Enjoy your relationship, after all you didn't involve the nairaland members when you were having fun with her. Learn from your experiences and make decisions by yourself.

Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

This girl don manipulate you brother she hasn't changed abit

Chai see fresh mugu! Well the elders are waiting, because surely you shall come back.

Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

Enny2013:
My own is,has she told u y she posted her ex pictures? She must xplain fah.

You are a very smart lady, don't mind that mumu O.p. no body said he shouldn't accept his girlfriend back or break up with his babe finally, Why did she do, what she did, sinceshe is sorry, why shouldn't he forgive. Like why, atleast she was sorry. Why shouldn't he forgive since she was sorry. My own was why was she posting her ex pix, period! Since she finally said she was sorry, atleast she now knows her wrongs, and she has accepted to change her wrong behavior, that's an improvement. he could definitely forgive her, but if she wasn't sorry then there is a problem. But she was sorry for her wrong, so forgive and take her back

This guy na simple better break up with her now before she kill you . You dey trust woman . Thank God I'm ain't a nigga of relationship make I enter aristo house carry . Bleep 7
with different pussy with condom #7000 carry one overnight.3k . 5k for food and drinks I'm happy and satisfied. No stress I get peace of mind pass you guys wey dey do relationship. When I'm ready to get kids,I will be in relationship

Ballzproblemm:
jus look at the monkey broke shaming men. @animegirl, nawao , you no fit even plait your hair

Nairaland girls, I raise nyash for una

Aunty forgot this

Ballzproblemm:
mumu fall for manipulation thinking say en done win , anyways carry on , until she start to scream he ex name during sex ya eye go clear

Ex wey she go dae bang on Steady

Animegirl:


<sup>Stop having this mentality about us. Is only a frustrated and broke ass person, that talks this way. Sometimes I wonder if you men don't experience mother's love, with the way you talk about women.

Women this, women that.</sup>

Wait thats your DP up there. ur` Animegirl ... digital disappointment

Walai .. I expected a well educated eccentric looking uni grad ... but you look sooo PEDESTRIAN !!!!

big name small dog

So far .. only @fuckaniza & @MadamVannessa act/look like thier names. Zero authenticity .. nairaland... WHY?

Daniel7543:
One man down already. See how dey manipulate this fvcking SIMP.

Them don use menstruation pad cook egusi soup for op.

Guy!

Many times typing advice here is a waste of time.

I know it’s no longer a big deal to be stupid in Nigeria
But guyyyyy you they abuse stupidity na

You must be from any of these states for sure.. Ibadan, Ebonyi, Enugu

Top tier reverse psychology, did she tell you the main reason she posted the picture

To the guys out here
If you get this kind man as a friend and you discover say him wife they Bleep person wey you know
Omo no tell am ooo
Las las him and the wife go turn u enemy

One thing I about NL is that they give you the raw truth.

Girls are funny. A girl can be dating you, her ex and her bestie and you could be the best of all. No be say she be ashawo, na normal average girl.

She posted his pictures because she still loves him. That's just the truth.

Forget the tears and mood swing, she'll probably do same if her ex or bestie decides to stop talking to her.

A girl posted something recently on here where she claimed she broke up with her ex that beats her and is with a great guy but she's still thinks about her ex. I just liked the fact that her new guy told her point black that if she misses him so much, she should go be with him.

I also commend your courage for telling her it's over, it made her sit up but girls are girls, even scientists can't explain why they do this stupid shits.

Anyways, this is not a relationship advice.

Jennyclay:
God has finally open this one sense.

Listen to me carefully... Most of these frustrated guys here are weaklings and vegetables in Real Life. But they would come to social media and start forming redpillar and barking like a loose dog... Giving useless advice to people like op.

@op listen to me carefully again... Your relationship is more healthy than these frustrated guys relationships but they are always quick to dish out useless advice to others.

Infact, most of these frustrated guys need serious help in their relationship but they would rather seek advice somewhere else than to bring it here to Nairaland because they don't want be mocked as a wannabe redpiller.

