Nikrose:
Yes, calm down and read! I know most of you guys entered this thread with violence

Apart from some ladies suffering from low self-esteem n inferiority complex. Nigerian men are one of the major cause of dark skinned ladies bleaching their skin!
It is obvious and glaring that most Nigerian men have set their beauty standard of a lady to she being fair skinned, once a lady is fair skinned she is automatically beautiful and attractive!! Most men are guilty of this!!!

Most men seems to prefer and attracted to a fair-skinned ladies than the dark skinned ladies, which will end up making them bleach their skin to be attractive and preferred.

Gone are those days, when true African/Nigerian beauty were being appreciated, we are African and we are mainly dark skinned people as a black race! In the good old days where people like Agbani darego are seen for their true African beauty unlike nowadays in the model, fashion & beauty pageant world where once you a lady is light skinned, she have higher changes of winning and succeeding!

Foreigners & Outsider Men now appreciate and cherish our true African dark skinned ladies more than most of our African/Nigerian men!!! Just like how 5yrs old Jare Ijalana was made the most beautiful girl in the world for her true African beauty few years ago!

Well to the beautiful dark skinned ladies out there, appreciate and rock your skin with pride and confidence, stop the bleaching that is not who you truly are!!! Let's appreciate our African queens.

Seun
Mynd44
Ishlove

It's still only inferiority complex. Women too have standards for men. They say we want tall, dark and handsome and many more. Why aren't the men who aren't any of these desperately looking for means to meet these standards? Those men could easily have used the same excuse you're using here to go to extreme means to meet up your standards. They didn't because they don't have to swithc or change to suit anyone. If i like a lightskinned woman, it doesn't mean some other guy doesn't like a dark skinned woman. Dark skinned women are getting married to great men everyday. I don't like light skinned women. I wouldn't ask any woman to change her skin tone for me. So if you bleached or are thinking of doing so. You're doing that because you are suffering from inferiority complex, nothing else. You're belaching for yourself. There's nothing worse than lying to oneself about their reasons for taking certain actions.

Women and blame game sha.

Zero responsibility!

Nikrose:
What is your problem, I did not create this post for people like you to bash women, I only stated the raw facts and major cause of bleaching by ladies!

Chei!!!!!!
SMH ....
No offence ma'am, but this is the most STUPID post I've ever read on nairaland, chei!!!!!!!!!

So because someone somewhere doesn't like your skin color, it therefore means that you should go and change your skin color and then blame the person for it?! What sort of ideology is this?

So liadis now, If a large majority of men out there say, I love women with burnt skin, so that means y'all ladies will start jumping inside fire?

And besides...
Men have been saying they want virgins, has that stopped some women from sleeping around for sharwama and ice cream? Has that stopped some women from sleeping with dogs?!!

Let's flip this in reverse...
Imagine someone says, women are the reason why men are doing Yahoo and rituals. The person then goes further and say, women don't like broke men and in other to please these women, men are doing the above because of them...

How does that sound Biko? Stupid right?
That's exactly how your post sounds to me right now ma'am ....

Sweetheart...
I hope at the end of this, you come to an understanding that EVERYONE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS OR INACTIONS!!

Please take accountability for your life and stop blaming other people for your stupid decisions!!!

Yeah that's true some men are the reasons why some ladies bleach their skin, if u are dark skinned u look for a nice cream that will make maintain that skin, same goes to the fair ones too. Nevertheless I will always advice ladies to leave their skin the way they were created.

Prettygirl200:
Yeah that's true some men are the reasons why some ladies bleach their skin, if u are dark skinned u look for a nice cream that will make maintain that skin, same goes to the fair ones too. Nevertheless I will always advice ladies to leave their skin the way they were created.

Yes you are right too, well I don't think our ladies will ever hear

Nikrose:
Hmm you also have a valid point here! I pity most ladies that bleach their skin just to satisfy men!

Yes I pity them too as their reasons for bleaching their skin most of the times are not attained, thereby leading to regrets and had I known. My sweetheart wanted to go for breast enlargement because she has medium size, but I discouraged her from going, telling her that I love her the way she is and that I have not for once complained about it. Supposing I didn't stop her from going and due to any reason I tell her I am no longer interested in her, she would have regretted why she went through all the stress and pain just to impress and please me then I break her heart.

