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Barrister026:
Hello all...

Barrister026:
Hello all,

This is difficult situation for me, my mom's house has been left uncompleted since 2014 just the foundation and probably 2couch were placed ontop since then it's been there because she had to send my siblings and I to higher institution. Now am of age, doing quite well for myself. I think am finally ready to build a house, was thinking about getting a land 100 by 50 and raise 5 bedroom flats... but on the other hand that my mom's building had been left uncompleted since it's a family land, relatives are starting to say somethings and sometimes I could see the shame on my mom's face when she goes to her family compound. Almost every months they always call her to come clear it that it has become harbor for snakes and pests. So I thought why don't I just complete it for her first.


The issue here Is immediately I told my fiancee she said it's a good idea but kicked against it. That I should build mine first, before completing my mom's. That it can wait.

I also confided in a friend of mine, he said almost same thing, that my thing is different from our own. Saying am not the only one my mom gave birth to, if I complete it now I should be ready to share it with my siblings no matter what when the time comes.

I'm confused and need advice on the step to take. I would really want to complete that house for my mom I Know it would mean a lot to her..I'm really confused.

One way or the other somebody has to develop it, if I the first son don't do it now that am financially stable. Then my younger bro will do it, trust me it won't make sense that way that's just my fear.

kingjiss:
You are very stupid for asking this question

Barrister026:
Hello all,

This is difficult situation for me, my mom's house has been left uncompleted since 2014 just the foundation and probably 2couch were placed ontop since then it's been there because she had to send my siblings and I to higher institution. Now am of age, doing quite well for myself. I think am finally ready to build a house, was thinking about getting a land 100 by 50 and raise 5 bedroom flats... but on the other hand that my mom's building had been left uncompleted since it's a family land, relatives are starting to say somethings and sometimes I could see the shame on my mom's face when she goes to her family compound. Almost every months they always call her to come clear it that it has become harbor for snakes and pests. So I thought why don't I just complete it for her first.


The issue here Is immediately I told my fiancee she said it's a good idea but kicked against it. That I should build mine first, before completing my mom's. That it can wait.

I also confided in a friend of mine, he said almost same thing, that my thing is different from our own. Saying am not the only one my mom gave birth to, if I complete it now I should be ready to share it with my siblings no matter what when the time comes.

I'm confused and need advice on the step to take. I would really want to complete that house for my mom I Know it would mean a lot to her..I'm really confused.

One way or the other somebody has to develop it, if I the first son don't do it now that am financially stable. Then my younger bro will do it, trust me it won't make sense that way that's just my fear.

Barrister026:
I can't believe you actually booked space for this just to gather cheap likes

Don't you think it's better for me to confide in an olosho I sleep with, than to come online to ask random people who some are demented lunatics like you who find every loopholes to ridicule people online.
Kriss the whole nairaland knows you and your silly post, your Just a small boy who still feeds on mama thank you.

The funny thing is your mates are out there doing better things for themselves, winning daily.

Terrence99:
If you trust that girl so much, let me know. I will drop an email address for you to send me her phone number. Within 2 weeks, she will dump you, just 2 weeks.
That girl you call your fiancee will leave you if she gets a better offer, I guarantee you. That is the person that is advising you not to build for your mother. Don't you see that you are an eternal fool?
Build that house for your mother. Let her bless you. She's elderly and can go at any time.

UncleKoboko:
I don't know why people waste their time advising demented fools. I grown ass man right thinking head don't need to bring issues like this online.


Meanwhile, I can swear with my life that you're sharing that girl with other men .... That's a bitter truth.
If you're in doubt, find a way of hacking her phone for like 3 months without her knowledge and you'll find all the answers.

DON'T BE STUPID!

Kriss216:


You asked your girlfriend advice for something relating your mum

A girl you met recently will tell you what to do regarding your mum?


A girl you're sharing with different guys told you to discard your mum's happiness? What sort of men are we breeding these days?

Barrister026:
Hello all,

This is difficult situation for me, my mom's house has been left uncompleted since 2014 just the foundation and probably 2couch were placed ontop since then it's been there because she had to send my siblings and I to higher institution. Now am of age, doing quite well for myself. I think am finally ready to build a house, was thinking about getting a land 100 by 50 and raise 5 bedroom flats... but on the other hand that my mom's building had been left uncompleted since it's a family land, relatives are starting to say somethings and sometimes I could see the shame on my mom's face when she goes to her family compound. Almost every months they always call her to come clear it that it has become harbor for snakes and pests. So I thought why don't I just complete it for her first.


The issue here Is immediately I told my fiancee she said it's a good idea but kicked against it. That I should build mine first, before completing my mom's. That it can wait.

I also confided in a friend of mine, he said almost same thing, that my thing is different from our own. Saying am not the only one my mom gave birth to, if I complete it now I should be ready to share it with my siblings no matter what when the time comes.

I'm confused and need advice on the step to take. I would really want to complete that house for my mom I Know it would mean a lot to her..I'm really confused.

One way or the other somebody has to develop it, if I the first son don't do it now that am financially stable. Then my younger bro will do it, trust me it won't make sense that way that's just my fear.

eshie:
Exodus 20:12
:
[12]Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.

