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Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by Nobody: 12:26am On May 27, 2022
TimiMoore:
Brother, Let me tell me you a strategy that has always worked for me

•Before I can give a casual girlfriend #100 I'd first give #1000 to my main girlfriend.

•Before I can give my main girlfriend #1000, I'd have given my sister #10,000

• Before I can give my sister #10,000, I'd have given my mum #100,000

In short, if as a girl you want me to spend #1000 on you, you will have to wait until I spend #100,000 on my mum at that same time before I can grant your wish

Make this simple steps above a principle and you will forever be free from leeches
easy to type, but are you actually doing it? lol boys sef
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by edoman2016: 3:40am On May 27, 2022
Godada:
A sister cannot love you more than her child.
You don't need your sister to love you more than her child. You are selfish. A sister is more reliable in worst times than a girlfriend. Moreover her child is also your niece or nephew.
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by Nobody: 5:27am On May 27, 2022
dontrulee:
You be boss ooo.
You still dey give girls money?
For me, na girls dey give me money and I am not ashamed about it because the money I spent on girls when I was a simp no be small. I have recouped it back. I no send cheesy grin
hahahahaahaahaahaa guy man
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by Nobody: 5:28am On May 27, 2022
dontrulee:
The average girl is never broke.
The day I knew this was when I got close to a lady at a bookstore (I am a lover of books) and one day she complained that she was broke (she thinks I have money to spare because of how frequent I buy books). I frankly told her I don't have at the moment. In my eyes, she made a few calls billed some guys and an account that was zero naira became 20k. That day, my eyes was enlightened. I knew the unknown. grin grin
bro I fear oo
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by Nobody: 5:31am On May 27, 2022
IjapaTiroko:
My brother used his final year tuition fee to pay his girlfriend's final year tuition fee.
Dad never gave him a dime afterwards. He didn't graduate till today. I'm sure the lady will be a grandma in a few years. She's used him to achieve her aim, and he used her to satisfy his konji
are you damn serious?
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by GingerbreadMen(m): 6:10am On May 27, 2022
Elporo:
Mutherfucker.z never loved us!
Remember!
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by Blaqroman0000(m): 6:49am On May 27, 2022
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Sekoni003:
You said she was a 4/10. Just curious man, what attracted you to her ?
grin grin
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by IjapaTiroko: 9:28am On May 27, 2022
bukky1994:
are you damn serious?
I'm dead serious. I wonder how it feels to parent such a boy. But it's best left in one's imagination. He's my older brother though
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by Medianna(f): 9:36am On May 27, 2022
IjapaTiroko:
I'm dead serious. I wonder how it feels to parent such a boy. But it's best left in one's imagination. He's my older brother though
Popsy na strong man oo
So he did not even reconsider? All the other school fees wasted.
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by Herculex03(m): 9:36am On May 27, 2022
Sekoni003:
You said she was a 4/10. Just curious man, what attracted you to her ?
Me sef dey reason am undecided
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by dnawah(m): 9:52am On May 27, 2022
Godoverevery:
So this my personal story.(long read)

I got into the university in 2008 for 5yrs course.

200lvl I wanted to get really serious so there is this girl in my class I really liked but she was a 4/10 ....I told my friends about her and they all didn't feel her at all infact my roomie who was free spirit didn't feel her but I just liked her naturally.
So one day after lectures I approached her and few weeks later she accepted.
That was the beginning of my foolishness.....I really spent alot on that girl, she was on 4k per month from home (foodstuff always sent to her) ,I started to give 5k every month from my pocket money...bruh I did alot of things up to the point her roommate bf called me one on one that am making his relationship difficult with my spending.
I was just happy doing those things even tho sometimes it wasn't easy because I had to dupe my parent alot.

So in our finals (alot of things happened after IT)...she decided to show me her true colors.
After our final exams I had some issues with 2 courses in my 2lvl (dept course) so I needed to bribe the lecturer to waive them since it was AR .....bro I sold my phone (iPhone 4s) to raise cash to pay them so I was really broke...I couldn't call home because I just collected my pocket month.
She was staying with me then ,she couldn't pay her rent so I house her since we are done just project defence remaining.

The babe left me and move to one her friend's place because one guy who was a yahoo boy was asking her out and he was taking her out......she just come once in a while to pick few things.
I later got to know when guys played me the tape and it broke me.....she moved to lagos few weeks later and stated working on the island.
One day I was so hungry that I started running fever I called her to pls send me 1k(1st time in 4yrs of dating her) and she hang up on me.
I cried that day in my spirit, left with no choice I called my kid sis played her what was happening maybe she could just borrow me change, few hours later my phone rang it was my mum ....omo see blasting I just took everything, she told me my dad must not no about my phone..the next day I got alert of 10k ,tears rush down my eye.

I have never bought my mum anything before but I make sure anytime am going home I got my sister something....I did alot of thinking that day and I vow to ever put my mum and sis before any woman until I get married.(2013).

