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Favfables1:
OP....
There are two extreme behavior every girl who has been raped before will portray...

It's either they become overly promiscuous or they will never enjoy sex with a man, and this behavior will continue through out their entire life unless they heal properly...

So let's assume that your friends sex game is top notch and his wife isn't promiscuous, one can then conclude that she hasn't really healed from the past trauma of abuse...

I know you maybe thinking that, "but it's being long na", I put it to you that the psychological implications of abuse doesn't necessarily go away with the passage of time ...

May I suggest that your friend have a discussion with his wife and let her tell him what he can do to be better in better, if he does that and still she makes the same statement, then they better visit a counselor/psychiatrist ...

i love your intelligent pieces.This is what I told kayode.But I was even thinking having such nasty experience at 5years old should have been erased off cos that age was too low and all things done then should have been forgotten.My mere observation of the girl says she is not promiscuous at all.Even the two boyfriends she had then....she had one immediately she finished her secondary school and there was no intimacy btw them according to my friend based on what the wife told her and what he also confirmed by trying to be a friend with that first former boyfriend .The second guy she had was very promiscuous,that one was a teacher and when the wife was with that one that guy always pester her for sex but she use to always tell him since they are marrying each other they are waiting till their night of wedding day b4 they would have it and this led to the guy fucking small small girls that were very smaller to her and when she caught him with those things that was when the now my friend wife leave the relationship and she met my friend kayode.Kayode also confirmed all these that the wife said about the guy she had as her second boyfriend because my friend tried to call the guy and pretend as friend to him.infact the guy was invited to their wedding but he didn’t come.The guy wanted to be threatening my friend but when he knew he is a soldier he ran away.My friend wife said assuming she had sex with that second boyfriend that is what the guy would have used to destroy her marriage to the my friend.My guy happens to be friend to his wife friends and from their mouth he confirmed how bitter the second guy was but unfortunately he was unable to sleep with her all through their being together.So based on these i and kayode felt the guy is not promiscuous but he was not cleared why the girl would always tell him *e no sabi Bleep* despite the fact that the wife is the first person to always say she is tired in the midst of her dick enjoyment.I told my friend to engage her in talk as husband and wife.But the wife said it is not she didn’t enjoy her husband dick but she is always getting tired easily in the midst of enjoying his dick.

Coinwarrior:
i love your intelligent pieces.This is what I told kayode.But I was even thinking having such nasty experience at 5years old should have been erased off cos that age was too low and all things done then should have been forgotten.My mere observation of the girl says she is not promiscuous at all.Even the two boyfriends she had then....she had one immediately she finished her secondary school and there was no intimacy btw them according to my friend based on what the wife told her and what he also confirmed by trying to be a friend with that first former boyfriend .The second guy she had was very promiscuous,that one was a teacher and when the wife was with that one that guy always pester her for sex but she use to always tell him since they are marrying each other they are waiting till their night of wedding day b4 they would have it and this led to the guy fucking small small girls that were very smaller to her and when she caught him with those things that was when the now my friend wife leave the relationship and she met my friend kayode.Kayode also confirmed all these that the wife said about the guy she had as her second boyfriend because my friend tried to call the guy and pretend as friend to him.infact the guy was invited to their wedding but he didn’t come.The guy wanted to be threatening my friend but when he knew he is a soldier he ran away.My friend wife said assuming she had sex with that second boyfriend that is what the guy would have used to destroy her marriage to the my friend.My guy happens to be friend to his wife friends and from their mouth he confirmed how bitter the second guy was but unfortunately he was unable to sleep with her all through their being together.So based on these i and kayode felt the guy is not promiscuous but he was not cleared why the girl would always tell him *e no sabi Bleep* despite the fact that the wife is the first person to always say she is tired in the midst of her dick enjoyment.I told my friend to engage her in talk as husband and wife.But the wife said it is not she didn’t enjoy her husband dick but she is always getting tired easily in the midst of enjoying his dick.

He has married a serpent. They should see a psychologist or go for deliverance.

