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Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by bmdmix10(op): 8:36pm On May 04, 2022
A woman has gone viral online after sharing the shocking tale of how she ended her marriage of 14-years, believing she'd found her soulmate in another.

The pair shared an "electric" night, eating, drinking and talking, before they parted ways.

A month later, without having any further communication with the man, Amanda Trenfield left her husband - only to then be rejected by her soulmate.

Amanda shared her story in The Sydney Morning Herald, telling how it all started when she attended a three-day conference in Australia with her husband and her eyes locked with a man named Jason at a formal dinner.

She claims there was an "instant familiarity" and she lost her breath at this moment.

The two went on to shared wine and she tried a spoonful of his dessert, later enjoying a glass of wine together back in the hotel bar talking until last orders were called and into the early morning hours.

Amanda, a life coach, recalled how the energy between the two of them was "somehow charged" and "electric" and that she knew that this was more than just lust or physical attraction.

She said: "We enjoyed a body-hugging embrace where I whispered into his ear, 'This isn’t over, I need to see you again.' He put his hands tightly on my waist and pulled me close. 'Yes,' he replied. It was all I needed to hear.

"I had never felt anything like this before.

"I now know without hesitation, without question, without any doubt in my mind, my body or my heart, that the energy we experienced that evening was our souls connecting."

Amanda claims the next few days were a blur as she couldn't focus on her job, running the house or taking care of her two children, as she was distracted by the knowledge that she'd just met her soulmate.

But the story takes a dramatic turn when four weeks after the dinner, Amanda boldly decided to end her marriage - despite not having any further communication with Jason since that evening.

Eagle-eyed readers noticed that the extract was taken from Trenfield's new memoir - When A Soulmate Says No.

The title of the book had people gobsmacked as they realised that she had left her husband, only to be rejected by her supposed soulmate.

Thousands of people on Twitter shared their thoughts, with many admitting this is the kind of story they would have taken to their grave. Others were keen to know more about Jason and his account of that meeting.

One person posted: "Girl they couldn't have tortured this out of me at Guantanamo."
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.mirror.co.uk/lifestyle/sex-relationships/relationships/woman-ends-14-year-marriage-26862968.amp

Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by immortalcrown(m): 8:40pm On May 04, 2022
Funny.
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by everythinggirly(f): 10:03pm On May 04, 2022
Perhaps it's infatuation, you might see another soul mate after another 14 years.
Be careful woman.
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by Desperados(m): 1:51am On May 05, 2022
The topic of the story alone just send my brain into Ghost-mode.



So has she been with her SPIRIT-MATE or BODYMATE all these years?
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by Islandlady(f):
shocked grin
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by Jayrockk: 5:43am On May 05, 2022
Woman problem no dey finish o
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by Whazar(m): 6:52am On May 05, 2022
She go dump this one too when she find damatol
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by Sekoni003(m): 7:43am On May 05, 2022
This is similar to a striker who's already on a yellow card who scores a 92nd minute winner and pulls off his shirt to celebrate. He gets red-carded in the 30 seconds of madness only for VAR to overturn the goal... Double pain cheesy
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by uncleck: 8:21am On May 05, 2022
Alcohol!!!
That thing can teleport you from Nigeria to America without visa
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by alphaconde(m): 8:21am On May 05, 2022
i wish this happened to a nigerian woman.

lesson i have learnt.

theres nothing u can do to keep a woman.

one woman talk for this nairaland say she wan leave her husband becuase she de shout for the children once once.

na that day i give up
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by MarveworldG: 8:21am On May 05, 2022
grin
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by VladimirPutiin(m): 8:21am On May 05, 2022
angry

Women have what brains again huh
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by oluseyiforjesus(m): 8:22am On May 05, 2022
Her problem
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by Nozino: 8:22am On May 05, 2022
This gender do not know what they want.
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by treatise: 8:22am On May 05, 2022
Desperados:
The topic of the story alone just send my brain into Ghost-mode.



So has she been with her SPIRIT-MATE or BODYMATE all these years?
BEDMATE
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by McAausim: 8:22am On May 05, 2022
Ok
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by marychommy(f): 8:22am On May 05, 2022
Can she be more serioushuh?? Kai dis my gender eehhh I tire for una
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by inoki247: 8:22am On May 05, 2022
lol
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by Whothecapfits: 8:23am On May 05, 2022
Reality vs Ideality

A bird @ hand worth million in the bush.

The devil you know is better than the .....
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by englishmart(m): 8:23am On May 05, 2022
The only gender that God Himself couldn't satisfy. He gave them natural beauty, they prefer the artificial life. People who in their curiousness ate from the tree which they were commanded not to eat from.
How could you have one soul but several soulmates when you don't sell haircreams?
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by Emily22(m): 8:23am On May 05, 2022
Confused gender

Soul mate or fresh d*CK

Awon onirase
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by tillaman(m): 8:23am On May 05, 2022
Idunu subu layo
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by treatise: 8:23am On May 05, 2022
That's why it's ludicrous to hear or see men killing themselves over women.
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by tolumizzy(m): 8:23am On May 05, 2022
Perfect
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by bestman09(m): 8:23am On May 05, 2022
huh
Oyibo women wahala.


If it's here, the woman would seek out a way to eat her cake and still have it
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by illicit(m): 8:24am On May 05, 2022
Eeyah
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by ABANGWABOI(m): 8:24am On May 05, 2022
Stoopid thing..
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by Eriokanmi: 8:24am On May 05, 2022
Na oyinbo dey get craze head like this, I know, before reading the piece . She can be all smiles in the morning morning and serve you a divorce paper in the evening. We're so different in everything.
Re: Woman Ends 14-year Marriage After Meeting 'soulmate' by Nobody: 8:24am On May 05, 2022
She said: "We enjoyed a body-hugging embrace where I whispered into his ear, 'This isn’t over, I need to see you again.' He put his hands tightly on my waist and pulled me close. 'Yes,' he replied. It was all I needed to hear

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