There's a guy I've loved so much right from my secondary school days.. we loved each other so much to the extent that nothing could separate us. Infact he was my first .But everything changed Last year
We dated for 5 years.. he promised to get married to me but now he said he can't continue anymore reason been that we are too close in age. I pleaded with me but his mind is made up already
Please what should I do??
Should I give up and continue my life?

Cut your loss and move on.You will overcome with time.
He really doesn't know what he wants and is fixated on physical appearance.
He won't be good enough for you on the long run and will probably tell it to your face as you get older that you're pass your prime if you try to get him to marry you.
Believe in yourself and develop yourself.The right man will come for you.

How old are you if I may ask?

As his mind is made up, he never love you as he did before even though he comes back, don't accept him.

Hey, go make yourself a beautiful hair, fix your nails, dress in very cute sexy looking gown, put up a beautiful smile and head for a photo shoot. Change your photos in all your social media handle with a good caption and be happy.

Move on!!

Remember, Dont rush into a new relationship okay.

Just give up ,find something else to distract you at the moment.
And with time you would forget about him.

Babygirl, before anything happens in our lives, there's a purpose. So let go and move on. Your man will locate you and settle with you. No matter how many years you spent with the wrong partner, one day he/she will break free. So cheer up.

So another man will come and marry a baggage deflowered by a lousy boy. He didn't know you guys were age mates before? You opened your legs free of charge for him. I am sure he didn't pay anything.

But an unfortunate man will come and pay bride price of over N1 million and do wedding of over N5 million on a fairly used commodity

This generation, when will you all be wise na? Ehn

Another fake story

Sorry baby
Move on
He doesn't worth it
He was just giving you stupid excuses that you're close in age
And how old are you dear? That u still believe in all this secondary School love confession.
Babe get up from bed take a cool shower... Dress up and look beautiful let him see he lost something important rather than weighing urself down

Bareke:
There's a guy I've loved so much right from my secondary school days.. we loved each other so much to the extent that nothing could separate us. Infact he was my first .But everything changed Last year
We dated for 5 years.. he promised to get married to me but now he said he can't continue anymore reason been that we are too close in age. I pleaded with me but his mind is made up already
Please what should I do??
Should I give up and continue my life?

Something like that is bordering me but on a lesser Level. Am 22 presently my babe is 20 in two months time she will be 21. We stay in the same eviron those years in Gariki in Enugu. We were catching feeling for each other. But the relationship officially kickstarted around 2017. Like play play based on small Children love the tin dey grow everyday. The girl is more than kind to me. My mother know her very well. My mother is in support but every other person I talk to about it will tell me to forget her. That she cannot wait for me that girls marry early. Those words dey scatter my head. I presently dey Ghana doing one thing or the other but not yahoo. I can boost of 5 million networth which is nothing to my target. Thank God Sha. I talk to her about it she said she is not leaving me. She opted we do covenant, I break down in tears, I said no its dangerous but I love her without condition. Am young but las las you go marry. If no marry that babe I die. Even mummy sometime will be like ebuka boy hustle hard and go Marry that girl( our normal joking). This life tins will just be upside down with what you plan. Forget my typos.

Sweetvie:
Sorry baby
Move on
He doesn't worth it
He was just giving you stupid excuses that you're close in age
And how old are you dear? That u still believe in all this secondary School love confession.
Babe get up from bed take a cool shower... Dress up and look beautiful let him see he lost something important rather than weighing urself down

I'm 22

Bareke:
There's a guy I've loved so much right from my secondary school days.. we loved each other so much to the extent that nothing could separate us. Infact he was my first .But everything changed Last year
We dated for 5 years.. he promised to get married to me but now he said he can't continue anymore reason been that we are too close in age. I pleaded with me but his mind is made up already
Please what should I do??
Should I give up and continue my life?

It’s not gonna be easy to forget him since you love him dearly but you have to for your own mental health.

You are only 22, take yourself out, go to the beach alone or with some girl friends and have fun.

Some days you will remember him and cry your heart out, it’s still normal and part of the healing process.

Next relationship don’t waste time in asking some relevant questions so your time won’t be wasted.

Good luck to you.

Bareke:

I'm 22

Don't be sad ok
You're young, you gonna meet someone better who is going to know ur worth so cheer up

5 years? That's enough time to date anyone. You had a fulfilled relationship actually.

You started relationship too early so it was never going to last forever. Both of you clearly don't know what you want yet.

Bareke:
There's a guy I've loved so much right from my secondary school days.. we loved each other so much to the extent that nothing could separate us. Infact he was my first .But everything changed Last year
We dated for 5 years.. he promised to get married to me but now he said he can't continue anymore reason been that we are too close in age. I pleaded with me but his mind is made up already
Please what should I do??
Should I give up and continue my life?

we loved each other so much to the extent that nothing could separate us.

Nothing can separate you guys but last year he changed. Nothing is constant auntie

I pleaded with me but his mind is made up already

somebody that has made up his mind you are busy pleading with him.

Love can't be forced
this is how you guys get yourselves enslaved

See even if later he agrees that you guys should get thing going please say NO.