I started working in 2014 (nysc)....my first salary in my ppa which was about 30k I bought everything I could get took it home.
I first approached my dad showed him the money he prayed and told me he doesn't need it but I should give my mum half of it.
I went to mum room divided the money into two gave her half....she prayed for me and ever since then my mum is my priority.

Before I spend 10k for any lady am dating I must have spent 30k on my family.....Alot of ladies have complained about this but I think that the most sensible thing to do.

Guys in uni please I beg you don't make the mistakes we made .....focus on empowering yourself and get the degree.

Learn from this......feel free to date but don't waste money or spend on any lady.

#Relationship is for companionship not a monetary scheme#
u met the wrong person,a gold digger,some other people have a better and sweet stories.
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by dontrulee: 10:01am On May 27, 2022
Medianna:
And common sense did not tell you that something is wrong somewhere
I mean we all know how this gimme gimme works between male and female of there is no blood bond
Will you keep quiet??
If it is my family, I am very generous but to simp and give a girl money that adds no benefit to my life, that I'll never do
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by Majikman(m): 10:08am On May 27, 2022
Wetin dey even pain me sef be say nah 4/10 wey do you this thing

Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by Slynation(m):
I can wholeheartedly relate to this post as a one time Zonal Chairman of Simpson Association of Nigeria (South East branch)

A wise man once said "Spending on a lady is actually an investment of no return" then I thought he was bluffing until I learned the hard way...!!

Young guys should please listen to what OP is saying, I wished I stumbled upon posts like this 4 to 7years ago....

A wise man once told me "Young guys are going broke because they play the role of a husband material too early in a relationship"
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by Olagoods1: 10:35am On May 27, 2022
I'm still an undergraduate , genius 2nd scholar in my department . I'm one handsome boy like that with caramel skin, average height, with beards . I fall in love but I don't spend recklessly on girls . The only babe I gave money was one 100 level babe I ask out like that and before I gave her #2000 she bought me food #1000 so I reward her with 2k after 2month and one of my course mate 300level babe babe like that I asked her what she's struggling with and she said she's craving for sharwama Omoh I dey do father Christmas that time na so I gave her 1k she used to call me once in awhile till now sha she's still crushing on me .I'm not pussy ass nigga but anytime I feel honey I would just enter aristo house Bleep 7 different girls #7000 one overnight 3k. I'm Redpillerr gang �, Trillionaire ambition single and not searching hustler forever, second Elon musk. Stop chasing daughter of eve They have nothing to offer you ,if they give you 1000 they are expecting 10fold and 100% loyalty from you and they will still cheat on you. I don't chase girls anymore na them they chase me and show me greenlight.
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by Medianna(f): 11:06am On May 27, 2022
You really can't read inbetween lines
Can you?
dontrulee:
Will you keep quiet??
If it is my family, I am very generous but to simp and give a girl money that adds no benefit to my life, that I'll never do
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by dontrulee: 12:00pm On May 27, 2022
Medianna:
You really can't read inbetween lines
Can you?
Typical reply of a broke and parasitic Nigeria lady.
You've gotten my message. Take care of yourself. grin cheesy grin
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by Buje1987(m): 12:16pm On May 27, 2022
[quote author=Godoverevery post=113199708]So this my personal story.(long read)

I got into the university in 2008 for 5yrs course.

200lvl I wanted to get really serious so there is this girl in my class I really liked but she was a 4/10 ....I told my friends about her and they all didn't feel her at all infact my roomie who was free spirit didn't feel her but I just liked her naturally.
So one day after lectures I approached her and few weeks later she accepted.
That was the beginning of my foolishness.....I really spent alot on that girl, she was on 4k per month from home (foodstuff always sent to her) ,I started to give 5k every month from my pocket money...bruh I did alot of things up to the point her roommate bf called me one on one that am making his relationship difficult with my spending.
I was just happy doing those things even tho sometimes it wasn't easy because I had to dupe my parent alot.

So in our finals (alot of things happened after IT)...she decided to show me her true colors.
After our final exams I had some issues with 2 courses in my 2lvl (dept course) so I needed to bribe the lecturer to waive them since it was AR .....bro I sold my phone (iPhone 4s) to raise cash to pay them so I was really broke...I couldn't call home because I just collected my pocket month.
She was staying with me then ,she couldn't pay her rent so I house her since we are done just project defence remaining.

The babe left me and move to one her friend's place because one guy who was a yahoo boy was asking her out and he was taking her out......she just come once in a while to pick few things.
I later got to know when guys played me the tape and it broke me.....she moved to lagos few weeks later and stated working on the island.
One day I was so hungry that I started running fever I called her to pls send me 1k(1st time in 4yrs of dating her) and she hang up on me.
I cried that day in my spirit, left with no choice I called my kid sis played her what was happening maybe she could just borrow me change, few hours later my phone rang it was my mum ....omo see blasting I just took everything, she told me my dad must not no about my phone..the next day I got alert of 10k ,tears rush down my eye.