Why would a woman change her skin cause of a man? Do anything but do it for yourself. I dress up for me not for any man. In fact it's sweeter when ladies like me go green with envy, not the admiration of some man. What do I do with that?

boxer022:
Yes I pity them too as their reasons for bleaching their skin most of the times are not attained, thereby leading to regrets and had I known. My sweetheart wanted to go for breast enlargement because she has medium size, but I discouraged her from going, telling her that I love her the way she is and that I have not for once complained about it. Supposing I didn't stop her from going and due to any reason I tell her I am no longer interested in her, she would have regretted why she went through all the stress and pain just to impress and please me then I break her heart.

Good men like you are rare sha! She is lucky to have you
Most men don't give a f**k

Nikrose:
Yes, calm down and read! I know most of you guys entered this thread with violence

Apart from some ladies suffering from low self-esteem n inferiority complex. Nigerian men are one of the major cause of dark skinned ladies bleaching their skin!
It is obvious and glaring that most Nigerian men have set their beauty standard of a lady to she being fair skinned, once a lady is fair skinned she is automatically beautiful and attractive!! Most men are guilty of this!!!

Most men seems to prefer and attracted to a fair-skinned ladies than the dark skinned ladies, which will end up making them bleach their skin to be attractive and preferred.

Gone are those days, when true African/Nigerian beauty were being appreciated, we are African and we are mainly dark skinned people as a black race! In the good old days where people like Agbani darego are seen for their true African beauty unlike nowadays in the model, fashion & beauty pageant world where once you a lady is light skinned, she have higher changes of winning and succeeding!

Foreigners & Outsider Men now appreciate and cherish our true African dark skinned ladies more than most of our African/Nigerian men!!! Just like how 5yrs old Jare Ijalana was made the most beautiful girl in the world for her true African beauty few years ago!

Well to the beautiful dark skinned ladies out there, appreciate and rock your skin with pride and confidence, stop the bleaching that is not who you truly are!!! Let's appreciate our African queens.

Seun
Mynd44
Ishlove

Most men actually refer that you ladies don't have brain!
I wonder why you are still moving about with your head intact! Just chop it off already and blame men for being brainless?!

Islandlady:
Good men like you are rare sha! She is lucky to have you
Most men don't give a f**k

Thanks for the compliment, she knows that we are lucky to have each other.

My current steady hookup chick is dark skinned; uses one cream that has urea in it. She gets it in Shoprite. Her skin is smooth, soft, shimmery, very succulent and healthy.

Nikrose:
Yes, calm down and read! I know most of you guys entered this thread with violence

Apart from some ladies suffering from low self-esteem n inferiority complex. Nigerian men are one of the major cause of dark skinned ladies bleaching their skin!
It is obvious and glaring that most Nigerian men have set their beauty standard of a lady to she being fair skinned, once a lady is fair skinned she is automatically beautiful and attractive!! Most men are guilty of this!!!

Most men seems to prefer and attracted to a fair-skinned ladies than the dark skinned ladies, which will end up making them bleach their skin to be attractive and preferred.

Gone are those days, when true African/Nigerian beauty were being appreciated, we are African and we are mainly dark skinned people as a black race! In the good old days where people like Agbani darego are seen for their true African beauty unlike nowadays in the model, fashion & beauty pageant world where once you a lady is light skinned, she have higher changes of winning and succeeding!

Foreigners & Outsider Men now appreciate and cherish our true African dark skinned ladies more than most of our African/Nigerian men!!! Just like how 5yrs old Jare Ijalana was made the most beautiful girl in the world for her true African beauty few years ago!

Well to the beautiful dark skinned ladies out there, appreciate and rock your skin with pride and confidence, stop the bleaching that is not who you truly are!!! Let's appreciate our African queens.

Seun
Mynd44
Ishlove

I thought Y'all ladies say you look good for yourself and not for the men?...


How come you are making this contradictory post?