You are lucky to have a man who is even straight forward with you. Most would just play along and use you like a farm tool they have always called us.

Leave him and move on with your Damn life
better still do away with anything that got a withered/fruitless stick between their legs for your own safety

Candidlady:


we loved each other so much to the extent that nothing could separate us.

Nothing can separate you guys but last year he changed. Nothing is constant auntie

I pleaded with me but his mind is made up already

somebody that has made up his mind you are busy pleading with him.

Love can't be forced
this is how you guys get yourselves enslaved

See even if later he agrees that you guys should get thing going please say NO.

You are lucky to have a man who is even straight forward with you. Most would just play along and use you like a farm tool they have always called us.

Leave him and move on with your Damn life
better still do away with anything that got a withered/fruitless stick between their legs for your own safety

you be mumu. You won turn her to a hateful lesbian like you ba

Op..no offense.. Your bf is a big fool and a loser. It's his loss. Yo will be fine, ok?

SarutobiEky:
Op..no offense.. Your bf is a big fool and a loser. It's his loss. Yo will be fine, ok?

It's a lie op. You were the big fool for giving your virginity so cheaply. You were a maga . A mug that sold her pride and destiny cheaply. Better go to God for repentance and deliverance, If not you'll never be fine until you have prayed for and received sense... Mstcheew

NewSoul:

It's a lie op. You were the big fool for giving your virginity so cheaply. You were a maga . A mug that sold her pride and destiny cheaply. Better go to God for repentance and deliverance, If not you'll never be fine until you have prayed for and received sense... Mstcheew

Guy calm down na....

SarutobiEky:
you be mumu. You won turn her to a hateful lesbian like you ba

Stfu
You want her to be a slave to your gender ko

Candidlady:



Stfu
You want her to be a slave to your gender ko

you're obviously stupid...you and stereotypes I'm not the cause of your failed relationships wfy men. Try and get over whatever it is...You are smarter than this.

SarutobiEky:
you're obviously stupid...you and stereotypes I'm not the cause of your failed relationships wfy men. Try and get over whatever it is...You are smarter than this.

Igot all the time in the world today
Iam ready to roll in that mud with you this pig

Tell me one thing your gender can offer aside that cursed fig tree between your legs

Ubanka

Na Mumu dy love Nigerian man

Candidlady:



Igot all the time in the world today
Iam ready to roll in that mud with you this pig

Tell me one thing your gender can offer aside that cursed fig tree between your legs

Ubanka

Tozo meat......be like dem don fry dis one brain use do ketchup. Did your nana impregnate herself before birthing you? Insolent Oaf, are you tryna tell me that your father is unfortunate for birthing a cow like yourself?


It's obvious to me now that you have a brain leak and you need surgery urgently to correct this disability that has bedeviled your poor soul. Sorry ehn. I hope you get well soon, Tozo.

If he tells u dat his mind is made up, my dear don't beg any further because if eventually he comes back he will get away with so many tins leveraging on the fact that u forced him back

Bareke:
There's a guy I've loved so much right from my secondary school days.. we loved each other so much to the extent that nothing could separate us. Infact he was my first .But everything changed Last year
We dated for 5 years.. he promised to get married to me but now he said he can't continue anymore reason been that we are too close in age. I pleaded with me but his mind is made up already
Please what should I do??
Should I give up and continue my life?

Shey na do or die affair?

Just be strong and move on

Simply move on. You are just 22, you have your life ahead of you. Improve yourself, keep your mind busy by learning new skills or something and don't venture into any relationship for now. With time, you will heal and find someone who will love you irrespective of your age difference.

Some men are wicked shaa, after 5years! He will soon jam what he is looking for.

I’ll start from your words saying “he was your first” - as I always tell those around me, your first relationship might not really lead you to the altar. Some relationships are meant to teach you, some to build you, some to open your eyes �, some to ruin you but the problem is we fail to see some pointers early enough to get us thinking as we’re already beclouded by love abi infatuations.

THE GUY: He has made his point. Lemme jus leave it like this.

TO YOU GIRL: First, Stop � thinking about the number of years as this will just keep affecting your mind. You’re still in the early stage of your life and unless you’re ready for marriage though, I expected you to be in the course of shaping and building yourself up to the woman you want to become.
My question is what have you gained from this 5years relationship of yours? If nothing apart from the usual loving-loving, then it’s time you check yourself.
Now is the time to focus on yourself cos no man wants to date/marry a liability anymore. •Improve on yourself •engage in exercises •Eat and sleep well •read Personal Development books •learn a new skill or language •learn to enjoy your time alone •don’t rush into any relationship yet •be yourself and celebrate yourself often

The list is getting long mhen, lemme Hang my pen � now jhor

acetylcholine:
Simply move on. You are just 22
Some men are wicked shaa, after 5years! He will soon jam what he is looking for.

Just curious, what would you have expected at first?

On my part, I see this as a misplaced priority between them. The guy is coming to realize some things hence his actions and words.
The lady also should try and get her own bearing by analyzing her goals too.

You’ve said the main thing in your first paragraph

IMHO

LOVE alone won’t grant you a fulfilled relationship.

And the feelings must be tried and tested before it can be tagged LOVE