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Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by dontrulee: 10:40am On May 22, 2022
@Op don Bleep up.
E don loose guard. Him mumu dey too much.
No come here weep when things go south because you go collect am wotowoto.... Anyways, congrats on your reconciliation. Wishing you a happy relationship that will lead to marriage if that's what you desire.

Truth is, no relationship is perfect. It requires intentional sacrifice on one or both parties to keep it going. The human nature is dynamic so what applies to one may not necessarily apply to another. Just ensure you enjoy yourself and make sure you never put yourself in a position of disadvantage!!! Na d Koko be that. Enjoy life bruv... grin grin

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Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by begoniaa: 10:50am On May 22, 2022
And did you say you have a female bestie again? undecided

You people should just let someone be resting with your relationship tales everytime.
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by GOATandYAMtheory: 10:50am On May 22, 2022
sollolucci77:


Sometimes you have to...so that they themselves can feel the gravity of what they are talking about when their relatives are put in the equation...imagine 17 or 18 year old brats hiding behind a phone to say rubbish about grown men...something they they cant even try physically...all these tiny rats need to be put in their place
Maybe I am not as hard as I should be.

I think i agree with you
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by StrongAlphMale: 11:01am On May 22, 2022
Animegirl:


Stop having this mentality about us. Is only a frustrated and broke ass person, that talks this way. Sometimes I wonder if you men don't experience mother's love, with the way you talk about women.

Women this, women that.


Your pictures have been posted on this forum on this first page. See how broke and poor you are, yet you have the audacity and boldness to broke shame men.

Keep doing coded runs and Olosho until they use you for rituals.

If you're broke. U better get to job and work not a boyfriend. Stop being a liability and a parasite. No man wants a liability and a parasite in his life

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Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by StrongAlphMale: 11:10am On May 22, 2022
Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

You're not only a SIMP but a foolish one at that.

Oga this is called Emotional Manipulation!

That girl just dey whine you and you fell for her Emotional manipulations
Do you need a prophet to tell you that the girl and her ex is still banging codedly? As in, she dey collect dicks steady from guys on a low-key. you're sounding like you won a trophy. What a SIMP! SIMPS are irredeemable. SIMPS like you always learn the hard way.

alaye, you better bang that girl, dump her and move on. Stop being an emotional pussy ass niggar. Stop simping

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Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by mrdharkchild(m): 12:22pm On May 22, 2022
I didn't read all that crap. But I can assure you one thing.
You'd still lose your gf.
U nor wise at all.

Woman no be one man property until u marry am. Are u a child?
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by eddykaka(m): 12:32pm On May 22, 2022
sollolucci77:


I never wanted to go that route and I dont normally call peoples parents in a conversation but I had to give her a taste of her own medicine...look at all these misandrist brats roaming around nairaland saying all men are trash and stupid and broke shaming....now that I included her father she now wants to make him an exception and defend him why?...Go out and take a look at the threads and the people that she follows then you'll understand
true, but everyone’s entitled to his or her opinions and that shouldn’t make you include their families cuz it’s their opinions not their family’s.

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Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by eddykaka(m): 12:35pm On May 22, 2022
sollolucci77:


I never wanted to go that route and I dont normally call peoples parents in a conversation but I had to give her a taste of her own medicine...look at all these misandrist brats roaming around nairaland saying all men are trash and stupid and broke shaming....now that I included her father she now wants to make him an exception and defend him why?...Go and take a look at the threads and the people that she follows then you'll understand
true, but everyone’s entitled to his or her opinions and that shouldn’t make you include their families cuz it’s their opinions not their family’s.
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by Nobody: 12:36pm On May 22, 2022
eddykaka:
true, but everyone’s entitled to his or her opinions and that shouldn’t make you include their families cuz it’s their opinions not their family’s.

That you're entitled to opinions dosen't mean you should be a misandrist...that is a red line...I have my own opinions but I dont go about hating women for not agreeing with them...I'm trying to make her know the stupidity of what she does...so she should eat her own words
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by Ravenbeast1(m): 12:56pm On May 22, 2022
I'm sure even what you did was also gotten from here.

Different situations calls for different solutions I want to believe you are Mature enough to know what you want and how best to get it.

But there's a difference,
You didn't go begging her,
You took control of the situation by making her understand you are willing to let her go and that's exactly what most redpillers preach against.
Become the man,. don't BE A SIMP is the message.
When a girl misbehaves then let her know she bleeped up,don't go begging and doing all those mushy stuffs.
You would have begged and see if you would have gotten the same result.

Point is MAKE YOUR SELF VALUABLE AND YOU DID.
DO YOU NOW SEE THE RESULT??

