Hi guys

I don't know if am the only one who noticed this or is a general thing.

Anytime i ask a lady which relationship was your best there reply is alway the same

I mean it a relationship where the guy spend alot on them, where they benefited alot materially and financially even tho at the end they complain about not loving the guy or he was abusive.

Never seen a lady told me her best relationship is the one she loved the guy and he loved her too or the one they both helped each other.

Is this a mind game thing

Why is relationship all about what you gain instead of what you give.

Your write-up is not coherent, but from what I gleaned, most relationships are to the female's advantage.

I agree, but I won't generalize sha because there are a lot of quality women out there. Most times you, the guy, spends your hard-earned money hoping for some choochie in return. If that's how you think, then get ready to be billed because.....nah, lemme stop here you'll figure it out

flames007:
Your write-up is not coherent, but from what I gleaned, most relationships are to the female's advantage.

I agree, but I won't generalize sha because there are a lot of quality women out there. Most times you, the guy, spends your hard-earned money hoping for some choochie in return. If that's how you think, then get ready to be billed because.....nah, lemme stop here you'll figure it out

@bolded is funny.

I want to believe you don't stay in Nigeria. Where you dey see quality women abeg

flames007:
Your write-up is not coherent, but from what I gleaned, most relationships are to the female's advantage.

I agree, but I won't generalize sha because there are a lot of quality women out there. Most times you, the guy, spends your hard-earned money hoping for some choochie in return. If that's how you think, then get ready to be billed because.....nah, lemme stop here you'll figure it out

Isn't about spending money rather am talking about views of relationship.

Kriss216:

@bolded is funny.

I want to believe you don't stay in Nigeria. Where you dey see quality women abeg

Lots of toxic women will form virtuous when the man is the prize. But it's all a show of course. When the bag has been secured (the ring), the true color comes out. So it is left for the man to have eyes beyond the ordinary, to see things for what they are, and not be deceived by packaging.

Also, there are women that vibe on the materialistic level when the kind of men that they truly desire hasn't shown up. So instead of remaining single and missing out, they activate the leech mode. It's what men do as well, They will nack anything under a skirt, but when a good girl shows up, they wife her up quickly. Human nature is very complex.

flames007:
Your write-up is not coherent, but from what I gleaned, most relationships are to the female's advantage.

I agree, but I won't generalize sha because [b]there are a lot of quality women out there. [/b]Most times you, the guy, spends your hard-earned money hoping for some choochie in return. If that's how you think, then get ready to be billed because.....nah, lemme stop here you'll figure it out

Agreed. There are lots of quality women but it still varies on what you meant by "quality". But one thing I know, men are intimidated by successful, rich women.

Animegirl:


Agreed. There are lots of quality women but it still varies on what you meant by "quality". But one thing I know, men are intimidated by successful, rich women.

No, men are not intimidated by successful rich women. Tonto Dike is rich and materially successful, but lots of men will stay clear of her. Being rich doesn't cover a woman's madness and lack of virtue. Also, lots of wealthy women target men above them, a tiny pool of suitors, men who happen to have an untold amount of female options. So why deal with a crazy rich woman when lots of sweet younglings that will respect and be submissive full ground?

Learn to see things from male perspective.

Animegirl:


Agreed. There are lots of quality women but it still varies on what you meant by "quality". But one thing I know, men are intimidated by successful, rich women.

Shallow thinking.

You've never been rich or successful as a woman, how did you get to know about this?

pansophist:


Lots of toxic women will form virtuous when the man is the prize. But it's all a show of course. When the bag has been secured (the ring), the true color comes out. So it is left for the man to have eyes beyond the ordinary, to see things for what they are, and not be deceived by packaging.

Also, there are women that vibe on the materialistic level when the kind of men that they truly desire hasn't shown up. So instead of remaining single and missing out, they activate the leech mode. It's what men do as well, They will nack anything under a skirt, but when a good girl shows up, they wife her up quickly. Human nature is very complex.

True...that's why I feel uncomfortable when a woman start being too good. They're naturally not programmed to be too good.

pansophist:


No, men are not intimidated by successful rich women. Tonto Dike is rich and materially successful, but lots of men will stay clear of her. Being rich doesn't cover a woman's madness and lack of virtue. Also, lots of wealthy women target men above them, a tiny pool of suitors, men who happen to have an untold amount of female options. So why deal with a crazy rich woman when lots of sweet younglings that will respect and be submissive full ground?