Nikrose:
What is your problem, I did not create this post for people like you to bash women

No, you did it to bash men

Nikrose:
Excuse me, I don't support rubbish! I say things the way they are! I did not support or cheer my fellow ladies to bleach their skin because of men...but sadly that is the main reason they bleach their skin

It is said that to every action there is a reaction! I am just stating the reason behind their actions, so pls don't twist my words, I hate it

You said things the way they are and you decided to generalize because you have interviewed the whole Nigeria men to draw this conclusion right...??

Aunty, you all should learn to take responsibilities for any useless actions of yours and stop putting the blame on Men...

I will be here when you come up with another post that reads "It's Nigerian Men that encouraged Nigerian ladies to go for butt lifts"

In a country where nineteen out of twenty people are dark skinned it’s a no-brainer why light skin is highly desired.

So why don't women also keep their virginity till marriage to also please men?

why must it be bleaching.

what of the ones their mama bleach from small. Maybe their mama wanted fair babies but unfortunately gave birth to brown skin babies, then she starts bleaching them from small. Na men cause am too?

Nikrose:
Yes, calm down and read! I know most of you guys entered this thread with violence

Apart from some ladies suffering from low self-esteem n inferiority complex. Nigerian men are one of the major cause of dark skinned ladies bleaching their skin!
It is obvious and glaring that most Nigerian men have set their beauty standard of a lady to she being fair skinned, once a lady is fair skinned she is automatically beautiful and attractive!! Most men are guilty of this!!!

Most men seems to prefer and attracted to a fair-skinned ladies than the dark skinned ladies, which will end up making them bleach their skin to be attractive and preferred.

Gone are those days, when true African/Nigerian beauty were being appreciated, we are African and we are mainly dark skinned people as a black race! In the good old days where people like Agbani darego are seen for their true African beauty unlike nowadays in the model, fashion & beauty pageant world where once you a lady is light skinned, she have higher changes of winning and succeeding!

Foreigners & Outsider Men now appreciate and cherish our true African dark skinned ladies more than most of our African/Nigerian men!!! Just like how 5yrs old Jare Ijalana was made the most beautiful girl in the world for her true African beauty few years ago!

Well to the beautiful dark skinned ladies out there, appreciate and rock your skin with pride and confidence, stop the bleaching that is not who you truly are!!! Let's appreciate our African queens.

Seun
Mynd44
Ishlove

You females and hypocrisy.
You claim you don't do anything for men or because men like it.

You claim you don't do your makeup for men, that we shouldn't flatter ourselves, we are not that important and that you don't care if we like it, you do it cos you like it.

You women also say you don't dress sexy for men, and that men shouldn't concern themselves with what women wear that you dress sexy because it makes you feel good and not for men.

Keep that same energy with bleaching, after all bleaching is a form of skin enhancement, which is similar to makeup. because of how bad bleaching is you women have come with you victim mentality to say men are the cause because of their preference for light skin.

So women don't bleach for themselves? Oh it's for men now? I thought our opinions don't count?

And you said most men are "guilty" of this, as if to say men it's a crime that men prefer light skin. Women also have preferences like tall men and rich men, alot of women even prefer dark skin men, can we say they are guilty of their preference?
Black comes in all shades, we are all black people.

Women should learn how to be accountable for their actions...that most men prefer light skin women is not an excuse to self harm.
Look around there are dark skin beautiful ladies that don't bleach, do they have two heads?

If I carry gun to rob, and I'm caught can I say I did it because women don't like broke men?
That is just stupid.

Whether Naija men or the all men in this world like fair skin or not. I, Stargurl, will never bleach my dark but rather enhance its glow. My dark skin is one of my lord's favors I will never deny. I love dark skin and he endowed me with one.

So, no matter what you say at Op, I will say it boils down to self esteem. I wouldn't differ that everyone has an element of low self esteem especially when most people in the society go for what we do not have, but do not let it get to u coz no matter what, you will never be able to please anyone.

