Islandlady:
I felt really embarrassed and angry today for what a useless guy did, and it got me asking the above question!

I ran into a guy today that I know back at my former street today at a mall in Abuja, so we greeted and actually sat down to gist for a while before going our separate ways, after a while I noticed he wasn't comfortable, so he decided to excuse himself! Only for me to noticed he had an erection he was trying to hide away from me

Do men just get aroused by random things or random thoughts becos I still can't understand why he got an erection in such a public place! Or he is just being a pervert
Mynd44
Ishlove

Wawu! Fück, this broad pretty af walahi ... Lemme just keez you once biko

AsomArchitectNG:


No dear i sure won't

Nice one.

AsomArchitectNG:


No dear i sure won't

dayummn!

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

Any man supporting the guy or man in this 'case' is not saying the Truth. Only God knows what he have done with you in his thoughts.

This kind of perverted men are not different from wild dogs. They can rape you at any given seconds if they gets the Chance.

Let's tell our self the truth than encourage this reprobate behavior.

If u are a real guy with your "everything" working, you will its not only when you think of sex that you have an erection, anxiety causes it too

Stallionhorse:
Abuja is cursed to have you as a resident..

Lol, funny

Islandlady:
why? I bet you will have an erection when you set your eyes on me too

How far let me be your sugar daddy!

Islandlady:
lol I can never be a man even in my 7th life from now,so shut up pervert

Islandlady:
Shut it, I don't expose my self in public places, I am a working class lady who dress classy not a prostitute!

So why would you brag that someone will have an erection on seeing you if you don't dress like a prostitute. Miss classy

Maybe you are too beautiful and you are the kind of woman he is longing to have and boom you show up like TV. And he begin to misbave.

Islandlady:
I felt really embarrassed and angry today for what a useless guy did, and it got me asking the above question!

I ran into a guy today that I know back at my former street today at a mall in Abuja, so we greeted and actually sat down to gist for a while before going our separate ways, after a while I noticed he wasn't comfortable, so he decided to excuse himself! Only for me to noticed he had an erection he was trying to hide away from me

Do men just get aroused by random things or random thoughts becos I still can't understand why he got an erection in such a public place! Or he is just being a pervert
Mynd44
Ishlove

Erection is mostly an involuntary process and may be difficult to control using the voluntary control through the brain. The involuntary overpowers the voluntary nerves of erection in penis. And this involuntary stimulation is through the psyche or thinking process, what we see and feel or touch. The process occurs on nipple erection in women and clitoral stimulation. Many women produce vaginal secretion which can be large enough to wet the pants and it’s involuntary production. You are complaining about the men because most of the involuntary stimulation of female sex organs cannot be easily seen. Even the nipples erection can be adjusted by women to hide the nipple from jutting out under the clothe and bra.

Islandlady:
Can you imagine, what if I am alone with him, your fellow men be supporting themselves in rubbish...stay blessed for this dude

Having an erection doesn't mean u want to have forceful sex. This is a very wrong conclusion.

An erection is an involuntary reaction to a stimulus, This could be a picture, person, a thought or sometimes words especially for women.

it's involuntary and isn't the necessary the person direct intention or objective.

To call a guy who had an embarrassing erection in public a potential rapist is unfair.

its like sm1 peeing in their pants when something really scary happens or like crying about something really sad. These are actions u can control everytime even when u don't want to cry in public or around sm1.

when it can be called potential rapist is if the person is not embarrassed or acts further advance the situation rather than avoid it or reduce it.

Let's be enlightened and be guided.

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

Any man supporting the guy or man in this 'case' is not saying the Truth. Only God knows what he have done with you in his thoughts.

This kind of perverted men are not different from wild dogs. They can rape you at any given seconds if they gets the Chance.

Let's tell our self the truth than encourage this reprobate behavior.

U jumped into an emotional conclusion without any idea of the facts of the matter or what u are trying to explain.

what is pervert about having an erection, being embarrassed by it and trying to control it??

There are rapist and perverts who can control their erection.