Barrister026:
I understand, but they are still in school one about to round up though.

Nice submission sir

murade:
Build your mom house first to make her happy, her happiness only will serve as prayer for you to provide means to build your own.
Also prepare your mind that it is family house not yours so that it will not be a means of quarrels among your siblings in future. Involve your brothers if they can contribute or not whichever way, good

zedegit:
The so called liability was not there when he was struggling o. Imagine the simp.

Kriss216:
I'm glad you know me and how I'm trying my best in trying to emancipate silly boys like you from the shackles of that evil gender.

Please my brother, never take family advice from a girlfriend. It's foolishness.

Happy weekend.

Barrister026:
Boy call your English teacher and ask him the meaning of "fiancee and your normal "girlfriends"

I might even be talking with a teenager, your post is giving you out big time. You reason so immature that's what annoys me on every front page just to gather likes.

This my last response to you, I won't indulge any further.

Ninisun:
And what if he's ain't sharing her with another man? You are too depressed, negative and persmisstic! Gush

Ninisun:
Why do you guys always find a way to degrade women like this? You don't even know how far they've gone in the relationship for him to seek her opinion.

Op build yours and then continue with her's abeg. Many have been doing it and their family is still peaceful. You want to keep paying for house rent? Your mum can always come to where you live till you complete the family house.

Remember situations sabi change, the money might stop coming, you can use your savings you would've paid the landlord to build hers.

Ninisun:
And what if he's ain't sharing her with another man? You are too depressed, negative and persmisstic! Gush

Terrence99:
Was he the one who deflowered her? Let us start from there.
The building project he wants to embark on. If he decides to build his own, how much is he willing to add?
Her reply shows she's selfish and and senseless.

Barrister026:
Hello all,

This is difficult situation for me, my mom's house has been left uncompleted since 2014 just the foundation and probably 2couch were placed ontop since then it's been there because she had to send my siblings and I to higher institution. Now am of age, doing quite well for myself. I think am finally ready to build a house, was thinking about getting a land 100 by 50 and raise 5 bedroom flats... but on the other hand that my mom's building had been left uncompleted since it's a family land, relatives are starting to say somethings and sometimes I could see the shame on my mom's face when she goes to her family compound. Almost every months they always call her to come clear it that it has become harbor for snakes and pests. So I thought why don't I just complete it for her first.


The issue here Is immediately I told my fiancee she said it's a good idea but kicked against it. That I should build mine first, before completing my mom's. That it can wait.

I also confided in a friend of mine, he said almost same thing, that my thing is different from our own. Saying am not the only one my mom gave birth to, if I complete it now I should be ready to share it with my siblings no matter what when the time comes.

I'm confused and need advice on the step to take. I would really want to complete that house for my mom I Know it would mean a lot to her..I'm really confused.

One way or the other somebody has to develop it, if I the first son don't do it now that am financially stable. Then my younger bro will do it, trust me it won't make sense that way that's just my fear.

UncleKoboko:
Shut up weyrey.

Let's analyze you for example.

HOW MANY BOYFRIENDS HAVE YOU HAD?
COMPARE THE NUMBER WITH YOUR BODYCOUNT AND TELL ME IF YOU'RE NOT A SHAMELESS DIRTY WHORÈ OR NOT.

Barrister026:
One way or the other somebody has to develop it, if I the first son don't do it now that am financially stable. Then my younger bro will do it, trust me it won't make sense that way.
As for my mom she's aged already.

Barrister026:
Hello all,

This is difficult situation for me, my mom's house has been left uncompleted since 2014 just the foundation and probably 2couch were placed ontop since then it's been there because she had to send my siblings and I to higher institution. Now am of age, doing quite well for myself. I think am finally ready to build a house, was thinking about getting a land 100 by 50 and raise 5 bedroom flats... but on the other hand that my mom's building had been left uncompleted since it's a family land, relatives are starting to say somethings and sometimes I could see the shame on my mom's face when she goes to her family compound. Almost every months they always call her to come clear it that it has become harbor for snakes and pests. So I thought why don't I just complete it for her first.


The issue here Is immediately I told my fiancee she said it's a good idea but kicked against it. That I should build mine first, before completing my mom's. That it can wait.

I also confided in a friend of mine, he said almost same thing, that my thing is different from our own. Saying am not the only one my mom gave birth to, if I complete it now I should be ready to share it with my siblings no matter what when the time comes.

I'm confused and need advice on the step to take. I would really want to complete that house for my mom I Know it would mean a lot to her..I'm really confused.

One way or the other somebody has to develop it, if I the first son don't do it now that am financially stable. Then my younger bro will do it, trust me it won't make sense that way that's just my fear.

Ninisun:
Channel the question to him, for him to ask her opinion means he values her and knows how smart and intelligent she is. He should build his first.

Ninisun:
Nna tachie onu there! My husband values my opinions always cus I bring smart suggestions. Was it how your mum was treated as a liability? You think the fiancé is a liability by spewing that trash.

Please the word "LovePeddler or Olosho" now sounds so obsolete, please use another line small boy. You sound like a broken record.