I have never bought my mum anything before but I make sure anytime am going home I got my sister something....I did alot of thinking that day and I vow to ever put my mum and sis before any woman until I get married.(2013).

I started working in 2014 (nysc)....my first salary in my ppa which was about 30k I bought everything I could get took it home.
I first approached my dad showed him the money he prayed and told me he doesn't need it but I should give my mum half of it.
I went to mum room divided the money into two gave her half....she prayed for me and ever since then my mum is my priority.

Before I spend 10k for any lady am dating I must have spent 30k on my family.....Alot of ladies have complained about this but I think that the most sensible thing to do.

Guys in uni please I beg you don't make the mistakes we made .....focus on empowering yourself and get the degree.

Learn from this......feel free to date but don't waste money or spend on any lady.

#Relationship is for companionship not a monetary scheme#




What happened I went through the same but mine was fair I never let loose or gave my all to her. All I did was keeping myself at bay. We men Na we dey make all this bitches treat us anyhow joor
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by eddykaka(m): 12:20pm On May 27, 2022
dontrulee:
You be boss ooo.
You still dey give girls money?
For me, na girls dey give me money and I am not ashamed about it because the money I spent on girls when I was a simp no be small. I have recouped it back. I no send cheesy grin
bro this your comment do do me laff taya, e good say u sabi say u been de simp..my brother abeg recoup am back cuz these girls are just broke and hungry and leeches. God go help us sha
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by Nobody: 12:38pm On May 27, 2022
Godada:
A sister cannot love you more than her child.
God bless you for this

Once that your darling sister starts having kids. She nor send you again
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by Nobody: 12:41pm On May 27, 2022
Olagoods1:
I'm still an undergraduate , genius 2nd scholar in my department . I'm one handsome boy like that with caramel skin, average height, with beards . I fall in love but I don't spend recklessly on girls . The only babe I gave money was one 100 level babe I ask out like that and before I gave her #2000 she bought me food #1000 so I reward her with 2k after 2month and one of my course mate 300level babe babe like that I asked her what she's struggling with and she said she's craving for sharwama Omoh I dey do father Christmas that time na so I gave her 1k she used to call me once in awhile till now sha she's still crushing on me .I'm not pussy ass nigga but anytime I feel honey I would just enter aristo house Bleep 7 different girls #7000 one overnight 3k. I'm Redpillerr gang �, Trillionaire ambition single and not searching hustler forever, second Elon musk. Stop chasing daughter of eve They have nothing to offer you ,if they give you 1000 they are expecting 10fold and 100% loyalty from you and they will still cheat on you. I don't chase girls anymore na them they chase me and show me greenlight.
You are still a simp hiding behind redpill from what I just read above
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by satandeterrible: 12:55pm On May 27, 2022
NewSoul:
You are still a simp hiding behind redpill from what I just read above
Exactly.
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by Medianna(f): 1:18pm On May 27, 2022
You own is to be fighting people online
Don't go and fight a witch one day
dontrulee:
Typical reply of a broke and parasitic Nigeria lady.
You've gotten my message. Take care of yourself. grin cheesy grin
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by Dreadlock69(m): 1:23pm On May 27, 2022
First semester nigga spent roughly 20k on girls

And roughly 45k on treating what I don't know about


Anyway I thank God for my life , my parents life , my two aunt's life also if not for them I fit dun die.

P.s don't stress yourself with them girls it I'll save you
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by id4sho(m): 1:34pm On May 27, 2022
Dreadlock69:
First semester nigga spent roughly 20k on girls

And roughly 45k on treating what I don't know about


Anyway I thank God for my life , my parents life , my two aunt's life also if not for them I fit dun die.

P.s don't stress yourself with them girls it I'll save you
which kind STDs shocked
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by Dreadlock69(m): 2:06pm On May 27, 2022
id4sho:
which kind STDs shocked
Ion know whether nah scabies lab center rip me Wella I vex tell my mama wey be nurse and from her knowledge and findings as nurse pikin I treated myself TGFL
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by dontrulee: 2:10pm On May 27, 2022
Medianna:
You own is to be fighting people online
Don't go and fight a witch one day
I fight witches everyday and night and I come out victorious. Physically I have a nice personality and am easy going, while online I can be..... grin grin
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by KensonAbule(m): 2:34pm On May 27, 2022
I can only imagine spending on woman, if am done arranging money for my next level school fees.
Because, if I don't do it, no lady will do it for me
Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by meshclayy: 2:34pm On May 27, 2022
Godoverevery:
So what first attract me was one day during engineering drawing class, she explained one drawing to a guy at my front and I followed the process which made it very easy.

So then onward I started watching her and I needed someone serious to make me focus then.

She was a 4/10 due to lack of funds but after I came to her life bro she enter 6/10 because I got her clothes and foot wearfrom lag.

She was ilorin based.
No b ilorin girls...bruv forget naso dem dey...long throat errwia
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