APC2:

My father told me that I should marry another wife before talking about divorce. That when I give my attention to the second wife, my only wife now will regret and change. And I am also considering my son too. I can take care of two wives comfortalbly.

Marrying another wife doesn't stop you from taking care of your son. Or you chase that troublesome one away and take your child.

APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.

Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.

I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.

Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.

So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.

When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.

I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

just divorce her, you can be sending money for your child upkeep nobody should trap you with child, or she sends you the list of what your child need for you to buy just to prevent your 1 naira from entering her hand. As for the beating you did well, if you have not done that she will continue assaulting you in any slightest provocation knowing fully well you won’t do shit.

Candidlady:


Your wife cfvkd up hitting you was something she shouldn't have done.

But since you also pulled a wire on her iguess you guys are even.


You paid iPo that followed you to the so called pastor's place. Amount unknown


your booked over night 17 thou'

You paid a sex worker 4 thou'

Sure you got high on some liquor and prolly got food. Amount unknown

How much is a bag of rice.?

Don't get me wrong iam not in support of what your wife did. Matter of fact Ihate lousy ladies


don't forget you have a kid... just hope it is not a boy child and if it is then ireally do not care whatever happens to him as a result of your toxic marriage/relationship

I'm sorry for quoting you but all what you wrote are trash.. Women are so gullible in nature..

I'll still blame you Man. You still have no excuse to beat any woman, even if she tore your clothes. There are more ways to correct a woman that are even far more effective than beating.

On the issue of having sex at the hotel, you should have skipped that part in your post. Whether you did it or not, is not the question but why you had to squeeze that in at the end of your post, rather than staying silent on it.

For your wife, you loved her before marrying her. Think of what changed... as you are looking out for this in her (I mean what has changed in her), also look inwards into yourself. In developed countries, a therapist would have come in to help you at this stage.

I wish you all the best.

emmanuelbrown26:

Happy that men are speaking out and also had it being u didn't experience it, u would hv said its a lie. I hv being hammering it both online and offline that I prefer to be with serpent than Nigerian women, they are deadly and evil than devil himself.
They hv called me all sorts of names but I don't care

What did you think will be the replies of this insults-tirading "woke" generation of women? Another thing, they are highly emotional than our mothers too so it is why they are reacting like that lol.

Better devorce the evil bitch before she poison you. You're risking your life if you continue with her, don't underestimate these Naija young women, they're killers and thieves and when you fall victim the society will be more on her side, save your life first. Marriage is not for me, unless I'm acquiring 2 at once. That's the issue I'm having with my mom that's why I'm still unmarried despite having the needed resources, I told my mom it's either I acquire 2 at once under my breeding programme or she stop disturbing me with marriage issue and stop her friend's daughter from coming to my house to cook for me because I might murder the bitch if I lose my control

APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.

Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.

I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.

Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.

So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.

When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.

I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

This one na you won part of the judgement and I believe say you put am in a way that will fully justify you, I wasn't there when it happened and I can't just take side

Perhaps if your wife give her version, story fit change. It's not new


All in all sha... I believe there are some things she is not happy with and she is trying to pass a message to. When some women are displeased with certain things, they convert it to nagging and trouble. She was good hence you married her and good women don't just turn bad overnight

Talk to her to open up, there are things about you she is not particularly happy with. When she opens up and you make due amends as regard those things. You will get your wife back

Candidlady:


Your wife cfvkd up hitting you was something she shouldn't have done.

But since you also pulled a wire on her iguess you guys are even.


You paid iPo that followed you to the so called pastor's place. Amount unknown


your booked over night 17 thou'

You paid a sex worker 4 thou'

Sure you got high on some liquor and prolly got food. Amount unknown

How much is a bag of rice.?

Don't get me wrong iam not in support of what your wife did. Matter of fact Ihate lousy ladies


don't forget you have a kid... just hope it is not a boy child and if it is then ireally do not care whatever happens to him as a result of your toxic marriage/relationship

don't blame the guy for refusing to buy any unnecessary bag of rice if the so called wife want to impress her pastor she should go and look for a job

LilMissFavvy:
That is why it is good for a woman to have a source of income. If she had her own money, she would have bought what she wanted.

Very bad that she fought her husband, and only she knows if she truly wanted a bag of rice or she needed money for something else.

The same man who said he didn't have money for a bag of rice, had 20k to pay for hotel room and prostitute'. He also says he will start patronising prostitutes',. The marriage is already ruined.

Even if she has her own source of income, it doesn't mean she'd go about wasting it! How do you people think?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
File for a divorce ASAP...you both are faulty here..she hit you then you retaliated..
Next thing you had to do was have sex with a different lady..well your marriage is currently in shambles..you either keep deceiving yaself or divorce and keep wh**ring around..