Islandlady:
I felt really embarrassed and angry today for what a useless guy did, and it got me asking the above question!

I ran into a guy today that I know back at my former street today at a mall in Abuja, so we greeted and actually sat down to gist for a while before going our separate ways, after a while I noticed he wasn't comfortable, so he decided to excuse himself! Only for me to noticed he had an erection he was trying to hide away from me

Do men just get aroused by random things or random thoughts becos I still can't understand why he got an erection in such a public place! Or he is just being a pervert
Mynd44
Ishlove

Na you cause the erection, what else might have caused it, you have left the guy on his own jeje , you con go give am erection,damn nasty I'm out of here, you're a real pervert

Islandlady:
why? I bet you will have an erection when you set your eyes on me too

Kiiikiiii.. See this fugly olosho,thinking she's special...

Islandlady:
why? I bet you will have an erection when you set your eyes on me too

Why blame the guy, when you already have the believe that any man that sets his eyes on you must have an erection?

jaxxy:


Having an erection doesn't mean u want to have forceful sex. This is a very wrong conclusion.

An erection is an involuntary reaction to a stimulus, This could be a picture, person, a thought or sometimes words especially for women.

it's involuntary and isn't the necessary the person direct intention or objective.

To call a guy who had an embarrassing erection in public a potential rapist is unfair.

its like sm1 peeing in their pants when something really scary happens or like crying about something really sad. These are actions u can control everytime even when u don't want to cry in public or around sm1.

when it can be called potential rapist is if the person is not embarrassed or acts further advance the situation rather than avoid it or reduce it.

Let's be enlightened and be guided.



U jumped into an emotional conclusion without any idea of the facts of the matter or what u are trying to explain.

what is pervert about having an erection, being embarrassed by it and trying to control it??

There are rapist and perverts who can control their erection.

Like seriously Sir?
You must be joking to conclude with this.

And for the record erection don't occur without an instinct, intention or thought. I'm a man like you so I know what I'm saying.

How can you just get arouse just like that, I mean in a broad day light, note, this not like the normal morning erection that we do experience. Sir, there's no how!

Secondly His thoughts again, if a man lust after a girl, even when she has not display any of her sensitive part to him, trust me, the moment he sees her, he will start thinking alot with her. We are men let's tell our selves the Truth.

gaius01:


Like seriously Sir?
You must be joking to conclude with this.

And for the record erection don't occur without an instinct, intention or thought. I'm a man like you so I know what I'm saying.

How can you just get arouse just like that, I mean in a broad day light, note, this not like the normal morning erection that we do experience. Sir, there's no how!

Secondly His thoughts again, if a man lust after a girl, even when she has not display any of her sensitive part to him, trust me, the moment he sees her, he will start thinking alot with her. We are men let's tell our selves the Truth.

u are talking like u are Superman who man can't have a lustful thought depending on his environment atleast once a day? Having a lustful thought is not a crime as long as u don't dwell or act on it.

Are u not human? I am a man and men can be overwhelmed if they don't have good self control. it takes a level of discipline to have good self control bt that doesn't mean u may not get aroused sometimes.

This is a totally normal and human reaction. unless u are made if steel.

There are some men who get aroused just by a lady sitting closely next to them and some men won't get. some will get aroused if a lady touches them and some will not cos of level of discipline acquired or training.

Dealing with lust is a growing and learning process. it doesn't come by default.

Having a public erection doesn't determine who is a rapist or who will rape u.

When I was in ss1 we had this beautiful home economics teacher well endowed and pretty. she ask a student to stand up and come explain smtn to the class in her usual friendly manner and this guy a prefect came out with an erection infront of the class even after delaying to come out when told. lol

it was embarrassing bt he wasn't and isn't a rapist.
Islandlady

jaxxy:


u are talking like u are Superman. which man can't have a lustful thought depending on his environment atleast once a day? Having a lustful thought is not a crime as long as u don't dwell or act on it.

Are u not human? I am a man and men can be overwhelmed if they don't have good self control. it takes a level of discipline to have good self control bt that doesn't mean u may not get aroused sometimes.

