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5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by NotATroll: 7:39am On May 23, 2022
I lost the password to my previous account so, its not a troll post.

So, I proposed a relationship with this girl 5 months back and she told me she wasn't ready for relationship that she needed to pray, take time to think etc. (Na marriage r/ship me I dey for). So I agreed to go with the flow and showing love the best way I can.
(Edited: she still dey talk say let's just be friends and know each other well. I wonder how dat one go happen with the "friend" tag)

Though she gets mad at little things and go dey talk to me anyhow, dey chook me yan like say e no go bother her if the thing no work, I still just dey hold on sha. But, the talk chookin of yan and small passive aggressive insult don dey taya me.
Shey I'm I being impatient or just cut my losses and move on.
Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by BlessedJonMoss: 7:41am On May 23, 2022
Keep waiting...
Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by Skullano(m): 7:45am On May 23, 2022
My girlfriend no dey follow me cap anyhow unto say she dey vex for matter we fit settle on a low tone e come be girl way friend zone me.

You dey try sha..

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Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by rickpat(m): 7:48am On May 23, 2022
take a stroll, if she really needs you she will pull you back...stop acting like you are the only one that the relationship is important to.... relationship is a TEAMWORK...take a stroll,if she doesn't pull you back and improve on her behavior towards you...then take a WALK FOR GOOD....any woman telling you she ain't ready for a relationship is just cus she hasn't seen who she likes and really falls in love with... Except she has a very valid reason of not wanting a relationship at that moment...good luck


my opinion...

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Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by Boogyman557: 7:48am On May 23, 2022
Holly Gram cool My own MATAYANCE be say!

If I find out say u don de spend money on dat BANI wen she never accept u!

I SWEAR DOWN

Ur left leg go collect serious BLASTING!

LITE UP my WEED in peace

WTF MAN!

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Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by brosom(m): 7:50am On May 23, 2022
With the way u carry discribe ur babe, e dey do me like she be coded runs babe.

Don be surprise when she finally let u in, na wild hole u go meet.

Wetin I dey talk sef undecided undecided
Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by PerfectStranger(m): 7:50am On May 23, 2022
I believe during your stay in friendzone prison u dey collect billing. Number of simps keeps increasing on a daily.
Well,I leave your matter to Boogyman557

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Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by NotATroll: 8:01am On May 23, 2022
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool My own MATAYANCE be say!


If I find out say u don de spend money on dat BANI wen she never accept u!


I SWEAR DOWN


Ur left leg go collect serious BLASTING!


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

Lol... no be any serious money like dat
Na just very small something
Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by NotATroll: 8:09am On May 23, 2022
brosom:
With the way u carry discribe ur babe, e dey do me like she be coded runs babe.

Don be surprise when she finally let u in, na wild hole u go meet.

Wetin I dey talk sef undecided undecided


Lol... no be dat kind runs girl
Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by Jennyclay(f): 8:10am On May 23, 2022
The essence of a relationship is marriage. The said girl is ready for marriage but you're not.

You're just looking for an avenue to be fornicating reason you're asking her for a fake relationship.

Well, I'm glad the girl could sense you're not a serious guy.

If you're not okay to be just a friend with her then get lost!!!
Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by NotATroll: 8:14am On May 23, 2022
Jennyclay:
The essence of a relationship is marriage. The said girl is ready for marriage but you're not.

You're just looking for an avenue to be fornicating reason you're asking her for a fake relationship.

Well, I'm glad the girl could sense you're not a serious guy.

If you're not okay to be just a friend with her then get lost!!!

Lol... we're not even in the same state and I said I wouldn't even hug her until after marriage. You're just defending your gender for no reason. Thanks for ypur contribution anyways
Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by brosom(m): 8:16am On May 23, 2022
NotATroll:


Lol... no be dat kind runs girl
never say never o
Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by Jennyclay(f): 8:24am On May 23, 2022
NotATroll:


Lol... we're not even in the same state and I said I wouldn't even hug her until after marriage. You're just defending your gender for no reason. Thanks for ypur contribution anyways
Uhmm.. That's what you men are fond of saying. "I won't hug, I won't touch till after Marriage" and when the lady eventually agree.. You men would start disturbing her.

Mtchhheeewwww
Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by NotATroll: 8:32am On May 23, 2022
Jennyclay:
Uhmm.. That's what you men are fond of saying. "I won't hug, I won't touch till after Marriage" and when the lady eventually agree.. You men would start disturbing her.