This is a format all Nigeria girls use to decisive some guy

Coinwarrior:
Hello Nairalanders!!

There is sth I want to seek your general views on based on your life experience as regards to woman of today.
I have a friend whom we both worked at Nigerian army since 2017 to 2020 that we both resigned.
This my friend married in 2020 to a young girl of 23years who is said to be a circumstantial virgin based on her narrative that the girl had had just 2 relationships b4 he met her and during short stint in those relationships none of the boyfriends had had sex with her but they only kissed.The girl said she only lost her virginity at age of 5 years when one mad man used biscuit to tricked her and inserted his long dick into her.My friend said the young girl confessed that to their church pastors.To cut the story short,my friend believed this girl had not been having sex all through her growing up until that unfortunate incident.But there is always one thing that my friend said it usually baffled him.He said when he is having intense sex with this girl,the girl would just said *you no sabi Bleep* and you don’t know how to play.my friend use to say this statement baffles him and he would start thinking maybe this girls may have been bleeped by some badboys in time past b4 he met her.And another remark my friend give is that he use to Bleep this girl to stupor to the extent that the girl usually run out on the premise that she is tired.My people with vast experience what can you say of this now 24years old girl that my friend met and married.I want to believe in all honesty this girl must have had hard Bleep at some point of her life for her to be saying this.

the fact that you are concerned about another man's gf to this extent gives me worry

Coinwarrior:
i love your intelligent pieces.This is what I told kayode.But I was even thinking having such nasty experience at 5years old should have been erased off cos that age was too low and all things done then should have been forgotten.My mere observation of the girl says she is not promiscuous at all.Even the two boyfriends she had then....she had one immediately she finished her secondary school and there was no intimacy btw them according to my friend based on what the wife told her and what he also confirmed by trying to be a friend with that first former boyfriend .The second guy she had was very promiscuous,that one was a teacher and when the wife was with that one that guy always pester her for sex but she use to always tell him since they are marrying each other they are waiting till their night of wedding day b4 they would have it and this led to the guy fucking small small girls that were very smaller to her and when she caught him with those things that was when the now my friend wife leave the relationship and she met my friend kayode.Kayode also confirmed all these that the wife said about the guy she had as her second boyfriend because my friend tried to call the guy and pretend as friend to him.infact the guy was invited to their wedding but he didn’t come.The guy wanted to be threatening my friend but when he knew he is a soldier he ran away.My friend wife said assuming she had sex with that second boyfriend that is what the guy would have used to destroy her marriage to the my friend.My guy happens to be friend to his wife friends and from their mouth he confirmed how bitter the second guy was but unfortunately he was unable to sleep with her all through their being together.So based on these i and kayode felt the guy is not promiscuous but he was not cleared why the girl would always tell him *e no sabi Bleep* despite the fact that the wife is the first person to always say she is tired in the midst of her dick enjoyment.I told my friend to engage her in talk as husband and wife.But the wife said it is not she didn’t enjoy her husband dick but she is always getting tired easily in the midst of enjoying his dick.

My chief...
I went through your entire write up...
The advice you gave your friend is legit...
Let him talk to his wife and listen to what she will say as regards the matter...
I think an open and honest conversation will help here....

I hope it works out well for them, but If that doesn't work out, they may need to see a psychiatrist/counsellor ((not a doctor o, cause I don't think this is a medical problem, but I could be wrong sha, but first see a counselor first before a doctor if need be))...
It will go well chief...
Have a nice day sir ...

JoyousFurnitire:
^^^ unnecessary. How e take concern the story?

women helping women

Teaveapoet:
Your friend is comfortable discussing his wife's sexual performance with you. What is the world turning to?

Do you discuss your wife's sexual desires with him?

He is actually "his friend" in reality

Interesting
Legit ways to make money check my signature

Coinwarrior:
Hello Nairalanders!!

