whether you accept it or not, there's several cases of polygamy in the Bible. Though I don't wish to marry more than one woman and I dont blame polygamous men.

WondaBeauty:
Sharing my husband wit someone occasionally & Sharing my home with someone permanently are 2 different things...


My husband is my joy but my home including him is my peace.


You can share in my joy with me but not my peace.


PEACE IS NEVER SHARED...



I value and cherish my peace very much....

I respect your reasoning capacity!

Whazar:
What if I decide to have both?

Second wife and many side chicks

Like king Solomon... 300wives and 700 side chicks

Actually she answered it but you can't decode it.

Many others can

cloud:
you still haven't answered the question

Both are unacceptable. Same way it hurts men. It even hurts them more as they don't ever want to share.