This is a totally normal and human reaction. unless u are made if steel.

There are some men who get aroused just by a lady sitting closely next to them and some men won't get. some will get aroused if a lady touches them and some will not cos of level of discipline acquired or training.

This doesn't determine who is a rapist or who will rape u.

Alright Sir, Noted!

jaxxy:


u are talking like u are Superman who man can't have a lustful thought depending on his environment atleast once a day? Having a lustful thought is not a crime as long as u don't dwell or act on it.

Are u not human? I am a man and men can be overwhelmed if they don't have good self control. it takes a level of discipline to have good self control bt that doesn't mean u may not get aroused sometimes.

This is a totally normal and human reaction. unless u are made if steel.

There are some men who get aroused just by a lady sitting closely next to them and some men won't get. some will get aroused if a lady touches them and some will not cos of level of discipline acquired or training.

Dealing with lust is a growing and learning process. it doesn't come by default.

Having a public erection doesn't determine who is a rapist or who will rape u.

When I was in ss1 we had this beautiful home economics teacher well endowed and pretty. she ask a student to stand up and come explain smtn to the class in her usual friendly manner and this guy a prefect came out with an erection infront of the class even after delaying to come out when told. lol

it was embarrassing bt he wasn't and isn't a rapist.
Islandlady

like seriously you are just beating around the bush and confused, I never said it is bad for a man to have an erection, but self control,high level of discipline is required just like how you stated in the bolded statement above...yes men do have lustful though but are all of them moving around in public places with an erection, those that lack self control are the ones that end up raping girls even babies, stop trying to justify this act

Islandlady:
like seriously you are just beating around the bush and confused, I never said it is bad for a man to have an erection, but self control,high level of discipline is required just like how you stated in the bolded statement above...yes men do have lustful though but are all of them moving around in public places with an erection, those that lack self control are the ones that end up raping girls even babies, stop trying to justify this act

And who told u the guy u were with was moving everywhere with an erection? How did he leave his house? With an erection too?

I stated clearly depending on ur environment not everyone has good self control and that doesn't make them rapist..

It only makes them weak emotionally or in self control. it doesn't mean he enjoys what os happening to him at that point in time.

Do u know some innocent guys get erection in the pool when swimming with ladies and some will not. it doesn't determine who can or will rape u.

jaxxy:


And who told u the guy u were with was moving everywhere with an erection? How did he leave his house? With an erection too?

I stated clearly depending on ur environment not everyone has good self control and that doesn't make them rapist..

It only makes them weak emotionally or in self control. it doesn't mean he enjoys what os happening to him at that point in time.

Do u know some innocent guys get erection in the pool when swimming with ladies and some will not. it doesn't determine who can or will rape u.

Okay okay fine I have heard you...thanks !!!

Islandlady:
this isn't about double standard, my question is why have an erection in such a public place!?

did you guys touch?
If yes then there's nothing wrong with that

Islandlady:
Okay okay fine I have heard you...thanks !!!

I forgot to add guys who masturbate or watch too much uncontrollably have there kinds of issues more bt doesn't mean guy who don't do such can have such experiences.

gaius01 this is where u point comes into play. so I agree about the thoughts to harbour like dirty thoughts bt it doesn't mean they are rapists or potential rapist automatically. It takes,another level of brazen irresponsibility to be a rapist.

One beauty with this ur thread OP is that from the comments and bashing above, u haven't just realized ur mistake by jumping into a wrongful conclusion by the guys action and reaction, u'v also learnt alot about how the male body works...
Take home lession: Next time, don't just jump to open a thread on a topical issue without little or adequate knowledge on the topic of discuss, do some research first, that will help u argue constructively and intellectually Cos nairaland is full of intellectuals and scholars, forget all the bashing u received above, it's just a price u have to pay for ignorance, but now u know, so u are forgiven

just go and sin no more....

jaxxy:


I forgot to add guys who masturbate or watch too much uncontrollably have there kinds of issues more bt doesn't mean guy who don't do such can have such experiences.