There is sth I want to seek your general views on based on your life experience as regards to woman of today.
I have a friend whom we both worked at Nigerian army since 2017 to 2020 that we both resigned.
This my friend married in 2020 to a young girl of 23years who is said to be a circumstantial virgin based on her narrative that the girl had had just 2 relationships b4 he met her and during short stint in those relationships none of the boyfriends had had sex with her but they only kissed.The girl said she only lost her virginity at age of 5 years when one mad man used biscuit to tricked her and inserted his long dick into her.My friend said the young girl confessed that to their church pastors.To cut the story short,my friend believed this girl had not been having sex all through her growing up until that unfortunate incident.But there is always one thing that my friend said it usually baffled him.He said when he is having intense sex with this girl,the girl would just said *you no sabi Bleep* and you don’t know how to play.my friend use to say this statement baffles him and he would start thinking maybe this girls may have been bleeped by some badboys in time past b4 he met her.And another remark my friend give is that he use to Bleep this girl to stupor to the extent that the girl usually run out on the premise that she is tired.My people with vast experience what can you say of this now 24years old girl that my friend met and married.I want to believe in all honesty this girl must have had hard Bleep at some point of her life for her to be saying this.

YOUR FRIEND?

Your friend is truly a gallant, reasonable and Intelligent army. Girls are fond of poorly constructed tales about how they lose their virginity and only a fool will believe such stale story. Either they are raped or abused when they were younger.

I once met a lady that played the virgin card with me, she said she has a boyfriend that she doesn't even allow to get intimate with her, but when we had sex, the thing is wide open, no friction. I was disappointed, she is even nymphomaniac. Then why the lies?

otipoju:
Just do your own and enjoy it while it lasts.

lol, omo ds statement weak me

dawnomike:
What he is discussing with you is meant for him to discuss with his wife and not you...

If his wife tells him he does not know how; he should simply tell her to show him the "HOW"

aswr

gaby:
The way you dey hammer on the "my friend, my friend" it only gives you away as the victim in this story.

Too much my friend...

lol, u don catch am

victor4ekele:
Your friend has enter one chance to a rigorous sex addicts and fucker called wife. she has been bleeped several time before she met your friend and after meeting your friend, it might also be possible she might be giving her body to outside who can bleeped her more than your friend, that's why she say your friend can not bleeped her well maybe more than those guys that do Bleep her. she is a big hole and a public toilet ooooo.... never trust a girl

tru tlk, she must hv been seeing anoda man who satisfies ha

thebosstrevor1:
Your friend is not wise.

Haha, why do you guys think that when you bang a girl to stupor, that means you are good in sex.

I agree with your friend wife, YOUR FRIEND CAN'T BANG

Fore play is the core of any sex, be patient, kiss her, suck her nipple, rub her clit, make her wet and then make love to her, for god sake, she is a wife not a prostitute.

Some women want to make love and banging a girl to stupor doesn't mean you are satifying her, you are just satisfying your own Ego.

some women cnt b satisfied

Lvgirl:
Bro did you also blv when Buhari said he will make 1 Naira equal 1 dollar

lol, off me

henndukwe18:
lol, omo ds statement weak me

Women are like wet soap. If you hold on too tightly, they will slip off. The tree of good and evil had been there all along Eve did not fancy it until God forbade it for them .

Work on yourself and make the time they spend with you enjoyable...thats all they want and they will stay or come back if they leave.

Lol what I can say is even when I first lash I knew that, that was not how sex is, so it turned out the girl no sabi.. when I taste another soul

otipoju:
Women are like wet soap. If you hold on too tightly, they will slip off. The tree of good and evil had been there all along Eve did not fancy it until God forbade it for them .