Learn to see things from male perspective.

Yes I tried to see things from your perspective but I realised men are confuse, not all though.

Sweet younglings, you men would call liabilities for billing your broke asses. Submissive and respective women, you men would love to control as puppet.

Animegirl:


Agreed. There are lots of quality women but it still varies on what you meant by "quality". But one thing I know, men are intimidated by successful, rich women.

I won't say intimidated but men try to avoid such women because of other people experiences.

Successful women are hardly submissive.

Animegirl:


Yes I tried to see things from your perspective but I realised men are confuse, not all though.

Sweet younglings, you men would call liabilities for billing your broke asses. Submissive and respective women, you men would love to control as puppet.

The way your mind just skillfully picks out the negative just to prove a point, damn. A lady can be young and not be greedy, billing the son of a man to death. What's your point even? that it is okay for a young lady to bill a man? Ever heard of contentment and carrying your own weight? How can a woman respect herself and get respect from others when she is a liability whose survival is dependent on men bankrolling her? is this what you are defending?

Also, being submissive is different from being obedient. An obedient woman is a woman I described in the first paragraph, basically a liability. Submission is by choice, obedience is a strategy for survival. She is a leech so she can only be obedient as a dog, or else the man will throw her out. Submission is when a woman has things going for herself, but still, recognizes the headship of her husband and respects him despite her personal sophistication. Lots of submissive women enjoy their marriage because they are an asset, and if the man is controlling, well she chose him. If you do not build yourself to be submissive, then you will automatically be obedient whose survival depends on how many can nack you to stupor.

If your brain cant makes you money, well, your honeypot will. Choose one. Take ya time. Mad people everywhere.

Animegirl:


Yes I tried to see things from your perspective but I realised men are confuse, not all though.

Sweet younglings, you men would call liabilities for billing your broke asses. Submissive and respective women, you men would love to control as puppet.

Didn't no you this bitter ooo.

flames007:
Your write-up is not coherent, but from what I gleaned, most relationships are to the female's advantage.

I agree, but I won't generalize sha because there are a lot of quality women out there. Most times you, the guy, spends your hard-earned money hoping for some choochie in return. If that's how you think, then get ready to be billed because.....nah, lemme stop here you'll figure it out

Oga that is how it is, i am not even the kind of guy that uses money to go after a lady, i can't even love such a lady, if not to sleep with her, and if she tries to continue billing me that's the end o, wheather you like it or not, you must spend o. Even the quality women you talk about, most are toxic. They would act like they can spend on a man, but deep down most are in pain. So its better the guy just settles for the lady that loves him very well, the worst is spending on a lady that doesn't love you. It's a waste of money. Spending on a lady isn't bad, since its what women want. Unless as a guy u have self control and highly principled and have money. Women would be one coming to you. For a relationship

Godoverevery:


Didn't no you this bitter ooo.

85% of the ladies on this forum are lonely, boring and very broke. I don't know how the owner of this forum was able to gather all the introverts in nigeria on this forum.

toujurs:
Oga that is how it is, i am not even the kind of guy that uses money to go after a lady, i can't even love such a lady, if not to sleep with her, and if she tries to continue billing me that's the end o, wheather you like it or not, you must spend o. Even the quality women you talk about, most are toxic. They would act like they can spend on a man, but deep down most are in pain. So its better the guy just settles for the lady that loves him very well, the worst is spending on a lady that doesn't love you It's a waste of money. Spending on a lady isn't bad, since its what women want. Unless as a guy u have self control and highly principled and have money. Women would be one coming to you. For a relationship

When i said quality women i know what i meant. I'm not even saying you shouldn't spend, but can she do the same for you? No. probably because she has no job. What about the case where she has the means, would she be willing do the same? Chances are very slim. so we're basically saying the same thing @ bolded

Most men that get billed anyhow just want to satisfy their JT and they don't always care about the cost until they come. The ladies in question see it, and they bill the hell out of them.

Animegirl:


Agreed. There are lots of quality women but it still varies on what you meant by "quality". But one thing I know, men are intimidated by successful, rich women.

Yeap, you're correct i won't lie. You would agree with me that it takes the grace of God for a woman more successful than her partner to still respect him. Personally i would really hate that scenario. If she can still respect me despite all her money, then why not?

Kriss216:

@bolded is funny.

I want to believe you don't stay in Nigeria. Where you dey see quality women abeg

They are scarce, but they exist.