I'm glad that God has given you wisdom to differentiate between wrong and right advice. Just take a look at them below.. They have started waiting for the op down fall.

Nawa oo!!

I swear a lot of nairalanders are ss2 students waiting to take senior waec, would deactivate this account soon!

Advisory


she's bitter that u were the one that broke up with her, men don't do the dumping, they do, so well she's gotten back in, expect a full breakup within 1month


Please don't come here again to cry like a baby

Animegirl:


Lol... You're the dumbest person ever. Anyways, las las you go still enter my pm with your second moniker.

only a low self-esteem man will DM a nairaland female,if I don ever DM any female for here make I die wether with this account or my alternate ,but if I never,any hard condition you are passing through will remain permanent,women full offline that are times ten better than what you look likewith your fat lips , low self-esteem niggas full your DM no me say I be one.

P.S:-this is for any man reading this STOP ASKING WOMEN OUT THROUGH SOCIAL MEDIA, you are only boosting her useless ego because she knows you are not the only nigga in her inbox,an example is this idiot I am quoting pesin I won't look twice offline is feeling herself because she got many foolish niggas in her inbox,Go out meet a girl offline if she bone you move on to the next that's how you row don't chase more than a week a woman who wants you won't make it hard for you peace out.

Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

This is what you posted in 2019

Alaigbopress:
One is the Husband one is the male bestie friend.

One is the driver while one is the Engineer of her Engine.

One is the labourer while one is the harvester.

You will still come back to open more threads of lamentations.

Animegirl:


Stop having this mentality about us. Is only a frustrated and broke ass person, that talks this way. Sometimes I wonder if you men don't experience mother's love, with the way you talk about women.

Women this, women that.

With how you look in your dp, you should never call anyone broke.
Women can be manipulative, yes. If someone says it, it doesn't mean such person is broke. Face the conversation and stop trying to be classist when even you lacks class.

Jennyclay:
God has finally open this one sense.

Listen to me carefully... Most of these frustrated guys here are weaklings and vegetables in Real Life. But they would come to social media and start forming redpillar and barking like a loose dog... Giving useless advice to people like op.

@op listen to me carefully again... Your relationship is more healthy than these frustrated guys relationships but they are always quick to dish out useless advice to others.

Infact, most of these frustrated guys need serious help in their relationship but they would rather seek advice somewhere else than to bring it here to Nairaland because they don't want be mocked as a wannabe redpiller.

I'm glad that God has given you wisdom to differentiate between wrong and right advice. Just take a look at them below.. They have started waiting for the op down fall.

Nawa oo!!

this mad woman and her loud mouth!

toujurs:
You are a very smart lady, don't mind that mumu O.p. no body said he shouldn't accept his girlfriend back or break up with his babe finally, Why did she do, what she did, sinceshe is sorry, why shouldn't he forgive. Like why, atleast she was sorry. Why shouldn't he forgive since she was sorry. My own was why was she posting her ex pix, period! Since she finally said she was sorry, atleast she now knows her wrongs, and she has accepted to change her wrong behavior, that's an improvement. he could definitely forgive her, but if she wasn't sorry then there is a problem. But she was sorry for her wrong, so forgive and take her back

Exactly, see the only problem I see there is that she is still trying to get over the guy. The babe truly Loves me, I can see from all indication. She spends on me even up to her last card. Sometimes I am the one that stops her from spending too much on me. She knows all the things I like and she doesn't fail to buy one if she has the money with her. She is the one that calls 24/7. What I have learnt from this forum is that there are many guys here that has severe bitterness against women , maybe from the experience they had in the past and if you follow their advice path you might make a grave mistake. All I always look out for when ever I post a stuff like this is few matured comment like yours.

Yesterday as I was with her
I tried to know what she saved my No with
And lo and behold it was "MY OWN"
Apart from this issue of posting her ex pictures, the girl is good in all ramification and I am planning to wife her very soon. Don't worry redpillers you all will be invited to our wedding.