Work on yourself and make the time they spend with you enjoyable...thats all they want and they will stay or come back if they leave.

u hv said it all, ds is wt every single guy out there should no

henndukwe18:
tru tlk, she must hv been seeing anoda man who satisfies ha

That wife is not seeing any man outside my friend said so and from my clinical observations she is not bleeping any man outside.Don’t say i and kayode are fools.there are reasons for saying such....kayode track all her movements and hack into her wife Facebook and WhatsApp because he is one of the best cyber security expert at NA back in those days .so it is very easy to spoof all her wakawaka and he found nothing.Even from what he showed me i can see so many men sending friend request to his wife on Facebook and she wasn’t responding and she was always showing to her husband. But what kayode can not say is how long she has been having sex b4 he met her.kayode always believe the girl is not a wayward girl cos she had tightness when she met her for the first time as a man and she even had tears.But my concern is she may have been exposed to some rough sex b4 meeting Mr kayode which may be where she had the knowledge of kayode doesn’t know how to Bleep .what concerned MR kay is he want to know some deep secret that his wife is hiding from him.My own is to help him know that too so that he do not walk in the dark.You can wonder why i and kayode can talk sensitive things like this...we are childhood friends from primary school to university and we still worked at NA together then when we entered via short service b4 leaving.

Unto say I no dey use eye see babe with big boobs
My new area wey I pack enter, na so one busty babe come dey like my matter

I invite her enter crib say make I quickly give am blessings of the undies
I grab her heavy boobs , she say make me no chuck my gbola for the mani gate
She say she be virgin

Ahhh mogbe… me wey my gbola don stand like Eko hotel securities

I no dey like beg woman …. I just free her make she discharge
E no reach two days naim I discover say she be general food for the street

Moral of the story:: never you be in a rush to bleep any girl without knowing a little or more about her

Our idea abi?

Before you do anything… ensure you confirm some things yourself first

Tell your friend to open his trouser so you can see the length of his rod
That’s how to confirm if he’s truly knacking her well or not

Next thing you snap the gbola and upload it here for our elders to observe well
Tell him to stretch it well o, we need to know the full size.. I no dey like cheating

You go also tell am say next thing na make she tell the woman in question to open her pant make ur friend snap her Toto .. dem we go come balance the view
Oya we dey wait my gee

Coinwarrior:
Hello Nairalanders!!

There is sth I want to seek your general views on based on your life experience as regards to woman of today.
I have a friend whom we both worked at Nigerian army since 2017 to 2020 that we both resigned.
This my friend married in 2020 to a young girl of 23years who is said to be a circumstantial virgin based on her narrative that the girl had had just 2 relationships b4 he met her and during short stint in those relationships none of the boyfriends had had sex with her but they only kissed.The girl said she only lost her virginity at age of 5 years when one mad man used biscuit to tricked her and inserted his long dick into her.My friend said the young girl confessed that to their church pastors.To cut the story short,my friend believed this girl had not been having sex all through her growing up until that unfortunate incident.But there is always one thing that my friend said it usually baffled him.He said when he is having intense sex with this girl,the girl would just said *you no sabi Bleep* and you don’t know how to play.my friend use to say this statement baffles him and he would start thinking maybe this girls may have been bleeped by some badboys in time past b4 he met her.And another remark my friend give is that he use to Bleep this girl to stupor to the extent that the girl usually run out on the premise that she is tired.My people with vast experience what can you say of this now 24years old girl that my friend met and married.I want to believe in all honesty this girl must have had hard Bleep at some point of her life for her to be saying this.

Stop talking on behalf of ur friend
The tin happen to u shikena
No one is gonna insult u here
Cos this is forum
How come u carry ur friend matter for head

Coinwarrior:
Hello Nairalanders!!

There is sth I want to seek your general views on based on your life experience as regards to woman of today.
I have a friend whom we both worked at Nigerian army since 2017 to 2020 that we both resigned.
This my friend married in 2020 to a young girl of 23years who is said to be a circumstantial virgin based on her narrative that the girl had had just 2 relationships b4 he met her and during short stint in those relationships none of the boyfriends had had sex with her but they only kissed.The girl said she only lost her virginity at age of 5 years when one mad man used biscuit to tricked her and inserted his long dick into her.My friend said the young girl confessed that to their church pastors.To cut the story short,my friend believed this girl had not been having sex all through her growing up until that unfortunate incident.But there is always one thing that my friend said it usually baffled him.He said when he is having intense sex with this girl,the girl would just said *you no sabi Bleep* and you don’t know how to play.my friend use to say this statement baffles him and he would start thinking maybe this girls may have been bleeped by some badboys in time past b4 he met her.And another remark my friend give is that he use to Bleep this girl to stupor to the extent that the girl usually run out on the premise that she is tired.My people with vast experience what can you say of this now 24years old girl that my friend met and married.I want to believe in all honesty this girl must have had hard Bleep at some point of her life for her to be saying this.