gaius01 this is where u point comes into play. so I agree about the thoughts to harbour like dirty thoughts bt it doesn't mean they are rapists or potential rapist automatically. It takes,another level of brazen irresponsibility to be a rapist.

hmmm really okay, I guess I don't really know how the male body works tho thanks for the insight

clevybrown:
One beauty with this ur thread OP is that from the comments and bashing above, u haven't just realized ur mistake by jumping into a wrongful conclusion by the guys action and reaction, u'v also learnt alot about how the male body works...
Take home lession: Next time, don't just jump to open a thread on a topical issue without little or adequate knowledge on the topic of discuss, do some research first, that will help u argue constructively and intellectually Cos nairaland is full of intellectuals and scholars, forget all the bashing u received above, it's just a price u have to pay for ignorance, but now u know, so u are forgiven

just go and sin no more....

Shut the f**k up, everyone just wanna have a say and end up saying trash, I am a woman not a man, so I don't know how the male body works, even if I read it up I won't still get all the knowledge, insights and proper explanation I got from this post from reasonable people/men who have commented so far..not fools like you who are bashing and saying rubbish! Hope you learned more about your body as a man...ode

Plus I argued with some people here because they did not give better explanation...we have to disagree to agree!

Now get out of here joor

Islandlady:
this isn't about double standard, my question is why have an erection in such a public place!?

Dear immature girl, a normal, healthy man can have erection anywhere.

In your absurd, ignorance, you think erection always translates to sexual thoughts.

Girl, stop being ignorant

Islandlady:
Shut the f**k up, everyone just wanna have a say and end up saying trash, I am a woman not a man, so I don't know how the male body works, even if I read it up I won't still get all the knowledge, insights and proper explanation I got from this post from reasonable people/men who have commented so far..not fools like you who are bashing and saying rubbish! Hope you learned more about your body as a man...ode

Plus I argued with some people here because they did not give better explanation...we have to disagree to agree!

Now get out of here joor

Now she just triggered her stupidity again... Meaning it takes u nothing to sound stupid...
I'm now forced to conclude u are naturally stupid...WTF

expert234:


Dear immature girl, a normal, healthy man can have erection anywhere.

In your absurd, stupid ignorance, you think erection always translates to sexual thoughts.

Girl, stop being stupid.

it is your mother that is stupid, can't you guys state things without insult and you claim to be Matured

Sometimes male sexual urges can feel like a curse.

TheMaterialist:
Sometimes male sexual urges can feel like a curse.

it also happens to women also,let me tell a story of what I observed during the Easter I paid a visit to my in-law,I was sitting in front of a store were akara is fried with my in-laws and a obviously pregnant lady,a neighbor came and sat down close to me,it was dark and we are talking and jesting I put my hands around her waist and that is were the problem began,she opened her mouth moaning soundlessly and was squirming on the bench thank God it was dark,as a mischievous fellow I gave her a few good squeeze on her buttocks before going, before I reached my car she has already followed me and demanded to be fvcked that she has wetted,my God!!she wanted to be fvcked anywere in my car,in the bush,anywere,the lady was just desperate,but I declined I have firmly passed my wild years

okoroemeka:
it also happens to women also,let me tell a story of what I observed during the Easter I paid a visit to my in-law,I was sitting in front of a store were akara is fried with my in-laws and a obviously pregnant lady,a neighbor came and sat down close to me,it was dark and we are talking and jesting I put my hands around her waist and that is were the problem began,she opened her mouth moaning soundlessly and was squirming on the bench thank God it was dark,as a mischievous fellow I gave her a few good squeeze on her buttocks before going, before I reached my car she has already followed me and demanded to be fvcked that she has wetted,my God!!she wanted to be fvcked anywere in my car,in the bush,anywere,the lady was just desperate,but I declined I have firmly passed my wild years

A pregnant woman... Nawa o

Islandlady:
it is your mother that is stupid, can't you guys state things without insult and you claim to be Matured

Not every mother is like your filthy dog of a mother, you morally rotten imbbecile