Like always, men are to blamed Kpele oo

Nikrose:
Yes, calm down and read! I know most of you guys entered this thread with violence

Apart from some ladies suffering from low self-esteem n inferiority complex. Nigerian men are one of the major cause of dark skinned ladies bleaching their skin!
It is obvious and glaring that most Nigerian men have set their beauty standard of a lady to she being fair skinned, once a lady is fair skinned she is automatically beautiful and attractive!! Most men are guilty of this!!!

Most men seems to prefer and attracted to a fair-skinned ladies than the dark skinned ladies, which will end up making them bleach their skin to be attractive and preferred.

Gone are those days, when true African/Nigerian beauty were being appreciated, we are African and we are mainly dark skinned people as a black race! In the good old days where people like Agbani darego are seen for their true African beauty unlike nowadays in the model, fashion & beauty pageant world where once you a lady is light skinned, she have higher changes of winning and succeeding!

Foreigners & Outsider Men now appreciate and cherish our true African dark skinned ladies more than most of our African/Nigerian men!!! Just like how 5yrs old Jare Ijalana was made the most beautiful girl in the world for her true African beauty few years ago!

Well to the beautiful dark skinned ladies out there, appreciate and rock your skin with pride and confidence, stop the bleaching that is not who you truly are!!! Let's appreciate our African queens.

Seun
Mynd44
Ishlove

LocalStandard1:
I once jumped out of a moving car to go and meet a dark skinned girl, I bruised my feet and almost dislocated my legs.

She was the darkest girl I've ever seen, her smile was glowy cos her teeth were white and shiny so they radiate through her mouth, and she smiled a lot. She is young and of average height, couldn't get my eyes off her and regretted not approaching initially so I did the unthinkable.

When I went back I didn't see her again so I ended up walking halfway home cos of tfare shortage, with a bruised leg and damaged sippers.

Maybe it's because of were I am from but as black as I myself am, I find black women to be more attractive, more intelligent, more homely and respectful, haven't dated in years and still can't get my eyes off them, especially the smiling and greeting ones. Haaaaaaa.... lovelies they are.

Disgusting simp. Shame on you and your whole family.
Senseless human. Dirty bastard.
Bloody simp.

satandeterrible:

Disgusting simp. Shame on you and your whole family.
Senseless human. Dirty bastard.
Bloody simp.

, how far you? Am probably the biggest redpiller you'll ever know, I was a redpiller even before I knew it has a name since I was just a boy. Calm down, am not even in a relationship now cos of how redpilled I am.

But it doesn't mean I hate women.

LocalStandard1:


, how far you? Am probably the biggest redpiller you'll ever know, I was a redpiller even before I knew it has a name since I was just a boy. Calm down, am not even in a relationship now cos of how redpilled I am.

But it doesn't mean I hate women.

No Redpiller will run out of a moving car and injure himself just because of a woman. You don't even need to be redpilled to know this.
Its called self respect and common sense

Nikrose:
Yes, calm down and read! I know most of you guys entered this thread with violence

Apart from some ladies suffering from low self-esteem n inferiority complex. Nigerian men are one of the major cause of dark skinned ladies bleaching their skin!
It is obvious and glaring that most Nigerian men have set their beauty standard of a lady to she being fair skinned, once a lady is fair skinned she is automatically beautiful and attractive!! Most men are guilty of this!!!

Most men seems to prefer and attracted to a fair-skinned ladies than the dark skinned ladies, which will end up making them bleach their skin to be attractive and preferred.

Gone are those days, when true African/Nigerian beauty were being appreciated, we are African and we are mainly dark skinned people as a black race! In the good old days where people like Agbani darego are seen for their true African beauty unlike nowadays in the model, fashion & beauty pageant world where once you a lady is light skinned, she have higher changes of winning and succeeding!

Foreigners & Outsider Men now appreciate and cherish our true African dark skinned ladies more than most of our African/Nigerian men!!! Just like how 5yrs old Jare Ijalana was made the most beautiful girl in the world for her true African beauty few years ago!

Well to the beautiful dark skinned ladies out there, appreciate and rock your skin with pride and confidence, stop the bleaching that is not who you truly are!!! Let's appreciate our African queens.

Seun
Mynd44
Ishlove

I prefer dark skinned girls though.