Make we tell am?

Coinwarrior:
That wife is not seeing any man outside my friend said so and from my clinical observations she is not bleeping any man outside.Don’t say i and kayode are fools.there are reasons for saying such....kayode track all her movements and hack into her wife Facebook and WhatsApp because he is one of the best cyber security expert at NA back in those days .so it is very easy to spoof all her wakawaka and he found nothing.Even from what he showed me i can see so many men sending friend request to his wife on Facebook and she wasn’t responding and she was always showing to her husband. But what kayode can not say is how long she has been having sex b4 he met her.kayode always believe the girl is not a wayward girl cos she had tightness when she met her for the first time as a man and she even had tears.But my concern is she may have been exposed to some rough sex b4 meeting Mr kayode which may be where she had the knowledge of kayode doesn’t know how to Bleep .what concerned MR kay is he want to know some deep secret that his wife is hiding from him.My own is to help him know that too so that he do not walk in the dark.You can wonder why i and kayode can talk sensitive things like this...we are childhood friends from primary school to university and we still worked at NA together then when we entered via short service b4 leaving.

wel if she may have had rough sex wit anoda guy b4 meeting him, and if she is currently nt cheatin on him, in dt case, ur friend has to upgrade in his sexual performance, lt him find oda ways or styles to satisfy ha (maybe by watchin porn), bt apart frm dt, i can conclude dt som ladies can nt b satisfied

Coinwarrior:
That wife is not seeing any man outside my friend said so and from my clinical observations she is not bleeping any man outside.Don’t say i and kayode are fools.there are reasons for saying such....kayode track all her movements and hack into her wife Facebook and WhatsApp because he is one of the best cyber security expert at NA back in those days .so it is very easy to spoof all her wakawaka and he found nothing.Even from what he showed me i can see so many men sending friend request to his wife on Facebook and she wasn’t responding and she was always showing to her husband. But what kayode can not say is how long she has been having sex b4 he met her.kayode always believe the girl is not a wayward girl cos she had tightness when she met her for the first time as a man and she even had tears.But my concern is she may have been exposed to some rough sex b4 meeting Mr kayode which may be where she had the knowledge of kayode doesn’t know how to Bleep .what concerned MR kay is he want to know some deep secret that his wife is hiding from him.My own is to help him know that too so that he do not walk in the dark.You can wonder why i and kayode can talk sensitive things like this...we are childhood friends from primary school to university and we still worked at NA together then when we entered via short service b4 leaving.

How you know so much about your friend baffles me?

Wetin you talk no really make sense I swear but no vex.

Hardly will a girl tell you 100% about herself. My Mum tells me things that my dad doesn't know (she tells me almost everything that she remembers; God bless her) my dad also tell me things that nobody else knows (he doesn't tell me everything but he claims I am the only one that knows him more than others). Just that observation alone makes me understand that you can't know a human 100% we relate with one another based on our perception of them and not the reality of them. This truth has made me a lot of friends both physically and online. It's a crazy world out there, guard yourself

Rubyjade:
How you know so much about your friend baffles me?

Nigerian mentality smh.what has knowing too muc......h about my childhood friend got to do with you?! Huh

What are you still confused about?
The truth is there.
For person that was disvirgined at age 5 and by 24 knows who sabi bleep and who doesn't definitely has been getting sexual satisfaction from someone or somewhere else.

A real Virgin with no experience will definitely settle for that first experience and it'll be enough pending when she decides to test something different.

Coinwarrior:
Nigerian mentality smh.what has knowing too muc......h about my childhood friend got to do with you?! Huh

Oga na you and not your friend.

Rubyjade:
Oga na you and not your friend.

That is how ur level of reasoning can go,sorry. Have a well broaden exposure of life.