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Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by Elporo(m): 1:04pm On May 22, 2022
Fuckaniza:

This is the animegirl that wishes she was a nigga? She's not bad at all. smiley

Yeah, if you prefer Kuli-Kuli to Pringles. .. ... person wey dey like househelp

With all due respect, Engineer sir

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Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by Whizzy080(m): 1:32pm On May 22, 2022
Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.
Guy relax, don't fall for such scam, you're yet to know the true capability of a woman. Been there many times, A woman can cry, consult all the elders in Nigeria, swear in the 7 most powerful rivers on earth and still be lying. (My next post wil be how I handle my Ex and she feel like to disappear) She still has something for her Ex but doesn't want to miss both side since you already know about the Ex and the Ex is also aware of your existence in her life. Lemme end here
Goodluck bruh, handle your innocent heart with care
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by Alaigbopress: 1:37pm On May 22, 2022
sollolucci77:


You're still a very young naive boy who doesn't know womens tricks...I pity you...its boys like you that go and close your eyes and go and marry girls with hoe phases and being the puppet in a marriage
No You are the small boy here, that is one thing with this forum. Small boys will be forming elders. All thanks to its anonymity. I bet you can't even stand before girls I deal with not to talk of approaching them for relationship. Everybody always looks like a small boy in your eyes. Children without manner
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by Nobody: 1:43pm On May 22, 2022
Alaigbopress:

No You are the small boy here, that is one thing with this forum. Small boys will be forming elders. All thanks to its anonymity. I bet you can't even stand before girls I deal with not to talk of approaching them for relationship. Everybody always looks like a small boy in your eyes. Children without manner

You can try and console yourself all you want...i have told you...if you like dont listen
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by Alaigbopress: 1:45pm On May 22, 2022
Ravenbeast1:
I'm sure even what you did was also gotten from here.

Different situations calls for different solutions I want to believe you are Mature enough to know what you want and how best to get it.

But there's a difference,
You didn't go begging her,
You took control of the situation by making her understand you are willing to let her go and that's exactly what most redpillers preach against.
Become the man,. don't BE A SIMP is the message.
When a girl misbehaves then let her know she bleeped up,don't go begging and doing all those mushy stuffs.
You would have begged and see if you would have gotten the same result.

Point is MAKE YOUR SELF VALUABLE AND YOU DID.
DO YOU NOW SEE THE RESULT??

Exactly, I don't know why these fools are just raining insults on me. My girl misbehaved and I out her in her place, threatened her that I will dump her. She started crying, came with concrete explanation though I won't like to mention it her. She called my friends and started asking them to beg me. The truth is that these idiots just want me to lose the girl and may be take a Jezebel as a girl friend. Even the fools telling me that my girl is sleeping with her ex bla bla their so called girl friend might be having sex with every dick on their street yet she will hide it from them. The girl has been plain, she told me she is truly sorry for what she did.
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by patjane(f): 2:17pm On May 22, 2022
I think a lot of guys here are frustrated,weaklings,under age and vegetables in Real Life,Giving useless advice to people. Nothing will make me seek Advice here cool.my own na to come here read comments, smh ,laff and logout grin
Op I’m happy for you smiley..
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by Bluish44(m): 2:29pm On May 22, 2022
Ballzproblemm:
jus look at the monkey broke shaming men. @animegirl, nawao , you no fit even plait your hair
very useless girl..na this one person go carry huge amount go do marriage for
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by JoyousFurnitire(m): 2:31pm On May 22, 2022
Magafvcker grin
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by Ahmback(m): 2:50pm On May 22, 2022
Ballzproblemm:
mumu fall for manipulation thinking say en done win , anyways carry on , until she start to scream her ex name during sex ya eye go clear
u no suppose tell am. Allow make d hediot dey mumu first

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Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by JoyousFurnitire(m): 2:55pm On May 22, 2022
Alaigbopress:


Exactly, see the only problem I see there is that she is still trying to get over the guy.

Which means if the ex fix-up she'll dump you? undecided
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by JoyousFurnitire(m): 3:00pm On May 22, 2022
Elporo:


I prefer slim fair girls. slightly taller than I am. sorry,,, try the next corner


Una like violence abeg! grin
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by JoyousFurnitire(m): 3:07pm On May 22, 2022
Alaigbopress:

You mean the same girl that will always give her phone to me to hold for her?

Come make it make sense Na you dey upload the ex pics before?
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by ashawopikin(m): 3:24pm On May 22, 2022
Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.
should we tell him?

Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by Owologbo(m): 4:06pm On May 22, 2022
Animegirl:


Stop having this mentality about us. Is only a frustrated and broke ass person, that talks this way. Sometimes I wonder if you men don't experience mother's love, with the way you talk about women.

Women this, women that.

But think am small, is it right for a lady to be posting her ex on SM while in a relationship?
Is there any respect or regard to the BF?
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by SKINDOGGY: 5:11pm On May 22, 2022
You sound foolish
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by Digmygold: 5:11pm On May 22, 2022
As if you got one and the same advice from everybody. Abeg getat
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by Audemars: 5:12pm On May 22, 2022
Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.
especially those redpillers that lack pussy and those feminist that are so ugly and can't get dick
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by Nobody: 5:13pm On May 22, 2022
Who is senseless id*t? And why do all these dumb admin keep putting all these types of students on front page? Did they force you to heed to their advice?. Animal
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by toprealman: 5:13pm On May 22, 2022
Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.
You seem to immature to make public what that innocent girl shared with in in her vulnerable moment.
Grow up man, step up. Take control. Let it be you and her.....nobody else.
Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by GAZZUZZ(m): 5:13pm On May 22, 2022
Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

Learner.

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Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by Ajax4: 5:14pm On May 22, 2022

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