LocalStandard1:
I once jumped out of a moving car to go and meet a dark skinned girl, I bruised my feet and almost dislocated my legs.

She was the darkest girl I've ever seen, her smile was glowy cos her teeth were white and shiny so they radiate through her mouth, and she smiled a lot. She is young and of average height, couldn't get my eyes off her and regretted not approaching initially so I did the unthinkable.

When I went back I didn't see her again so I ended up walking halfway home cos of tfare shortage, with a bruised leg and damaged sippers.

Maybe it's because of were I am from but as black as I myself am, I find black women to be more attractive, more intelligent, more homely and respectful, haven't dated in years and still can't get my eyes off them, especially the smiling and greeting ones. Haaaaaaa.... lovelies they are.

such simpery tuehhhh!

You can't really blame men when guys don't even have standards. Let's be real. Just about any woman can have a bunch of dudes simping her. Dudes just like women.

It's more a reflection of society, outside influence, and media (especially social media, and changes in families and norms). It's dysfunctional behavior, and just one more toxic thing that we're seeing more.

Stargurl20:
Whether Naija men or the all men in this world like fair skin or not. I, Stargurl, will never bleach my dark but rather enhance its glow. My dark skin is one of my lord's favors I will never deny. I love dark skin and he endowed me with one.

So, no matter what you say at Op, I will say it boils down to self esteem. I wouldn't differ that everyone has an element of low self esteem especially when most people in the society go for what we do not have, but do not let it get to u coz no matter what, you will never be able to please anyone.

There are onky two sensible women on this thread.....you and you...

Kriss216:
Always blaming men for their actions.

When will Nigerian girls learn to take responsibility for their foolishness

Inside grave

Frales6:
what of the ones their mama bleach from small. Maybe their mama wanted fair babies but unfortunately gave birth to brown skin babies, then she starts bleaching them from small. Na men cause am too?

Lol you funny sha

Nikrose:
Yes, calm down and read! I know most of you guys entered this thread with violence

Apart from some ladies suffering from low self-esteem n inferiority complex. Nigerian men are one of the major cause of dark skinned ladies bleaching their skin!
It is obvious and glaring that most Nigerian men have set their beauty standard of a lady to she being fair skinned, once a lady is fair skinned she is automatically beautiful and attractive!! Most men are guilty of this!!!

Most men seems to prefer and attracted to a fair-skinned ladies than the dark skinned ladies, which will end up making them bleach their skin to be attractive and preferred.

Gone are those days, when true African/Nigerian beauty were being appreciated, we are African and we are mainly dark skinned people as a black race! In the good old days where people like Agbani darego are seen for their true African beauty unlike nowadays in the model, fashion & beauty pageant world where once you a lady is light skinned, she have higher changes of winning and succeeding!

Foreigners & Outsider Men now appreciate and cherish our true African dark skinned ladies more than most of our African/Nigerian men!!! Just like how 5yrs old Jare Ijalana was made the most beautiful girl in the world for her true African beauty few years ago!

Well to the beautiful dark skinned ladies out there, appreciate and rock your skin with pride and confidence, stop the bleaching that is not who you truly are!!! Let's appreciate our African queens.

Seun
Mynd44
Ishlove

Sadly this post is just an opinion and in no way factual.

Let me rephrase your topic for you, "I think Nigerian men are the reason why most ladies bleach".

When you carry out a research by randomly sampling 100 bleaching ladies and taking into account why the started bleaching their skins then you can come publish your findings as being factual.

Islandlady:
Yes o

which of those in the picture would I watch you .. I'd prefer the one which you'd put it on me..

I know about 10 girls that bleached and I can tell you they did it because of peer pressure and inferiority complex.

It usually makes them look beautiful and all that until they start smelling like a rotten meat then it becomes depressing and when you stop bleaching you automatically go back to being worse than your previous black colour, sometimes with very dark spots on faces, knees and toes.

I have always loved dark skinned girls, they are all I date, I don't fancy white/lightskinned women for personal reasons.

Moreover you should stop using the word Fact, it's just your opinion.

Nobody dae send any girl go bleach.