That is screenshot of her Whatsapp Status, the day she was crying heavily.

Heathrow44:




I swear a lot of nairalanders are ss2 students waiting to take senior waec, would deactivate this account soon!

No be Lie my brother, looking for a sensible advice here might be hard sometimes. It is only people that abuse you and call you all's sorts of name as if they can stand before you in real life and talk pim. The insult here is just unbearable. Sometimes I wonder if that is just the behaviour of average Nigerian.

Alaigbopress:
That is screenshot of her Whatsapp Status, the day she was crying heavily.

Oga .. you are a man. As such, you have no business with love. You need respect, or fear and, if the gods permit "loyalty".

- My love
- Sweetheart
- Sugar Daddy
- Honey
- Olori Mi
- My Darling
- My one and only

But you get
- "My Own" (my own 'what')
- "I pray I never hurt someone that loves me" instead "I pray I never hurt someone I love"

Do you see what is going on here. She bought you this .. She bought you that .. She calls you ten times a day.

Do not fall for this shit... You had better think about "how to burn down some villages, and loot their goldmines". Not this ring around the roses you're playing with this girls. You ain't getting no compound interest in this shit bro ...

Damn .. I have an update to deploy .... rats

Ballzproblemm:
only a low self-esteem man will DM a nairaland female,if I don ever DM any female for here make I die wether with this account or my alternate ,but if I never,any hard condition you are passing through will remain permanent,women full offline that are times ten better than what you look likewith your fat lips , low self-esteem niggas full your DM no me say I be one.

P.S:-this is for any man reading this STOP ASKING WOMEN OUT THROUGH SOCIAL MEDIA, you are only boosting her useless ego because she knows you are not the only nigga in her inbox,an example is this idiot I am quoting pesin I won't look twice offline is feeling herself because she got many foolish niggas in her inbox,Go out meet a girl offline if she bone you move on to the next that's how you row don't chase more than a week a woman who wants you won't make it hard for you peace out.

You sound so mumuish! Real men don't write rubb.ish like this. You are a disappointment cos you are too fake.

Alaigbopress:
Yesterday as I was with her
I tried to know what she saved my No with
And lo and behold it was "MY OWN"
Apart from this issue of posting her ex pictures, the girl is good in all ramification and I am planning to wife her very soon. Don't worry redpillers you all will be invited to our wedding.

That is screenshot of her Whatsapp Status, the day she was crying heavily.

Enjoy your relationship, most of them are simps offline.

purejustice36:
I know it’s no longer a big deal to be stupid in Nigeria
But guyyyyy you they abuse stupidity na

You must be from any of these states for sure.. Ibadan, Ebonyi, Enugu

You need a mental re-evaluation, change of Environment and social orientation through counselling, book an appointment with one today.Do it for your future kids.
Inherent tribalistic bigot.

Elporo:


Oga .. you are a man. As such, you have no business with love. You need respect, or fear and, if the gods permit "loyalty".

- My love
- Sweetheart
- Sugar Daddy
- Honey
- Olori Mi
- My Darling
- My one and only

But you get
- "My Own" (my own 'what')
- "I pray I never hurt someone that loves me" instead "I pray I never hurt someone I love"

Do you see what is going on here. She bought you this .. She bought you that .. She calls you ten times a day.

Do not fall for this shit... You had better think about "how to burn down some villages, and loot their goldmines". Not this ring around the roses you're playing with this girls. You ain't getting no compound interest in this shit bro ...

Damn .. I have an update to deploy .... rats

Make we hear word pretender.

Ninisun:
Make we hear word pretender.

I prefer slim fair girls. slightly taller than I am. sorry,,, try the next corner

Was it not you who seeked for advice in the first place
And you came here lamenting that if you had follow our advice that you who had made a mistake.
Lemme tell you it's just a matter of time you would be served breakfast.
She's not your girlfriend it's just your turn
So stop fooling around thinking that you're the man.

Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

Dem Don scam this one