Hey everyone ignore this fool.

He's never said anything sensible or useful.

I suspect there's a lot more to it than just the issue of buying rice.

1. I suspect pent up frustration on the part of your wife, probably to do with staying at home doing nothing. She needs to find a job, however small, just to get her out of the house and increase her sense of worth.

2. That your wife slapped you, and you in turn whipped her with cable wire suggests there's is a history of physical altercation between you. The slap should not be viewed in isolation.

3. Any man that hits his wife with a cable wire has a violent streak in him. To flog her so violently with such horrible material is inexcusable. Your wife slapped you, so what? Be so upset as to call the parents, may be even ask for a separation. That's fine. But beat her with cable wire? No responsible man does that.

4. You have money to pay to arrest someone, stay overnight in a hotel and pay for sex, but no money to help your wife plan her life so she too can have a sense of self worth. If a woman is left at home all day, what else will she do other than house work, care for your child, and watch TV. But you are angry she watches TV.

5. No responsible man, however angry he gets with his wife goes to hotel and sleeps with a prostitute, and be so grossly reckless as to do it a 2nd time. Meaning the prostitute was lying their with you in the bed for a while...ewwww. I suspect you have a history of sleeping with people outside your marriage thus undermining the time, energy, love, affection and tolerance that your wife needs and deserves.

Whether you take a 2nd wife (that's up to you) or choose to work at your relationship with your wife, one thing you must understand is, you need to help the woman you choose to spend the rest of your life with, to make a success of her own life outside of being just a wife.

A happy wife will most likely make a happy home for you and your children.

A woman doesn't just wake up one day and slap her husband. Your wife is frustrated. Frustrated by you. That's not to say her behaviour is excusable.

APC2:

My father told me that I should marry another wife before talking about divorce. That when I give my attention to the second wife, my only wife now will regret and change. And I am also considering my son too. I can take care of two wives comfortalbly.

Two wives no easy bros. You don’t have much power over one woman for her to raise her hand first to slap you, na two women you wan take. Look her out until she goes back to her parents house, then let them invite you there to talk about the situation and tell them that you have decided to get a second wife. It will send shocking waves to them. Allow her back after that discussion and see if she changes, just monitor her for a month or two. If not, divorce and marry a new wife.

The last thing you want to do is to have another woman in and start battling with an uncouth woman, you will either kill her and end up in jail or she kills you and walk free. Be careful

Hmmm...The wise woman builds her house [on a foundation of godly precepts, and her household thrives], But the foolish one [who lacks spiritual insight] tears it down with her own hands [by ignoring godly principles].
Proverb's 14:1 AMP

Dear APC2, please, listen to mike56, yugoos and fof1!!!

APC2:

My father told me that I should marry another wife before talking about divorce. That when I give my attention to the second wife, my only wife now will regret and change. And I am also considering my son too. I can take care of two wives comfortalbly.

If u are a Muslim go ahead. My friend a Muslim did that when his first wife was giving him trouble on a daily basis, the moment he got married to the second wife with out informing her (she only saw d wedding invitation a week before the wedding) she adjusted up till this moment. Na she dey beg for his attention, he only goes there because the kids and to her upkeep.

APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.

Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.

I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.

Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.

So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.

When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.

I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

Bros take it easy, I sensed you a good husband but never allow your wife to drive you into living a life that you will regret in future especially having multiple women outside your marriage. Women can be childish sometimes but I I pray your wife will come back to her senses again. Just be calm and avoid her for now.

Candidlady:


Your wife cfvkd up hitting you was something she shouldn't have done.

But since you also pulled a wire on her iguess you guys are even.


You paid iPo that followed you to the so called pastor's place. Amount unknown


your booked over night 17 thou'

You paid a sex worker 4 thou'

Sure you got high on some liquor and prolly got food. Amount unknown

How much is a bag of rice.?

Don't get me wrong iam not in support of what your wife did. Matter of fact Ihate lousy ladies


don't forget you have a kid... just hope it is not a boy child and if it is then ireally do not care whatever happens to him as a result of your toxic marriage/relationship

I bet my two balls, you must be a boy in your next life .

SoapQueen:


After reading your story, I can't and would never blame you. And whoever does is crazy.

There's a limit to the things one can take.

You need space and time to get yourself together.

On a serious note, people should try to hold off marriage until they are sure.

I know no one can ever be too sure but marriage can be alot.

By cooling off. He should be jumping from on hotel to the other, with different sex workers ko?

Best you tell him to dissolve the marriage than this SPACE AND TIME SCAM of a thing.

If the thing ain't working/walking CRIPPLE IT AND LET IT END IN PEACE AND HARMONY

Is this the first time this kind of thing is happening?

APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.

Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.

I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.

Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.

So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.

When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.

I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

Megabig:

Two wives no easy bros. You don’t have much power over one woman for her to raise her hand first to slap you, na two women you wan take. Look her out until she goes back to her parents house, then let them invite you there to talk about the situation and tell them that you have decided to get a second wife. It will send shocking waves to them. Allow her back after that discussion and see if she changes, just monitor her for a month or two. If not, divorce and marry a new wife.

The last thing you want to do is to have another woman in and start battling with an uncouth woman, you will either kill her and end up in jail or she kills you and walk free. Be careful

Abeg help me tell am. He can't handle one he looking for another.

Said he looking for a lady that won't stress him. He better go marry a intimacy gadget.. they even come with two remotes incase one goes bad

APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.

Listen to me bro, if you are telling the truth please listen to me.
Satan has played a fast one on you, the very purpose of the altercation between you and your wife was for you to fall into adultery. The hotel, the young lady, the timing, everything was a set up! Now the rest of the problems you are going to experience, both career, family would be as a result of the adultery you committed not because of your wife. You made the greatest mistake of your life by falling for the girl at the hotel.

Let me tell you, satan has entered into your family because you foolishly bought into his tricks. Marital problems are normal and by God's grace they would phase out but you blindly fell and now that adultery you committed is rock bottom!
The first step you would need to take, confess the adultery to your wife ASAP before anything else and repent before God.

My brother the best thing is to divorce that woman immediately. Don't let anyone encourage you to stay put that she will change later. She will never change and she must try at all cost to repay in double any wrong she believed you have committed against her , even the one you did in retaliation to her madness. That is some women for you oooo, they don't forgive and don't forget. I am talking from experience. As we speak , my enemy is now totally wrecked to the extent I can't pay school fees for my only child . I've sold one of my houses , sold my car , invested in business, nothing is working. My daughter has grown lean because of the evil her mum did . She scattered my wealth and later went ahead to be commuting adultery which later cost her her life. My brother , the earlier the better. Send her away now and enjoy your life.

Lewisjohnson:

Shut up Ugly gal, everytime na so u go de talk trash 4 dis Nairaland without any reasonable statements,
I still wonder hw old ar u 2 be reasoning lik dis

Mr Iam aged enough to have your fad as my sugar daddy LEGALLY

APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.

Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.

I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.

Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.

So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.

When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.

I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

Two of you are compatible

APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.

Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.

I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.

Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.

So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.

When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.

I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

ok you're tried to tell us that life with that ashamed better than life with your wife?

Candidlady:


Your wife cfvkd up hitting you was something she shouldn't have done.

But since you also pulled a wire on her iguess you guys are even.


You paid iPo that followed you to the so called pastor's place. Amount unknown


your booked over night 17 thou'

You paid a sex worker 4 thou'

Sure you got high on some liquor and prolly got food. Amount unknown

How much is a bag of rice.?

Don't get me wrong iam not in support of what your wife did. Matter of fact Ihate lousy ladies


don't forget you have a kid... just hope it is not a boy child and if it is then ireally do not care whatever happens to him as a result of your toxic marriage/relationship

Because of the money he spent you're equatting it to the bag of Rice?

Don't tell me you're the type that visit prayer houses.

Seun Must Chop. Today is a slow news day.

JONSYN7154:
Because of the money he spent you're equatting it to the bag of Rice?

Don't tell me you're the type that visit prayer houses.

Ijust even stepped out from a prayer house. . Iam in desperate need of a husband

Candidlady:


Ijust even stepped out from a prayer house. . Iam in desperate need of a husband

Lol. Am available.

You can apply.
No need of going to prayer House again.
Am your prayer answer.

So you decided being sexually reckless is the temporary solution to your martial problems


All this people sef. I am guessing you didn't use condom for a lady that probably does every man that comes to that hotel "well". What makes you think such a lady is interested in your problems or her cash?


Na wah o.
As for your marital problems, na husband and wife matter,make una settle am how una want. Sha nor go check your self for STD.

APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.

Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.

I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.

Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.

So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.

When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.

I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

Send her away and divorce her, she does not deserve you.

My concern is for your children who were witness to the event that has probably scarred them for life if you have a son he will think that’s the only way to exert dominance a daughter she will feel no matter what a man can still one day raise his hand to beat you rather than feed you

yet there are non domestic violent husbands enjoying the love of a woman for years no threads

They don’t have two heads they have tolerance and no matter how many prostitutes you sleep with you just showed the entire community your wife meant nothing to you.

Nothing to salvage bro you ended your marriage with cable wire

APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.

Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.

I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.

Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.

So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.

When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.

I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

Bro, take it easy. Give ur wife a 2nd Chance.