Mtchhheeewwww


Lol... not everybody is like your ex. I'm sorry for your terrible experiences
Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by paulolee(m): 9:04am On May 23, 2022
no sir...u are not impatient, the duration for friendzone is 5 years, me I even stayed 8 years before she allow me kiss..
with the kind of simpish post i do read here this days, I go jus de wonder if all these talk na cruise or such rubbish really exists..

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Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by satandeterrible: 9:18am On May 23, 2022
NotATroll:


Lol... not everybody is like your ex. I'm sorry for your terrible experiences
I pity you bro.
Most importantly I pity your parents.
Its such a shameful thing to give birth to extremely foolish kids. Especially such foolishness that one is being manipulated without him even realising it.

It would have been better if you hadn't been born. At least one less stupid simp in the world.

You're just a bug Simp. A huge disgrace of a man.
Continue allowing the girl manipulate your empty, senseless head.
Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by NotATroll: 9:35am On May 23, 2022
satandeterrible:

I pity you bro.
Most importantly I pity your parents.
Its such a shameful thing to give birth to extremely foolish kids. Especially such foolishness that one is being manipulated without him even realising it.

It would have been better if you hadn't been born. At least one less stupid simp in the world.

You're just a bug Simp. A huge disgrace of a man.
Continue allowing the girl manipulate your empty, senseless head.

Lol... common dude
Dat one is a little too harsh na, damn! But I get the message sha. Thanks
Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by NotATroll: 9:36am On May 23, 2022
paulolee:
no sir...u are not impatient, the duration for friendzone is 5 years, me I even stayed 8 years before she allow me kiss..
with the kind of simpish post i do read here this days, I go jus de wonder if all these talk na cruise or such rubbish really exists..

Omo... e dey exist o. I be prime example
I no dey troll
Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by Uniquetani1(f): 10:20am On May 23, 2022
satandeterrible:

I pity you bro.
Most importantly I pity your parents.
Its such a shameful thing to give birth to extremely foolish kids. Especially such foolishness that one is being manipulated without him even realising it.

It would have been better if you hadn't been born. At least one less stupid simp in the world.

You're just a bug Simp. A huge disgrace of a man.
Continue allowing the girl manipulate your empty, senseless head.


It's easy to spot a dumb kid
What's with the insult?
Ill-mannered people disgust me a lot
Grow up bro

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Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by Uniquetani1(f): 10:22am On May 23, 2022
NotATroll:
I lost the password to my previous account so, its not a troll post.

So, I proposed a relationship with this girl 5 months back and she told me she wasn't ready for relationship that she needed to pray, take time to think etc. (Na marriage r/ship me I dey for). So I agreed to go with the flow and showing love the best way I can.
(Edited: she still dey talk say let's just be friends and know each other well. I wonder how dat one go happen with the "friend" tag)

Though she gets mad at little things and go dey talk to me anyhow, dey chook me yan like say e no go bother her if the thing no work, I still just dey hold on sha. But, the talk chookin of yan and small passive aggressive insult don dey taya me.
Shey I'm I being impatient or just cut my losses and move on.


Na three ways
She doesn't like you but want you around
She likes you but scared of commitment
She has someone she likes.

Five months is enough to decide on what she wants.
Advice yourself

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Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by cavreek: 10:23am On May 23, 2022
Dear OP, good tins don't come by easily
Have patience with her while she explores other better 'options'
Remember patience is a virtue

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Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by NotATroll: 10:33am On May 23, 2022
Uniquetani1:



Na three ways
She doesn't like you but want you around
She likes you but scared of commitment
She has someone she likes.

Five months is enough to decide on what she wants.
Advice yourself

Obviously not the second because I said I'd come and see her parents. And even send my parents over if she's doubting my own visit but, she said no
Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by okoroemeka(m): 10:45am On May 23, 2022
BlessedJonMoss:
Keep waiting...
keep waiting indeed,the red light is on but you choose to disgrace yourself,you will wait forever,the girl is been polite and civil by showing you the signs to walk away.

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Re: 5 Months Still In The Friendzone... I'm I Being Inpatient? by Vikkoh(m): 12:14pm On May 23, 2022
Stop communicating with her for now.
I can bet my balls that in less than 2 months time, she'll be all over you.

Try am first.

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